Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: babyโs palm is the size of an altoid!ย
Team ๐๐๐: ๐
FTM/STM/TTM+: First timeย
Upcoming appointments: my next midwife visit is 6/17. Pretty sure Iโll be doing the glucose test ๐
How are you feeling?: really good! Just tired, and short of breath.ย
Rants/Raves: after a great anatomy scan Friday I finally feel I can let go of my previous loss fears and just enjoy getting things ready for baby. Picked out our nursery accent wall paint color this weekend, and also purchased our stroller and car seat! I did splurge and get her some cute outfits and some stuffed elephants too ๐ฅฐย
Rant- trying to figure out how to convince my stepdad to get covid vaccinated before baby comes. Heโs extremely stubborn and feels like the government is just telling him what to do ๐ sighย
Questions: what pack n plays have been your favorite if youโve already had a kid or multiple?ย
GTKY: oh gosh. Iโm gonna have to go with the strawberry eclair. Those crumbles on top are just the best ๐ค
@madiirosee we have the Graco pnp with the net thing that lets the mattress be raised and has the bassinet attachment. It's worked well for us the first few weeks baby roomed with us...and is perfect for traveling/when little cousins come visit us
@madiirosee we have the Graco Pack N Play (three of them) and despite owning so many, I freaking hate it. All of them, all of their models. I would definitely invest in one that can be set up in seconds with one hand. Like 4moms or bugaboo or another. The Graco PNP is so clunky to set up/break down and its awful. We go camping a lot so we need to set it up/break it down 3x or more per day on a camping trip and its just the worst. Definitely think about how you would use it both immediately and in the future. We never needed it at home so for us it was always a travel pnp. I really wish we had splurged on an easier one for our first baby... I'm debating upgrading now even though this will be our last or if I should just suffer through 2 more years with the Graco.ย
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days:ย 18 +2
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: artichoke, weighs as much as a hamster
Team ๐๐๐: ๐
FTM/STM/TTM+: TTM
Upcoming appointments: none this week
How are you feeling?: good overall.ย I still have terrible food aversion and my energy gets depleted fairly easily.ย
Rants/Raves: camping this weekend was SO FUN but we were all so worn out when we got home yesterday. DH was so cranky and was wearing on me.ย ย
Questions:
GTKY:ย King Cone from this list but I will.never turn down a bubble play if its on the ice cream man's menu.
@madiirosee, yay for a good anatomy scan! That is such a huge milestone, especially for loss mamas. I remember the huge amount of relief I felt after my DD's scan. Mine cannot get here soon enough!
@vampirina, camping sound so exhausting right now! I don't know how you do it!
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: Oct 29 // 17w3d
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: size of a chipmunk ๐ฟ
Team ๐๐๐: GREEN! (and still can't believe it)
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Upcoming appointments: anatomy scan in 3 weeks
How are you feeling?: pretty great, minus a few headaches here and there
Rants/Raves:
Rave: I CANNOT WAIT for my anatomy scan. My H gets to come (he hasn't been to any of my appointments yet this time ๐ญ). I scheduled it for 5pm, and we are going to have a date night and go out for dinner afterwards. My mom is going to babysit my DD and I am SO FREAKING EXCITED. My H and I have not had a date night since DD was born (20 months ago). Between being an anxious FTM and then the pandemic hitting, we just haven't felt comfortable going anywhere or leaving DD with family (since she is in daycare and exposed to germs). My mom is vaccinated so we are finally doing this and I'm so excited. I'm basically counting the days. First date night with my husband in almost TWO YEARS!!!
Questions: for the STM and up crowd, what are you buying new for this baby? So far my list is: new crib, dresser, nursery decor, changing pad cover, 2nd camera for monitor, 2nd sound machine, and (eventually maybe, if necessary) some more traditionally "boy" clothes. Otherwise, I think we have it all?
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: October 7th, 20+3
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a sweet potatoย
Team ๐๐๐:๐
FTM/STM/TTM+:FTM
Upcoming appointments: June 2nd
How are you feeling?: good still nausea here and there
Rants/Raves:I had my anatomy today. Baby girl is measuring small but DH and I are not tall people. The doctor looked at both of us and said no wonder baby is a little small cause you both are not big.ย
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a mango, and the vernix is developing
Team ๐๐๐: ๐
FTM/STM/TTM+: stm
Upcoming appointments: anatomy scan on Friday! ๐
How are you feeling?: Tired, random morning sickness here and there but I'm managing just fine ๐
Rants/Raves: We're going to the beach for a few days on Sunday. I know it's Memorial Day weekend and it will probably be crazy, but I'm looking forward to being able to go out on the beach in the evening and early morning! Plus, my daughter was so cute at the beach last month; I can't wait to take her again ๐
Questions: ๐คท๐ผโโ๏ธ @galentine I bought a new car seat for this baby, as my daughter is still using the one we would otherwise use for him. I'll probably get him some clothes, too. I'm looking at bedside bassinets, but I want to wait a bit and see if it's even something we'll need. He might be totally fine sleeping farther away from us (very unlike my daughter); in that case, we'd stick with the pack n play until we move him out of our room. I'm considering a double stroller, but we'll probably just wear him as long as possible, so I'm going to wait and see on that one too.
