Hello! Now that we know what our babies will wear
, let's figure out what they're going to eat! Today we are kicking off a three-week sequence of Baby Feeding Products. Today: Breast Pumps and Accessories (coming up next week: Formula, and then Bottles the following week).Breast Pumps! An object sometimes of a great love-hate relationship. STM: what breast pump did you use? How do you feel about it? Would you get the same one again?
Aspects to consider about breast pumps:
- Breast Pump functions: how do you like the power, the rhythm, the options for speed and suction during pumping? And how has it held up with long-term use?
- Portability: does it have a portable charger? Car charger? Batteries? Does it come with a bag to carry around? If not, what bag do you use?
- Accessories: does the basic pump purchase order come with options for flange size? Storage bottles to pump into? If you got extra accessories, what were they and where did you get them? Do you recommend a particular pumping bra as an accessory?
- (Accessory hacks: if you get your hands on a different brand of accessories, do they fit across different pumps? Do you recommend an adaptor (third party or otherwise) to smoosh different brands' accessories together?)
- Cleaning: how? What do you use? Basic soap+water or did you have a special sterilizing set-up?
- Affordability and access: where and how did you get your breast pump? Did insurance cover it? For those US-based, ACA guidelines had all (most?) insurance programs cover a breast pump for free--does anyone have experience post-ACA-reducing measures under the current administration? Are secondhand markets a good option?
Please share!
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Re: Product Spotlight 01/12: Breast Pumps and Accessories
My insurance doesn't cover breast pumps (grandfathered 🙄), but I was able to score one off Facebook marketplace for only $20! Replacement parts are easy to find on Amazon. I had a nice fabric cooler that I used as a pump bag and threw a smaller cooler with bottles and ice packs inside. I also didn't sanitize my parts between pumps but would just rinse and throw them in the cooler, and wash at the end of the day. I just washed in hot soapy water, and used a bottle drying rack for all the parts.
This was helpful when suction would start being less effective: (although I probably waited twice as long as the recommendations)
I chose Avent bottles because they fit on my pump, and stayed with the size newborn nipples because I was still BFing as well.
My second baby never took a bottle and was exclusively breastfed. However, I did use my Haaka "pump" a lot during the first few weeks and put about 100 oz in the freezer. The Haaka is a collection bottle that suctions to the opposite breast that you are feeding on. It collects the letdown and lets you start on a freezer stash without having to set aside time to pump!
- Medela sterilizing bags: stick the pump parts in microwave and in a few seconds💥 all clean!
- Medela tender care lanolin: I tried all the other brands and liked this one the best. Smoothest and easiest application for me
- whichever freezer bags were cheapest
I also read “The Complete Book of Breastfeeding”. The BFing class I took at the hospital was helpful for me.
also! Don’t feel pressured to breastfeed! Do whatever is best for you and your family.
I have used medela pump in style the past two rounds. Exclusively pumped for ds1 (6 months) and while at work for ds2 (nursed at home, 1yr). These pumps were adequate (what insurance covered) but I'm interested in trying something new.
Did any pumpers have supply issues? I don't respond well to the pump and it's always been a challenge for me.
Definitely getting a haaka this time- what I didn't realize the first time is that at the beginning of breastfeeding, the let down instinct is so strong that both side will let milk out, even if baby is only attached to one side. Catching the milk from the other side with the haaka keeps it from being wasted.
As a working mom with a commute, a car adapter and a handsfree bra were clutch. I used to pump on the way in to work and on the way home. I had a whole car set up.
Second @mc0303 - breastfeeding was very difficult for me. Both my kids had tongue and lip ties. I had flat nipples with DS1 (pumping helped with that for ds2). I have low supply issues- possible bc of the autoimmune disease I've only just been diagnosed with. Breastfeeding was very important to me and I felt like a failure, a bad mom when it didn't work with DS1. Please don't feel like that if it doesn't work for you. With ds2, it was important again so I reached out to a lactation consultant prior to ds2's birth so that connection was already made. It helped me feel comfortable reaching out when BF wasn't working the second time, and we were able to fix the issues so that I could nurse for 1 yr.
