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Month/Cycle:
CD:
WAYDTGKU:
R/R:
CS/Q:
Re: WTO Wednesday 10/9
Month/Cycle: 11/12
CD: 5
WAYDTGKU: BBT, OPKs, tracking CM.
R/R: TW for pregnancy (not mine)
Then I needed to sit and unwind for awhile when I got home and was up way too late. Now I’m exhausted so it’s going to be one of those days. The good news is that there is an end in sight to my work craziness! Should just be a couple more days until I’m caught up (for now haha)
CS/Q:
Edit to add TW/spoiler
CD: 14
WAYDTGKU: bbt, hio, pnv
R/R: I feel really great today for some reason. I took a break from lifting last week because I did something to my back toward the end of the prior week. So I’m excited to get back in the gym during lunch today. My husband and I have been having amazing sex recently and I’m always down for it and compared pervious months. And I’m finally fertile, according to ff! Im
predicting the O will be around Friday or Saturday. When I was on bc I started to O pain a few months again. Now I feel like I’m going to symptom watch the shit out of my body to see if I can match it with when ff says that I O.
CS/Q:
@blackgirlmagic - My husband did something to his back last week lifting too, and while he says its getting better slowly, he's still shuffling around slowly and struggling to get in and out of bed. This morning he said he might call out sick because his back and I told him that if it's that bad that he can't go to work then he needs to go see a doctor! He went to work...
Month/Cycle: 14
CD: doesn't matter right now
WAYDTGKU: starting IVF next week!
R/R: Got the call yesterday that my insurance approved IVF! Waiting on all the meds to be approved, and next Friday I'll have a pre-op appointment, a mock transfer, and an anesthesiology consult. So hopefully starting everything next weekend!! So excited, but also feeling apprehensive and overwhelmed. DH and I sat down last night to discuss what we would do with any leftover embryos (in the far future) and agreed that we would adopt them out if we could. I have congenital heart defects, so I'm now wondering if our embryos would even qualify for adoption?
CS/Q: none
CD: 5
WAYDTGKU: Everything
R/R: I bungled my PCP's office hours yesterday, and didn't realize they closed at 5. They're 30 minutes away without traffic, so I'm going to try to bust my butt to get there today at lunchtime.
My huge fall work event is next week and I'm starting to stress out about it big-time. This may have been a terrible cycle to start my IF testing, but I guess there's never a "good" time, right? Hoping I get a lot done today so I don't feel guilty about having to leave for over an hour today to handle the lab order and then for 2 hours ( ) on Friday to handle my HSG.
CS/Q: Nope
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
@feather_heather So freaking excited for you!!! I think it's very smart of you to be thinking to the future! Have you done PGS? That may impact whether or not you can donate?
@blackgirlmagic Congrats on getting back into the gym! That's the best feeling!
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
I don't think there is ever a good time to start all the testing, or to have to go thru fertility treatments. I have a lot of night meetings at work, and I'm already panicking a bit about when we do the egg retrieval and transfer and missing meetings, but c'est la vie! I'm probably going to end up telling my boss what is going on, so that I have a legitimate excuse to miss any meetings/work days.
@bows22 I’ve started doing that to avoid any stares at my stomach or questions. Damn me and my oversharing nature of telling people we were ttc back in May 😐 and I don’t think it’s rude to drink in front of pregnant people.
@blackgirlmagic My sex drive is always out of control during my fertile window. Not sure if it’s always been like that or my ambitious nature to get my goals accomplished 😂
@feather_heather congrats on insurance approval. That’s amazing!
@blackgirlmagic sounds like your body is itching to get back to working out!
@feather_heather DH and I have also talked about our extra embryos (assuming we stop having failures!). He seems totally fine with the idea but for me I have this weird feeling that donating an embryo means there would be a human out there that is biologically ours but not ours. The idea just seems so weird to me! But of course we have time to figure that out. As for your heart defect, I don't know if that makes you ineligible for donating embryos. That's a really good question! I can't remember what I've read on that subject
@mvt2003 nope, never a good time 😆 but at least in the testing phase it's just simple BW or an US for the most part. Oh, and waiting of course!
Month/Cycle: 28/23
CD: 13
WAYDTGKU: OPKs, temping, waiting on test results
R/R: it's Wednesday and I'm already looking toward the weekend. I basically won't see DH again til probably 9 tonight *sigh* I just miss him a lot when he's not home.