GTKY: ice cream sandwich or king cone. Or chipwich, why not.
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: Axolotl, he's sprouting teeth buds
Team ๐๐๐: ๐
FTM/STM/TTM+: stm
Upcoming appointments: just finished a phone appointment
How are you feeling?: so flipping relieved!ย
Rants/Raves: (sorry for the novel) - I had my anatomy scan on Thursday and got the results that evening, which said abnormal heart and kidneys, and a genetic counselor had been contacted, but nothing else. I freaked out the whole weekend about the results, then the random Dr, not even my Dr, was 45 minutes late calling me for my appointment. When he finally called, he told me that the kidney tube issue was pretty common, and the baby would likely grow into it. There was a bright spot on the heart that has nothing to do with the structure of the heart, but can be a marker for Down Syndrome. In the absence of any other markers and with a negative NIPT, chromosomal abnormalities have been ruled out. The bright spots are aparently more common with Asian babies, and DH is half Pacific Islander, so maybe that has something to do with it. I'll need a repeat anatomy scan at the beginning of 3rd Tri to check on the kidney issue, but this is the best possible news I could have received today! Oh, and all his measurments are within a day or two of my EDD except his femurs which are measuring almost two weeks ahead. This kid is going to be tall!
Questions:
GTKY: chipwich is my jam! Honorable mention to creamsicles though.
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: pint of ice cream, which feels appropriate
Team ๐๐๐: ๐
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Upcoming appointments: Next Tuesday for anatomy scan and also 20 week appointment
How are you feeling?: Pretty good, just tired. Took two naps yesterday.
Rants/Raves: Rave, we had a really fun and relaxing weekend, spent lots of time outside. Rant, with all the time outside and how bad the pollen has been my allergies are not having it.
@aztecash, oh my goodness! I'm sorry for the stressful weekend snd roller coaster of emotions (and for the doctor being late ๐ก). But I'm so glad to hear everything looks ok with baby boy! โค
@cait32, ugh! That's so frustrating about your practice suggesting another unnecessary test. I'd be annoyed by that too. My DD had the same type of cyst at her anatomy scan, and they didn't even tell me about it until 4 weeks later at my next regular appointment.ย After being told most go away by 3rd trimester, I asked my doctor if they'd do an ultrasound to check, and she said it wasn't necessary because even if it didn't resove on its own, it's very very unlikely to cause any issues. ETA - I ended up having a later 3rd trimester scan for an unrelated reason, and I actually reminded my doctor and asked her to check to see if it resolved. I honestly think she'd forgotten about it at that point.
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: Chipmunk, pop tart, pomegranate; baby can now hear us talk!ย
Team ๐๐๐: ๐
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Upcoming appointments: Anatomy scan on 2.5 weeks, FINALLY!
How are you feeling?: actually really good, minus the crappy sleep. Kidney pain comes and goes but isnโt as persistent as it was with DD so thatโs nice.ย
Rants/Raves: 6.5 school days left. Thank. God! Then summer school starts. Iโm also up for a potential leadership role and hoping to find out close to the beginning of the summer if I get that. Our current team leaders have both recommended me for the position and I really, really hope admin considers! Rant is that summer school starts literally 4 days after the last day of school, so that really sucks.
Questions: None, but Iโm going to answer the others.ย
@galentine we bought all new nursery furniture (except a glider, we had an extra chair for DDs room), clothes (Iโm basically starting over), nursery decor, and Iโm switching out some of the more super girly toys with a bit more gender neutral tones. All the other stuff we pretty much have.
@madiirosee we have a simple baby trend brand from DD and she used that for three months after she grew out of her bassinet. She still sleeps in it if we travel places. It has a newborn sling/insert thing to have them higher upper when they are younger/smaller.ย
GTKY: chipwich, but add chocolate chips around the outside!
TTC History
Me: 26 DH: 27
TTC #1 | June '18-August '18 | DD | Born April 21, 2019 | Due May 10, 2019
TTC#2 | June '20-February '21 | DS | Due October 27, 2021
@aztecash -- OMG, I would lose my mind. I'm sorry. Glad the doctor was EVENTUALLY reassuring.
@jtayl962 -- Lol, kind of a funny thing for the doctor to say. Ours had no commentary on measurements, though ours is a few days ahead.
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 10/12, 20+0
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: A pint mug, baby is forming meconium, yuck
Team ๐๐๐: ๐
FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM
Upcoming appointments: Thursday AM. Had some questions that MFM couldn't answer, so off to the regular OB I go.
How are you feeling?: Very pleased with my anatomy scan results, everything was good! Bladder issues are steadily increasing, though. Emptying fully is starting to be an issue.
Rants/Raves: Rant -- We're taking a quick 2-night trip this weekend, and I'm really looking forward to getting away. But the temperature is supposed to tank by 25 degrees Saturday and Sunday. ๐ฉ Rave -- Baby boy was great during my anatomy scan yesterday. All normal features (or at least they didn't tell me about anything unusual but harmless, unlike @cait32). However, he had his hands and feet over his face and head wedged in the bottom of my uterus. So the best face view they could get was with the transvaginal wand. I am therefore pleased to announce that we are having a lizard person. We look forward to following his political career in the future.
