This is a place for those of us who have already started TTC, but have started infertility testing and/or treatments. You can express your thoughts, feelings, and frustrations on infertility. TTC can be a long journey naturally, then add in the difficulties associated with infertility, and it becomes a whole new ballgame. The road to infertility can be lonely, frustrating, and complicated, so let's make this a place where we can vent, ask questions, and support one another. Feel free to resurrect this thread at any point in the week if you have something to say. Treat this as an ongoing conversation.
Diagnosis (if you've been):
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched):
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?):
How are things going?:
Any questions?:
GTKY: When you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up? What did you grow up to be?
Re: IF Testing & Treatment - Week of Oct 31
Diagnosis (if you've been): PCOS
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): TI
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): Gonal-F, ovidrel, Endometrin
How are things going?: Good so far. Doing the injections isn’t too bad though my follicles were pretty small still at my monitoring appointment on Sunday. We’ve upped my dosage. I go tomorrow morning for another blood draw and monitoring ultrasound. *TW* MC
Any questions?: not yet
GTKY: When you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up? What did you grow up to be?
Hahaha a cat. My sister was going to be my baby cat and I was going to be the mommy cat 😂. Obviously that didn’t pan out and I became a music teacher.
@gingermama29 it is both frustrating and reassuring when your tests come back normal... I'm sorry you don't have any more answers, but I hope that bodes well in your favour as you move forward.
Diagnosis (if you've been): PCOS, RPL/RIF, some MFI, and soon we can scratch The Fibroid off this list!
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): Limbo
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): I guess technically we should be TTA leading up to the myomectomy in a month but my RE never said anything about whether it needs to be done at a certain time in my cycle, etc. Anyone know? I probably should've put myself on BCP last week but I wasn't thinking about that at the time.
How are things going?: Everything still feels very heavy, and I've said it before but it's hard to shake the feeling like this is the beginning of the end for us.
Any questions?: These are more questions for my RE but I'm also hoping he can poke around in my abdomen to check for any signs of endo while he's in there since it's an abdominal myomectomy. Also, maybe this requires a *TW* but for those who have had surgery before and/or have had a c-section, any suggestions for post-op care, e.g. am I ok with high waisted undies or should I expect to pick up something specific that won't irritate my incision? PMs welcome.
GTKY: When you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up? What did you grow up to be?
I wanted to be a vet, but I also knew I did NOT want to join the family business and go into finance. I specifically did not take any business or finance courses in University.... and then proceeded to join the family business anyway in an administrative capacity. Now I am a fully fledged Financial Advisor. Go figure.
*edited to fix spacing
TTC History:
Me: 36 MH: 39, TTC since Dec 2017
Aug '18: PCOS dx
Nov '18: MH SA - 19mil
Dec '18-Mar '19: Letrozole + TI - all BFN
Apr '19: Letrozole + TI, - BFN. Repeat SA (27mil) & DNA fragmentation test (17%)
Aug '19: Letrozole + HCG trigger + IUI + prog supp - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Sep '19: 2nd IUI, same protocol - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Dec '19: IVF #1 w/ICSI, PGT. 5 retrieved, 4 fertilized, 3 blasts, 3 PGT-A normal.
Mar '20: FET #1, perfect 5AA blast transferred. BFN.
Sept '20: FET #2, 5BB tsf. 9/18/20 BFP!! EDD: 5/27/21. MMC 11w
Feb ‘21: FET #3, last 6BB blast transferred. BFP, EDD 11/2/21. MC 5w3d.
May '21: IVF #2 w/ICSI, PGT. 8R, 7M, 6F, 6 blasts - 3AB, 3AB, 3BB, 4BB, 5BB, 6BA. Fresh tsf 5/13/21 - BFN.
June '21: PGT-A results = 3 abnormal, 1 low level mosaic. Referred to new REI, had consult with 2nd RE in between.
Sept '21: RPL, immune testing normal
Oct '21: IVF #3 w/IMSI, PGT. 33R, 26M, 23F, 9 blasts (7 day 6, 2 day 7). PGT-A = 5 normal, 1 mosaic
Dec '21: Positive for endometritis, RX Flagyl & Keflex
Jan '22: FET #5 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol incl. PRP, intralipids, prednisone, medrol, nivestym, fragmin - CP
Feb '22: FET #6 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol w/higher doses of pred & fragmin - BFN
Mar '22: Mock cycle for ERA - cancelled, repeat endometrial biopsy instead. Still positive for endometritis. RX ciprofloxacin & amoxicillin.
