It's been a while since we've done one of these, but I have a feeling there are some twat waffles out there as we enter the final stretch of our pregnancies!
Me: 33 DH: 33
Married: 10.15.16
BFP: 12.24.16
DS BD: 8.20.17
TTC #2 1.1.19
BFP #2 7.3.19
EDD #2 3.13.20
Re: TW Tuesday
This annoyed me so much! I can't help but take it as, "Do the right thing this time, since she didn't last time."
She knows that circumstances were out of my control with DS1, and I was unable to breastfeed, even though I planned to EBF. Of course, I plan to this time, but I also know that no matter the amount of planning and intention, it may not happen, and that's okay too.
My overall thoughts A) Mind your business and don't worry about how I feed my child.
b) DH is dumb for telling me this and getting me worked up about it.
Married: 10.15.16
DS BD: 8.20.17
TTC #2 1.1.19
BFP #2 7.3.19
EDD #2 3.13.20
DD1 EDD 9/29/2015, Born 9/24/2015
DS1 EDD 1/3/2018, Born 12/26/2017
BFP #3 3/21/2019, EDD 11/29/2019, MMC/D&C 5/7/2019
BFP #4 6/28/2019, EDD 3/12/2020
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
**TW**
IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx
Right tube removed: February 2016
Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016
BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d)
TTC #2: April 2019
BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d)
BFP #3: July 15, 2019
EDD: March 23, 2020
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
Also, a million comments a day from folks about how I "don't even look pregnant" or I "do not look like I am due in March". I know they mean this as a compliment, but like I'm already anxious enough, and am really starting to get annoyed by this!
Married: 10.15.16
DS BD: 8.20.17
TTC #2 1.1.19
BFP #2 7.3.19
EDD #2 3.13.20
Married: 8/22/15
BFP #1: 8/22/17 | DS: 4/20/18
BFP #2: 7/14/19 | EDD: 3/18/20
Married: 8/22/15
BFP #1: 8/22/17 | DS: 4/20/18
BFP #2: 7/14/19 | EDD: 3/18/20
DD is being kind of a TW tonight. I mean, she’s being a 4 year old. But she’s getting on my last nerve.
Married: October, 19, 2015
EDD 2/22/17 DS1 born on 3/2/17
EDD 3/8/20 DS2 born on 3/10/20
EDD 11/24/23
(Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
@creativesoul63, I have the opposite problem.. I've always been told I look bigger with my pregnancies, which as a FTM, really kind of stung.. at this point I don't care so much anymore. @varimama, my DS likes to point out 'mom is big' in a happy tone of voice. (which drives me nuts sometimes!) he's learning concepts like 'big' and 'little' at preschool so to him, it's just an interesting fact.
my TW is less of a person, more of a schedule.. this next couple months are crazy for me with all of the appointments for myself and the kids, and trying to keep up with everyday life while being 3rd-tri tired. I really just wanted to enjoy this last stretch of pregnancy, but the way it's been going so far, I'm just eager to be done. it's definitely much more hectic this time around than it was with DS.
**TW**
IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx
Right tube removed: February 2016
Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016
BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d)
TTC #2: April 2019
BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d)
BFP #3: July 15, 2019
EDD: March 23, 2020
@creativesoul63 I think you look great and perfectly far along! People are weird.
@varimama Seriously... don't say anything to any woman about she feeds her baby unless she asks for advice.
DD1 EDD 9/29/2015, Born 9/24/2015
DS1 EDD 1/3/2018, Born 12/26/2017
BFP #3 3/21/2019, EDD 11/29/2019, MMC/D&C 5/7/2019
BFP #4 6/28/2019, EDD 3/12/2020
Married: October, 19, 2015
EDD 2/22/17 DS1 born on 3/2/17
EDD 3/8/20 DS2 born on 3/10/20
EDD 11/24/23
(Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
DD1 EDD 9/29/2015, Born 9/24/2015
DS1 EDD 1/3/2018, Born 12/26/2017
BFP #3 3/21/2019, EDD 11/29/2019, MMC/D&C 5/7/2019
BFP #4 6/28/2019, EDD 3/12/2020
**TW**
IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx
Right tube removed: February 2016
Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016
BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d)
TTC #2: April 2019
BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d)
BFP #3: July 15, 2019
EDD: March 23, 2020
Married: 8/22/15
BFP #1: 8/22/17 | DS: 4/20/18
BFP #2: 7/14/19 | EDD: 3/18/20
DD1 EDD 9/29/2015, Born 9/24/2015
DS1 EDD 1/3/2018, Born 12/26/2017
BFP #3 3/21/2019, EDD 11/29/2019, MMC/D&C 5/7/2019
BFP #4 6/28/2019, EDD 3/12/2020
@emilylove25 She is acting like I want all this attention but I am so the opposite of attention seeking. I rather just be left alone in these last weeks lol Literally, every day she leaves work saying time for my second job. She complains every morning that she's late because her son is difficult. It just amazes me how she could be so selfish and take no responsibility for anything.
my coworker (male, our admin assistant) yesterday asked me if we picked a name and I said yes but I said it would have been harder to name a boy as we have had our girl name for a while. He goes "oh we have our boy name picked out. We really wanted a boy but had a girl instead. Next time we are going to try for a boy"... shut up troll.
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
@puppylove8910 Oh no, I have yet to get any questions regarding how much weight I've gained. But people have been quick to comment that it looks like I'm gigantic and can't believe that my due date isn't until March. Hmph. I used to just get comments about how I "don't look pregnant at all!" but those have quickly shifted these days.
@treetop19 I feel you on the TW being your schedule. My schedule has been OUT OF CONTROL for the last few weeks (hence my absence on here) and things are only going to get more hectic with more doctors appointments. At least my busy time at work is over after this week, so I have that to look forward to. Hang in there!
@chichiphin Omg yes that episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm! LOL! So fitting for life right now!
@stacey6689 Oh your coworker sounds insufferable! I have been having to work late nights at work in the city council chamber and one of the alderman were trying to find me a cushioned chair because the regular ones hurt my back immediately, and this lady I don't even know went apeshit about how when SHE was pregnant, she never got special treatment. It was mortifying.
my colleagues are all worried about my caseload as well and it’s totally okay to accept a bit of a reduced caseload if you need it. ♥️
someone who just loves to complain and to be honest a little narcissistic PD flavor may be at play 😂 she won’t ever stop complaining. Enjoy your last few weeks as much as you can!