Questions: Would you buy tickets to an outdoor concert in mid-August? An artist my husband likes will be in the area, and we would really like to do some fun things before the baby is born. But I don't want to get in over my head with the heat and lawn seats, etc.
@noprobalo it depends on where you live and what August weather is like and how expensive the tickets are. I'm un the upper Midwest, so if they were reasonably priced I'd buy em with the huge understanding that I might not go and I might lose that $.
@noprobalo my concerns would be about the weather, getting stuck in my chair due to giant baby bump, and the accessibility of bathrooms. If you can sort out a way to manage all that (e.g., your husband understands he will be helping you in an out of your chair every 20 minutes for you to go pee ๐), no reason not to do it!
madiiroseeย I think this is close to the one we went withย Amazon.com : Graco Pack 'n Play Playard with Cuddle Cove Removable Seat, Glacier : Babyย we accidentally used the napper for a while but once we stopped we liked the changer portion.ย @vampirina yay for camping! Did you tent camp? @galentine we're keeping all of the furniture that is DS' room for baby. So we're buying him a new dresser and bed. Our bike trailer/stroller is a double and SIL gave us her double jogger. So I don't think I'm going to bother with a stroller with the carseat insert for newborn, I'll wear him as often as I can and then we'll hit OH winter. Also going to buy new nursery decor. Maybe a baby swing? We had passed one around family, and other SIL just had a baby so IDK when we'd get that back, they're out of town. @noprobalo I would if you are comfortable with the setting. Are you familiar with the venue, like to get there early pick out a shady spot? DH is fine with leaving earlier if you're over it? We saw Paul McCartney at an indoor arena 8 weeks or so before DS was born. We made a weekend out of it and had a blast. The arena seating was killer though and we left earlier.
@vampirina I expect hot and swampy. I don't think the tickets are too pricey. We'd probably spend more to board the dog for the evening.
@pizzaplz Not sure if this is better or worse, but we'd probably bring a blanket to sit on. We don't have any of those short concert chairs. But I would definitely try to scope out a spot near the bathrooms. ๐
@gingermama46 I've never been to the venue. Not sure whether there is any shade. Good point.
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a whoopie cushion
Team ๐๐๐: ๐ DH got pretty mad at the anatomy scan last Friday when we didn't find out.
FTM/STM/TTM+: TTM
Upcoming appointments: repeat anatomy scan next week
How are you feeling?: I'm feeling great!ย I am at the point where the nausea is infrequent and I am not as tired all the time!
Rants/Raves: rave- DS#1 has been very interested lately with baby.ย He is always asking where the baby's (insert body part) is?ย This morning before work he told me he wanted to set up the baby's bed so that it can sleep when it gets out of my belly!
Questions: DH really wants to know sex, I don't want to know, we didn't find out with our previous 2, so do I give him this one, or stick to my guns? (There is no way he could keep it a secret if only he found out)
GTKY: Strawberry Eclair (we call them strawberry crunch)
@madiirosee I'm no help, we have a couple graco pnps, but never really used them
@galentine I feel like we don't need anything for this baby, but I am itching to buy things so badly!!
@noprobalo I say go for it!ย Would DH be able to go with someone else if you aren't feeling up to it
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 20+3! I canโt believe Iโm 20 weeks !!!!!! Oct 9thย
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: banana!
