When are you ladies having your first OB visits (how far along)? My practice doesn’t see anyone until 8 weeks based on LMP. When I asked if I needed a test or anything to confirm that I am, in fact, pregnant (positive HPT and symptoms so I am fairly sure I am), they said they “don’t confirm pregnancy” and that I should call my primary care physician if I want to confirm. It also didn’t sound like there would be an ultrasound or anything at the first visit. Just curious to see how other practices handle it. Thanks for sharing your experiences!
I’ll be going at 8 weeks and I’ll have an ultrasound. With my first pregnancy I went at 11 weeks and only did the Doppler. With my second (loss) and third I went earlier only due to spotting.
If you are getting positive pregnancy tests you are pregnant! I get it though, it’s hard to believe it’s real til you see or hear it.
With my first I went at 9 weeks and they did do an ultrasound (heads up that first ultrasound is a vaginal one, not over the belly like they do in the movies, I was not prepared for that...) This time around my OB ordered two blood draws to track the progression of HCG due to a prior MC and I did that at an offsite lab. The OB will just call me with the results so I still won't actually see her in person until the 8-10 week appointment.
FYI, you can get a blood draw pregnancy confirmation just about anywhere (primary care, urgent care, lab center, etc.) but it may or may not be covered under insurance if you OB or PCP doesn't order it.
I’ll also be going in at 8 weeks (well, 7+5) for the normal first appointment, like I did with DS. They’ll do regular weight+height+bp, history, and vaginal ultrasound to date the pregnancy. I think they usually only do blood draws for hcg numbers if there’s something concerning (TW: I had a mc before DS, and they did draw blood for that to make sure hcg was dropping appropriately). I don’t think it’s standard care to do that for normal low-risk pregnancies, at least in the US.
My OB's standard is 7 weeks. I had to call and ask to be seen sooner because a previous miscarriage had me nervous. I had my hcg checked at 4+3 and a viability ultrasound at 6+4. The ultrasound was very quick. I'll have my first "real" appt at 10+4 and they told me to expect the appointment to run for about 2 hours.
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@tamalahoops 2 hours?! That’s so long. My longest appointment with DS was the anatomy scan which lasted a little over an hour, and that’s just because he wasn’t cooperating so I had to eat a bit to get him moving. LOL
Me: 31 Husby: 36 Married May 2014 TTC # 2 Since December 2021 Baby girl W born 2/2021 Our journey so far... (tw loss & infertility)
Diagnosis: Poor Egg Quality Working with an RE since March 2016 2 failed TI cycles 3 failed IUI cycles
IVF Feb - April 2017 23 eggs collected, 20 mature, 14 fertilized with ICSI, 4 day 3 blasts, 3 day 5 blasts, 1 PGS normal Transferred 1 PGS normal embryo 4.12.17 BFP 4.21.17 MMC due to small gestational sac 6.8.17
Our adoption journey: 12.25.18 Agency picked and apps submitted! 5.1.19 Adoption on hold so we can buy a house! 1.1.20 Homestudy process started 3.14.20 First social worker visit 5.25.20 Homestudy Approved & Submitted to Agency
6.1.20 Surprise! Positive pregnancy test! Healthy baby girl born 2/10/2021
@tamalahoops I wonder if they’re consolidating some things into one appointment instead of multiple appointments due to covid-19. I’m curious to see what prenatal care looks like this time around with a pandemic.
My doctor sees you as soon as you get a positive test. They confirm it with their own pee test. I’m not sure if they normally do Hcg tests but they are for me bc of a previous loss. My OB doesn’t do ultrasounds in her office but she sends you for one at 8 weeks and you have another appt with her. then another ultrasound again at 12 weeks for a nuchal and another appt with her. To be honest I have been in my OBs office at least once a week for bloodwork or an appt. but I have issues lol. She likes to do an u/s around 8 weeks just to make sure everything is going as it should and the pregnancy looks normal, plus if they have to adjust your due date it’s most accurate then. Or something. It surprises me when people say their practice won’t see them before 10-12 weeks. My doctor does a lot of what they call “counseling” at the first appt. Making sure you know you can’t take Advil, watch your fish intake, no cold cuts, etc. And they answer any questions. Although I could see cutting it out due to COVID-19
I'm in the UK for this pregnancy, so I need to wait until 12 weeks for the first appointment. It's a 2 hour appointment which includes ultrasound. My first appointment is not until August.
