This thread is tailored to sharing the most-loved and rarely-used baby products. It’s a guide for FTMs to help them start their registries. Please post links or screenshots when able to! This thread will be pinned so it can be an ongoing conversation & makes it easier to access.
STM+: what registry website do you use?
What are your must-have items for the first year? Brands that are your favorite? What didn’t impress you or was way overpriced for the value?
FTM: share all about your registry process! What can we help you with? It’s never too early to create one and begin adding items to take some of the stress off!
Re: Registry & Baby Supplies Thread!!
If you plan on breastfeeding I highly recommend a hakaa! And loved the lasinoh disposable breastfeeding milk pads.
Otherwise a baby play mat, diapers, wipes, clothes (not too many, they grow quick), carpet of course. OH and I did LOVE my baby carrier! I did a ton of baby wearing.
That was rambly but hopefully helps someone 😂
Feeding
bottles - trying dr browns glass this time but I used their plastic and liked them the best. Other ones I tried but didn’t like that much: boon, tommee tippee, avent.
Bottle warmer - dr brown, I had a munchkin last time & it was fine.
Burp cloths
Bibs - silicone catch ones & I’ve also used the bandana cloth kind
High Chair - trying maxi cosi moa this time. Had a graco but there were too many crevices & was hard to take apart/get back together. So I tossed it.
Plates, bowls, toddler utensils
Sippy cups, water bottles w straws. I like the 360 cups and still use them.
Snack cups (screw on lid)
I didn’t like the mesh feeders, they were a pain to clean
Reusable pouches (yogurt, applesauce etc, saves money!)
Drying rack for bottles etc. I sanitize either by boiling or dishwasher. But I like to let air dry after before assembling.
If pumping & going back to work: Cooler bag for bottles
milk storage bags (I didn’t make a freezer stash so didn’t use these much)
Pump + parts you should get from insurance!
Bottle wipes (also can be used for pacis!)
Haaka for catching letdown on other breast
Nipple cream
Breast pads (disposable + washable bamboo from kindred bravely)
Nursing clothing if you want!
ETA pumping bra!!!! Learned the hard way when I had to sit there holding them until I got one 😂
I got a ton of blankets at my shower so I don’t think you necessarily need to register for them, unless you want a specific kind. I found that people went rogue for blankets though!
Crib
Crib sheets
Mattress
Waterproof Mattress Cover but depends on your mattress
Cloth Covers for top of rails of the crib (when baby can stand & start chewing on the rails, they will gnaw the paint off)
Bassinet
Bassinet sheets
Sound Machine - I have a yogisleep & had a hatch that I liked.
Swaddles (my son was a Houdini so regular blankets didn’t work, I didn’t care for the swaddleme it was hard to keep him in and gave me anxiety) I preferred the halo sleep sack with zipper and Velcro. Tried zipadee zip, and another one I can’t remember and wasn’t a fan.
Diapering
Changing pad (doesn’t have to be fancy, I put on top of baby’s dresser)
Changing pad covers (get a few because…blowouts & flying pee)
Diaper pail - we have a diaper genie, first one broke & second one is okay. Price is good but refills…& doesnt keep smell in that well. My MIL just bought us an Ubbi I’m excited to use it, will report back!
Diapers - can register for specific kind but I found that people brought whatever they wanted, only person who listened to what I wanted at the time was my MIL. After using all the diaper I got I eventually switch to Costco diapers and haven’t looked back. I do like pampers & Huggies for newborn though❤️
I cared way too much about diapers & then realized they’re all fine & to get what you can afford.
I never used a portable changing pad, always just used a blanket.
Diaper bag - I’m partial to backpacks, think about what will be easiest for you to carry while juggling the infant seat and anything else!
Rocker/baby seat - trying maxi cosi kori, way cheaper than baby bjorn but same concept
Stroller - I liked saving money last time by doing a car seat/stroller bundle, this time I’m getting a double so it’s separate. Graco ready 2 grow lx
Baby Wrap - solly is on my list, the one I had for my son didn’t fit me well and it was frustrating to wear. I also have a Lille baby structured Carrier that I liked.
Electric nose Frida - pricier than the original sucker one but I found that hard to do with a baby so I’m trying this one this time. Definitely recommended for their first cold!
