TMI: worried about miscarriage

Re: TMI: worried about miscarriage

• harpseal135 member

  September 2019 edited September 2019

  lionsgurl829 said:

  Okay, I’m sorry if I sound psycho and ridiculous but I’m really worried. My husband and I were having doggy style sex this evening. He was putting it in and accidentally grazed the wrong hole before he put his penis in my vagina. I didn’t even think anything about it at the time, but now I'm freaking out something could happen to my baby. I’m almost 6 weeks. Has anyone experienced this and everything turned out okay? We tried for almost 2 years for this LO and I feel so stupid potentially jeopardizing the pregnancy 😢
  

  Um honey, sex will not cause a miscarriage.  And "grazing" the wrong hole isnt going to hurt you nor  actually anal sex isn't going to cause a miscarriage. If you get bacteria vaginosis,, a yeast infection, or something, get to your doc right away and always be careful going from back to front - pregnant or not.
  
  This will be a long pregnancy if you are worried over sex causing a miscarriage. 
  

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• Jyoung327 member

  September 2019

  I'm not sure I understand what you are worrying about....bacteria? Uti? Because during birth some women tear from one hole to the other so any grazing is not going to effect a baby unless its leading to untreated infection. 

  Me: 29  DH: 31, married 6/21/14, TTC since 7/14

  BFP #1 EDD 7/17/15, MMC 1/9/15 @8w

  BFP #2 4/3/15= ectopic treated with methotrexate 5/1, YET ruptured 5/18/15= One Tube Wonder!

  2 Cycles of Femara, Ovidrel, & Progesterone= BFP #3 DS born 5/17/16
  TTC #2 March 2017 (initially med free) 
  BFP #4 8/14/17 *natural cycle* EDD= 4/25/18, MC @5-6w D&C 9/22/17
  BFP #5 12/29/17 w/ Femara/Ovidrel/Progesterone/Synthroid, EDD= 9/11/18 found out 1/18 ITS di/di TWINS!!!
  DS and DD born 8/21/18 

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• Malidocious member

  September 2019 edited September 2019

  You are absolutely fine, lol.

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• brookert615 member

  September 2019

  Butt babies are real.

  TW
  

  BFP 6/3/19 EDD 2/14/20 BFP 4/15/21 EDD 12/20/21
  Diagnosed with PCOS & Hashimoto's
  

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• mokay19 member

  September 2019

  LOL. I totally thought OP was asking if doing anal was going to harm her baby. 

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• delujm0 member

  September 2019

  Butt Baby 2.0
   
  Seriously though, everyone is at least lightly worried about a miscarriage during early pregnancy.  Not everyone thinks that sex could cause a miscarriage.  Almost no one thinks that anal sex (and this wasn't even anal sex y'all) could cause a miscarriage.  You are fine.  If it was dangerous for you to have sex while pregnant, your doctor would tell you.
   
  If you think you may have an infection as a result of this, of course call your doctor, but from what you described that seems pretty unlikely.  Carry on.
  

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• emeraldcity1214 member

  September 2019 edited September 2019

  Lord help your baby when you take your first poop. Don’t push the baby out because you’re constipated. 😂 Maybe you should start on some Miralax now so you don’t get to that point. 
  
  Edit: fix you’re 

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• stassischroeder member

  September 2019

  I don't even understand what the OP is asking. I mean, she had a csection with her previous child, so maybe she's confused which hole makes a baby?
  
  
  
  
  

  
  
  *Formerly LuND*
  Me: 35 | DH: 37
  TTC: 7/2016
  Low AMH, mild MFI
  BFP 7/29/17
  EDD: 4/5/18
    DS born 4/4/18 
  BFP #2 7/2/19
  EDD 3/13/20
  
  

  
  

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• delujm0 member

  September 2019

  big ups to @stassischroeder for doing the research, i assumed OP was a FTM because of the insanity of this question, but apparently not.  Yikes.
  

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• teev12 member

  October 2019

  Why is everyone being so mean... don't answer her question if you're just going to ridicule. C'mon, everyone gets worried sometimes about little things. Just be nice. Or ignore the question.

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• stassischroeder member

  October 2019

  teev12 said:

  Why is everyone being so mean... don't answer her question if you're just going to ridicule. C'mon, everyone gets worried sometimes about little things. Just be nice. Or ignore the question.

  relatively new account, first post is a WK ... not suspicious at all. 
  
  
  

  
  
  *Formerly LuND*
  Me: 35 | DH: 37
  TTC: 7/2016
  Low AMH, mild MFI
  BFP 7/29/17
  EDD: 4/5/18
    DS born 4/4/18 
  BFP #2 7/2/19
  EDD 3/13/20
  
  

  
  

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