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TWW Thursday 4/1

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</div><div>Month/Cycle: </div><div>
</div><div>CD/DPO: </div><div>
</div><div>Timing: </div><div>
</div><div>Typical LP length: </div><div>
</div><div>Testing: </div><div>
</div><div>R/R: </div><div>
</div><div>CS/Q: </div>

Re: TWW Thursday 4/1

  • bows22bows22 member
    edited April 2021

    Month/Cycle: 28/31

    CD/DPO: 26/12

    Timing: -2,O

    Typical LP length: At least 11 this cycle so yay 

    Testing: BFN today

    R/R: Work is my rant.

    CS/Q:

    Edit because the internet is forever 

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  • oh also @fameonmain2 if you read this, I sent you a PM. Hope all is well friend!
  • @bows22. I'm sorry for the BFN, but glad your LP seems to be lengthening?  Ughh the work stress does not sound like fun.  GL with that; it sounds like you did the right thing, standing up for yourself.


     

    Month/Cycle: Testing (SHG)<div>
    </div><div>CD/DPO:  18/4</div><div>
    </div><div>Timing: N/A  Although, FF appears to have moved my expected CD1 from Sunday, April 11 to Monday, April 12, so we'll see what that may end up translating to for transfer.</div><div>
    </div><div>Typical LP length: 13 - although that's mostly based on historical data since I haven't been tracking O for a while now.</div><div>
    </div><div>Testing:  N/A</div><div>
    </div><div>R/R:  Groceries are coming today!!!  I have my work cut out for me with all the Easter baking I had in mind... Now if I could only find a little energy. 😅</div><div>
    </div><div class="Spoiler">CS/Q: If you saw my WTO posts, you already know my temps have been dumb.  Hoping if I commit to a set temp time this cycle I'll get a little more meaningful data, because it's possibly only going to cause more stress, rather than alleviate it, which is the point.  Having a natural cycle to prepare for and follow my own ovulation + trigger, with all the morning monitoring, always has a bit of stress and uncertainty to it... So hopefully charting can give me some illusion of control, 😂😂😂 or at least peace of mind that I'm personally keeping an eye on things.

    <img src="https://us.v-cdn.net/5020794/uploads/editor/7e/2snwh6436pzb.jpg" alt=""></div>
  • Month/Cycle: 5/5

    CD/DPO: 19/4

    Timing: -2, -1, O

    Typical LP length: 13 or 14 

    Testing: Not yet for me, but MH went for his SA this week!

    R/R: Rave -  As of this week MH and I both have our first COVID shots. A huge weight off of my mind. Not being able to socialize, eat out, etc. has made finding ways to distract myself during the TWW difficult. The weather is also starting to turn where we live, so I'm also getting back into my gardening :)

    Hope everyone is having a good week!
  • @bows22 I do remember your work drama from last year. I’m sorry that it’s repeating. Question for you: at this point, would you consider making a job change if they don’t make the changes you’re requesting? I know that you really love your job and with that pay cut/less hours arrangement it should typically be an ideal situation as you look to extend family, but this is just plain ridiculous! Good luck! Also, 👎🏻 for the BFN. Do you know what kind of testing your old Re is having you do?

    @BusinessWife Sounds like you’ve got a busy busy end of week/weekend ahead of you! Good luck! As for charting, I totally get what you mean re: grasping at whatever it is you can control. I hope it gives your some stress relief!

    @hepalien42 welcome to TWW! Our paths haven’t meaningfully crossed yet but I’m looking forward to getting to know you! Congrats on getting the first dose! I got mine 2 weeks ago and my second shot is coming up on 4/10. Also, 🤞🏻with SA!

    Month/Cycle: 16/15

    CD/DPO: 19/7

    Timing: -3, -1(IUI), O(IUI), +1 

    Typical LP length: 15-17 depending on when I stop progesterone 

    Testing: 12DPO (or sooner 😹😹😹)

    R/R: only raves today!  I woke up super early today and was determined to make it to the top of the mountain we live on to catch the sunrise. So, enjoy a shot of sun rising over SF in my CS/Q section. 

    Also got some blood work done yesterday (continuing my little research that I spoke about in IF thread a few weeks ago) and - holy cannoli - my progesterone was at 54.1! Sounds like all 4 of my corpus luteums are working. Plus Endometrin supplement is too. Also got my Vit D rechecked, which was low in late December (30; down from 33 in July and I was actually taking 5000IU supplement between July and December!) and it’s up to 48! My doctor likes it AT least >40 and even closer to 60 if doing IVF. So yay! 

