April 2021 Moms

All due date check-in wo 2/8

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Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of:

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GTKY: What is the most ridiculous thing/advice/comment someone has said to you about your pregnancy?

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  • edited February 2021
    Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 30w3d, April 16, potential eviction date Mar 26.

    FTM/STM/STM+: 4TM

    Team Green/Pink/Blue: PINK PINK PINK

    Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: Shite... Broccoli, I think? 

    Upcoming appointments: MFM today, OB Weds, COVID-19 vaccine Friday. 

    How are you feeling?: Tired. And my belly started itching. And achy

    Rants/Raves:  we bought a new couch!!! 

    Questions: other moms who were IUGR, did you find yourself anxious ahead of every scan and counting down until your goal date? I'm on the edge of every appt wondering if this time there going to be like, OK... We're delivering this baby. If she's developing normal, but small... They will just leave her in right? They'll only pull her out before 35w (my goal) if she in distress? SOs nephew was severely growth restricted and they yanked him at 33w. He weight just over 2lbs. (Zoe is already close to 3)

    GTKY: What is the most ridiculous thing/advice/comment someone has said to you about your pregnancy? With my last pregnancy I was told that there would be something wrong because I'm over 40 and the tests were wrong and don't work. Shockingly, the tests were correct, and everything was fine. THIS pregnancy, SO got asked why we would consider doing such a thing at our age, and was it planned? 

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  • Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 5/1, 28 +2

    FTM/STM/STM+: 4TM

    Team Green/Pink/Blue: Green

    Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a cotton candy or an eggplant 

    Upcoming appointments: 30 week checkup on 2/23

    How are you feeling?: still hanging out at “fat and tired”

    Rants/Raves: As of today we are flying solo, both WFH without childcare.  Disney + is getting a lot of action.  

    Questions: none

    GTKY: What is the most ridiculous thing/advice/comment someone has said to you about your pregnancy?

    I don’t think I’ve really even been around anyone to get ridiculous comments this time?  The most ridiculous / offensive thing anyone ever said to me with my first (twins) was having their #1 question be “were you using fertility drugs?”.  First of all, no.  Second of all, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with it if we had, so why are you asking, and it is no one’s business. 

  • Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 29 w 5 d / April 21, 2021

    FTM/STM/STM+: FTM

    Team Green/Pink/Blue: Found out

    Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: An Acorn Squash

    Upcoming appointments: February 24th - checkup

    How are you feeling?: Tired always, can't sleep through the night to save my life, and am always achy. The next person who tells me to "rest while I can" is going to get an earful lol. 

    Rants/Raves: Nothing that immediately comes to mind. My husband just made me a really good grilled cheese for lunch?

    Questions: NATM

    GTKY: What is the most ridiculous thing/advice/comment someone has said to you about your pregnancy? Nothing that I can really think of, other than my friend telling me not to eat whatever I wanted because I'd never be able to lose the baby weight if I did. Super comforting lol. 

  • Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: I'll be 30 weeks tomorrow

    FTM/STM/STM+: third time mom

    Team Green/Pink/Blue: boy

    Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: not sure, looking huge though so basically a watermelon

    Upcoming appointments: remote visit on 2/24, uneventful stretch for me (hopefully, of course)

    How are you feeling?: pretty good right now over all, just feels like my belly is absolutely going to explode already so not sure how I'll make it another 10 weeks

    Rants/Raves: I'm majorly struggling to put on socks/shoes and to get up from the couch (or whatever thing my kids having me sitting on...floor, nugget, kid size chairs, etc.). Also getting very difficult to help them get dressed or help change my son's diaper. My stomach is just very, very in the way.

    Questions: Nothing. I'm very much in a boring phase right now. I don't have biweekly appointments for a while yet.

    GTKY: What is the most ridiculous thing/advice/comment someone has said to you about your pregnancy? lol I've heard a lot of doozies. Recently was my mom commenting about me getting my hair done. EYE ROLL. No one has started giving me unsolicited advice about how to start labor naturally this time, but with both DD and DS I heard every single thing imaginable. Try X, try Y, try Z, it worked for me! SUPREME EYE ROLL.

  • Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 29 weeks DD 4/26

    FTM/STM/STM+: STM

    Team Green/Pink/Blue: Pink

    Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: Acorn squash but can't we just start comparing them to little animals since they move around so much? 

    Upcoming appointments: 3/2 (after we will start our bi monthly appointments)

    How are you feeling?: Oh man.  Really not too good.  The weather here has been crap, really cold and windy.  The weekends are when I like to get outside and exercise but we didn't this weekend because of the weather.  Since I usually go to my yoga studio or swim to exercise during the cold months (and can't due to the shutdown/covid) I am really neglecting my body.   Getting more anxious and depressed (I think because of the lack of movement and endorphins).  This weekend every night I have woken up at least 4 times (urge to pee and snoring husband) and couldn't get back to sleep.  Oh and my third trimester sciatica is developing.  I will try and schedule some nordic skiiing with my mom next weekend.  

    Rants/Raves: Rant-my husband has been really sweet and lovey dovey lately, which is really nice but I also feel bad because I have zero sex drive (all penetration is extremely uncomfortable at this point and every position makes me feel like a beached whale sorry if TMI). Rave- I can't believe we will see our babies so soon! 

    Questions: None. 

    GTKY: What is the most ridiculous thing/advice/comment someone has said to you about your pregnancy? When I was pregnant with DD1 my mother in law told me that I couldn't lift anything in the first trimester or I would miscarry.  I feel like this is just a wives tale no? I have lifted tons of things throughout my pregnancies and the worst thing that has happened is that I overstretched an ab muscle.  

  • @kvh22 haha it definitely didn't make me feel great, although I think (deep down) it was coming from a place of love? And definitely from her own experience which she struggled a lot with, so I get it in some ways. I feel like the one positive thing about quarantine for me personally is that I haven't had to deal with the "you look ready to pop!" or "you look like you're having twins!" comments - people really need to think before they speak!! Side note - not only are we apparently geographically close, but we have the same due date! I just noticed! What a coincidence! 

    @aguamala I so feel you re: sex drive. My husband constantly tells me that I'm attractive and really goes out of his way to make me feel loved even when I feel like I look like a troll, which you would think would be a real turn on. But I have ZERO desire (and really haven't for a WHILE) to have sex. I feel guilty about it, but also I remind myself that I'm growing a human and so I'm ok with it most of the time. 

  • edited February 2021
    @aquamala, I've always had a really high sex drive while pregnant. I have ZERO drive this time. I'm so tired and fat and miserable. I rally for my partner, and am never left unsatisfie,  but I could easily go without the whole pregnancy. I'm not on pelvic rest with my IUGR diagnosis, but I know he's paranoid about hurting the baby, and I'm not going to dissuade him from abstaining. I'd rather sleep. 
  • @anarmillay92918 I noticed that and meant to mention it but forgot when my tags and post in general got so long.

    My first pregnancy my sex drive was almost non-existent. Not the case for these last two although I was on pelvic rest with my subchroionic hematoma for 12 weeks with my second and was getting yeast infections (for the first and only time in my life - never had one before and has been fine since) so there were large chunks of time when we couldn't do anything last pregnancy.

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  • @kvh22 Interesting! Maybe the breaks from it increased your drive? With my first pregnancy I had more of a drive but I think it's because 1. I was younger/didn't already have a toddler 2. we were long distance up until my 3rd trimester.  
  • Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 31 Weeks Tomorrow, April 13 

    FTM/STM/STM+: FTM

    Team Green/Pink/Blue: Blue💙

    Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: asparagus tomorrow

    Upcoming appointments: Feb 11th with my GD doc  

    How are you feeling?: exhausted but I’m moving this week

    Rants/Raves: am I the only one that HATES when family members say “you’re so big!!” 

    It drives me nuts.

    Questions: none ATM. 

    GTKY: What is the most ridiculous thing/advice/comment someone has said to you about your pregnancy? 

