Hello! Today is the second installment of our Older Baby Product Series. Last week we touched on
seasonal considerations as our babies grow over the next year; next week we'll talk babyproofing, and today I wanted to open suggestions for all things related to babies' teething and eating once they're through that first milk-only stage, which will often involve products that we can put on our registries now!
Teething: what should FTMs expect to stock up on for teething babies? Did STMs put their babies in bibs all day long for the drool? What teething toys or accessories do you recommend (ahem, the ubiquitous
Sophie)? Did your babies like things stored in the fridge or freezer? Are you a proponent of those amber necklace accessories? Other than things to give to baby, is there anything YOU wore to assist with teething, like particular jewelry they can chew on? What did you do if the pain was really ramping up (please don't say a solid shot of whiskey)? Is there anything to AVOID during the teething stage, like putting up teething guards to avoid damage to the crib from overenthusiastic gnawing?
Baby food and feeding! I love this topic: First of all, where did they eat? Do you have strong opinions on high chairs, baby booster seats, etc? And WHAT did they eat? Are there baby food products you loved and want to recommend? What brand of their very first cereal did you use? What brand of baby purees and snacks? Did you exclusively make your own baby food, and if so what products did you use for that: baby food storage containers? Special baby-food-making contraptions? Handy sources with good recipes? And finally what do you recommend for babies to use while eating--can you recommend your favorite sippy cup, baby bowl, baby spoon, snack container, bib? Any special products or techniques for cleaning up baby food messes? Please share!
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With food - I think I am a typical mom in that my two kids had totally different experiences. With my first I bought everything completely organic fresh from the market and then would steam or bake it accordingly. I introduced 1 thing at a time and slowly introduced combos and spices (I.e. cinammon on squash) once I knew she could tolerate the base food. It was a lot of time and energy but I liked doing it. With my son I introduced the pouches much earlier. Still all organic and I like the brand with the clear packaging so you can ensure the purée inside looks good (sorry I can’t remember the brand name!). It was much easier (although pricier) to go the pouch route and it also normally led to introducing more than 1 food at a time but he always did fine. This kid will probably eat scraps off of the floor at 5 months! Ha. Oh, and their first actual food was Earths Best Oatmeal for both of them and then we went to something simple like smashed avocado. I don’t have a huge chair preference other than I don’t like fabric because it’s hard to keep clean and the mess is real. Something that you can whipe the entire thing clean after each meal without needing a washing machine is ideal. And the rubber bibs with the catch at the bottom are great!
Feeding: I have strong opinions about how I feed my kids but am very much a "you do you" person when it comes to how other people feed their kids. Here are my personal what works for us views:
-I HATE high chairs. It takes up space, so many covers to clean, ugh drives me crazy. We have a $25-30 hard plastic booster seat that fits on one of our dining chairs. There is a detachable tray thst sometimes we use sometimes dont. It saves money and space, it is super easy to clean and it is portable for whnen we are going places.
-With DD I made all of my own purees, with DS I made some. Freeze in silicone ice cube trays. Certain things like mashing up a banana could not be easier to do. Also, you can use breast milk to thin out purees. I never bought fancy equipment, just fork, bowl, mini food processor, blender, etc...
-We avoid baby cereal as we do not find it to be necessary for the most part. For awhile we had to give it to DD to try and fatten her up but DS never had it.
-I like to start with vegetables to hopefully get them used to the taste before introducing sweet fruits.
-For first sippy cups I am obssessed with these! They have handles so they are easy to hold, the soft spout makes it easy for them while still being spill resistant and they are easy to clean NUK Learner Sippy Cup, 5oz 1pk, Packaging May Vary https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00BEVSSDA/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_wvY.Cb3D8A1SY
-I also love these mesh feeder that work for teething too
Munchkin Fresh Food Feeder, 2 Pack, Blue/Green https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000GK5XY2/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_2xY.CbZ0T6CQ6
-As soon as they are interested in table food I give them little bits of whatever we are eating. When we have a baby in the house I find myself saving the most random assortment of tiny leftovers.
-As they get older I continue putting things on their plate because they may decide they like them one day. If I know for sure they truly hate what I am making for dinner, I will make something different. Or I will make something that can easily modify into something they like, for example taking chicken from chicken fajitas and putting it in quesadillas. By age 3.5-4 we enforce the "no thank you bite" or "x amount of bites" rule depending on the food.
-Advice: get a dog and don't put white carpet in your dining room. When we bought our house DD was 11 months old and the dining room had white carpet. We have replaced it with hardwood and between that and our dog, meal clean up is much easier.
I am also just throwing this out there but do not put too much pressure on yourself to make sure your kid is a good eater. Both of mine were EBF then fed practically the same way, DD is not really a picky eater at all (she may be a moody eater but will eat a wide variety of foods) and DS is horribly picky. Parents give themselves far too much credit.