On the plus side, the swab they did of my cervix came back this morning. They looked for 3 different bacteria and none are present so, cool cool.
CS/Q: my OPKs are still squinters! I'm wondering when the heck O is gonna be when the 2nd line is almost not even there!
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause indefinitely
@tyrion_ I did discover it before I drove there thankfully!!! I was cooking dinner and thought to myself "hmmm. the google business hours said 8pm, but maybe I should call and confirm" and I did and was so irritated at myself. FX I can do it today!!! Because if I can't do it today it won't be until the end of next week now because next week is my busiest week at work
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
CD: 1
WAYDTGKU: bbt, OPK, SMEP, maca
R/R: not a whole lot here. I bought some pumpkin spice coffee creamer yesterday, so I’m living my best life this morning, while also dying of cramps. ☠️🎃
CS/Q: nothing to see.
@blackgirlmagic yay for good sex! GL during FW!
@inthewoods23 That's very true. The only hard part is having to disappear for 1-2 hours in the middle of the day which I usually NEVER do. Arguably though, all of the stress over work stuff is helping distract me from my personal life at the moment. Woke up at 5am thinking about this meeting next week, which was fun. I'm super glad they didn't find any of the bacteria!!!
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
Month/Cycle: 17/12/2 AL#2
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: Letrozole, Metformin, prenatal, Conceive Plus, HIO EOD, temping/tracking with FF, and adding in progesterone after O.
R/R: So glad we have today off...sleeping in our own bed again was so nice!! Finished unpacking this morning and have so much laundry. Knocking it out one load at a time though!
CS/Q: Nope, just one lonely dot!
@bows22 I wouldn’t feel bad about having a drink, I totally understand wanting to avoid the question! Glad you should be able to get caught up at work very soon!
@blackgirlmagic hope you have a great workout and no more issues with your back!
@feather_heather I’m so happy your insurance approved IVF and you can move forward! I’m sure next Friday will be here before you know it...hopefully the apprehension decreases! That’s neat you are considering adopting out your leftover embryos in the future!
@mvt2003 that stinks you weren’t able to get to your PCP yesterday, but definitely good you realized before you drove there! No, there is no good time for testing/treatment...but hopefully it doesn’t interfere too much with work!
@inthewoods23 hopefully the day goes by fast so you can see YH! Is it bad that I’ve been on vacation and I’m still looking forward to the weekend?! Yay for no bacteria!
@photographerwife sorry for CD1! Yay for pumpkin spice creamer though! Hope your cramps get better soon!
@mvt2003 can you get in early before work? My clinic has appointments as early as 7, but does make earlier appointments if necessary - I needed 6:45 appointments the week of the IVF meds monitoring because I needed to be an hour away for work training that started at 8am that entire week!
@bluetickgal no shame lol. When I did the 3 days off for the FET, I was looking forward to the weekend when I got back to work on Thursday lol
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause indefinitely
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
@blackgirlmagic I’m glad your back is feeling better. I hope your day continues to be great
@feather_heather that’s amazing that you guys are going to donate your embryos if you can. I’d like to think I’d do the same but I’m sure it’s not an easy decision
@mvt2003 are you able to do work at home in the evening? It really does wonders for my guilt and stress levels when I need to take care of other things during the day
@inthewoods23 I’m glad your tests are all going well! I hope you get a darker OPK soon. Mine (wondfos) always go from very light to positive out of nowhere
@photographerwife I’m sorry to see you here ❤️they do know we are TTC. TW for PG friend
@bluetickgal I hope you are enjoying your day off! And then you’ll have a short work week this week! Nice way to ease back in from vacation.
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
@feather_heather ahhh that's so soon! I know this is totally weird but I got really excited for you reading that even though I barely know you.
@photographerwife ugh sorry about CD1 and cramps. I hope you feel better soon.
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD: 5
WAYDTGKU: PNV, CoQ10, MTHFR diet, glutathione, baby aspirin, checking CM, OPKs, whatever I'm forgetting and obviously sex.
R/R: I was looking ahead at this cycle doing some planning and I'm like "oh nice it looks like my husband will be in town if I O around CD14." And then I realized my parents are visiting that week. Should be interesting trying to convince my husband to sneak in sex while they're here. He is so weird about having sex if anyone is visiting. The master bedroom is downstairs and the guest room is upstairs so it isn't like the guests are likely to hear anything if we are romately discreet but still. But that's a solid week from now so I'm not going to worry about all that yet. I'll cross that bridge when I get there. Also let me just say that avoiding folic acid in my diet kinda sucks. Its like "oh look at that delicious pumpkin bread! And its loaded with 25% of my RDA of folic acid so I can't have it." Damn you MTHFR.
