When are you ladies having your first OB visits (how far along)? My practice doesn’t see anyone until 8 weeks based on LMP. When I asked if I needed a test or anything to confirm that I am, in fact, pregnant (positive HPT and symptoms so I am fairly sure I am), they said they “don’t confirm pregnancy” and that I should call my primary care physician if I want to confirm. It also didn’t sound like there would be an ultrasound or anything at the first visit. Just curious to see how other practices handle it. Thanks for sharing your experiences!
Re: First OB visits?
This time around my OB ordered two blood draws to track the progression of HCG due to a prior MC and I did that at an offsite lab. The OB will just call me with the results so I still won't actually see her in person until the 8-10 week appointment.
FYI, you can get a blood draw pregnancy confirmation just about anywhere (primary care, urgent care, lab center, etc.) but it may or may not be covered under insurance if you OB or PCP doesn't order it.
Married May 2014
TTC # 2 Since December 2021
Baby girl W born 2/2021
Our journey so far...
(tw loss & infertility)
Working with an RE since March 2016
2 failed TI cycles
3 failed IUI cycles
IVF Feb - April 2017
23 eggs collected, 20 mature, 14 fertilized with ICSI, 4 day 3 blasts, 3 day 5 blasts, 1 PGS normal
Transferred 1 PGS normal embryo 4.12.17
BFP 4.21.17
MMC due to small gestational sac 6.8.17
Our adoption journey:
12.25.18 Agency picked and apps submitted!
5.1.19 Adoption on hold so we can buy a house!
1.1.20 Homestudy process started
3.14.20 First social worker visit
5.25.20 Homestudy Approved & Submitted to Agency
6.1.20 Surprise! Positive pregnancy test!
Healthy baby girl born 2/10/2021
Married May 2014
TTC # 2 Since December 2021
Baby girl W born 2/2021
Our journey so far...
(tw loss & infertility)
Working with an RE since March 2016
2 failed TI cycles
3 failed IUI cycles
IVF Feb - April 2017
23 eggs collected, 20 mature, 14 fertilized with ICSI, 4 day 3 blasts, 3 day 5 blasts, 1 PGS normal
Transferred 1 PGS normal embryo 4.12.17
BFP 4.21.17
MMC due to small gestational sac 6.8.17
Our adoption journey:
12.25.18 Agency picked and apps submitted!
5.1.19 Adoption on hold so we can buy a house!
1.1.20 Homestudy process started
3.14.20 First social worker visit
5.25.20 Homestudy Approved & Submitted to Agency
6.1.20 Surprise! Positive pregnancy test!
Healthy baby girl born 2/10/2021
SD: 21 & SS: 17
BFP #2 6/3/2020
*Trigger Warning*
> I’ll be going at 8 weeks and I’ll have an ultrasound. With my first pregnancy I went at 11 weeks and only did the Doppler. With my second (loss) and third I went earlier only due to spotting.
> If you are getting positive pregnancy tests you are pregnant! I get it though, it’s hard to believe it’s real til you see or hear it.
Lol, I mean, I know I am pregnant, I guess I just feel like someone besides me should be diagnosing it! Thank you for confirming!
Thank you all for the reassurance. I guess it sounds pretty normal to wait until 8 weeks. Luckily I was able to ask all of my medication and pregnancy safety questions when I had my IUD removed.
Due to covid I will have a 90 minute video visit with a nurse on a Friday and then see the OB in person the following Monday.
BFP #5: 6/15/21 CP 6/21/21
BFP #3: 6/4/20 MC Blighted Ovum D&C 7/9/20