Should You Say Happy Mother’s Day to Pregnant Woman?

Re: Should You Say Happy Mother’s Day to Pregnant Woman?

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  naultk21 member

  March 2023

  Yes, because regardless of what happens, that woman is a mother and that doesn't change! 

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  knottie_knottie1 member

  March 2023

  I told my family not to say happy mother's day to me while I was pregnant, I felt like it was bad luck. That's just me though and I totally understand that many women appreciate it.

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  00kim00 member

  March 2023

  I say know your audience.: Some women would like that, others not. I was pregnant with my first living child last mother's day, and I did not want to be treated as a mom. Prior to that, all I had known was loss and infertility. Mother's Day was the hardest day of the year, and I usually spent it hiding out and mourning. Last mother's day wasn't as hard, but I wasn't comfortable being told happy mother's day, in part because I was guarding my heart and didn't think this baby would survive. 
  
  It wasn't until I was a adult that I realized how incredibly difficult mother's day is for so many people: women who want to have kids but can't or don't, women who have lost children (before or after birth), children who have lost mothers, mothers who can't be with their children, children who can't be with their mothers, step- and foster mothers who do all the work and then some but may never hear a child call them " mom", single moms who don't have a partner to get the kids you celebrate her, and so on. So if the person you're thinking of would like it, go ahead and wish them a hair mother's day, but check in first so you know it would make them feel good rather than bad.

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  Knottie70155397 member

  February 24

  I think it’s weird to say. They aren’t mothers yet so I don’t really get why you would say happy Mother’s Day to a pregnant woman. 

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  knottie4030763df97ba78d member

  February 26

  I think this depends on your thoughts on when a baby is alive. Personally, I believe life starts at conception so when I was pregnant with my first child, I gladly accepted Mother’s Day wishes from friends and family and loved that my husband celebrated me as a mother at that time. Some people don’t feel this way or do but have a history of loss and don’t want to feel as if they’re getting their hopes up to be let down by another loss. Personally, I feel whether you experience loss or birth your child you are a mother and that life should absolutely be celebrated. 

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  annemarie96 member

  April 1

  I believe you're a mother just as much when the baby is inside you. 

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