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Month/Cycle:
CD:
WAYDTGKU:
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CS/Q:
Re: WTO Monday 6.7
Month/Cycle: 24/3 AL
CD: 7
WAYDTGKU: Letrozole & TI, PNV, OPKs
R/R: This weekend was really nice! I had a blast with my coworkers on Saturday and we got to relax a bit on Sunday. DH put in our window AC units to help us survive until we get central air in a couple weeks. Now I just have to survive these last 2 weeks of school in buildings that aren’t air conditioned (except for a few rooms like the auditorium) despite it being 90 degrees outside.
CS/Q:
@gingermama29 where I went to school didn’t have ac and I totally feel for you! Hopefully these last 2 weeks go by quickly for you!!
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CS/Q: I *think* I ovulated, had a temperature spike this morning, but waiting a few days for FF to confirm it. I had a spike on CD 14 that got my hopes up, but my temp had dropped back down.
CD: 11
WAYDTGKU: BBT, OPKs, PNV + vitamin C
R/R: It's the last week of school before summer break! In-person classes finished last week, so this week should be fairly lowkey and a great transition into summer.
CS/Q: Nothing here. I haven't been ovulating until CD 21-24 so still got a ways to go.
@gingermama29 I have been there on the non-ACed school front! It's the worst. Hope the last few weeks aren't too unbearable!
@trails15 Hello! Welcome! I am forgetting from your intro - are you a teacher/staff or student? Either way, yay! You made it through what was probably a very challenging year. Enjoy your last week!
@awello FX you ultrasound goes well and there are no surprises!
@paytonpedro Wow, that sounds fun and rewarding! Gardening is exiting for me too.
@gingermama29 I'm glad your weekend was nice! I hope the next two weeks fly by for you.
Month/Cycle: 5/4
@paytonpedro that's exciting! My husband is super into gardening but it's just not my thing. I am in awe of anything who has the patience and skill to grow food!
@awello FX they don't find anything wrong at your appointment. Keep us updated!
@trails15 congrats on finishing the longest year ever! I've still got 2 weeks to go.
@fantasyflyte soooooo hot! FX you O'ed bc that timing does look good!
CD: 21
WAYDTGKU: CBAD, PNV, charting
R/R: Realllllly struggling these last 2 weeks of work. I thought that it wouldn't be so bad since I know that I'm not going back next year, but that's not what's been happening haha. I was in such a work avoidance mode this weekend that I re-read the first and second Harry Potter books which I haven't done since high school. Now I've got a pile of work but still no motivation to do it.
CS/Q:
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
@paytonpedro come to my house and garden for me 😂
@awello that's a good temp spike! Was the previous one at a later time or after alcohol?
@trails15 happy almost summer break!
@fantasyflyte I always have EWCM after O, usually 1-2 days, but sometimes 3. Makes pinpointing O a bit more difficult if my temps are wonky! FF will give you dotted CH if you go to 3 days after, just FYI.
@fameonmain2 how did you stop at book 2?? I would have been compelled to reread them all 😂
Month/Cycle: 0 AL
The opks I took were all really low and looks about the same, so I don't think anything is moving in either direction.
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD: 14
WAYDTGKU: OPKs, vitamins
R/R: Sorry I have been MIA lately! I was out of town at a memorial and have never been good at mobile bumping. I also managed to forget my OPKs at home (brilliant) so this cycle will be a bit of a mystery. I’ll probably hang out here another day or two and then just hope I O’d and scoot over to TWW. Glad to be back with you all and hope it’s a great Monday!
CS/Q: Nope
@gingermama29 Yikes, good luck staying cool at school!
@paytonpedro Awesome job on your garden!
@awello Glad you got ovulation confirmation!
@trails15 Yay for the last week of school!
@fantasyflyte I am always amazed at how many body anomalies I find when I am actually paying attention. Always makes trying to find a pattern fun.
@kgg2241Hope it’s an easy week for you!
@fameonmain2 Hope you find a little motivation (or something else to distract you, haha)
@pajamstagrams Ooh, what beach are you heading to?
@awello yeah that might do it. Poor sleep will get you!
@pajamstagrams haha, I ran out of time! I'll be reading at night before bed I'm sure
@abjm0325 maybe forgetting the OPKs will be a good sign for your cycle? I'm usually less stressed when I'm not worrying about the OPKs.
