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Re: WTO Tuesday 8/3
Month/Cycle: 1:1 - we are just starting
CD: CD15
WAYDTGKU: Sex at least once a day since we decided to TTC right as my window started, prenatals, OPKs because I have no idea what I'm doing (SOS help haha)
R/R: It's finally not raining where I am! Though its only like 72 degrees....but at least its dry.
CS/Q: I feel like I have a million questions but am hopeful to kind of answer them on my own as I lurk. Though, I am confused about reading OPks. Once the test line is darker than the control, does that mean you are at peak? And are ovulating? Or do you ovulate once the test line becomes light again? Help a newbie out!
@jellie603 ovulation usually occurs within 48 hours (something like that) of your first positive OPK. The only way to tell for sure that you ovulated is if you are tracking BBT but my RE recommends having sex the day of the first positive plus the next 2 days
Month/Cycle: 33/35
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: Benched but tracking ovulation
R/R: hi friends! I figured since I’m off birth control pills now and am “waiting to ovulate” that I would jump back in to the dailies. If you aren’t on the IF thread, it’s a long story but basically I have to have an endometrial biopsy but they want me to have another full cycle off of birth control first. We are benched but I’m still going to track so that I know when I ovulate/when to expect AF esp since ovulation might be delayed since I was on birth control for 2 months. However I have been forgetting to temp until this morning so I don’t know how reliable my chart is going to be. Hopefully I’ll still see a shift though.
CS/Q: one dot so far
I'm not on the IF thread so don't know your story besides what you shared above - but sending you thoughts and hugs! Do you have the biopsy scheduled yet?
@jellie603 First post! Hooray and welcome! For what it's worth, I typically assume that I ovulate the the day AFTER the test line is darker than the control line. But last cycle, I used the ClearBlue OPKs that show you smileys alongside my cheapies, as it's a bit easier to read for me.
@bows22 - Hoping that this is an informative cycle for you and that you'll still see a temp shift!
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD: 2
WAYDTGKU: OPKs (ClearBlue + Cheapies)
R/R: Last cycle was 43 days and I don't think I ovulated (OPK positives on Day 20, but then didn't start my cycle for 23 more days which seems like a long LP). Really hoping to have an ovulatory cycle this time. I'm trying to focus on my overall wellness (primarily focused on Whole30 nutrition + yoga), even though I'm not sure it will help.
CS/Q: Is it too late to start BBT to confirm ovulation given I'm already on Day 2 of my cycle?
@bows22 hi friend! Happy to see you back in the dailies!
@agesandstages CD2 is definitely not too late to start temping. Frankly even starting at CD10 might be okay depending on when you typically ovulate. FF can determine O as soon as there are 3 sustained temps above the previous 6 temps, but I think I have seen less pre-O temps in other people's charts and had confirmed O. I'm pretty sure most women that temp vaginally vs orally skip temping while they have their periods for sanitary purposes so it's not uncommon at all to not start until CD5-7.
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD: CD7?
WAYDTGKU: Benched this cycle but hoping to just track to make sure my dates are right and can start next cycle.
R/R: Guess this is a little bit of both, but I hate how busy work can get right before you go on vacation. I obviously want to make sure I get everything done, it just gets to be too stressful sometimes. Also, vacation next week! We are just doing a staycation and possibly a day/overnight trip but I am looking forward to it!
CS/Q: Nothing now as I only have one temp.
@jellie603 OKPs are so hard to read I feel like. I have had ones that I thought were peak before, and then later in the day they get darker and it blows my mind. Or I get one that isn't too dark but days later I will get a confirmed O with BBT. It's so weird!
@bows22 right there with you on the benched but wanting to track to monitor things!
@agesandstages I just did my first temp today even though I am CD7. I think as long as you have enough before you O, like mentioned above, then FF will still be able to catch it. You might be able to even tell, even if FF doesn't recognize it. Never hurts to try.
Married 10/28/17
Our TTC Journey
Team Green turned Team Blue 10/15/18
TTC #2 January '21
BFP June '21
MMC/Blighted Ovum that led to D&C July '21
Jan '22 - started IF testing
BFP Jan '22
MMC/Blighted Ovum that led to D&C Feb '22
BFP May '22
@i@inthewoods23 hi!! It’s kind of weird being back haha
@t@tessiesmom26 I’m on vacation next week too so I hear with you about being crazy trying to prepare!
@jellie603 Welcome! I’m a returning TTGP member but it’s been a minute so I’m having to relearn and re-educate myself on a lot. Just lurking in the conversations has taught me a ton of information and these people are so helpful and knowledgeable. Highly recommend the OPK help thread!
@tessiesmom26 Hooray for staycations! Sometimes I think they’re better than going away someplace, it seems more relaxing and rejuvenating.
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD: 13
WAYDTGKU: BBTs, PNVs, BD EOD, CP/CM
R/R: Had to drive an hour to work and back for a “fire safety training class”, but made sure to stop at Target on the way home for some self-care. Ahhhh.
CS/Q: FF says o day is next Tuesday but just based on all my data I’m thinking it’ll be sooner. I said I wouldn’t order OPKs until cycle 4 but I’ve been eyeing them more and more lately… I’m very much a data, science-oriented girl so I need all the info and I think I may just go ahead and get them. We’ll see!