March 2022 Moms

AMA Mama Check In - July

Didn't see this started yet and since I know the first few weeks can be the most stressful I thought I'd get this going:)

Age:

How far along are you?

How are you doing with everything at the moment?

Re: AMA Mama Check In - July

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  • @rachelredhead Right? With my 2nd my doctor said they didn't really consider anyone AMA until they hit 42...😅 Not sure what that means but if it gives me extra appointments this time around then count me in!!!! I'm so glad your son's birthday went well!!! I'm still being a chicken about my first ultrasound. I can't decide if I want an early one around 7 or 8 weeks or a later one around 9 or 10 weeks...so because I can't decide I just haven't even bothered calling my doctor yet...I should probably get on that though because I imagine they book up quickly right now. I did already book my NIPT for August 30th...so if all goes well and we get to that point then hopefully I'll have the results before the start if the school year so I won't have to be too stressed.
  • Age: 37

    How far along are you? 4 weeks exactly. 

    How are you doing with everything at the moment? Overall okay, but with some low level anxiety. I’m fretting over the lines getting darker on my pregnancy tests. I think I’m in my head too much. My ultrasound will be at 8w1d. 

    @panaceia +1 For agreeing that our bodies are still able to figure their stuff out and not turn to dust just because we’re AMA. 
    @rachelredhead Happy birthday to your son! I’m glad that it was a great day. Fingers crossed for a good ultrasound next week. 
    @jlbaker08 I was 34 when I got pregnant with my daughter and 35 when I delivered. It’s so funny how our prenatal care changes so drastically with the difference of that one number. 
    TTC History
    Me: 38 DH: 52
    Started trying June 2018
    BFP Jan 2019 DD born October 2019
    TTC July 2021 BFP, ended in MMC August 2021
    TTC October 2021
    BFP January 2022
    MMC March 2022
    Beginning May 2022 under the supervision of an RE - Benched while undergoing testing




  • 313Meg313Meg member

    Age: 36

    How far along are you? 6 weeks some days. 

    How are you doing with everything at the moment? I’m stressing. It took us over a year to conceive this time. I’ve been having consistent cramping. Needing to sit or rest more often. The nausea has kicked in. It’s been all day, thank goodness it’s not progressing past that so far. 
    My DH is freaking about money and how we will handle a baby, starting all over, getting all the new things. And so on. Which of course is making me worried. 
    I have my first ultrasound on Thursday. (I’m higher risk) to confirm dating and heartbeat. And anxious for that heart! 

  • 313Meg313Meg member
    @Panaceia you are more courageous than me! Having 2 littles at “ama” 😂 I’m “ama” and the thought of a newborn and toddler just scares me! Haha more power to you and @rachelredhead! I did that, and so glad they are so close now! (5&7 and best buds) 
    I’m also glad I’m not the only one who’s “ama”. I was afraid I’d be the only one since my last bmb was mostly younger mamas. Ps I hate the term ama! 

    @rachelredhead glad you were able to enjoy your littles bday! 

    @jlbaker08 hopefully this one is just as successful! 

    @elle-0409 hopefully those lines keep getting darker! I was just there too. Can you get in for some hcg testing? They didn’t hesitate when I called. 
  • @313Meg all my pregnancies have been AMA so I have nothing to compare it to. 🤷‍♀️ Our son has been a bit of a unicorn baby, very chill, sweet, slept through the night quickly, etc. So our main concern is that we won’t get so lucky twice. 😂 
  • @313Meg It took us a year and 2 losses to conceive this little nugget too. So hoping I get to stick around!
  • 313Meg313Meg member
    edited July 2021
    @Panaceia fx for you!!
  • Age: 41 

    How far along are you? 5 + 4 

    How are you doing with everything at the moment?

    Overall, I’m feeling ok, tired and moody but no real nausea yet. The ob-gyn for my last two pregnancies was not concerned about my age and said she didn’t really consider one AMA until 42. I am in the process of finding a new doctor to follow this pregnancy so am curious how the new physician and care will be. I received a referral today and am hoping I’ll have a first appointment soon. 


  • Age: 37

    How far along are you? 3+5

    How are you doing with everything at the moment? Symptoms are already coming on strong. I'm sooo bloated and gassy, my breasts are bigger, and I'm already getting aversions and waves of nausea. The symptoms make me feel hopeful after 9 months of trying for this baby. But of course I'm not looking forward to full-force morning sickness either. I never really thought of 37 as AMA before (my midwife encouraged me not to worry about it when I was 35 last time around) but the RE I was seeing the past couple months said my age was interfering with conception so now I guess my age is one more thing for me to have anxiety about oof. But I'm getting betas drawn this week and hopefully an ultrasound a couple weeks after that so hopefully that will put my mind at ease.
  • Hi!
    I’m 36 (37 in a few months)
    I’m 4+6

    Overall doing well, a little on edge just hoping things progress normally due to not wanting to start over again due to my constant aging and not wanting my littles too far apart in age 🤣
  • Nik102Nik102 member
    Hi! 
    I’m 37. 
    I’m 3+4 
       Doing pretty well, it’s all still sinking in that this finally happened. Last time I made it through a full pregnancy I was 30, so I’m sure this will be a reality check for me. 
  • Age: 35

    How far along are you? 4 weeks
     
    How are you doing with everything at the moment?
    Mostly doing okay. Glad to have this board to let out some nervous energy while I wait to make appointments and stress about everything. 🙂 Also thankful for a group of AMA moms to talk to! I was 31 when I had my first, so I'll be curious what (if anything much) is different this time around.
  • 313Meg313Meg member
    Welcome ladies! Glad to have more "ama" mamas! 
  • Age: 36 (will be 37 when baby comes) 

    How far along are you? 3 + 2
     
    How are you doing with everything at the moment? 
    Freaking out! Just found out today. We were planning for it but it was our very first month of “trying”. This will be baby #3 but my first ama baby. I’m a little nervous because I’m waiting for the other shoe to drop. I feel like I have two healthy boys and had two healthy pregnancies I’m freaked out that something is bound to go wrong this time. 
    Me: 36 DH: 36
    Married: October 2011
    DS: January 2016
    DS: May 2019
    #3: April 2022
  • edited July 2021
    Age: 35

    How far along are you: 5w and 3d

    How are you doing with everything at the moment:
    This is my first pregnancy and I’m really struggling with thinking about everything that can go wrong. I’m not having many symptoms which makes me nervous. My husband and I are traveling next week and while the doctor assures me the plane will not cause a miscarriage, I’m still nervous! I think I will feel better after the first doctor visit.
  • mjhicks21mjhicks21 member
    edited July 2021
    By the way, I have no idea how I got this username or whatever you call it, but I surely did not choose it.  I will try to change it!  I’m also new to this posting situation…😳😝
  • I didn’t see this before! 

    Age: 34 but will be 35 next week. 

    How far along are you? 7+1

    How are you doing with everything at the moment? I’m okay. Feeling icky but not nauseous or anything. Just feeling like I’m sick, if that makes sense. I don’t have my first appt until 8/17 and this is the longest I’ve waited for a first appt. I’m nervous and excited to see the baby on the ultrasound. :) 
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