    I haven’t had too many comments, mostly because I work from home and didn’t start visibly showing until about 28 weeks. But it seems now that everywhere I go, strangers are asking me about my pregnancy. I was shopping at Target and the cashier stopped ringing up my items to give me advice on how to take care of my baby. 🙄


  • @jaida01 that does drive me crazy! “Oh wow, you’re growing!” Oh am I?! I hadn’t noticed! 🤦🏻‍♀️
  • @kvh22 today I took the morning shift, and my husband the afternoon. Mine was uneventful, I guess my husband had to deal with changing a poopy diaper and getting balls thrown at his head while he was on a video call. 
  • Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: Due date is 4/4, but apparently scheduling induction for week of 3/26! (currently 32+1)

    FTM/STM/STM+: FTM

    Team Green/Pink/Blue: Team Green

    Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a license plate? haha

    Upcoming appointments: Today was 32 week ultrasound and OB appointment, tomorrow is PT and acupuncture, NST + fluid check on Wednesday. Almost at weekly OB appointments which is crazy! 

    How are you feeling?: Since I started the metformin, my blood sugar numbers have been decreasing, which has me feeling way less stressed and much better! I've been having back pain and hip pain. DH keeps teasing me that every day I say a different body part "feels like it's out of its socket" but it does! haha, my hip, my shoulder, my wrist - literally a different body part all the time, but I just feel out of sorts constantly. 

    Rants/Raves: Major rant - I went to CVS to pick up refills of my test strips and my lancets for testing my blood sugar. The pharmacist told me that they had the test strips in stock but had to order the lancets and I could pick them up in 2 days. Two days later, I sent DH to pick them up. He went through the driveway, obviously has no idea what he's really picking up exactly or any of the details, just trying to save his 8-months-pregnant-wife a trip to the pharmacy. He comes home and I asked, out of curiosity, how much was the prescription? First time getting it filled so I was curious. $90, he said. Wow!! That's more than I was expecting. I go to look at the package and they gave him a 90 day supply of insulin, instead of the lancets!! Not at all what I needed and I'm not even taking insulin! I called the pharmacy immediately and they said, sorry since it's medication and he already left, there's nothing we can do. We asked if he had any questions about the medicine and he said no. WTF?! I was SO pissed. Today I drove there myself with the insulin and left with a refund. $90 for a medication that I don't even take!?!? I don't think so. 

    Questions: Anyone have any drawer organizers in their nursery dresser or changing table they particularly like? 

    @kvh22 I am also very excited about the Lovevery playmat!! Sooo many people had recommended it and it was the first gift that was purchased off of our registry! So many of our friends said they use it every single day and it was well worth the money! 

    GTKY: What is the most ridiculous thing/advice/comment someone has said to you about your pregnancy?

    Ummm, my MIL asked me if my orgasms were more intense when I was pregnant and if DH was afraid to have sex while I was pregnant LOL. 

  • @theblondebump omg 😱 your MIL, how uncomfortable! 
  • @theblondebump 😳 Ummmm, I can't believe your MIL said that. As for the playmate, babies spend so much time on them! And it has so many cute things to encourage their development which makes it much more all in one than the others I have (so will be the one I take places).

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  • @aguamala In the no sex drive wagon too! I feel terrible as well because my hubby has been so sweet and attentive throughout this entire  pregnancy but I just have no ‘oomph’ in that department. Annoying when I’m usually the one all about it but I’ve just accepted it’s probably gone for now. Lol. 

    Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 30+2/ April 17

    FTM/STM/STM+: 3TM

    Team Green/Pink/Blue: Blue!

    Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: Size of a cucumber 

    Upcoming appointments: Wednesday 2/10 with OB for 30wk appt  

    How are you feeling?: Physically, sore but my brain isn’t letting me slow down! Hip pain and some belly stretching tenderness is about it. 

    Rants/Raves: My mom surprised us this week with a travel system and other baby odds n ends package!  She knows I’ve been going crazy with our car still in the shop for at least a couple more weeks and feeling behind in picking up things to prepare. The car seat especially so I just love her extra for taking that off my shoulders and spoiling us!

    Questions: NATM

    GTKY: What is the most ridiculous thing/advice/comment someone has said to you about your pregnancy? There’s a pretty big gap between this baby and my other two; my daughter will be 11 in August and my son will be 8 in November. We’ve gotten a lot of the “must have been an oops thanks to quarantine” comments. Little do they know we’d been trying before the world turned upside down. I stopped correcting the comments though, because then we’d get the “you guys are crazy to start over again purposely” comments. 

  • Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 4/15 30+?