TTC History:
Me: 36 MH: 39, TTC since Dec 2017
Aug '18: PCOS dx
Nov '18: MH SA - 19mil
Dec '18-Mar '19: Letrozole + TI - all BFN
Apr '19: Letrozole + TI, - BFN. Repeat SA (27mil) & DNA fragmentation test (17%)
Aug '19: Letrozole + HCG trigger + IUI + prog supp - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Sep '19: 2nd IUI, same protocol - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Dec '19: IVF #1 w/ICSI, PGT. 5 retrieved, 4 fertilized, 3 blasts, 3 PGT-A normal.
Mar '20: FET #1, perfect 5AA blast transferred. BFN.
Sept '20: FET #2, 5BB tsf. 9/18/20 BFP!! EDD: 5/27/21. MMC 11w
Feb ‘21: FET #3, last 6BB blast transferred. BFP, EDD 11/2/21. MC 5w3d.
May '21: IVF #2 w/ICSI, PGT. 8R, 7M, 6F, 6 blasts - 3AB, 3AB, 3BB, 4BB, 5BB, 6BA. Fresh tsf 5/13/21 - BFN.
June '21: PGT-A results = 3 abnormal, 1 low level mosaic. Referred to new REI, had consult with 2nd RE in between.
Sept '21: RPL, immune testing normal
Oct '21: IVF #3 w/IMSI, PGT. 33R, 26M, 23F, 9 blasts (7 day 6, 2 day 7). PGT-A = 5 normal, 1 mosaic
Dec '21: Positive for endometritis, RX Flagyl & Keflex
Jan '22: FET #5 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol incl. PRP, intralipids, prednisone, medrol, nivestym, fragmin - CP
Feb '22: FET #6 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol w/higher doses of pred & fragmin - BFN
Mar '22: Mock cycle for ERA - cancelled, repeat endometrial biopsy instead. Still positive for endometritis. RX ciprofloxacin & amoxicillin.
Apr '22: IVF #4 w/IMSI, PGT. 28R, 23M, 16F, 11 blasts. PGT-A = 6 normal.
June '22: FET #7 - Microdose lupron downreg w/kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol - double embryo transfer. BFN.
July '22: FET #8 - Mini stim w/Puregon + trigger, kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol. BFN.
Sep '22: Taking a break
Dec '22: Attempted abdominal myomectomy, fibroid too close to cervix and major blood vessels. Wasn't removed.
Feb '23: FET #9 - Modified natural w/baby asp, HCG trigger, PIO, PRP, Medrol, HCG wash, embryo glue - BFP!! EDD 11/11/23
@fameonmain2 my husband usually doesn’t have the patience for gardening either but this year really helped out and got his hands dirty. It was nice that we could do it together.
@pajamstagrams as long as it’s a veggie garden I’m there! Something about all your hard work coming to fruition is so rewarding for me. Now flowers on the other hand are just meh.
@kgg2241 school-based staff! Although I think after this year everyone involved in education is uniformly and equally excited for summer break
@fameonmain2 I know how hard it is when everyone else is wrapping up school and you're still going, so hoping these last two weeks go quickly for you!!
@awello no it’s not really an old building. It’s just not common for schools to be air conditioned in NY for some reason. Glad what you have shouldn’t affect ttgp.
@kgg2241 ugh allergies are the worst! Mine have been flaring up terribly lately. Hope you get some relief soon!
@fameonmain2 I’m super jealous that your school is air conditioned! And I feel you so much on struggling with these final 2 weeks. So ready for this insane school year to be done.
@pajamstagrams your beach vacation plans sound amazing!
@awello I do indeed have adenomyosis. It certainly can affect fertility - both in getting and staying PG. But it doesn’t affect fertility for everyone just as endo doesn’t give everyone problems. Who it does and who it doesn’t has some logic but also lots of unknowns. Also official confirmed diagnosis is only possible when they examine the uterus under a microscope after removal… but up until then typically a “diagnosis” is given when it is seen on both ultrasound and MRI.
Going to TW and spoiler the rest as talk of success included.
