This is a place for those of us who have already started TTC, but
have started infertility testing and/or treatments. You can express your
thoughts, feelings, and frustrations on infertility. TTC can be a long
journey naturally, then add in the difficulties associated with
infertility, and it becomes a whole new ballgame. The road to
infertility can be lonely, frustrating, and complicated, so let's make
this a place where we can vent, ask questions, and support one another.
Feel free to resurrect this thread at any point in the week if you have
something to say. Treat this as an ongoing conversation.
Diagnosis (if you've been):
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched):
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?):
How are things going?:
Any questions?:
GTKY: What is the tallest building you’ve been to the top in?
Re: IF Testing & Treatment w/o July 10
Diagnosis (if you've been): Unexplained
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): Natural cycle with acupuncture
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): Acupuncture once a week
How are things going?: Good. I had acupuncture yesterday and my acupuncturist tried something different. He did the regular treatment with needles, but afterward also did some electrical stimulation (which sounds more intense than it actually was, I barely felt it). That was done on a few acupuncture points and he said it was to give my ovulation “a little extra zhuzh”
Any questions?: Nope
GTKY: What is the tallest building you’ve been to the top in?I used to live in a high rise that was 22 stories and I went to the top of it once to see if it had roof access (it didn’t). I’ve been in taller buildings than that and I’ve probably been higher than 22 stories, but I think that’s the highest I’ve been to the top.
Diagnosis (if you've been): N/A
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): IVF ICSI
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): Just waiting for my beta
How are things going?: Tested out my trigger shot about two days ago so hopefully no false positives. The TWW sucks.
Any questions?: Nope
GTKY: What is the tallest building you’ve been to the top in? The CN Tower in Toronto! It had the glass floors too.Diagnosis (if you've been): PCOS
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): natural cycle this month
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): natural cycle while we wait for meds to arrive/bloodwork to come back
How are things going?: Decently okay I think! The “hurry up and wait” part of IF can be so frustrating. We ordered all our IVF meds and are getting them delivered this week, I had a hysteroscopy last week which came back completely normal, and now are just waiting on some bloodwork results. I have pretty long cycles, which I’m actually grateful for this month. We’re waiting on genetic carrier testing to come back, and my RE won’t start me on stims until they have the results. I’m hoping that it’ll come back (and be fine) before I get my period. I had the blood draw about a week and a half ago, and still haven’t gotten a +OPK so I know I still have a couple weeks left!
Any questions?: I don’t think so!
GTKY: What is the tallest building you’ve been to the top in? We went to the top of Rockefeller Center in NYC years ago. MH has a crippling fear of heights so he’s not too much fun to do those kinds of things with. He gets panicky when I want to go near the edge and then I feel bad and we leave so he can breathe again hahaDiagnosis (if you've been): RPL, lupus anticoagulant antibodies, blocked left tube.
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): benched until I get my cycle back
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): still waiting on genetic testing from our last loss.
How are things going?: a little better. I’ve been getting the house ready to move into on Saturday. I’m exhausted.
Any questions?:
GTKY: What is the tallest building you’ve been to the top in? Potential TW - before the towers fell I went to the observation deck on the twin towers. Like 1998 ish. I think that’s the tallest.Diagnosis (if you've been): autoimmune stuff, progesterone junkie
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
ETA: Also I’m a little jealous you got to do that on your 8th grade trip. We did and 8th grade Chicago trip too but we didn’t get to go up in any tall buildings
@charmedlifex3 I’m glad you’re feeling a little better. Good luck with your big move!
Diagnosis (if you've been): DOR, RPL
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): off the bench this cycle, back in business
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): natural cycle + progesterone. Medicated cycles start next month.
How are things going?: My chart is trolling me because of the progesterone supplements. I think I may not do BBT next month when we start medicated cycles. My RE said OPK were enough to get the timing right, and the LP temps aren’t real anyway.
Any questions?: NATM
GTKY: What is the tallest building you’ve been to the top in? I have a fear of heights and I live in New England so not too much desire or opportunity.Month/Cycle: 10 * 12 / 10 * 12
CD/DPO: 21/9dpo
Timing: -2, O, +1
Typical LP length: 14?
Testing: not done yet
R/R: No symptoms yet
CS/Q:
Diagnosis (if you've been): Unexplained infertility
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): IUI
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): letrozole 7.5mg CD3-7, then hCG trigger shot on July 8 and IUI on July 10. Also on bromocriptine for elevated prolactin levels.
How are things going?: Not noticing any symptoms
Any questions?: does anyone know if it is okay to drink organic apple cider vinegar before during and after pregnancy?
Thank you!