I soaked my pumping parts every night in hot soapy water in one of those helpful plastic tubs they give you when you give birth and then would also wash them with baby soap and a bottle brush and then dry them on the flower drying racks that come with the grass. At work I would just bag the parts in Ziploc and keep them in the refrigerator in our lactation room between pumps.
Question: I get another free pump through insurance this time and am considering trying the Spectra, but I have sooo many Medela parts and am wondering if it will be a huge pain to have to buy all the adaptors. Any STM+s have experience with switching from Medela to Spectra or using both?
Me: 37, MH: 38; Married August 2017
TTC #1 October 2017: BFP on 12/1/2017, DD born 7/24/2018 @ 37+1 after induction due to preeclampsia
TTC #2 January 2020: AMA, dx with DOR in May 2020
IVF July 2020: 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 12 fertilized, 3 blasts, 2 PGT-A normal
FET 10/7/20: BFP on 10/12/20!!! (EDD 6/25/21); First beta 10/16/20 (9dpt): 148; Second beta 10/19/20 (12dpt): 621; Third beta 10/26/20 (19dpt): 4732; Fourth (and final!) beta 11/2/20 (26 dpt): 22,000+
Married: 10.2018
DS #1: 06.2014
Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG), Emergency C-Section
MC: 03.2017- 5 Weeks
Rainbow DS #2: 07.2018
HG, 19w Fetal Surgery, 24w PPROM, 33w Placental Abruption, Partial Uterine Rupture, Emergency C-Section
NICU, Chronic Kidney Disease
TTC #3: Medically Cleared 12.5.2019, had a bunch of problems and wonky cycles
BFP 10.13.2020 EDD: 6.26.2021
October 2020 TTGP Signature Challenge: Pets in Costumes
ETA: *I keep thinking of more things*
my insurance only covers the Ameda this time. I had given away all my other pumps. I also bought Elvies on Black Friday and added a Hakaa to my baby registry.
- Ask SO to wash the pump parts, it is one of the most tedious parts of pumping, and a great way for them to contribute.
- Check with insurance or program you order through about free extra parts or different flange sizes.
I actually planned out a whole month of pumping schedule in advance of when I was going out of town for a conference for a week. I ended up adding a pumping session at 3 am (and I worked while I did it).
I still have the pump but plan on calling insurance to see what is available now and if I can switch to a different brand. I'm also sold on purchasing a haakaa, gosh reading the reviews and I look back to 4+ years ago and I could have really used one.
Storage when I planned to freeze milk, I used either the medela or lansinoh bags as they were available at Target. I think the medela ones had a handle that was incredibly annoying when pouring milk into a bottle. Eventually in my sleep deprived state I determined that I could snip the handles then pour the milk and have no loss. 🤦♀️
Cleaning the pump parts I used hot, soapy water every evening when I was home. At the office, I stored the parts in a bag and just rinsed them off in between sessions.
I used kellysmom.com for all things breastfeeding. Particularly during the middle of the night sessions. I used that site more than I want to admit.
The hospital I delivered at had a LC visit twice a day to assist with feedings and that was super helpful as I had no idea what I was doing. I also setup a few appointments after I left the hospital since DS had lost so much weight. They were super helpful and I had flat nipples so I was provided with a ton of breast shields that really helped.
BF was definitely a journey and it was important for me to provide so I'm glad we both stuck with it and it really became a big part of our day. Heck I couldn't get this kid off the boob until 22 months he really enjoyed the morning comfort routine (and I enjoyed the extra five minutes nap).
Married: 10.2018
DS #1: 06.2014
Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG), Emergency C-Section
MC: 03.2017- 5 Weeks
Rainbow DS #2: 07.2018
HG, 19w Fetal Surgery, 24w PPROM, 33w Placental Abruption, Partial Uterine Rupture, Emergency C-Section
NICU, Chronic Kidney Disease
TTC #3: Medically Cleared 12.5.2019, had a bunch of problems and wonky cycles
BFP 10.13.2020 EDD: 6.26.2021
October 2020 TTGP Signature Challenge: Pets in Costumes
- figure out what you want to achieve from pumping (to feed while you’re away, replace the breast, to have a small stash for time away or to release pressure etc)
- not that you might respond better to a simple manual over an electric.