CS/Q:
TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016
Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss
Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017 ❤️
Baby #2 due June 12, 2018
TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016
Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss
Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017 ❤️
Baby #2 due June 12, 2018
But maybe that's due to everything else in the IF world being sounded out vs saying the individual letters.... Well excluding IVF.
FET is feht, not F.E.T.
ICSI is ick-see, not I.C.S.I.
ERA is ear-rah, not E.R.A
@feather_heather same, and at the same time I wonder how that conversation would go - you were adopted before you were a growing fetus. Super awkward to say to a kid that's yours but not yours.
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause indefinitely
CD: 13
WAYDTGKU: bbt, cm, opk, charting, pnv, eod sex
R/R: Had another decent day at work! I do have to go to a meeting tonight which i'm not looking forward to, kind of just want to sleeeeeep.
Tomorrow is our one year wedding anniversary! I don't know if we will do anything though. I'm off but H has to work, we just went out on monday so...
I got the rest of my fall decor! here's some photos of the outside, I like it simple. my mums are starting to bloom!
@NamelessAria the wreath one is for you.
CS/Q:
@bows22 I definitely don't blame you for drinking! Especially to avoid any questions!
@blackgirlmagic darn that sucks that you hurt your back. good thing you can get back into the gym though! & that's awesome that you and your H have had such a good time!
@feather_heather that's so exciting that you're so close to starting! that's amazing that insurance is covering it. fx everything goes smoothly
@mvt2003 oh man sorry you're so busy with appts and work! even though its stressful I think its good that you started now!
@inthewoods23 boo for your H not being home but yay for a negative cervix culture!! fx your opk turns soon!
@photographerwife sorry for the killer cramps but i'm glad you got some yummy creamer!
@bluetickgal ooooh theres something about coming home after a trip that's so nice. yay for having the day off!
@namelessaria hope that your H is down to get down even if you have visitors. fw is priority!! i'm sorry your diet is limited I didn't' know that you had to limit your folic acid intake with mthfr!
CD: 15 or 1??
WAYDTGKU: PNV, temp
R/R: So this afternoon I felt like I was getting pretty lubed up and actually feel like having sex so I thought ok, cool, I must be getting close to ovulating. Then I got home and... turns out it’s blood. I always have a shorter cycle but 15 days really? I did go off birth control a few days into my last cycle but I usually snap back to normal pretty fast. Hopefully it’s just a little rando spotting but I don’t think so. It’s significant like the start of a period.
CS/Q:
BFP #2 3/21/16 Nora Mae born 12/6/16
BFP #3 11/27/20 EDD 8/6/21
@photographerwife sorry about cd 1.
BFP #2 3/21/16 Nora Mae born 12/6/16
BFP #3 11/27/20 EDD 8/6/21
CD: 6
WAYDTGKU: Half assed temping, taking terrible care of my body and worse care of my mental health. It's cool.
R/R: So a small rave - TW MC
Stupid allergies.
@bows22 The only time I would feel bad drinking in front of a pregnant woman is if you know she has a history of issues with it. Other wise - bottoms up!
@feather_heather My dad hurt his knee right before my mom had surgery (reconstructive from cancer, so fairly major) - She had to have it REDONE and she is back to 100% and he is still whining four months later. Men are the biggest babies hurt / sick
@photographerwife I hope you feel better quickly!
@blackgirlmagic Great job getting back to the gym! I have been awful about it lately. Its COLD out. I don't want to move.
@konoha ahhh happy wedding anniversary. It goes by so fast.
@inthewoods23 sorry O is playing keep away! MH and I used to work opposite shifts. I admit... I kinda liked having weeknights to myself.
@NamelessAria Freeze that pumpkin bread!
@HotSauceSwagBag My cycles lately got annoyingly short. It wasn't 15 total, but definitely like 21. Ugh.
@whatsbumpinpumpkin im glad everything has semi calmed down for our. Fx for you soon! 💕
BFP #2 3/21/16 Nora Mae born 12/6/16
BFP #3 11/27/20 EDD 8/6/21