Hey first time posting, but not new to bump. I’m turning to here just to ask for some other experiences you have had.
I am 41. TTC since October 2022. I have a 2.5 year old & a 14 month old. Both boys were conceived naturally & healthy pregnancies. I have been pregnant 3 times. My last pregnancy ended in miscarriage @ 6weeks, in April 2023. We have been trying using timing of the month (for severa months), then I started using opks, checking cm & cervix for the last 6months. My cycles used to be very predictable & standard, ever since mc in April I have questions & & confused, as it seems I bleed (not spot) every 2 weeks. This makes ttc very difficult. We have sex almost every day once period stops, & even if it hasn’t fully sometimes. It’s tiring.
My question, when should I start looking @ getting outside help with fertility? Is it expensive (like I always imagined it would be), could my age be why my cycle is so off…or because I had a recent miscarriage?
Sorry for the long post, it is my first time so I wanted to also provide some back info about myself. Please be honest & direct. Thank you bumb family
Re: Confused & need help w/direction