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I had my first pregnant moment last night...it has begun!

bird_ladybird_lady member
in 1st Trimester
Thought I'd share this for some laughs. 

I'm currently 11 weeks pregnant! Last night my husband asked me if I thought I was getting enough protein. I've had bad protein aversions for weeks now. Anything protein, meat, beans, eggs, etc. But not dairy! lol cheese is my friend right now.
Anyways, my husband, bless his heart, said he'd try and start making me some healthier meals with more protein and asked me what I'd like to start having/what can I stomach. Apparently, this really upset me and I blew up at him. 
I told him all sorts of mean things and that he doesn't understand me and yelled at him for like 10 minutes. Then, for no reason, started crying uncontrollably for 20 minutes. My husband sat there, took the yelling, and then held me for the whole time I cried. When it was over he said a dumb joke to try and make me laugh, which apparently was too much for me, and I proceeded to cry for an additional 10 minutes. 

I just wanna say, I love my husband! He's seriously so patient and understanding and I'm glad to have him through all this. 
But Lord, have mercy on him. He has no idea what has just begun. 
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Re: I had my first pregnant moment last night...it has begun!

  • pregnantmomtobe2022pregnantmomtobe2022 Newbie
    bird lady im 14 weeks 3 days pregnant my husband is in my corner with my pregnancy i have been taking naps u are not suppose to be eating beans or meat during ur unborn baby life what u are suppose to be eat healthy stuff for ur unborn baby i dont know what goes on with ur family but i do know this ur husband has no business yelling at you for not eating protin u dont need that u need to eat salads fruits and other healthy stuff for ur baby to grew inside of you i should know im a mom to be and i knew this by now i have been watching baby stuff on tv and i took me a while to find the right person in my life this guy ur husband is wrong for you he will stress you out bird lady i almost went into labor but but my husband told me to calm down and take a breath see im not due until november 12th husband has no idea what we are going throught im carrying twins and my husband wants sex from me every night and i dont mind it at all not one bit if i were u bird lady i would go over to ur moms house and stay there for a while just untill the baby comes because crying and yelling will make the baby come out and labor pains will started coming
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  • bjk11bjk11 member
    @pregnantmomtobe2022 what.
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  • bird_ladybird_lady member
    b_1029, lol yeah I had to reread her post a few times to get what she was saying. 

    And boy do I hope things will ease up. Feel like I'm a teenager again with all these emotions! I am glad to have my husband with me through this, poor guy lol Serious props to the mamas doing it alone, I can't imagine. 
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  • aopferaopfer member
    @bird_lady wow. That woman is nuts 😂I totally get it. I’m 9 weeks and I have been crying over every minor thing. I’ll be so deep in my feelings that nothing can stop me. I cried the other day because my husband mentioned the fact that I keep talking about chicken nuggets. I was like “I don’t eat chicken nuggets! I haven’t had chicken nuggets in years.” Then I turned around in the next breath and was like “can you take me to get chicken nuggets?” Then I cried more because I knew that he was making fun of me in his head. Pregnancy is strange.
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  • harpseal135harpseal135 member
    That crazy post lady is banned already w/ 1 post.
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  • wishiwaspreggowishiwaspreggo member
    edited February 2022
    I know it's been said but... no protein during pregnancy? :D That is rich. If what she's saying is true and she's having twins, protein is even more important. During 3rd trimester with my twins I was drinking 1 Fairlife Muscle Milk (45 grams of protein) per day in addition to my "fat sandwich", the culinary abomination I created during my INSANE cravings: bread with butter on one side, mayo on the other, American cheese, bacon, avocados, fried egg, and cheddar cheese. Grilled on both sides until melty. If I tried to eat one of those sandwiches now I'd probably barf lol... but man were they good when I needed them. 2 babies, 6 pounds each when they were born at 35 weeks. I consumed copious amounts of protein to keep up with them and not waste away at the same time.
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  • babybelugacobabybelugaco member
    I know she's banned, but I'd like to know how she's 14w AND due November 12th? 
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  • bird_ladybird_lady member
    @babybelugaco lol I didn’t even catch that! I’m thinking she (or he possibly?) was a troll. Whoever reported her, much thanks to them! 😆  

    She gave me and my husband a good laugh though! 
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