I saw some talk about the Hatch and thought I'd move the nursery discussion up a few weeks and include baby monitors all in one.
let's talk nursery:
Nursery: Rocking chairs/gliders, changing tables? other seating? side tables? shelving? baby clothing storage? diaper storage?
Monitors:
What baby monitors do people have? What functionalities of your baby monitors do you use? WiFi-enabled apps on your phone? Connection security?
Please share!
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TTC#1 10/2016
TTC/IF:included medicated cycles, IUIs and 2 rounds of IVF with 1 embryo each.
BFP finally in 12/2018
TTC#2 06/2021
planning FET
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Re: Product Spotlight: Nursery: Rocking chairs/gliders, furniture, décor , baby monitors
Now monitors I really wanna hear about. We went through SO MANY because they would just poop out on us. I'd love to find one that was just good for the long haul. All I need is sound and video.
My plan is to have a crib, changing pad on top of a dresser, maybe a rolling side cart as a diaper station. We have a murphy bed in baby's room and may move the crib into our bedroom for the first several months. Knowing this, the baby's room may stay the guest room until after the first rounds of family visit. In addition we have a rocking chair that originally we were going to move too but the murphy bed (down) will not fit the chair.
We love our glider recliner from PB Kids. We got it in a "performance fabric," and it's light grey, been pooped up, and still looks brand new 4 years later. I really loved the recliner function because we needed to do reclined nursing because I had a fast flow. It also was clutch for being comfortable if baby fell asleep while nursing or rocking and I didn't think putting her down for nap would amount to anything.
ETA: when I say changing table, I definitely just mean dresser. Dressers have different heights. Do people actually get just like... dedicated furniture solely to changing baby?
But yeah, Hatch is mandatory.
We used the Bumbo changing pad which was extremely easy to wipe down.
I actually do recommend a wipes container of some kind because I think it makes getting wipes one handed while you wrestle feet with the other hand easier.
Married May 2019
Baby #1 due April 19, 2022
I know these babies are going to need some kind of dresser because we’re maxed out if cabinet space. Keeping my eye out on marketplace for something solid— I’d rather do a wood polish stain or add a coat of paint than spend full price or buy something new but cheaply made.
our rocker/glider has a recline feature, we got it from a local baby store, but I definitely recommend trying them out and sitting for a while in different positions. DH and I are about a foot apart in height, so we focused on what I would be most comfortable in/with (for both the rocker and the changing pad height)
We have a small side table next to the rocker. It hold a lamp and the white noise machine. It was also good to have it close for water, etc when feeding DS as an infant.
For the monitor we have the infant optics dxr-8 and it works well for us. it has been going strong for 2+years. it is not wi-fi enabled and i've been fine with that. I do wish I had the option to record and see what happens over night, but that is a new/recent development.
TTC#1 10/2016
TTC/IF:included medicated cycles, IUIs and 2 rounds of IVF with 1 embryo each.
BFP finally in 12/2018
TTC#2 06/2021
planning FET
"Some days are diamonds, some days are rocks,
some doors are open, some roads are blocked"
I will second what @doxiemoxie212 says - I really loved being able to creep on him without going in there. Maybe he was crying but I could see him getting settled into his favorite sleeping position so I'd know not to go in. Or yes in the weird situation when they sleep forever I can zoom in and see he's still breathing. I still have it in his room and he's 5 now. I don't really use it anymore but I'll occasionally use it when he's sick to keep an extra eye on him or when my nephew is over because they are absolute monsters together.
Changing tables - we got the attachment that goes on top of the dresser and used that as our main changing table. We were lucky enough that his bedroom was right off of our main living space so it was easy to take him in there for changing. We didn't have any portable stations around the house. We're going to have to figure something out this time around since we're in a different house. I have a half bookshelf that I think might work perfect and then put a changing pad on top of it for downstairs. We will have the other dresser/changing table in the nursery upstairs.
