1st Trimester
cmessamore
member
October 2020 Waiting Room
cmessamore
member
A place for all the Mamas who are due in October 2020 to get to know each other while waiting for our BMB to be set up!
cmessamore
member
Re: October 2020 Waiting Room
I just got my BFP today, too! Based on LMP my EDD will be 10/3!
We have 7 kiddos so far (5bio and 2step).
DS1 12, DS2 10, DD1 9, DS3 8, DS4 3, DD2 2, and DD3 is almost 6 months! 😃😍
ETA: also feeling surreal here too, but excited! 8 kids just sounds terrifying! 😂
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
hahaha kidding! congrats girl, I’m so happy for you!
FF says my EDD is September 30th but basically every online calculator I use is saying between October 1st and October 3rd based off LMP. I don't know whether I belong here or in September. They both feel wrong lol. So if it is all the same to you ladies I'll just hang out in the October BMB.
TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016
Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss
Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017 ❤️
Baby #2 due June 12, 2018
You’re welcome to join us in September or wait for October
I got my BFP on Saturday morning, my EDD is 10/5 based off my LMP. I have one DD who's 3.5yrs, and I had an ectopic this time last year. I would be lying if I said I wasn't terrified right now
Due with baby #2: Feb 2022
TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016
Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss
Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017 ❤️
Baby #2 due June 12, 2018
My Chart
BFP #1 - 6-2009 - edd 1-23-10 - mmc - discovered by u/s @ 13wks 2days - D&C
BFP #2 - 10-15-2010 - Baby boy born 6-11-11
BFP#3 - 6-2013 - edd 2-21-14 -mmc discovered by u/s @ 9 wks - D&C
BFP #4 - 3-10-14 - edd 11-19-14 - natural miscarriage 4-10-14
BFP #5 - 8-24-14 - edd 5-5-15 - Please be our RAINBOW!!!
U/S 9-30 - baby measuring right on track, heart rate of 155bpm
U/S 10-8 & 10-14 - baby is growing perfectly!
10-20 - 151 bpm 10-31 153 bpm
11-13 IT'S A BOY!!!!!
@dolewhipper it makes my heart SO happy to see you in here! Congratulations!!
Married 8/16/13
BFP#1 DS 11/13/16
BFP# 2 MMC dx @ 13w 10/30/18
BFP# 3 Preemie DD born at 38w (IUGR) on 8/28/19 weighing 5.5lbs. Our little miracle
In the meantime I get to freak out about any tinge or twinge of pain, and I need to go to the ER if I experience any kind of pain or bleeding (that was the only symptom I had with my last ectopic). SO THAT'S SO FUN. I don't wish ectopics on anyone. They're absolutely the worst.
@zuuls_mom thank you, love! I see you have a new little one-- Congrats are in order for you too!
Edit because words and dates are hard.
I've also been peeing maybe 77 times a day and looking at the TP...solidarity. But I more so have to because I've increased my water intake. I am HORRIBLE at drinking water, and last pregnancy I had low fluid and I refuse to not drink 100oz a day this time around. (I will accept any good ideas on how I can actually track and drink that much!)
Got my bfp on Tuesday. We weren't actively trying but I just had a strong feeling this month that something was going on with all the crazy dreams I was having last week. Went through all the stages of shock to excitement pretty quickly. EDD is 10/8 based on LMP. Don't get to see my midwife until 2/27, so I'll just have to push all the worrying deep down till then haha.
I also have a DD that just turned 5 and another DD that will turn 3 next month.
@dolewhipper Ahhhhhh!!! So freakin’ thrilled for you lady!!!! I have everything crossed that this will be your little rainbow!!
Without saying it, she told me that I probably wouldn't get a phone call about it being ectopic (after I asked how quickly they would contact me) and it would probably be a couple days before I heard from my dr. And she had a look of "don't worry!" on her face. My hcg levels more than doubled from Monday to Wed, so now I'm just trying to keep myself busy and not think too much about it. Easier said than done!
ETA: @lillywonderland thank you so much, love! Last year was a shit show for me. I hope this rainbow happens too
https://forums.thebump.com/categories/october-2020-moms
Huzzah!
TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016
Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss
Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017 ❤️
Baby #2 due June 12, 2018
First Child born
5/5/14 and 6/5/14
11/14
Chemical Pregnancy
9/5/15
Second after severe bleeding for 18 weeks due to subchorionic hematoma
Expecting Number 3 due 10/31/2020