    FTM/STM/STM+:STM

    Team Green/Pink/Blue: pink

    Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: I can’t keep track

    Upcoming appointments: had one today, next is the 18th

    How are you feeling?: I feel big, and something always hurts

    Rants/Raves: rave- We found a super part time nanny for DS and she starts on Tuesday to help him get used to her. I’m so relieved to have found someone who seems like a perfect fit for him.

    Questions: 

    GTKY: What is the most ridiculous thing/advice/comment someone has said to you about your pregnancy? Last week DS’ speech therapist said I look like I’m having twins. I assured her I’m not and she was like “you never know!” but, yeah... I’ve had plenty of scans. It’s just one. Plus, she’s only seen me on zoom so of course I look like a whale, I’m trying to sit at 4 year old level with him and I can barely get back up. 

  • @theblondebump oh my gosh! If my MIL asked that I would die 😂 Of course my in laws deny the existence of sex. They never said a single word to DH about it while he was growing up. They probably figure we’ve had sex three times, once for each kid. 🤣
  • Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: April 29/28+5

    FTM/STM/STM+: STM

    Team Green/Pink/Blue: Green

    Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: an eggplant

    Upcoming appointments: Feb. 19

    How are you feeling?: Enormous.

    Rants/Raves: My foot is acting up with what I think is metatarsalgia, which is greeeaaaat... on top of being freakishly large, now I have to limp around as well with burning, searing pain.

    Questions:

    GTKY: What is the most ridiculous thing/advice/comment someone has said to you about your pregnancy?

    You guys are so lucky to be avoiding comments. I work retail, so basically I am on display like a zoo animal (or a circus freak, more appropriately). Everyone comments on how huge I am. Like @forevertired I have also received the "You never know!" comment re: twins. Actually, I do know; there is only one baby in there, confirmed via ultrasound, but thanks. "What kind of moose do you have in there?!" Yep, that was an actual comment I received. And then there are dumb comments about the baby's sex: "It MUST be THIS because you are carrying like THIS." No, that's just what my body looks like. "It must be a boy because it's so active!" Yep, because girls wouldn't possibly kick as much in the womb. I'm way too much of a bitch to let these things go, either. It's going to be a long and exhausting three months.

  • The size comments drive me up the wall. When I was pregnant with DD1 and teaching, I walked out of my classroom after school to take something to the office. A coworker outside my classroom said I hardly looked pregnant, that I wasn’t big enough. I walked to the office, 30 seconds away, and a coworker there said “whoa, you sure it’s not twins?!” So evidently I just exploded on that 30 second walk. I was so frustrated. 

    I get that people have their opinions - it’s hard to look at a pregnant person and not think about their belly I guess. But for the love of all that is good, keep it to yourself! 🤯
  • @bbrahmbhatt haha see I don't have RBF at all (as far as I know - DH definitely has it) yet no one has ever really commented about my size pregnant and I also have never gotten any of the obnoxious comments breastfeeding in public. I always used a cover with my first but I was more skilled at it without flashing people with DD2 and we went out a bit less than I did with DD1 so DD2 was not used to the cover and didn't like it (I was savoring the house being quiet while DD1 was at daycare whereas I was stir crazy on leave with my first so constantly going on long walks or meeting people for coffee or lunch or something). I've heard some doozies from friends in BMBs and my in person moms groups of comments from strangers about BFing in public.

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  • mamabee1113mamabee1113 member
    edited February 2021
    @kadeephd STM with the same feelings about her first born. I look at him all the time and wonder how he's gotten so big and (recently) independent. He is a HUGE mama's boy, so I constantly worry about how he will take to sharing mama with a new baby. I do think daycare is great for him though-- he's learning, socializing, and getting more comfortable with not having mama right there by his side all the time. He enjoys it too, so that absolutely helps.

    Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 4/6; 32 weeks today

    FTM/STM/STM+: STM

    Team Green/Pink/Blue: green!

    Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: I'm going to go with an octopus because i'm sure it has 8 limbs. lol

    Upcoming appointments: tomorrow

    How are you feeling?: anxious since losing my mucus plug/starting to dilate. DH is in another state for training until the end of March. There is absolutely no chance he could come home unless something catastrophic happens (pre-term labor doesn't count..)