1/12/13 DD was born
4/9/16 DS was born
9/17 CP
6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19
Feeding - we use a chicco travel high chair. It straps to the chair and has a detachable tray. I bought baby food, mostly beechnut. And used Gerber cereal. Idk, we were very lackadaisical about feeding. We did some purees some table foods some homemade mashed stuff like bananas, avocado, sweet potatoes.
Bunny teether - The cloth is 100% organic cotton and the company they buy the wooden rings from use solid maple wood and seal it with 100% organic coconut oil and beeswax. Etsy. He may end up not liking it, but it's a start.
Antilop High Chair - With tray and this Langur padded seat cover all from IKEA.
These baby bandana drool bibs - 100% organic cotton. I have their GOTs license # if anyone wants it.
My 7 Year Journey ***Tw in spoiler***
IVF #1 - September 2018; Follistim, Menopur, Cetrotide & Lupron/HCG combo trigger; PGS; ICSI
Back on Levothyroxine
FET #1 - October 2018; cancelled, all PGS aneuploid
FET #1 - November 30th, transferred anyway
Wondfo BFP 5dp5dt, CB Digi 6dpt,
1st Beta on 7dpt 93
2nd Beta on 10dpt 510!
TTC #1 since 2011. Tried for 5 years before we knew there was a one year rule.
Diag w/MS 2016; w/PCOS & IF 2017
New RE 2018; PCOS diagnosis taken away, IF due to ovary adhesions, but prev. RE insists PCOS IF
IUI
IUI #1 July 2017 w/100mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #2 October 2017 w/50mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #3 February 2018 w/5mg Femara+trigger; low P
BFP February; mc March; Subclinical hypothyroid started Levothyroxine
IUI #4 March 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Medicated cycle & TI April 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Tried several cycles on our own; all BFN
I have two high chairs, the basic IKEA one (dining room) that's great because it's so simple and doesn't get gross, and the Graco Blossom 6-in-1 (kitchen) which I secretly prefer. We also fed DD on a basic Bumbo seat if we were feeding her elsewhere, like the living room. For high chair/kitchen/sticky hands cleanup I use 7th generation wipes, which I found were too big for diaper use (we use Water Wipes for that) but are perfect for this.
Our baby eating gear is primarily Munchkin: spoons (which are mainly good for a grownup feeding baby--the long handle makes it hard for baby to use once they start wanting to feed themselves), sippy cups, snack catchers, suction bowls; I also use these Nuk bowls all the time. My favorite bibs were the more solid silicone ones with a catcher at the bottom, but full-body bibs were also a life-(and outfit-)saver! Now that DD is older we're transitioning to more toddler appropriate gear: for her 2nd birthday I got her several dining sets (divided plate, bowl, mug, fork, spoon) made out of bamboo and melamine.
I made all my own baby food and will do so for this one, but I don't use any special baby gear (just regular pots and pans and immersion blender) or make anything extra complicated beyond veggie/spice purees, yogurt blends, and bone broths. I use these little storage containers, and really liked these pouches but DD was meh about using them.
My 7 Year Journey ***Tw in spoiler***
IVF #1 - September 2018; Follistim, Menopur, Cetrotide & Lupron/HCG combo trigger; PGS; ICSI
Back on Levothyroxine
FET #1 - October 2018; cancelled, all PGS aneuploid
FET #1 - November 30th, transferred anyway
Wondfo BFP 5dp5dt, CB Digi 6dpt,
1st Beta on 7dpt 93
2nd Beta on 10dpt 510!
TTC #1 since 2011. Tried for 5 years before we knew there was a one year rule.
Diag w/MS 2016; w/PCOS & IF 2017
New RE 2018; PCOS diagnosis taken away, IF due to ovary adhesions, but prev. RE insists PCOS IF
IUI
IUI #1 July 2017 w/100mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #2 October 2017 w/50mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #3 February 2018 w/5mg Femara+trigger; low P
BFP February; mc March; Subclinical hypothyroid started Levothyroxine
IUI #4 March 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Medicated cycle & TI April 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Tried several cycles on our own; all BFN
-I like ibuprofen over acetaminophen for teething pain b/c it reduces inflammation and lasts a couple hours longer, which is nice for overnight.
Otherwise...I have no teething advice. DD didn’t want any kind of teething device we offered her and was generally ok once medicated.
Feeding:
-I’ll also recommend the Graco Blossom high chair that @cato99 mentioned. I love that we can wheel it around everywhere, I love the multiple trays, I love that it’s super easy to clean / throw the covers in the washing machine, and I love the separate booster seat (DD will continue to use the booster seat attached to a kitchen chair while one of the twins is using the high chair).
-Now we use the Munchkin spoons all the time, but at first DD didn’t like them (I think they were too deep, b/c they’re kind of “bowl” shaped) and we initially had a lot more success with Playtex infant spoons that were more “shovel” shaped (they came in a 4-pack).
