Hi!
I wanted to see if anyone had luck requesting an elective c-section? I was sexually abused as a child and the thought of giving birth vaginally and all of those hands in me for hours/days on end in the hospital really makes me sick to my stomach. I have been to therapy for years but honestly I think it is best to go a c section route. Anyone have luck with this?
Re: Elective C section?
Not being rude or cold-hearted, but doctor hands are not in you for hours and days. They are very quick single/double inserts and thats it. Lasts less than 8 seconds. And that is just periodic if you are in labor for a long time, and initial check in (that was my case).
Just as a heads up, though. Do be prepared that even on routine checkups towards the end they do ask to check for dilation - for my weekly appointments they did.
Honestly during labor, for me, it was minimal checking and a lot of looking no touching unless necessary. That was my experience though.
Best wishes.
Please do talk to your provider.
The second thing is to make sure your insurance will cover an elective c section. I’ve heard stories of some mothers being stuck with a huge bill for choosing a c section without a medical necessity. You may be able to get it approved from a mental health angle, but it may require more paperwork.
I’m so sorry this is affecting your pregnancy and delivery experience and I hope you have a great delivery.