Apr '22: IVF #4 w/IMSI, PGT. 28R, 23M, 16F, 11 blasts. PGT-A = 6 normal.
June '22: FET #7 - Microdose lupron downreg w/kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol - double embryo transfer. BFN.
July '22: FET #8 - Mini stim w/Puregon + trigger, kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol. BFN.
Sep '22: Taking a break
Dec '22: Attempted abdominal myomectomy, fibroid too close to cervix and major blood vessels. Wasn't removed.
Feb '23: FET #9 - Modified natural w/baby asp, HCG trigger, PIO, PRP, Medrol, HCG wash, embryo glue - BFP!! EDD 11/11/23
Oct '21 somewhat improved AMH (.51) and significantly improved FSH (8.9). Maybe it's all the pills I swallow.
Dec -21, standard antagonist. 225menupur/225gonal-f/cetrotide/5000u trigger, AFC 5; 11 days of stims. retrieval yields 5, 4M, 2 reach day-6 blast (4AB & 4BB). 1 low-level mosaic (chr. 3 deletion), 1 complex abnormal.
Feb '22 FET (low-level mosaic): CP.
May '22 egg retrieval, lupron flare protocol. HGH priming for 1 month before stims; md lupron 20/20u daily; menopur 225, follistim 225, 10k trigger after 8 days of stims; AFC 10; 13 retrieved; 10 mature; 8 fertilized. All frozen at 2PN for later thaw, grow, and biopsy.
July '22 egg retrieval same protocol: 9 days of stims; AFC 8; 10 retrieved, 8 mature, 4 fertilized and frozen.
Sept '22 ER same protocol: AFC 10; 12 retrieved, 11 mature, 11 fertilized.
From the 3 retrievals, 7 survived to day 5-6 blastocyst, from which I have 2 normal embryos!
Jan 20, Fully medicated FET, baby aspirin, dexamethasone, acupuncture, and as much woo as I can stand (which isn't very much). BFN.
July 23, Natural FET + baby aspirin. BFN.
I just wanted to stop in and wish all of you the best of luck with everything you are going through.
Diagnosis (if you've been): old, empty, shriveled up ovaries, LPD
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): TI/waiting for IVF with DE
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): Nuthin. Just another regular boring cycle. I'm on CD 10 today and wanted to start OPK's this morning, but I didn't have any pee cups when I went. I'll have to take one when I get home from work.
How are things going?: Doing ok. I got my Covid booster yesterday and my arm is killing me. I'm exhausted today as well. I want to go home and take a nap.
Any questions?: nope
GTKY: When you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up? What did you grow up to be? I wanted to be a teacher. Also I wanted to be a grocery store checker. and also a bank teller. I'm now an administrator at a national laboratory.
TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017
BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018.
TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020
Due date was Nov 2020
DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma.
TTC: March 2021
IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN
IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP. MC Jan 2022
IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN
IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN
AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.
AFM, monitoring appointment went well this morning. Lining was 7.5 and I had a 13mm follicle. They’re pleased that with the number of follicles always present on my ovaries, I’m not having too many mature with this treatment. So I’m doing more injections tonight and tomorrow and going back for another ultrasound and blood draw on Friday morning. Decided to take the full day from work and have a long weekend just because.
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@bearmomma1 i hope you get some rest tonight! I need to get my booster now that I’m three months post infection
Diagnosis (if you've been): uncooperative uterus/RPL, chronic endometriosis that won’t quit
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): benched
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): connected with my RE this afternoon, she was me to do ALICE test, and I think include ERA with it. She said it needs to be done cycle day 15-25 and to wait until I get my next period, but I am currently on day 15 and asking if we can get this done in the next 10 days. Like why wait?
How are things going?: awful tbh. I overindulged in booze last night, called MH at midnight and had a solid cry. I woke up today and just felt zapped, I skipped day 2 of my meeting. Did a 30 min peloton ride, laid in bed for two hours (edit, hours not years lol)… just can’t shake it
Any questions?: @kiki047 I think you’ve done these tests, too? I connected with @acleverusername already, open to any advice/thoughts you have
GTKY: When you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up? What did you grow up to be? A pilot, was obsessed with Amelia Earhart. I own an insurance and financial services agency. LOL
Edit to add: RE messaged no need to wait, so I’ll call this morning and hopefully get on the books. I’m out of town Thur-Fri, but would love to not lose another month.
2nd edit: literally hit save on this and her nurse called, Monday 2.30pm.