Me and hubby are expecting our first child. We carpool to work together at 520am. I can work a flexible schedule but if I start work after kids are off to daycare or school, I would have over a 3 hour commute everyday. But... it would allow me to be around for the morning routine. I would prefer my current schedule (leave at 520) but have no idea who would do the mornings with the baby (and teenager as they get older) and of course do feel bad for not being there. I think its a lose-lose. How do you ladies handle tgis when neither parent is available for the mornings?