    Rants/Raves: Not really either, but more of a funny tidbit.. DS (2yrs old) has recently gotten very interested in human anatomy and has asked about all his parts and pieces. Last night when putting on his diaper after bath he looked at me with the most serious face ever and said "mama, where penis go?" and held his hands up in that questioning/shrug position. I about lost it. He has asked several times what "it" was and I'd tell him, but that was the first time I ever heard him say penis.

    Questions: NATM, just rolling with the punches.

    GTKY: What is the most ridiculous thing/advice/comment someone has said to you about your pregnancy? My favorite has to be the no lifting/no exercise kind of stuff. I am a dance teacher, so the nature of my job involves me rolling around like a rolly polly. So many people asked if I was going to quit my job or ask what I was going to do about my classes "in my condition" :lol: 

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  • @theblondebump That is so cringey.  Why do MIL's think its okay to ask about their son's sex life? Once my MIL was staying with us and she asked DH if everything was good between us since she hadn't heard us have sex since she had arrived  :s
  • @kadeephd I'm really excited to give my son a sibling - I think the pandemic has magnified that by 100x since he's had so much adult interaction and only fairly selective peer interaction. But I do get a little sad when I think about not being able to lift him. He's a big cuddler and likes to be carried a lot, even at 2.5 y/o... I've been trying to offer hand holding instead recently so it's not such a startle for him.

    Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 29&2

    FTM/STM/STM+: STM

    Team Green/Pink/Blue: boy

    Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: He was 3lb 1oz last week - no idea this week!

    Upcoming appointments: OB appt in 2.5 hours. 

    How are you feeling?: Huge. Officially larger than when I gave birth to my first. Trying to stay neutral about it, but it's hard.

    Rants/Raves: My bff had a loss back in December and had to take a couple months off for testing. She got her positive last week but started bleeding yesterday... got in for a same day appointment and baby looks healthy with fetal heart activity!! I'm so thrilled for her and hope this is her sticky baby.

    Questions: none today

    GTKY: What is the most ridiculous thing/advice/comment someone has said to you about your pregnancy? Not so ridiculous for the content, but the situation. I was working with a patient with a severe communication disorder last week. She has trouble with even simple verbal communication - yet she managed to ask me (using gesture and word substitutions) how far along I am. When I told her, she suggested I look at least 8-9 months pg. Very exciting since it was by far the most successful communication exchange we've documented since her stroke. Not so great for my ego! Ha.

  • Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 30 weeks

    FTM/STM/STM+: 3tm

    Team Green/Pink/Blue: green

    Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: ?

    Upcoming appointments: Feb 23 

    How are you feeling?: eh, so so? The pregnancy has been pretty easy on me so far. Just super stressed with school. My semester ends three weeks after my due date and I'm trying to get as much done as I can.

    Rants/Raves: ugh, Dr said that we have to start watching my bp and iron. They aren't "bad" yet, but worth watching. He said, "the bp is pretty typical for being 38 though". Love hearing that stuff, haha.

    Questions: anyone ever have an ECV? The baby is currently transverse, and still has time to move. But Dr. said that if the position doesn't change in the next three weeks or so, I'd be an 'ideal candidate ' for ECV.

    GTKY: What is the most ridiculous thing/advice/comment someone has said to you about your pregnancy? I've heard next to nothing about my pregnancy from others, and I kind of like it.

  • @Lexibizzel wow they're talking about an ECV already?! My first was heads down pretty early but second was a bit later. I did various spinning baby techniques and such but this is so early for that I feel. I have heard they hurt but I'd definitely try one to avoid a c-section since I've had 2 vaginal deliveries and would like to keep that going.

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  • My health insurance company called today to see if I wanted to participate in a pregnancy education program where they would educate me on things like how to eat healthy and stay hydrated. Umm, I'm 32 weeks pregnant, I feel like this call came a little late. Not interested in this info, BUT I did get to ask her a million questions about my coverage, like how to order my breast pump, whether my doula will be covered, etc. She told me that a hospital stay of 48 hours after the birth of the baby would be covered for a vaginal birth (96 hours from birth for a c section) and that I leave anywhere before 48 hours, even 47 hours, I am entitled to a visit from an in-home nurse if I want one. I thought that was interesting. 

