Hi All, We've beeing TTC for almost a year . This is the first cycle when my period is 4 days late . I don't normaly temp ,but something was into me at 14dpo and i checked my BBT it was 88.6 , Today at 18dpo at the same time of the day it is 99.3 . Ocasionally i have some spotting since yesterday 17dpo , but it is just spotting not a flow . I am too scared to test , because i am afraid to face the disapointment of BFN . Is there anyone who can help with an idea . I know that if i test i will probably get my answer , i just need support . Thanks
Re: 18dpo no AF , scared to test
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins in 2023
Consultation with RI | TBD
It never happend to me untill now . I've always been regular 27 -28day cycles . The last time my period was late was more then 10 years ago , and i was pregnant, it didn't end well.i keep telling myself it will happen , but i think its tim to head to a doctor. I am 39yrs old and we've been trying for a year , so its time for a Dr.
I am so confused , should i see a doc. now should i test , i am in a lombo , and the moment i am greatfull that their are nice ladies here who are ready to help with advice . My only support system is hubby ,and noone else . His family doesn't know we are trying , my family wants it to happen so much that my sister is more strssed out about me not getting pregnant more then me .
AF is here full forse now .
Thank youvfor the support .