Community› The Bump Message Boards› 1st Trimester
1st Trimester
New Discussion
Options

Advice needed for single momma

knottieae909b937d317e11knottieae909b937d317e11 member
edited July 2021 in 1st Trimester
The singular stick photo is from fmu today. Line showed up within the 5 min mark. The other sticks are tests from the last few days, the very top stick on the multi stick photo is one dipped in water because I was worried about shadow lines. Long story short my ex husband and I already have 3 kids together and this was not planned so I am super panicking :( I need advice!

*Edited to delete photos, newbie mistake*
Report Reply to Post

Best Answer

  • Options
    stormageddon-darklordofallstormageddon-darklordofall member
    Answer ✓
    You aren't allowed to post pics of pee sticks, except in one thread on this entire site.  Your pics aren't showing up right, because newbies aren't allowed to post pics for a certain time period, to try and avoid the slew of pee sticks people think we should look at on a regular basis....

    That said, you're PG.  Congrats.  You'll have to figure it out.  Call your doctor and make your first appointment.  Decide if you're keeping it or not.  Unless you are high risk you should be able to go about your daily activities for a while without risk to the baby.  
    *TW All the Loss* #BitterHagPartyOf1

    October 2015 - 1st MC.  7-8 weeks along. Suspected molar PG, but luckily just a MMC.

    June 2016 - 2nd MC: 4-5 weeks CP

    September 2016 - 3rd MC: 4-5 weeks CP

    RE 1: ALL the testing - 'unexplained'  "Yinz can do IVF or try on your own"

    Feb 2017 - 4th MC: 6 weeks

    RE 2: More tests. Still 'unexplained.'  Called fat for an entire hour-long appointment, cried a lot

    Feb 2019 - 5th MC: 6-7 weeks

    IUD - March 2019-March 2023

    RE 3:  Repeat all the tests. Hoping to try IVF.

    Report Reply

Answers

  • Options
    knottieae909b937d317e11knottieae909b937d317e11 member
    <img src="https://us.v-cdn.net/5020794/uploads/editor/8h/vcyh1vofr94t.jpg" alt="" />
    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • Options
    knottieae909b937d317e11knottieae909b937d317e11 member
    edited July 2021
    .
    Report Reply
  • Options
    knottieae909b937d317e11knottieae909b937d317e11 member
    edited July 2021
    .
    Report Reply
  • Options
    knottieae909b937d317e11knottieae909b937d317e11 member
    I just started a carpenter apprenticeship through the union (where I lift heavy things go on aerial lifts and am basically one of the only women at the company) and am a full time single mom. My ex husband is in the navy and lives out of state.im not really sure what to do :( this was completely unexpected.
    Report Reply
  • Options
    knottieae909b937d317e11knottieae909b937d317e11 member
    Thank you for the reply. Newbie mistake I deleted the photos. Thanks for your reply.
    Report Reply
  • Options
    meggymemeggyme member
    knottieae909b937d317e11 said:
    I just started a carpenter apprenticeship through the union (where I lift heavy things go on aerial lifts and am basically one of the only women at the company) and am a full time single mom. My ex husband is in the navy and lives out of state.im not really sure what to do :( this was completely unexpected.
    knottieae909b937d317e11 said:
    Thank you for the reply. Newbie mistake I deleted the photos. Thanks for your reply.
    Talk to your doctor if you’re concerned about your responsibilities at work. Generally you’re ok to continue doing any heavy-ish lifting you’re already accustomed to until much later.
    DD1: June '16 DD2: March ‘19 :::: Married since 2011 :::: USN Wife ::::
    Report Reply
Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"