    Final rave: I got a performance based raise yesterday (kicks in today) and it’s apparently the highest I could get without a promo and my manager also said that I’m well on my way to a promo next review cycle in Q3! 

    CS/Q: temps popped right up today but it’s been really warm in SF and - as always - last 2 temps are subject to change. 





    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
    Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
    May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
    Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
    Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
    Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
    Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
    Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
    Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
    May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


  • Oh that's beautiful! @acleverusername Thanks for sharing that pic!  And Congrats on the raise. ;) 

    @hepalien42 GL with YHs SA.  How soon do you expect to hear back?
  • @acleverusername Thank you! Everyone I have interacted with so far is so warm and welcoming. The view from your hike looks gorgeous! I'm looking forward to doing some hiking myself once we finally are consistently a little warmer here in the northeast. We went from 70 to snowflakes this week.

    @BusinessWife Thank you! I think he was a little nervous, so he forgot to ask about the ETA of results. We're going to give them a call if we don't hear anything in the next few days. What are you baking for this Easter? I was thinking about making a fruit tart for our family brunch.
  • @hepalien42  ooh!  Fruit tart sounds splendid!  I have a cute little sugar cookie recipe I made last year where the cookies look like pastel colored rainbow eggs?  The same site has like a chocolate chip cookie where she uses those cadbury candy shell eggs (which I love), so I want to try that as well.  I also have some pretty sprinkle-covered blossom cookies, I was thinking about making PB and chocolate varieties, as well as carrot cake muffins with real cream cheese icing, and classic jelly bean garnish.  The <i>piece de resistance</i> I *really* wanted to make though is the poppy seed roll cake, which I have never made.  So I feel like I should probably get the ball rolling here, because I have my work cut out for me!
  • bows22bows22 member
    edited April 2021
    @acleverusername I’m not totally opposed to a new job but it would have to be the right opportunity because I will never have the flexibility anywhere else that I have with this job which is so valuable. So we will see. And my doc wants to repeat CD3 labs and do an SHG just to see what’s happening. Anyway, enough about me - glad everything is still going swimmingly this cycle and your work raise is amazing! Are you testing out the trigger this cycle?

    Edited work drama 
  • @bows22 I am sorry that you're in this predicaments. Good for you for standing up for yourself; hopefully the right path will be revealed to you ASAP! Good luck with testing coming up! Though I keep hoping that you won't need it. AFM, yep, I tested out the trigger; I got a blank strip on 5&6DPO, so I've stopped testing for now. Will try and hold off until 12DPO at this point. 

    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
    Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
    May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
    Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
    Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
    Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
    Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
    Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
    Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
    May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


  • @bows22 So sorry for the bfn, and for the unbalanced workload. But GOOD FOR YOU for sending that email standing up for yourself!! I’m proud of you. 👏🏽 

    @businesswife Good luck with the temping and tracking. Hope it does give you some sense of control and it isn’t too stressful. 

    @hepalien42 Yay for vaccines giving you peace of mind! Enjoy getting outdoors and into that nice weather. 

    @acleverusername Congrats on the raise and the bloodwork! Those numbers sound great. Glad your Vit. D is on the rise—that’s so important. It’s funny: I also did my own little “experiment” and got blood drawn the other day: progesterone came back at 47, so hoping the things I’m doing are enough.🙂

    Month/Cycle: 34/?

    CD/DPO: 19/5

    Timing: -2 + IUI, -1

    Typical LP length: 13ish

    Testing: Early next week 

    R/R: Rave: I got 8 hours of heavenly sleep last night! That hasn’t happened in awhile. Also, the sun is shining so I may go take a quick walk before sitting down to Zoom meetings for hours this afternoon. 

    CS/Q: Temp went back up as expected. 



  • @keikilove I hope you got to go on your walk! This is the message in the dove egg I just ate - it’s snowing here so you will have to do it for me 



  • @keikilove hooray for experiments! You P4 is 👌🏻. How are you supplementing this cycle? Glad you finally got some good sleep; that sounds heavenly! Temps looking good... 🤞🏻

    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
    Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
    May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
    Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
    Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
    Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
    Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
    Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
    Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
    May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


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