Team ๐๐๐: Finding out June 3rdย
FTM/STM/TTM+: TTM
Upcoming appointments: June 3rd!ย
How are you feeling?: doing pretty good. Iโve been getting really irritating leg cramps that last all afternoon and evening. Trying to drink a lot of water but sometimes it doesnโt help. I need more bananas maybe! Trying to regularly walk for exercise and the bottoms of my feet ache so bad. Just ordered some new shoes that were recommended for pain in the ball of my foot, which is where most of my pain is, and hoping that helps!ย
Rants/Raves: I was really freaking hoping to have my braces off before the baby was born. Iโve had them on for 2 years + 2 months and it doesnโt sound like theyโll be off by October. Uuuggghhh. What I donโt need with a newborn is to try and find time to go to the orthodontist and have my teeth hurt when Iโm already dealing with all other kinds of pain and recovery!ย
Questions: When do csections usually get scheduled? I canโt even remember. Im going to try and call and see if theyโll schedule early so my mom can get a definitive date and book a flight. Apparently thereโs a sale happening ๐
GTKY: oooh the eclairs !!!ย
@ma@madiirosee thatโs exactly where Iโm at. I feel like Iโm still holding my breath before my anatomy scan and once that goes well then I get let go of that anxiety and fear from my previous losses and really start to believe it and buy things and enjoy this!ย
We used this bassinet for my daughter and she slept in it next to our bed until she was 3 months which is when we moved her to her crib in her room. Neither of my kids would sleep in a PNP until they were solid sleepers like 6-8 months+. I think itโs just too big and spacious. This bassinet is small and my daughter would always inch her way to the edge and sleep with the edge touching her for comfort. And itโs completely flat with no incline option which is perfect!ย
@galentine I think I could handle all the parts of camping minus sleeping in a tent ๐ I guess if I had an RV or pod and air conditioning maybe I could handle it ๐๐ Dh and I were talking about camping close to home and then him and my 5 year old would stay and sleep in a tent and me and my 3 year old would come home and sleep in our beds ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃย
Anatomy scan followed by a much needed date night sounds so perfect !!!!ย
@g@gingermama46 I want allll the ice cream right now ๐คฃ๐คฃ
@c@chindimples04 oh yeah I forgot I bought all new nursery furniture for my daughter. My son kept his crib and the matching dresser/changing table attachment and nightstand, and we got a new crib/dresser/changing attachment/nightstand for my daughter. We also got a second monitor camera, crib mattress obviously for the second crib, bassinet (we got rid of our rock n play that we had used with my son), new burp cloths, new bottle nipples, new binkys (which my daughter refused binkys of all kinds ๐), new bibs, we did all new decor for her nursery... I canโt think of what else we got! I bought a few sweet girls outfits but we have a lot of friends with girls and almost all her clothes were hand me downs.ย
@nopr@noprobalo weโre trying to decide if weโre going to go to an outdoor concert in mid august thats 5 hours away ๐ the tickets were for last summer and this is the rescheduled show. There is shade and cover there though so I wasnโt worried about weather as much as the drive when Iโm 32 weeks pregnant. But I think I havenโt given enough credit to how hot Iโll be while pregnant. I am dying of heat all the time already and itโs 70-80 degrees and cloudy here everyday ๐
@cenz@cenzosmomma Iโd probably give this one to Dh if you were surprised with the first two then it could be a fun and new experience to find out this time!!ย
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a banana!ย
Team ๐๐๐: ๐ย
FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM
Upcoming appointments: Anatomy Scan TOMOOOORRROW! I am so so so excited and also so so so nervous. Send good vibes please!
How are you feeling?: Alright. My discharge is getting out of hand...my midwife suggested "frequent underwear changes" during the day and I was like hmmm how much underwear do you think I have?!?!
Also really bloated and gassy right now for some reason but...finally got a huge shipment of Old Navy maternity clothes in today and I love all of them! Such a relief lol.
Rants/Raves: Rant - I hate baby showers. I hated having to have 2 wedding showers (my family is all in Michigan and DH's family is in West Virginia) and I hate that I have to have 2 baby showers. I do not like attention on me and everyone says I have to have them "because everyone loves to give gifts in person". Do I want people to touch my belly? NOPE. Do I want to open gifts that I didn't even register for because Aunt Karen thought it was "cute" and pretend like I like it? SURE DON'T but here we are.ย
Rave - I had the BEST experience with the PB Kids by our house! We had the most wonderful saleswoman helping us who completely understood that as FTP we had no f*cking clue what we were doing and was so kind and didn't try to oversell us on stuff. I ordered the nursery furniture today and pro tip- if you have a registry with PB kids, you get 20% off nursery furniture so we saved quite a bit of $$$! Also delivery times are nuts and we won't get everything until almost Sept!ย
Questions:ย
GTKY: I would eat an ice cream sandwich for every meal if it wouldn't make me gain 300 pounds. Also this is pre-pregnancy me saying this so its been that way since I was a kid lol we always ate them at our house!ย
@kateshepherd828 Have you been tested for a yeast infection? When I went in for one, my OB said that sometimes they cause increased watery discharge, rather than the usual symptoms.
@kateshepherd828 LMAOOOOO your rant about showers is killing me. I feel the exact same way.ย
Good luck on your anatomy scan, make sure to update! Iโm a FTM too and was so excited but so so anxious too not knowing what to expect. Itโs so fun seeing them in there ๐ฅฐ
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 19w+4d, due 10/15
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: Mango ๐ฅญย
Team ๐๐๐: We find out tomorrow ๐ค
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Upcoming appointments: tomorrow we have our gender US
How are you feeling?: overall pretty good. My sinuses are killlllllin meย
Rants/Raves: SO got a new job in RI he starts soon and it would involve a complete life move for us... well today he got a call for a similar job closer to home that wouldnโt require us to move. Iโm hoping the interview is a hit or a miss so itโll be easy to decide on. We are literally going to RI next week to check out towns
Upcoming appointments: June 1st anatomy scan and June 4th OB appt
How are you feeling?: Iโm feeling pretty anxious and nauseous all the time. Iโm still throwing up 4-6 times a day. All I eat is fruit; itโs all that stays down. ย Iโve been feeling worse this past week and was on the verge of going to the hospital a few days ago.ย
I think I will be insisting a PICC line appt be set up at the hospital after my June 4th appointment. My SO is able to go to the appt with me and I know he doesnโt want to leave without this all set-up. They are very hard to maintain...I mean you have to shoot in heparin, you pull out clots weekly, they can get infected, no lifting anything over 10 pounds, you have to spend a lot of time wrapping it for showers, keeping it clean, etc. Still better than where Iโm at now.
