**This is a place for those of us who have already started TTC, but have started infertility testing and/or treatments. You can express your thoughts, feelings, and frustrations on infertility. TTC can be a long journey naturally, then add in the difficulties associated with infertility, and it becomes a whole new ballgame. The road to infertility can be lonely, frustrating, and complicated, so let's make this a place where we can vent, ask questions, and support one another. Feel free to resurrect this thread at any point in the week if you have something to say. Treat this as an ongoing conversation.
Diagnosis (if you've been):
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched):
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?):
How are things going?:
Any questions?:
GTKY: What was the last movie you saw in theaters?
Re: IF Testing & Treatment w/o Dec 4
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
Spiderman into the spiderverse. I'm not big on movie theaters.
Married: 11/12/16
BFP: 02/09/17
FTM | EDD: 10/13/17
@ATolentino89 I’m so sorry for all the bureaucratic headache, that sounds crazy stressful. FX for a smooth and timely delivery today!!
Diagnosis (if you've been): Unexplained
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): Benched
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): PGT-M test development
How are things going?: Making progress! Met with a genetic counselor from the lab this morning and I really like her. They’re sending out cheek swab kits ASAP, and once we’ve got them all done and returned we’re looking at an 8-week test development timeline. February 2024 retrieval looks uncertain but not impossible based on my clinic’s IVF schedule. Worst case is March 2024. Not ideal, but nothing in this process really seems to be, does it?
I’m sure there will be plenty of frustration and impatience in the months ahead. For the moment, though, I’m trying to just appreciate the fact that there are actual goalposts in sight!
Any questions?: Has anyone tried acupuncture for infertility? If so, did you feel like it helped (even if just placebo effect and/or peace of mind)?
GTKY: What was the last movie you saw in theaters? CatVideoFest 2020 😺 If you like cats—or just silly cat videos—it’s a lot of fun and for a great cause. www.catvideofest.com/where-to-watch
I am frustrated and confused. I got my trigger shot and decided to take an opk for s#!ts while I waited for it to come to room temp and it was positive. So I messaged the clinic and was told to "save the trigger". The NP was not the one who ordered the shot and she spoke to a doctor who wasn't mine. I have been doing this for 4 years.... I have turned an opk before and not gotten pregnant. Many times. Like, this is not a benched cycle. I want to throw everything at it.
How are things going?: Tw loss spoiler
@aisleofviewtwo The bruises are from my injections so I really should be applying cold right away. I thought I would have a pretty bad one from my injection yesterday but I have nothing more than a dot at the injection site with a very light bruise around it after applying a cold pack. I guess I just shouldn't rush things! I'm excited you have the ball rolling on the genetic testing! The waiting game will suck, but getting answers will be well worth it.
@charmedlifex3 I'm so sorry for your loss. What is with y'alls insurances and not being timely?? sheesh. I hope you can get the skunk smell out soon! What an awful thing to deal with.
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
*siggy warning*
mmc . mar 2016
dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016
BFP . jan 2017
DD . oct 2017
ntnp #2 . summer 2018
mmc x2 . sep 2018 & may 2019
RE workup, dx MTHFR mutation, ultimately unexplained . summer 2019
surprise BFP . aug 2019
DS . may 2020
dx Hashimoto's 2023
ttc #3 . feb 2023
mmc . apr 2023
mmc x3 . mar/jul/aug 2024
dx elevated nk cells
tx ovasitol, levothyroxine, baby aspirin, LP progesterone, lovenox, prednisone, femara + ti . jan 2025
BFP . mar 2025
@ATolentino89 I get that clinic schedules are such that it’s not always feasible to speak with your assigned doctor and/or nurse, but it’s so frustrating to feel shuttled around and like you’re getting conflicting instructions! FX this cycle yields some useful insights despite the weirdness around the trigger!