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Month/Cycle:
CD:
WAYDTGKU:
R/R:
CS/Q:
Re: WTO Friday 12/20
CD: 19
WAYDTGKU: IVF - FET
R/R: Today is a new day. I'm putting my anger and anxiety [from yesterday's circumstances] aside and going to try to enjoy the days leading up to Christmas! DH is home today (he's using up his vacation days before the end of the year) and he had to take one of our dogs to the vet. Last night we noticed the skin around both of his eyes was all red and swollen and he was blinking a lot and not opening his eyes all the way. They looked better this morning, but I still wanted him seen. DH is there now with him and said that all the tests look fine and they're just going to give us some eye lube.
Picture of him (without his swollen eyes) because he's too cute to not share:
CS/Q: Not temping anymore
Month/Cycle: 30/25
CD: 8
WAYDTGKU: PNV, vit D & E, probiotic, L-Arginine, biopsy to check inflammation and receptivity/timing
R/R: I've noticed my length in answer for the WAYDTGKU is based on how good I'm feeling haha. Really really excited to open gifts with my immediate family tomorrow! It's been such a busy week outside work that I'm hoping today flies by so I can get things wrapped tonight!!
CS/Q: nope
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
CD: 12
WAYDTGKU: Letrozole, prenatal, Conceive Plus, HIO at least EOD, OPK’s, temping/tracking with FF, and progesterone after O.
R/R: It’s Friday! So excited to have several days off after today and get the Christmas holiday started!! We have lots of stuff to do...wrap presents, make candy, bake some yummy goodies, and I’m sure more stuff that I can’t think of. I’m actually looking forward to doing all that though! Although ask me again on Monday how I feel about it if it’s not all done! Haha.
CS/Q: None, these are the most stable my pre-O temps have ever been!
@feather_heather I’m glad you are approaching today as a new day!! I’m so sorry for your mom’s response yesterday and that you got into an argument after it. I hope you can enjoy the holidays and some time off with family!! Awe, your pup is so cute...so glad he’s ok!
@inthewoods23 hopefully somewhat shorter means better, and today is a good day!! ☺️ Yes, I love the idea of a furry Friday! I missed the last one because it was the period where I was gone for a few days. I hope your day flies by and you have a wonderful time with your family tomorrow!!
@inthewoods23 I have the questions for the dailies saved in my notes on my phone, so all I have to do reach day is update the CD and the R/R. Have fun doing presents with your family tomorrow!
@bluetickgal sounds like we have similar to do lists! What type of candy do you make?
Month/Cycle: 6/5
CD: 5
WAYDTGKU: prenatals and temping but otherwise NTNP for a bit.
R/R: I'm officially on winter break! My next day of work is January 2nd!! DH got the filling for the chocolate peanut butter balls made last night and we finished baking the gingerbreads. Tonight will be finishing the PB balls, making the ginger snaps dough and baking them, and decorating the gingerbreads.
CS/Q: nothing to see
Pretty sure tomorrow is CD1 for me, but knowing I'll be back with you ladies @gingermama29 @inthewoods23 @feather_heather @bluetickgal at least for a little while helps ease the sting!
Also, can we pretty please do a furry friends friday?
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
@bluetickgal I love oreo balls!!!
Month/Cycle: 12, 3 AL
CD: 3
WAYDTGKU: Temping, Clomid, OPKs, HIO
R/R: This week has been crazy, both in and out of work, but it's finally wrapping up. I've finished my final project for work and I have two fun social obligations to look forward to tonight and tomorrow. I was bummed when AF arrived, but at least now I can drink all the alcohol I've been stockpiling. Cheers!
CS/Q: n/a
I love the idea of a furry friends Friday!
Me: 35 DH: 34
Married: April 2014
DS born 9/16
TTC #2 since December 2018
BFP 8/19 MMC 10/19
BFP 5/20 MC 6/20
@inthewoods23 Good luck with wrapping! I sooo suck at wrapping--it's gotten to the point where it's a shared joke with my loved ones as they open gifts from me. And hell yes to furry Friday!
@bluetickgal Good luck with that holiday to-do list! I understand what you mean about enjoy it though. I even enjoy the aforementioned terrible wrapping.
@gingermama29 Chocolate peanut butter amazeballs! I do the same thing with the dailies in my phone haha.
@mamasloth So sorry AF arrived. Drink up and be good to yourself.
Month/Cycle: 10/10
CD: 15
WAYDTGKU: Having sex.
R/R: Kind of annoyed that MH hasn't gotten the results back from his SA yet. It's been over a week. How long do these things usually take? This whole TTC extravaganza has been an exercise in patience for me--and sometimes I fail miserably.
CS/Q: I think O is today 🎉
@ssbl - where did he have his SA? We had to bring ours to the hospital lab, he registered for the app associated with the care network, and we had results in 2 days - dropped SA off Friday morning, results hit the app by Sunday morning.
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
@bluetickgal those sound dangerously delicious. I could not have them at home
@mamasloth all the eggnog!!!
@inthewoods23 I feel like I alter WAYDTGKU depending on hopefulness too! (Unless I’m in a rush and then I just copy paste)
@feather_heather and @inthewoods23 YES FURRY FRIDAY!
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD: 7
WAYDTGKU: BBT, CM/CP, OPKs, PNVs, low carbohydrate diet, no caffeine. Probably going for EODish, but we’re playing it sort of by ear.
R/R: traveling which is always a little stressful, but going to see DH tonight!!