Frida baby windi - they get gassy !
gas drops - I usually just get these at the store, dye free. Helpful I think!
Humidifier - I had the crane last time & its kinda bulky, trying Frida baby 3 in 1 humidifier, diffuser (probably won’t use this setting), and nightlight.
pacifier togo holder
Pacifier clip
Bathtub - fridababy bundle with pourer, I had a different bath last time & it was fine just wanted something different
Toy Scoop & Store - oxo tot (haven’t tried this one yet)
Bath toys
Wash cloths
Baby soap - I use honest or Burt’s bees baby ( I got some random soap at my shower that I used up too)
Comb/Brush - even if your baby doesn’t have a lot of hair, they’ll probably get cradle cap. I like having a fine tooth comb …some coconut oil & a comb gets those crusties & flakes right off. Haven’t tried the cradle cap brush from them.
Towels - I don’t care for microfiber (everything sticks to them in the wash), I ended up using regular towels after a while.
Body lotion - just because it’s super cute to rub lotion on their lil legs and arms and they can get dry skin. I have used baby aveeno, Burt’s bees baby, hello bello
Nail Clippers - I have a pair with a little magnifying glass, also have a baby dremel
Gum toothbrush - good to get them in the habit of brushing teeth, also my son got his first around 3-4 months
Playtime
Suction toy for high chair
Floor mat with activity bar & sensory toys
Toys for 1st year
Jumper/activity center. My son loved his.
Teething toys - frozen keys, silicone rattles, gloves with silicone on them.
Clothing
I would wait to see what you get gifted, but you can always register for any outfits you really love -coming home outfit etc.
- onesies
-little pants/shorts
-zipper footed pjs or nightgowns
-socks
-few pairs of mittens
-It will be almost summer so not even sure about hats? Depending on your climate.
Also Register for bigger clothes sizes!
Dresser - I have a delta children one on mine, simple
Drawer Dividers - going to try these
Baby hangers - if using a closet
Cube Organizer - for toys / books
Baskets for organizing
** i did not have a recliner or glider, too much money and since I was in my room I just sat on my bed to nurse etc
Since I didn’t have a chair I do have a big pillow with arm rests that helps me sit up on my bed.
I used baby detergent because my son had really sensitive skin as a baby. Now I wash his clothes with ours.
pros -
no refills to buy, uses regular trash bags!
less chance of breaking, my H somehow broke the springs off our first diaper genie
easy to pop the diapers in, no shoving in like the diaper genie
small but still holds a decent amount of diapers
cute color choices
Cons -
have to smell poop every time you open it (if put poopy diapers in there)
overall it does a pretty good job at keeping the smell in, however if you get close to it you can still smell it a bit.
I've worked really hard on the registry the past couple of weeks. I love to deep dive into product reviews, comparisons, articles and consumer reports and it becomes a somewhat unhealthy obsession, but I am feeling accomplished with the results! I know some things will still be lead by baby and what is most convenient for our lives after this change, but starting from zero has really been overwhelming. I'm feeling better with the good amount of basics that have been covered. Still waiting on some clothing and nursery decor until we know the gender (it's a very gendered world out there), but I've found myself in a little bit of a rainbow theme for this baby! 🌈 It is not a rainbow baby and I am trying to reign it in so it doesn't look like rainbows threw up everywhere, but I couldn't resist some of the sweet rainbow baby items!
- Phillips Advent glass natural bottles & bottle warmer
- Haakka manual breast pump & collector
(Still deciding on electronic breast pump)
- Momcozy silicone reusable breastmilk storage bags
(Not completely sure how breastfeeding, bottle feeding, pumping, and storage is all supposed to work together but if I need more storage bags in large quantity I'm sure can find some later on)
- Boppy nursing pillow (w/ rainbow cover!)