Rants/Raves:
My boobs are straight out of control. I had them done in my mid 20โs before I had my DD and they survived the pregnancy well. They are big but not obnoxious or obviously fake. However, Iโm retaining a lot of water right now and they are up to 32G. This didnโt happen with my DD until my my milk came in.
Iโm going to the dentist in an hour and Iโm very nervous because two rounds of HG have reeked havoc on my back teeth. I definitely canโt wait on getting a few things done and itโs not going to be in our budget. Hopefully somehow we can make it work.
Comments:
ย @noprobalo congrats on the good news during your anatomy scan.
@bcliffee I hope you get the news you want at the scan.
@kateshepherd828 I can relate. It just makes me feel unclean and there isnโt a whole lot that can be done for something that isnโt being caused by a yeast infection or bacteria. I use panty liners and change them a bunch.
GTKY: Iโm not really a chocolate fan so a screwball or creamsicle. Outshine no sugar added popsicles are a daily thing for me.
@mac-n-cheesy Thank you. I hope your dentist is able to work with you, and you get your PICC placement squared away. I've been thinking about you and wondering how anyone could cope with what you're going through.
@madiirosee UGH I just feel so strongly against them hahahahaha itโs a rant that has been building up since my first wedding shower like 2.5 years ago... and it went awesome today!!!! We actually found out the gender just because we couldnโt handle her turning off the screen because we didnโt want to miss a second of seeing the baby. Itโll be a fun secret for just the two of us to keep until October unless one of us slips up!ย
@kateshepherd828 I didn't have anything except the thin discharge and then a little bit of blood one day. I don't think it was a particularly bad infection since symptoms were minimal, but the blood worried me, so I went in and they checked. But if it's really annoying you or changes for the worse, might be worth asking.
@kitandcat I take magnesium for leg cramps and they haven't been too bad so far!
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 10/15, 20+1
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: A Beanie Baby!
Team ๐๐๐: ๐
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Upcoming appointments: I had my anatomy scan on Monday, and baby ALMOST didn't show his heart so I would have gotten an extra scan. Darn MFM got it at the last second!ย Since I was having such trouble with a rapid hb, my OB had ordered an EKG like maybe a month ago? I never heard back so when I followed up this time it took her a million years to find the test in the comp, and it was borderline abnormal! So I have a cardiologist appt next week.ย
How are you feeling?: Pretty good, but the OB I saw on Mon (not my usual) wants me to go back on thyroid meds. That's what I suspect gave me the tachycardia.ย
Rants/Raves: Can't think of anything right now beyond the crappy weather this weekend. Oh and I hesitated on the power wheels I was going to get DS for his bday next month and now it's sold out. I can have it shipped to me for an extra $120 though! Grrrr
Re: weekly check in w/o 5.24
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: babyโs palm is the size of an altoid!ย
Team ๐๐๐: ๐
FTM/STM/TTM+: First timeย
Upcoming appointments: my next midwife visit is 6/17. Pretty sure Iโll be doing the glucose test ๐
How are you feeling?: really good! Just tired, and short of breath.ย
Rants/Raves: after a great anatomy scan Friday I finally feel I can let go of my previous loss fears and just enjoy getting things ready for baby. Picked out our nursery accent wall paint color this weekend, and also purchased our stroller and car seat! I did splurge and get her some cute outfits and some stuffed elephants too ๐ฅฐย
Rant- trying to figure out how to convince my stepdad to get covid vaccinated before baby comes. Heโs extremely stubborn and feels like the government is just telling him what to do ๐ sighย
Questions: what pack n plays have been your favorite if youโve already had a kid or multiple?ย
GTKY: oh gosh. Iโm gonna have to go with the strawberry eclair. Those crumbles on top are just the best ๐ค
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: Gameboy
Team ๐๐๐: ๐
FTM/STM/TTM+: 4tm
Upcoming appointments: June 24 (glucose as well)
How are you feeling?: Good!
Rants/Raves: Excited we found out we're having a girl!
Questions: none
GTKY: creamsicle ๐คค
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days:ย 18 +2
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: artichoke, weighs as much as a hamster
Team ๐๐๐: ๐
FTM/STM/TTM+: TTM
Upcoming appointments: none this week
How are you feeling?: good overall.ย I still have terrible food aversion and my energy gets depleted fairly easily.ย
Rants/Raves: camping this weekend was SO FUN but we were all so worn out when we got home yesterday. DH was so cranky and was wearing on me.ย ย
Questions:
GTKY:ย King Cone from this list but I will.never turn down a bubble play if its on the ice cream man's menu.
@vampirina, camping sound so exhausting right now! I don't know how you do it!