I have focal adeno - I have a big patch that sits right in my Fundus. Initially they weren’t sure if it was a septum or if I had a heart shaped uterus but 3D and 4D ultrasounds plus several MRIs “confirmed” it’s adeno. The uterine lining right under my adeno patch is not completely normal and so we believe embryos can’t properly attach and grow there - with my success we had implantation in the bottom half of my uterus.
When PG do get checked if possible early on as PG hormones can make the adeno grow like a weed again… and can cause spotting/bleeding. I had to stop taking baby aspirin early on as that seemed to make it worse. I also kept taking progesterone injections much longer than most FETs to try to keep the adeno from breaking down. It basically grew with the uterus up until around 6 weeks ans then stayed the same size the rest of my pregnancy- as a not my fibroid did the same! Both were back to pre- pregnancy size by my 6 week post Parfum checkup.
Due to my other autoimmune conditions I also used intralipids and steroids during FET which could potentially also have helped keep the adeno as quiet as possible.
And fingers crossed you’ll be one whose adeno doesn’t affect them!
Married 12/2016
TTC #1 since 04/2015
AMA, DOR (AMH 0.65, AFC 2-4) and autoimmune issues (RA, APS), low TSH, adenomyosis
7 retrievals, 3 transfers
Nov17 IVF2 - 1ER, 0F
Jan18 IVF3 - 3ER, 1F, 1ET, BFN
Feb18 - second opinion and additional testing
Apr18 IVF4 - cancelled (E2 too high)
May/Jun18 IVF4 - 4ER, 0M, 1F, 1 frozen day 3 (not best quality)
Jun/Jul18 IVF5 - 5 ER, 3M, 2F, 2 frozen day 3 (not best quality)
Jul/Aug18 IVF6 - 4ER, 3M, 2F, 2 frozen day 3 (good quality)
Aug/Sep18 IVF7 - cancelled (cyst)
Sep/Oct18 IVF7 - 3ER, 3M, 2F, 2 frozen Day 3 (excellent quality)
Oct18 IVF8 - Cancelled (cyst and too low TSH)
Oct18-Jan19 bringing TSH under control
Feb19 ERA and hysteroscopy
Mar19 Investigation for fibroid and adenomyosis
Apr19 adenomyosis confirmed, polyps removed
Jun19 FET after 2 months Lupron, autoimmune protocol, transferred two day 3 frozen embryos
Nov17 IVF2 - Pergoveris 2-14 Nov, Orgalutran 5-14 Nov, Ovitrelle 15 Nov, ER 17 Nov for 3 follies, 1 mature egg, did not fertilize
Jan18 IVF3 - Pergoveris 30 Dec - 8 Jan, Orgalutran 5-8 Jan, Ovitrelle 9 Jan, ER 11 Jan 3 eggs, 2 mature, 1 fertilized, ET 1x 4d 12-cell embryo 15/01, 24/01 BFN
May/Jun18 IVF4 - Rekovelle 25-29 May, Menogon 30May - 2Jun, Zomacton 25 27 29 31 May and 2Jun, Cetrotide 30May - 3Jun, Gonasi 3Jun, ER 5Jun 4 eggs, none mature, two matured overnight, 1 fertilized with ICSI, Frozen day 3 but not good quality
Jun/Jul18 IVF5 - Rekovelle 21-24 June, Menogon 25Jun-3Jul, Puregon 4-5Jul, Zomacton 21 23 25 27 29 Jun, Cetrotide 25Jun-5Jul, Gonasi 6Jul, ER 8Jul 5 eggs, 3 mature, 2 fertilized with ICSI, 2 frozen day 3 but not good quality
Jul/Aug18 IVF6 - Rekovelle 26-29 Jul, Menogon 30Jul-7Aug, Buserelin 26Jul-7Aug, Zomacton 26 28 30 Jul 1 3 Aug, Gonasi 7Aug, ER 9Aug 4 eggs, 3 mature, 2 fertilized (normal IVF), 2 frozen day 3 good quality
Sep/Oct18 IVF7 - Menogon 19-30Sep, Buserelin 19-30Sep, Zomacton 19 21 23 25 27 Sep, Ovitrelle 1 Oct, ER 3 eggs, 3 mature, 2 fertilized with ICSI, 2 frozen day 3 excellent quality
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