- Lalo high chair & accessories
- Happiest Baby Sleepea bundle
- Hatch Rest+ sound machine
(Not completely convinced that I need this item, but I like some of the features)
- Infant Optics digital video monitor
(As a saftey precaution, we like that it doesn't use wi-fi)
- HALO BassiNest Soothing Swivel Sleeper
- Munchkin STEP Diaper Pail
- Itzy Ritzy Boss Plus Backpack Diaper Bag & matching bottle bag and other accessories
- Hello Bello Diaper fund
(Initially I liked the idea of a diaper subscription that gets regularly delivered, but I'm thinking I might remove this)
- DoHonest Baby Car Camera
(Only $35 on Amazon and it seems like everyone who has a car camera really loves it)
- Ergobaby Omni 360 All-Position Baby Carrier
- Chicco Corso LE Modular Travel System
- Chicco MyFit Zip Air 2-in-1 Harness + Booster
- Maxi-Cosi Swift Lightweight Portable Playard
- Frida Baby for various grooming and health products
- OXO Tot Space Saving Drying Rack & dishwasher basket
- LEVOIT LV600HH 6L Warm and Cool Mist Ultrasonic Humidifier
(Still need to pick an air purifier for the nursery also)
- Lalo Bathtime Starter Kit - Tub & Accessories
- Babyletto Palma 4-in-1 Convertible Crib & matching dresser & nightstand
- Sealy Cozy Cool Hybrid 2-Stage matress
- Boppy Tummy Time Prop (w/ rainbows!)
- Upseat Baby Floor & Booster Seat with Tray
- Lovevery Play Gym & Sensory Strands Bundle
- Babybjörn Bouncer Bliss
(This item kind of picked me since I found it heavily discounted at a local outlet store which gets surplus from major retailers)
- 4moms MamaRoo Multi-Motion Baby Swing
Some extra things I didn't anticipate, but found in my search:
- Dapple Baby, Bottle and Dish Soap
- Dreft laundry detergent, booster beads, & stain remover
- KeaBabies Prep Silicone Baby Food Freezer Trays
- Munchkin Arm & Hammer Nursery Fresheners
- Munchkin White Hot Safety Bath Ducky
I used the dapple baby bottle soap last time and it was useful but I think I’ll just use regular soap this time, I also use the dishwasher. However it’s good to have a brush as well because for formula it sometimes clumps on the bottom or sides and for BM the fat can get stuck on the sides.
Good to know on the soap. For stuff like that I figured might as well throw it on the registry! I don't know how big of a shower we'll end up with, but we can always reassess our priorities after.
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- Graco Pack n Play Travel Dome Playard
- Boba wrap carrier
- Ergobaby All Carry Positions Breathable Mesh Baby Carrier
- Ingenuity Keep Cozy 3-in-1 Grow with Me Vibrating Baby Bouncer Seat & Infant to Toddler Rocker
- Fisher-Price Baby Portable Baby Chair Sit-Me-Up Floor Seat with Snack Tray and Developmental Toys
- Frida Baby 4-in-1 Grow-with-Me Bath Tub
- Skip Hop Moby Baby Bath Essential Set, Grey
- BabbleRoo Baby Diaper Bag Backpack
- Huggies Newborn Diapers, Little Snugglers Baby Diapers, Size Newborn
- Keekaroo Peanut Changer Vanilla
- Munchkin Step Diaper Pail Powered by Arm & Hammer and refills
- Philips AVENT Anti-Colic Baby Bottles with AirFree Vent, 9 oz and 4 oz sizes
- eufy Security Spaceview Video Baby Monitor E110
- HALO Bassinest 3.0 Swivel Sleeper
- Kendall crib and matching extra wide dresser
- Comfort Small Spaces Manual Swivel Recliner
- GRACO SnugRide SnugFit 35 Elite Infant Car Seat
Notable things we still need to get:
- crib mattress and sheets (looking at Graco Premium Crib & Toddler Mattress)
- bassinet sheets
- baby health and care (Frida Baby Ultimate Baby Kit or piecemeal these together)
- baby safe detergent (Molly's Suds Baby Laundry Detergent Powder)
- a high chair that can grow with baby (looking at Tripp Trapp High Chair from Stokke, hoping I can find a deal on this!)
- drawer and closet organizers for all of the clothes and books we've been gifted
- baby bottle drying rack
- manual and electronic breast pumps (looking at haakaa for manual, and Bellababy Wearable Breast Pump for electronic)
- breastfeeding accessories
- infant formula for just in case breastfeeding doesn't work out
- stroller (we're going with Graco SnugRider Elite Car Seat Carrier for now, and updating this when we update the car seat)
- diapers in bigger sizes
Has anyone tried the Owlet Dream Sock or a similar foot monitor? I'd love to hear your thoughts and if it was worth the purchase.