So, I have access to my husband’s old Facebook and I blew shit up today. I attached pictures/proof.
He came to move out today. Left his phone out and I saw he was still messaging his affair partner. Telling her he loved her and she was the most beautiful woman in the world. Needless to say, I broke. Like I have been heartbroken the last month. But he broke me today.
So this was petty. And made me feel a little better.
@photographerwife I didn’t fast at all. 😬. I was told an hour before, but I’m certain I snuck a few bites. My pancreas did fine. Thankfully. (I hope that didn’t sound like I don’t care. I have a type 1 diabetic toddler and test my blood sugar regularly at home).
@photographerwife I hope it went well and that you pass with flying colors! @angelz429 I am so sorry that you are in so much pain and that he has put you here you do not deserve this.
@ThePax89 I only had to fast for like 2 hours before so it wasn’t bad! I just did what my clinic recommended! I should have my results tomorrow:) hope I pass! I passed with ds so I’m not too worried but I have diabetics in my family too. It would be hard to have a young kid with diabetes
I realized that the amount of sugar in the glucose test isn’t as high as I thought it was. 50 grams of sugar! And idk about y’all but I’ve had a major sweet tooth this pregnancy and slammed a root beer yesterday with 47g! So I really hope I pass! 🙃 but the good news is that I’ve only gained 14 lbs! So not out of range for 28 weeks!
@angelz429 can’t say I wouldn’t have done the same! 😅 You have every right to be pissed! What he did is super Fu**ed and he doesn’t need to get away with gaslighting you for it!
@angelz429 you fullllly deserve one or one hundred petty moments. I’m sorry you’re going through all this and he 100% deserves everything coming to him!
@angelz429 All of your feelings are justified. Betrayal is such a beast of an action. Cope how you need to! Don't feel badly for being hurt or petty. YOU deserve better than to be treated with this disrespect.
@photographerwife - I’m the same. Glucose was good but iron still isn’t. I did add a supplement but now she’s giving me something else stronger. Which means I’ll also be purchasing stool softeners lol
Me: 37 DH: 37 - Married 10.2015 ❤️ Canadian DX: Endometriosis - Stage 4, DOR, RPL
I had my glucose test last Wednesday and they said they’d only call if I didn’t pass, so hoping that it’s all good since it’s been almost a week and no one has called me!! I failed the 1 hour by 1 pt with my son and had to do the 3 hour, which I passed but hated.
My mother is driving me INSANE about Hanukkah and Christmas, which she does every single year. She is totally inept at picking out and getting gifts shipped, and so I basically end up having to tell her exactly what to buy and from where, and then I have to wrap all her gifts when they arrive (including gifts for myself 🙄). Last year I’d finally had it and said to stop sending gifts for anyone but my son, because the best gift she could possibly give me is not putting more shit on my to do list. That was after she ordered some stupid ornament for me that I didn’t even want. It got stuck in transit, and she made me spend 2 hours on the phone with the place she ordered from and the shipping company to try to sort it out because she couldn’t possibly handle it. But somehow here we are again with me handling all the logistics of her presents for my son….
@JEM2014 that would be so frustrating! I started keeping an Amazon list for each of my kids and add to it throughout the year then just send family the link when they inevitably ask around their birthdays or Christmas. It doesn't take away having to wrap or anything, but definitely helps with the ideas.
@JEM2014 that stinks you’re the idea person, the logistical person, and the wrapping person. I second the Amazon list idea suggested by @modoodles. What happens if you tell her you’re not doing it anymore, and then follow up every conversation she tries to have about it with a reminder that you aren’t doing it?
@modoodles we’ve done the Amazon list in the past when we were living in the US and it works better. A lot of the frustration right now is because we’re living in Belgium and she can’t figure out how to ship from the US or how to order from an EU site. Which I get is slightly more complex, but honestly it’s not THAT much harder to order from Amazon.de than Amazon.com…. Just another reason I’m glad to be moving back next year!
Today has been interesting. My 5 year old son accidently locked us out of our house. lol Thankfully my MIL lives .5mi away and was able to get us back in.
@angelz429 I 100% support you on what you did. What he did is so wrong and you can cope and heal how you feel is needed.
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@angelz429 I am so sorry that you are in so much pain and that he has put you here
DX: Endometriosis - Stage 4, DOR, RPL
03.2016 - Natural BFP - MC 5w4d
04.2016 - Natural BFP - Chemical
10.2016 - IUI w/ Injections #1 = IUI Cancelled (cyst/no mature follicle)
11.2016 - IUI w/ Injections #2 = BFP, EDD 08.2017 - It's a BOY!
TTC #2 06.2019
08.2019 - IUI w/ Injections #1 = Chemical
09.2019 - IUI w/ Injections #2 = BFN
10.2019 - IUI w/ Injections #3 = BFN
01.2020 - IUI w/ Injections #4 = BFN
08.2020 - Natural BFP - MC 9w5d
11.2020 - IVF Retrieval - 3AB & 4BB
05.2021 - FET #1 = BFP, EDD 02.2022 - It's a BOY!
@angelz429 I 100% support you on what you did. What he did is so wrong and you can cope and heal how you feel is needed.