-We started with oatmeal cereal and graduated to purées, then mixed in some baby-led weaning. Hardest part for me was remembering that “food before one is fun.” I had to repeat that to myself a lot b/c otherwise I would get frustrated that DD wouldn’t eat a lot or would get half the food on the floor or herself (and @Allycat11 is right - I think a dog should be standard-issue gear for kids age 6mo-18mo to assist w/ floor clean-up).
-Yogurt melts, puffs, and those Happy Baby brand organic teething crackers were a staple on my counter and in the diaper bag for a really long time. Also, I wished I had introduced purée pouches earlier....they’re so easy and great for on-the-go.
-We use Oxo brand sippy-cups. It’s been a love-hate relationship. They hold up really well to been thrown on the floor multiple times a day for over a year. They don’t leak...except when DD chews a hole through the silicone straw (insert the hate part of this relationship). So we replace the silicone parts frequently...but I think we would have the same issue with most soft-spout sippy cups.
My 7 Year Journey ***Tw in spoiler***
IVF #1 - September 2018; Follistim, Menopur, Cetrotide & Lupron/HCG combo trigger; PGS; ICSI
Back on Levothyroxine
FET #1 - October 2018; cancelled, all PGS aneuploid
FET #1 - November 30th, transferred anyway
Wondfo BFP 5dp5dt, CB Digi 6dpt,
1st Beta on 7dpt 93
2nd Beta on 10dpt 510!
TTC #1 since 2011. Tried for 5 years before we knew there was a one year rule.
Diag w/MS 2016; w/PCOS & IF 2017
New RE 2018; PCOS diagnosis taken away, IF due to ovary adhesions, but prev. RE insists PCOS IF
IUI
IUI #1 July 2017 w/100mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #2 October 2017 w/50mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #3 February 2018 w/5mg Femara+trigger; low P
BFP February; mc March; Subclinical hypothyroid started Levothyroxine
IUI #4 March 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Medicated cycle & TI April 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Tried several cycles on our own; all BFN
My 7 Year Journey ***Tw in spoiler***
IVF #1 - September 2018; Follistim, Menopur, Cetrotide & Lupron/HCG combo trigger; PGS; ICSI
Back on Levothyroxine
FET #1 - October 2018; cancelled, all PGS aneuploid
FET #1 - November 30th, transferred anyway
Wondfo BFP 5dp5dt, CB Digi 6dpt,
1st Beta on 7dpt 93
2nd Beta on 10dpt 510!
TTC #1 since 2011. Tried for 5 years before we knew there was a one year rule.
Diag w/MS 2016; w/PCOS & IF 2017
New RE 2018; PCOS diagnosis taken away, IF due to ovary adhesions, but prev. RE insists PCOS IF
IUI
IUI #1 July 2017 w/100mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #2 October 2017 w/50mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #3 February 2018 w/5mg Femara+trigger; low P
BFP February; mc March; Subclinical hypothyroid started Levothyroxine
IUI #4 March 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Medicated cycle & TI April 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Tried several cycles on our own; all BFN
My 7 Year Journey ***Tw in spoiler***
IVF #1 - September 2018; Follistim, Menopur, Cetrotide & Lupron/HCG combo trigger; PGS; ICSI
Back on Levothyroxine
FET #1 - October 2018; cancelled, all PGS aneuploid
FET #1 - November 30th, transferred anyway
Wondfo BFP 5dp5dt, CB Digi 6dpt,
1st Beta on 7dpt 93
2nd Beta on 10dpt 510!
TTC #1 since 2011. Tried for 5 years before we knew there was a one year rule.
Diag w/MS 2016; w/PCOS & IF 2017
New RE 2018; PCOS diagnosis taken away, IF due to ovary adhesions, but prev. RE insists PCOS IF
IUI
IUI #1 July 2017 w/100mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #2 October 2017 w/50mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #3 February 2018 w/5mg Femara+trigger; low P
BFP February; mc March; Subclinical hypothyroid started Levothyroxine
IUI #4 March 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Medicated cycle & TI April 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Tried several cycles on our own; all BFN
1/12/13 DD was born
4/9/16 DS was born
9/17 CP
6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19
I also realized that I never responded to this post, although I'm not sure that I have much to add. For teething we used the key ring thing that you stick in the fridge, 90% of the time we forgot to put it in the fridge, but both boys liked chewing on it even at room temperature. We gave them Tylenol only if they were having difficulty sleeping.
We also never got a "real" high chair we use the Fisher Price one that attaches to a chair. We used to keep the cloth cover on it and wash it regularly, but we gave up on that, so now it's just the plastic.
Edit to add OOPS! I should have read the other posts stating the same thing
@Allycat11 Get a dog
I am a FTM but I was going to suggest things that worked for my sisters
Frozen damp cloths and The munchkin fresh food feeders with frozen fruit in them