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: Oct 29 // 17w3d
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: size of a chipmunk ๐ฟ
Team ๐๐๐: GREEN! (and still can't believe it)
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Upcoming appointments: anatomy scan in 3 weeks
How are you feeling?: pretty great, minus a few headaches here and there
Rants/Raves:
Rave: I CANNOT WAIT for my anatomy scan. My H gets to come (he hasn't been to any of my appointments yet this time ๐ญ). I scheduled it for 5pm, and we are going to have a date night and go out for dinner afterwards. My mom is going to babysit my DD and I am SO FREAKING EXCITED. My H and I have not had a date night since DD was born (20 months ago). Between being an anxious FTM and then the pandemic hitting, we just haven't felt comfortable going anywhere or leaving DD with family (since she is in daycare and exposed to germs). My mom is vaccinated so we are finally doing this and I'm so excited. I'm basically counting the days. First date night with my husband in almost TWO YEARS!!!
Questions: for the STM and up crowd, what are you buying new for this baby? So far my list is: new crib, dresser, nursery decor, changing pad cover, 2nd camera for monitor, 2nd sound machine, and (eventually maybe, if necessary) some more traditionally "boy" clothes. Otherwise, I think we have it all?
GTKY: a king cone! Aaaaaaand now I need one!ย
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a sweet potatoย
Team ๐๐๐:๐
FTM/STM/TTM+:FTM
Upcoming appointments: June 2nd
How are you feeling?: good still nausea here and there
Rants/Raves:I had my anatomy today. Baby girl is measuring small but DH and I are not tall people. The doctor looked at both of us and said no wonder baby is a little small cause you both are not big.ย
Questions:none this week
GTKY: screwball
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a mango, and the vernix is developing
Team ๐๐๐: ๐
FTM/STM/TTM+: stm
Upcoming appointments: anatomy scan on Friday! ๐
How are you feeling?: Tired, random morning sickness here and there but I'm managing just fine ๐
Rants/Raves: We're going to the beach for a few days on Sunday. I know it's Memorial Day weekend and it will probably be crazy, but I'm looking forward to being able to go out on the beach in the evening and early morning! Plus, my daughter was so cute at the beach last month; I can't wait to take her again ๐
Questions: ๐คท๐ผโโ๏ธ @galentine I bought a new car seat for this baby, as my daughter is still using the one we would otherwise use for him. I'll probably get him some clothes, too. I'm looking at bedside bassinets, but I want to wait a bit and see if it's even something we'll need. He might be totally fine sleeping farther away from us (very unlike my daughter); in that case, we'd stick with the pack n play until we move him out of our room. I'm considering a double stroller, but we'll probably just wear him as long as possible, so I'm going to wait and see on that one too.
GTKY: ice cream sandwich or king cone. Or chipwich, why not.
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: Axolotl, he's sprouting teeth buds
Team ๐๐๐: ๐
FTM/STM/TTM+: stm
Upcoming appointments: just finished a phone appointment
How are you feeling?: so flipping relieved!ย
Rants/Raves: (sorry for the novel) - I had my anatomy scan on Thursday and got the results that evening, which said abnormal heart and kidneys, and a genetic counselor had been contacted, but nothing else. I freaked out the whole weekend about the results, then the random Dr, not even my Dr, was 45 minutes late calling me for my appointment. When he finally called, he told me that the kidney tube issue was pretty common, and the baby would likely grow into it. There was a bright spot on the heart that has nothing to do with the structure of the heart, but can be a marker for Down Syndrome. In the absence of any other markers and with a negative NIPT, chromosomal abnormalities have been ruled out. The bright spots are aparently more common with Asian babies, and DH is half Pacific Islander, so maybe that has something to do with it. I'll need a repeat anatomy scan at the beginning of 3rd Tri to check on the kidney issue, but this is the best possible news I could have received today! Oh, and all his measurments are within a day or two of my EDD except his femurs which are measuring almost two weeks ahead. This kid is going to be tall!
Questions:
GTKY: chipwich is my jam! Honorable mention to creamsicles though.
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: pint of ice cream, which feels appropriate
Team ๐๐๐: ๐
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Upcoming appointments: Next Tuesday for anatomy scan and also 20 week appointment
How are you feeling?: Pretty good, just tired. Took two naps yesterday.
Rants/Raves: Rave, we had a really fun and relaxing weekend, spent lots of time outside. Rant, with all the time outside and how bad the pollen has been my allergies are not having it.
Questions:
GTKY:ย Ice cream sandwich all the way.
@cait32, ugh! That's so frustrating about your practice suggesting another unnecessary test. I'd be annoyed by that too. My DD had the same type of cyst at her anatomy scan, and they didn't even tell me about it until 4 weeks later at my next regular appointment.ย After being told most go away by 3rd trimester, I asked my doctor if they'd do an ultrasound to check, and she said it wasn't necessary because even if it didn't resove on its own, it's very very unlikely to cause any issues. ETA - I ended up having a later 3rd trimester scan for an unrelated reason, and I actually reminded my doctor and asked her to check to see if it resolved. I honestly think she'd forgotten about it at that point.
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: Chipmunk, pop tart, pomegranate; baby can now hear us talk!ย
Team ๐๐๐: ๐
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Upcoming appointments: Anatomy scan on 2.5 weeks, FINALLY!
