February 2020 Moms

WTF Wednesday

What has you saying "WTF" today?


TW
BFP 6/3/19 EDD 2/14/20 BFP 4/15/21 EDD 12/20/21
Diagnosed with PCOS & Hashimoto's
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  • @nhh11 Ugh, sorry he told your news :(.
    TW
    BFP 6/3/19 EDD 2/14/20 BFP 4/15/21 EDD 12/20/21
    Diagnosed with PCOS & Hashimoto's
  • @nhh11 I sympathize with you it’s ridiculous I told my boss early because I work outside in the Florida heat with her horses and specified that is why I was telling her and wasn’t announcing until late in the first trimester but she still felt the need to tell her whole family all of whom in turn felt comfortable enough to approach me about it including her 5 and 7 year old kids😡
  • @nhh11 Hopefully he just misread the situation or was overwhelmed with excitement? That sucks though! Like hello I said I was going to tell them- listening ears bro! I'm glad everyone is happy for you!

    On this topic my WTF is my Dad. My half sister told me over the phone yesterday that my Dad told my whole family (20-30 people) on July 4th (when I was like 8 weeks) that it's a secret and they shouldn't tell anyone, but that I'm pregnant. All I could do was laugh! Seriously?! Knew it was a secret and said so while telling errrrrrybody... I can't even be mad though- he still can't life without my mom. At least I was able to warn my other sister who has been TTC not to tell Dad until she wants the whole family to know.
  • @craftywitch What!!! That would drive me nuts! 
    TW
    BFP 6/3/19 EDD 2/14/20 BFP 4/15/21 EDD 12/20/21
    Diagnosed with PCOS & Hashimoto's
  • @craftywitch My dad is horrible at keeping secrets and even he managed not to tell family before we gave him the go-ahead. It probably helps that they live out-of-province and he doesn't really talk to them much. I also gave him permission to tell his coworkers since they don't know me or my husband and he decided to tell random cashiers, etc. Maybe offer those as suggestions to your stepsister as well, if you think she would be ok with it. 
  • My WTF Wednesday is why are AC units so freaking expensive. Boo. 
  • @craftywitch ugh! Sorry about that!! I guess now that we’re telling anyone, we may as well be telling everyone! 
  • @craftywitch my dad also outed me before I wanted to tell folks! 🤦🏻‍♀️
  • I can’t remember the last time anyone in our house was sick and now all of a sudden, days before school starts, both kids have colds and I have a sore throat. WTF. We were so close. 😩
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • My WTF Wednesday is: why do people insist on holding impromptu meetings that last 4 HOURS long? Seriously, what started as a quick get together turned into a 4 hour long crap show that resolved nothing. I get that some of my coworkers come in later in the day (around 10am) and don’t take breaks until 2 or 3. But I come in at 7:30, so keeping me in an unplanned meeting from 10-2 with no breaks at all is ridiculous. I need to eat, pee, take a walk (I haven’t told work I’m pregnant yet but I think these are things everyone needs) and WORK! So now I’m pissed off, tired, starving, and have a migraine from not eating.
  • @nhh11 yeah i told "Susie" from hr i needed fmla paperwork. And then the next week an old friend from another department was telling me she heard i was pregnant, and that she is too. I was like "oh, whos spreading rumors? Lol" and she was like "susie from hr told me." And while im sure their convo was like "hey im pregnant! - oh so is Robyn!" I was kinda like wtf, she works in hr, thats very unprofessional! It wasnt a big secret or anything but i was mad.
    That is so messed up!! Especially for an HR professional who should be used to using discretion. 
  • I know it's not Wednesday anymore but I forgot to post this yesterday and it's still going on today. 
    There is some random noise in my office that sounds like somebody is using a jigsaw! It seems to come from various areas too and nobody's doing construction work that I can tell. It's loud, happens at random intervals for varying lengths of time and it makes me absolutely crazy! 
  • @babyroma maybe it is a pipe or something else in the ceiling vibrating when air comes in?
    TTC#1
    10/2018: MFI (2 SA under 9 million/ml)
    11/2018: HSG shows right Fallopian tube slightly damaged 
    1/2019: Husband diagnosed with grade 3 varicocele
    4/05/2019: varicocele repair surgery
    6/13/2019: BFP!!! EDD: 2/22/2020 <3  Baby girl born 2/27/2020
    7/18/2019: Total Motile Count at 3 months post surgery = 51 millions!! (number must be >20 millions to conceive naturally).