- invest in good breast milk storage bags if you’ll be freezing. I used the lansinoh ones and made a switch to a wal mart brand and every time my mom or husband would defrost we’d lose a pile of it through tiny pinholes.
Rules for storage:
666 rule (I would write the date in a whiteboard marker on the bottle and in a sharpie on the storage bag)
6 hours on the counter
6 days in the fridge
6 months in the freezer
Also if you start to defrost it can go back in the freezer as long as ice crystals are still formed
you can add more to previously pumped milk as long as it’s the same temp (ie pump in the morning and put it in the fridge. Pump pm in new bottle and put that in the fridge, combine once same temp) and always date with your oldest milk that was added.
I had a Medela pump and really liked it. That said, I was lucky and did not have supply issues like many have mentioned. I had a wedding I was in as a bridesmaid when DS was 6 weeks old, so I started pumping at about 5 weeks postpartum. I needed to have enough for my parents to feed him from 11 a.m. to 11 p.m. What I read suggested to start pumping I've a day after your first morning feed because your have a great supply after a night when baby may go a longer span without nursing. DS was usually awake at 6 a.m. I would wait 1.5-2 hours then pump. This would give me enough for a bottle to store and enough time before the next feed to have a supply.
Other tips
- sounds corny, but I read that looking at a photo of your baby or a video of your baby can help you when you pump. I usually did this for the first few minutes of pumping in the early months. Not sure it did anything, but I figured it couldn't hurt.
- drink water! Like waaaay more water than you thought you could. You will be thristy, so it should be hard. I would notice the difference between pumping on a day I worked out and one where I didn't if I was not careful about rehydrating.
@kristah2 thanks for the reminder on 666 rule!
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Me: 37, MH: 38; Married August 2017
TTC #1 October 2017: BFP on 12/1/2017, DD born 7/24/2018 @ 37+1 after induction due to preeclampsia
TTC #2 January 2020: AMA, dx with DOR in May 2020
IVF July 2020: 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 12 fertilized, 3 blasts, 2 PGT-A normal
FET 10/7/20: BFP on 10/12/20!!! (EDD 6/25/21); First beta 10/16/20 (9dpt): 148; Second beta 10/19/20 (12dpt): 621; Third beta 10/26/20 (19dpt): 4732; Fourth (and final!) beta 11/2/20 (26 dpt): 22,000+
I enjoyed the book “Work, Pump, Repeat” and “The Fifth Trimester” about working and pumping.
I also got a Spectra S2 with my own money since insurance only covered one type of pump and it was not great (fellow govies take note!). Spectra was quite gentle, easy to use and clean, and quiet- if that’s a priority for you, personally I’d rather people can hear and know not to interrupt, haha. I also used a Lanisoh hand pump for when DD started sleeping longer. In that sense, she weaned herself through the night much faster than I did!
For moms who still have pumps from older kids, are you replacing them? Can they get professionally cleaned somewhere? I know pumps and pump parts, milk bags, nipple cream, etc. can get reimbursed by an HSA, but I’m wondering if I can get by with the Spectra I have. I pumped at work a couple times a day, four days a week for almost a year.
I've heard the in-bra pumps aren't very good with suction yet, so I'm passing on that.
The haakaa is amazing and I will probably buy a 2nd one this time.
Married: 8/10/13
BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21
Married: 10.2018
DS #1: 06.2014
Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG), Emergency C-Section
MC: 03.2017- 5 Weeks
Rainbow DS #2: 07.2018
HG, 19w Fetal Surgery, 24w PPROM, 33w Placental Abruption, Partial Uterine Rupture, Emergency C-Section
NICU, Chronic Kidney Disease
TTC #3: Medically Cleared 12.5.2019, had a bunch of problems and wonky cycles
BFP 10.13.2020 EDD: 6.26.2021
October 2020 TTGP Signature Challenge: Pets in Costumes