How are you feeling?: actually really good, minus the crappy sleep. Kidney pain comes and goes but isnโt as persistent as it was with DD so thatโs nice.ย
Rants/Raves: 6.5 school days left. Thank. God! Then summer school starts. Iโm also up for a potential leadership role and hoping to find out close to the beginning of the summer if I get that. Our current team leaders have both recommended me for the position and I really, really hope admin considers! Rant is that summer school starts literally 4 days after the last day of school, so that really sucks.
Questions: None, but Iโm going to answer the others.ย
@galentine we bought all new nursery furniture (except a glider, we had an extra chair for DDs room), clothes (Iโm basically starting over), nursery decor, and Iโm switching out some of the more super girly toys with a bit more gender neutral tones. All the other stuff we pretty much have.
@madiirosee we have a simple baby trend brand from DD and she used that for three months after she grew out of her bassinet. She still sleeps in it if we travel places. It has a newborn sling/insert thing to have them higher upper when they are younger/smaller.ย
GTKY: chipwich, but add chocolate chips around the outside!
Me: 26 DH: 27
TTC #1 | June '18-August '18 | DD | Born April 21, 2019 | Due May 10, 2019
TTC#2 | June '20-February '21 | DS | Due October 27, 2021
@jtayl962 -- Lol, kind of a funny thing for the doctor to say. Ours had no commentary on measurements, though ours is a few days ahead.
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 10/12, 20+0
@vampirina yay for camping! Did you tent camp?
@galentine we're keeping all of the furniture that is DS' room for baby. So we're buying him a new dresser and bed. Our bike trailer/stroller is a double and SIL gave us her double jogger. So I don't think I'm going to bother with a stroller with the carseat insert for newborn, I'll wear him as often as I can and then we'll hit OH winter. Also going to buy new nursery decor. Maybe a baby swing? We had passed one around family, and other SIL just had a baby so IDK when we'd get that back, they're out of town.
@noprobalo I would if you are comfortable with the setting. Are you familiar with the venue, like to get there early pick out a shady spot? DH is fine with leaving earlier if you're over it? We saw Paul McCartney at an indoor arena 8 weeks or so before DS was born. We made a weekend out of it and had a blast. The arena seating was killer though and we left earlier.
@pizzaplz Not sure if this is better or worse, but we'd probably bring a blanket to sit on. We don't have any of those short concert chairs. But I would definitely try to scope out a spot near the bathrooms. ๐
@gingermama46 I've never been to the venue. Not sure whether there is any shade. Good point.
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a whoopie cushion
Team ๐๐๐: ๐ DH got pretty mad at the anatomy scan last Friday when we didn't find out.
FTM/STM/TTM+: TTM
Upcoming appointments: repeat anatomy scan next week
How are you feeling?: I'm feeling great!ย I am at the point where the nausea is infrequent and I am not as tired all the time!
Rants/Raves: rave- DS#1 has been very interested lately with baby.ย He is always asking where the baby's (insert body part) is?ย This morning before work he told me he wanted to set up the baby's bed so that it can sleep when it gets out of my belly!
Questions: DH really wants to know sex, I don't want to know, we didn't find out with our previous 2, so do I give him this one, or stick to my guns? (There is no way he could keep it a secret if only he found out)
GTKY: Strawberry Eclair (we call them strawberry crunch)
@madiirosee I'm no help, we have a couple graco pnps, but never really used them
@galentine I feel like we don't need anything for this baby, but I am itching to buy things so badly!!
@noprobalo I say go for it!ย Would DH be able to go with someone else if you aren't feeling up to it
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: banana!
Team ๐๐๐: Finding out June 3rdย
FTM/STM/TTM+: TTM
Upcoming appointments: June 3rd!ย
How are you feeling?: doing pretty good. Iโve been getting really irritating leg cramps that last all afternoon and evening. Trying to drink a lot of water but sometimes it doesnโt help. I need more bananas maybe! Trying to regularly walk for exercise and the bottoms of my feet ache so bad. Just ordered some new shoes that were recommended for pain in the ball of my foot, which is where most of my pain is, and hoping that helps!ย
Rants/Raves: I was really freaking hoping to have my braces off before the baby was born. Iโve had them on for 2 years + 2 months and it doesnโt sound like theyโll be off by October. Uuuggghhh. What I donโt need with a newborn is to try and find time to go to the orthodontist and have my teeth hurt when Iโm already dealing with all other kinds of pain and recovery!ย
Questions: When do csections usually get scheduled? I canโt even remember. Im going to try and call and see if theyโll schedule early so my mom can get a definitive date and book a flight. Apparently thereโs a sale happening ๐
GTKY: oooh the eclairs !!!ย
@ma@madiirosee thatโs exactly where Iโm at. I feel like Iโm still holding my breath before my anatomy scan and once that goes well then I get let go of that anxiety and fear from my previous losses and really start to believe it and buy things and enjoy this!ย
We used this bassinet for my daughter and she slept in it next to our bed until she was 3 months which is when we moved her to her crib in her room. Neither of my kids would sleep in a PNP until they were solid sleepers like 6-8 months+. I think itโs just too big and spacious. This bassinet is small and my daughter would always inch her way to the edge and sleep with the edge touching her for comfort. And itโs completely flat with no incline option which is perfect!ย
@c@chindimples04 oh yeah I forgot I bought all new nursery furniture for my daughter. My son kept his crib and the matching dresser/changing table attachment and nightstand, and we got a new crib/dresser/changing attachment/nightstand for my daughter. We also got a second monitor camera, crib mattress obviously for the second crib, bassinet (we got rid of our rock n play that we had used with my son), new burp cloths, new bottle nipples, new binkys (which my daughter refused binkys of all kinds ๐), new bibs, we did all new decor for her nursery... I canโt think of what else we got! I bought a few sweet girls outfits but we have a lot of friends with girls and almost all her clothes were hand me downs.ย
@cenz@cenzosmomma Iโd probably give this one to Dh
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a banana!ย
Team ๐๐๐: ๐ย
FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM
Upcoming appointments: Anatomy Scan TOMOOOORRROW! I am so so so excited and also so so so nervous. Send good vibes please!