> @birdiejo said: > I’ll be going at 8 weeks and I’ll have an ultrasound. With my first pregnancy I went at 11 weeks and only did the Doppler. With my second (loss) and third I went earlier only due to spotting. > If you are getting positive pregnancy tests you are pregnant! I get it though, it’s hard to believe it’s real til you see or hear it.
Lol, I mean, I know I am pregnant, I guess I just feel like someone besides me should be diagnosing it! Thank you for confirming!
Thank you all for the reassurance. I guess it sounds pretty normal to wait until 8 weeks. Luckily I was able to ask all of my medication and pregnancy safety questions when I had my IUD removed.
Due to covid I will have a 90 minute video visit with a nurse on a Friday and then see the OB in person the following Monday.
My first appointment isn’t until I will be 9+6 but I did have an ultrasound yesterday at 6+6 due to previous loss in the fall. It was so great to see that heart rate flickering away at 133.
My first appt is on the 30th and I'll be 8 weeks. If it's like my last pg, they'll do weight, bp, I'll have the Rhogam shot bc I'm rh negative and they'll do a vaginal dating ultrasound.
Going on 7/21 atleast 8 weeks at that point & they mentioned I'll be having an ultrasound. Also bc of COVID I have to plan to go in alone with no visitors at all until the 20 week appointment where 1 guest can accompany. I am really bad w needles so hoping for a sweet staff who can calm and console my pregnant self if bloodwork will be involved!
Re: First OB visits?
This time around my OB ordered two blood draws to track the progression of HCG due to a prior MC and I did that at an offsite lab. The OB will just call me with the results so I still won't actually see her in person until the 8-10 week appointment.
FYI, you can get a blood draw pregnancy confirmation just about anywhere (primary care, urgent care, lab center, etc.) but it may or may not be covered under insurance if you OB or PCP doesn't order it.
Married May 2014
TTC # 2 Since December 2021
Baby girl W born 2/2021
Our journey so far...
(tw loss & infertility)
Working with an RE since March 2016
2 failed TI cycles
3 failed IUI cycles
IVF Feb - April 2017
23 eggs collected, 20 mature, 14 fertilized with ICSI, 4 day 3 blasts, 3 day 5 blasts, 1 PGS normal
Transferred 1 PGS normal embryo 4.12.17
BFP 4.21.17
MMC due to small gestational sac 6.8.17
Our adoption journey:
12.25.18 Agency picked and apps submitted!
5.1.19 Adoption on hold so we can buy a house!
1.1.20 Homestudy process started
3.14.20 First social worker visit
5.25.20 Homestudy Approved & Submitted to Agency
6.1.20 Surprise! Positive pregnancy test!
Healthy baby girl born 2/10/2021
Married May 2014
TTC # 2 Since December 2021
Baby girl W born 2/2021
Our journey so far...
(tw loss & infertility)
Working with an RE since March 2016
2 failed TI cycles
3 failed IUI cycles
IVF Feb - April 2017
23 eggs collected, 20 mature, 14 fertilized with ICSI, 4 day 3 blasts, 3 day 5 blasts, 1 PGS normal
Transferred 1 PGS normal embryo 4.12.17
BFP 4.21.17
MMC due to small gestational sac 6.8.17
Our adoption journey:
12.25.18 Agency picked and apps submitted!
5.1.19 Adoption on hold so we can buy a house!
1.1.20 Homestudy process started
3.14.20 First social worker visit
5.25.20 Homestudy Approved & Submitted to Agency
6.1.20 Surprise! Positive pregnancy test!
Healthy baby girl born 2/10/2021
SD: 21 & SS: 17
BFP #2 6/3/2020
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> I’ll be going at 8 weeks and I’ll have an ultrasound. With my first pregnancy I went at 11 weeks and only did the Doppler. With my second (loss) and third I went earlier only due to spotting.
> If you are getting positive pregnancy tests you are pregnant! I get it though, it’s hard to believe it’s real til you see or hear it.
Lol, I mean, I know I am pregnant, I guess I just feel like someone besides me should be diagnosing it! Thank you for confirming!
Thank you all for the reassurance. I guess it sounds pretty normal to wait until 8 weeks. Luckily I was able to ask all of my medication and pregnancy safety questions when I had my IUD removed.
Due to covid I will have a 90 minute video visit with a nurse on a Friday and then see the OB in person the following Monday.
BFP #5: 6/15/21 CP 6/21/21
BFP #3: 6/4/20 MC Blighted Ovum D&C 7/9/20