    TTC #2
    9/07/2021: BFP - CP: 9/10/2021
    10/07/2021: BFP - CP: 10/23/2021
    12/23/2021: BFP! EDD: 08/31/2022

  • @rikiteacup
    i have no idea. I walked by one of the stairwells earlier and there was a similar noise coming from there, but I don't sit close to either of the sets of stairs. It's like the cicadas of the office world haha. 
  • @mandk1233 I notice and I get annoyed by it lol. But then I realize that not everyone has been on an organized board before lol. TTGP threads spoiled me with the organization! 
    TW
    BFP 6/3/19 EDD 2/14/20 BFP 4/15/21 EDD 12/20/21
    Diagnosed with PCOS & Hashimoto's
  • @brookert615 Fair enough, I suppose. I just don't understand why you wouldn't take time to read a few threads before posting. Heck, I lurked (first in January then here) for over a month before I posted anything. 
  • @mandk1233 Lol because you're just good at following rules!  :D I feel like a lot of the one-off posts are the same people that don't read the directions on normal every day things LOL
    TW
    BFP 6/3/19 EDD 2/14/20 BFP 4/15/21 EDD 12/20/21
    Diagnosed with PCOS & Hashimoto's
  • @brookert615 😂 You're probably right. 
  • I'm trying to just ignore the one-off posts and hoping they get the hint. 
    Me:37 MH:37
    TTGP since 07/2017
    **TW** in spoiler
    DX: PCOS, anovulatory, AMA
    Femara X3: no response
    Clomid X3: BFN (cyst and thin lining)
    IUI (Dec '18) MMC
    IVF (April '19) 9 retrieved, 7 fertilized, 2 normal PGT-A
    FET 06/12/19 - BFP! EDD 02/27/20




  • The one off posts are starting to make me miss the days when it was acceptable to be a “drama llama”
  • @doodleoodle Because you want to do that or because you want to flip out at them? 
  • @mandk1233 because the drive by posters are so annoying and get so bent out of shape when people respond with sassy GIFS
  • mandk1233mandk1233 member
    edited August 2019
    @doodleoodle We got sassy with that girl who wanted us to Ramzi her baby and she seemed to be scared off. Maybe we should all just start being sassy and they will get the hint.

    Edited because I had forgotten the name for Ramzing and just remembered. 
  • @mandk1233 oh yeah! I forgot about that one. 
  • @leksiL nothing! It’s just not the vibe of the board, at all lol but now that I know it’s acceptable I’m going to bust out my sassy GIFs next time we see a rando create an unnecessary one off post
  • @doodleoodle I am eagerly awaiting this as I have so many sassy things I want to say! 😁😈
  • +1 on gifs for the next Peggy!  :D
    TW
    BFP 6/3/19 EDD 2/14/20 BFP 4/15/21 EDD 12/20/21
    Diagnosed with PCOS & Hashimoto's
  • Everything is driving me crazy. My WTF today: this guy at work emailed and asked me to review something by 8/22.  He IMs me today (8/14) asking if I’ve reviewed it yet. 

    Me: “I haven’t yet. Do you need a response sooner than 8/22?”
    Him: “yes”.
    Me: “Your email specifically said 8/22”
    Him: 
    Me: “...When do you need it...?” 
    Him: “before 8/22” 
    Me: “ok in future emails, can you be more clear about your deadline because that’s the date I’m going by.” 

    He’s lucky I didn’t freak out on him. SIGH.  🙄🙄🙄
  • Omg drive by and one-off posts drive me nuts! Now that I’m back here I will totally shame them with gifs and/or snark. 

  • edited August 2019
    So we had a crazy person (I'm assuming) try to break into our house this morning at 5am! Police were called but they didn't catch the person. Guess it's good that I'm always armed. 
  • @sassypants2010 OMG I’m glad you and your family are safe! People are nuts! 
  • So we had a crazy person (I'm assuming) try to break into our house this morning at 5am! Police were called but they didn't catch the person. Guess it's good that I'm always armed. 
    Omg! Glad y’all are ok!
  • Oh  random posts. Just ignore them.  The conversations on here remind me a lot of my college classes. Who has ever had a class without that one person who just doesn't get IT like ever.  
  • @sassypants2010 wow I’m glad they didn’t succeed at breaking in! I’m also glad to hear I’m not the only armed mama around here. :relaxed:
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