How are you feeling?: Alright. My discharge is getting out of hand...my midwife suggested "frequent underwear changes" during the day and I was like hmmm how much underwear do you think I have?!?!
Also really bloated and gassy right now for some reason but...finally got a huge shipment of Old Navy maternity clothes in today and I love all of them! Such a relief lol.
Rants/Raves: Rant - I hate baby showers. I hated having to have 2 wedding showers (my family is all in Michigan and DH's family is in West Virginia) and I hate that I have to have 2 baby showers. I do not like attention on me and everyone says I have to have them "because everyone loves to give gifts in person". Do I want people to touch my belly? NOPE. Do I want to open gifts that I didn't even register for because Aunt Karen thought it was "cute" and pretend like I like it? SURE DON'T but here we are.ย
Rave - I had the BEST experience with the PB Kids by our house! We had the most wonderful saleswoman helping us who completely understood that as FTP we had no f*cking clue what we were doing and was so kind and didn't try to oversell us on stuff. I ordered the nursery furniture today and pro tip- if you have a registry with PB kids, you get 20% off nursery furniture so we saved quite a bit of $$$! Also delivery times are nuts and we won't get everything until almost Sept!ย
Questions:ย
GTKY: I would eat an ice cream sandwich for every meal if it wouldn't make me gain 300 pounds. Also this is pre-pregnancy me saying this so its been that way since I was a kid lol we always ate them at our house!ย
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: Mango ๐ฅญย
Team ๐๐๐: We find out tomorrow ๐ค
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Upcoming appointments: tomorrow we have our gender US
How are you feeling?: overall pretty good. My sinuses are killlllllin meย
Rants/Raves: SO got a new job in RI he starts soon and it would involve a complete life move for us... well today he got a call for a similar job closer to home that wouldnโt require us to move. Iโm hoping the interview is a hit or a miss so itโll be easy to decide on. We are literally going to RI next week to check out towns
Questions: NA
GTKY: canโt go wrong with a choco tacoย
Baby is the size of: ๐ฅญ or a๐ญย
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FTM/STM/TTM+: STM, 5 year old daughter.
Upcoming appointments: June 1st anatomy scan and June 4th OB appt
How are you feeling?: Iโm feeling pretty anxious and nauseous all the time. Iโm still throwing up 4-6 times a day. All I eat is fruit; itโs all that stays down. ย Iโve been feeling worse this past week and was on the verge of going to the hospital a few days ago.ย
I think I will be insisting a PICC line appt be set up at the hospital after my June 4th appointment. My SO is able to go to the appt with me and I know he doesnโt want to leave without this all set-up. They are very hard to maintain...I mean you have to shoot in heparin, you pull out clots weekly, they can get infected, no lifting anything over 10 pounds, you have to spend a lot of time wrapping it for showers, keeping it clean, etc. Still better than where Iโm at now.
Rants/Raves:
My boobs are straight out of control. I had them done in my mid 20โs before I had my DD and they survived the pregnancy well. They are big but not obnoxious or obviously fake. However, Iโm retaining a lot of water right now and they are up to 32G. This didnโt happen with my DD until my my milk came in.
Iโm going to the dentist in an hour and Iโm very nervous because two rounds of HG have reeked havoc on my back teeth. I definitely canโt wait on getting a few things done and itโs not going to be in our budget. Hopefully somehow we can make it work.
Comments:
ย @noprobalo congrats on the good news during your anatomy scan.
@bcliffee I hope you get the news you want at the scan.
@kateshepherd828 I can relate. It just makes me feel unclean and there isnโt a whole lot that can be done for something that isnโt being caused by a yeast infection or bacteria. I use panty liners and change them a bunch.
GTKY: Iโm not really a chocolate fan so a screwball or creamsicle. Outshine no sugar added popsicles are a daily thing for me.
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 10/15, 20+1
Since I was having such trouble with a rapid hb, my OB had ordered an EKG like maybe a month ago? I never heard back so when I followed up this time it took her a million years to find the test in the comp, and it was borderline abnormal! So I have a cardiologist appt next week.ย
Questions:ย