Gliders - we had this glider, it worked ok. But I severely underestimated the amount of time that I would spend in that chair and after a while it was not very comfortable at all. Especially on the nights when they are sick and will only sleep on your chest. Not a fun time. So this time I'm looking into something that is much comfier and reclines. I also found the separate foot stool annoying. I was always tripping over it and never knew where to put it. I'll be trying out chairs in store as much as possible to make a decision. We have electric reclining couches and they are amazing so I'd like to get the same thing for the glider. But that jacks up the price quite significantly.
I also regretted not having an end table next to the glider. There was a lot of times I'd be sitting there thinking "I wish I had..." which could have been easily stored there. Like fingernail clippers when they are passed out, or a wipe for spitup, etc. So I'll be looking for a little table to put next to me with a nightlight & hatch.
We also have an Amazon Echo Kids with a Glow, which is great for the older kids with podcasts and stories and music at bed but also I can yell at them through it, lol. We can do the whole alarm setting thing so the light changes and plays a song when it's wake up time.
I have a rocking chair that sucks. Storkcraft I think? I didn't nurse for long but the arms weren't high enough to be helpful with that and it's hard to sit with more than one kid in it which is a thing in my house. It's not super easy to sit up straight either-i feel like I'm leaning all the time. This time I'm getting an actual recliner and H will get it when we're done in the nursery (maybe).
We have a dresser/changing table but will get a bigger dresser this time and just change him on top, so it grows with him. DS3 has the one from DS6 and his clothes are outgrowing it for sure.
I was not a bassinet believer because DS6 was a perfect sleeper anf was in the crib immediately, but DS3 was awful and having him next to the bed was great. Even though this new LO will be in a nursery attached to us, I'll still do it.
Crib wise, I the only advice I have is make sure the legs are placed so that you can drop the mattress to the floor when (if) your kid starts crawling out. I found some cool modern looking cribs with slanted legs and when H pointed out that the mattress wouldn't drop easily they got taken off the list. This was key because DS3 threw himself out of the crib at 11 months and we were not toddler bedding at that point. Also make sure if you spend $400 on a crib all the conversion shit for the toddler bed comes with it!
Whew that was a book! Sorry!
Cameras/monitors - seems old fashioned, but we really like having both a nice audio-only monitor, and a separate camera. Its very nice using the audio portion to wake us up, then being able to check the video feed only when needed.
A good baby audio monitor (like this one we love) is really small, has a huge range, and has a lot of nice features.
For the camera, we have a few of these. We've had Ring cameras and these are just as good but for pennies - we also have them outdoors, etc. The low-light sensitivity is amazing and ability to pan/tilt is excellent once they start roaming.
Only other thing to mention is that we absolutely agree with the "dresser as changing table" idea. No disposable furniture, top drawer keeps all the supplies at hand and out of sight till you need them.
We got a nice dresser we hope to keep a long time, and absolutely love these things for the top of it. This has been our go-to shower gift for friends too: Max & John, LLC - Clever Products for Clever Kids (maxandjohn.com)
Hope this helps!
Monitor, we have infant optics and the battery is absolute crap. It can't last more than a minute off the charge cable. We are looking at options now but originally avoided wifi monitors but those seem like the best options for multiples.
me awake. The majority of my breastfeeding was done in our living room. I would love to get a glider this time, though. Furniture shopping in Hawaii is really difficult but we’re living near an IKEA now so things will hopefully be a lot easier and more affordable.
We have a 2 story house. All bedrooms are upstairs and main living spaces are downstairs. I have one pack n play that has an attached changing station. I also have one swing, but might be a bit too big at newborn stage.
1) put pack and play in master room for ease of sleeping and middle of the night diaper changes. Figure out a napping/portable changing situation for downstairs. I have a dog and a wild 5 year old so I don’t want him just napping on the floor all the time. But I also don’t want to be stuck human matressing anytime we are downstairs.
Also, depending on the diaper situation, you can change them in the bassinet in the middle of the night (like a quick pee diaper)
It arrived about two weeks after I ordered it.
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