    She also told me that if I have a boy and want him circumsized, that she believes that would be a hospital procedure and would have a $4,000 copay - I'm sorry what?!!?!?! Any STM+ have any insight into what circumcision was billed like? Was it surgery? Hospital stay? Procedure? 
  • Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 30 weeks

    FTM/STM/STM+: 4tm

    Team Green/Pink/Blue: blue

    Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: broccoli 

    Upcoming appointments: this Friday for 30 week appt.

    How are you feeling?: heartburn was rough today but if I stay on top of nexium and tums, it is manageable. Other than that, I can’t complain.

    Rants/Raves: not really a rant or rave but just weird... we registered baby for Mother’s Day out this fall. We have never had such a tiny baby in daycare and have always had a nanny, but unfortunately with two others in private pre-k, a nanny is out of the budget. I’m trying to be positive and think about all the things it will help with... consistent schedule, naps, etc, but it is hard to imagine. I know we have been very lucky in the past and am hoping this is the right choice for the fall.

    Questions: none

    GTKY: What is the most ridiculous thing/advice/comment someone has said to you about your pregnancy? I have really been pretty fortunate in all my pregnancies to have avoided awful or uncomfortable comments. My parents are actually the worst offenders I’ve had because they will comment on my size. They just don’t think it is a big deal to comment on my body, despite me being well within my weight gain range. It has definitely taught me things not to say to my daughters or daughter in laws when I’m older.

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  • @kvh22 I was surprised as well, still almost 10 weeks until my due date. But he said that they rarely change position on their own after 34 weeks. Dr. knows that I am wanting to refuse inductions and let the baby come out when she/he is ready. But yes, like you I have two vaginal births behind me and would like to avoid a c-section. So while I will certainly be weighing out the pros and cons, I am not inherently against an ECV.
  • Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 28+1... May 4th but mid April induction

    FTM/STM/STM+: 4tm

    Team Green/Pink/Blue: blue

    Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of:

    Upcoming appointments: next week

    How are you feeling?: so large and sore! 

    Rants/Raves: DS2s bday was Monday and we celebrated him all weekend.. mostly at home but had so much fun!

    Questions: We may be totally nuts but we are considering a last minute trip to Florida in a couple weeks... are we crazy or should we do it??! We found super cheap flights for the whole family!

    GTKY: What is the most ridiculous thing/advice/comment someone has said to you about your pregnancy? Oh gosh... I lucked out with being home most of the time and covered up by a winter jacket so I think it's kept the comments away. Most of my comments I get revolve around having 4 boys and them being close in age. 

  • @theblondebump, I had both my sons circumcised, and while I had to pay a portion, the deductible had been met by MY hospital stay. Mom and baby almost always count as one person, especially for insurance purposes. Most of us can't even insure our babies before the bill goes through. I think last time I paid 150 for it.

    Please make sure you educate yourself before getting a circumcision done. It was not an easy decision for me, but we felt the health benefits out weighed the risks. I felt horrible both times. 
  • edited February 2021
    @Lexibizzel, DS2 was a flipper right up until I dropped between 35w and 36w and he couldn't anymore. Every appt, he was in a different position. 35w he was breech, and the only thing I was told was let's see where he is next week. 36w, he was cephalic, and stayed that way. I got to where I could tell by his movements when he was butt up. 
  • I have a question after looking around our hospital’s labor and delivery website last night. Has anyone ever used nitrous oxide during labor? Isn’t that the same thing the dentist gives you? They mentioned offering that. 

    I’m asking because with DD1 I had an epidural which was amazing but I also felt like it slowed me down after she was born, especially after a rushed delivery with no epidural for DD2. They did give me some sort of IV pain medicine for DD2 which helped but also made me feel crazy - I imagine that’s what it feels like to be high, haha! Anyways I loved being able to get up and move around so soon after she was born. The nitrous oxide is intriguing to me. 
  • @aisukurimsarang interesting, it would be GREAT if they counted me and baby as one for hospital bills because I already just assumed we’ll be paying the out of pocket max, but that was NOT the impression I got from my insurance company yesterday. 

    We will definitely be circumcising if we have a boy, no question about that. 
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