Does anyone here have experience with GD that might be able to answer a question? This is baby #3 but first time with GD for me.
I am 99%sure I have food poisoning and was vomiting all night. This morning my fasting blood sugar was the exact same as it was after I ate dinner last night. I thought it would be signifcantly lower, any thoughts on this?
11/2010 Diagnosed with PCOS
10/31/11 M/C at 9 weeks 1/12/13 DD was born 4/9/16 DS was born 9/17 CP 6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19
Not sure how many people are at this point yet, but has anyone had a noticeable increase in movement at 30 weeks? I turned 30 weeks Sunday and I swear that this kid has not stopped moving in the last two days!
The ironic thing is that at my Friday OB appointment, I commented that while I was still feeling movement it seemed like he was taking longer in between movements. I'm eating my words now!
Any idea if it's ok to drink coffee before an echocardiogram? They didn't tell me I needed to fast or avoid anything. And I'm exhausted so I could really use some coffee
@Lotus_2008 I'm not to 30 weeks yet, but I've noticed a significant increase in movement in the past few days as well! I can't remember if you were the one who said you weren't crazy about feeling the movement last week?
@Beauxbaton it should be fine as long as your not going the energy drink route... those can cause elevated heart rate, but a cup of coffee or tea should be fine. @Lotus_2008 I'm nearly 30 weeks and I have been feeling more in the last 2-3 days. spinning too, not just kicks
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TTC 1/2012 Diagnosed : unexplained infertility 6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015 TTC #3 5/2016 Restarted Fertility tx IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
@Lotus_2008 Ok, couldn't remember! Ha, I hear you! Sometimes I get nervous something is wrong because he'll be SO squirmy for some periods, but I also kind of love the feeling.
@Lotus_2008 Yes! It seems like the second I got to the 30's weeks, a switch flipped and the feelings went from fluttering and swooshes, to very defined movements/punches/kicks. Especially at night!
@oklahomak That was me that stated they don’t care for the movements. Ugh, I may or may not be crying at my desk thinking about how it may pick up in 2 weeks. And then crying harder bc I feel like an a*hole I don’t enjoy all of this pregnancy.
@jrm_14 just because a pregnancy/baby is badly wanted doesn't mean that the experience is wonderful for everyone. its OK to not love being pregnant but still love/want what comes at the end.
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TTC 1/2012 Diagnosed : unexplained infertility 6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015 TTC #3 5/2016 Restarted Fertility tx IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
@jrm_14 it is completely okay to not enjoy all of pregnancy. Personally I love the movements, it is one of my favorite parts. However I am nauseous all the time, my body is constantly in a ton of pain, I am sick of peeing nonstop, i miss being able to breathe, i am lightheaded, my iron is very low and I have developed GD...so yeah when people ask how it is going, it is rough. This baby is so wanted and I am incredibly thankful but I sure am not enjoying this pregnancy as a whole.
11/2010 Diagnosed with PCOS
10/31/11 M/C at 9 weeks 1/12/13 DD was born 4/9/16 DS was born 9/17 CP 6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19
Is anyone planning to set up a breastfeeding/pumping station at home? If so, are there things other than the obvious (breastfeeding pillow, breast pads, hakaa, lanolin/nipple cream, burp rags, water bottle, snacks, maybe a book) that you recommend including? I have one of those IKEA Raskog carts we're using in the nursery and it's probably going to be used for breastfeeding supplies.
@oklahomak I exclusively pumped last time and all I really needed next to me was: Pump and tubes Burp rags (in case of spills) Blanket (I was always cold when pumping) Nipple cream (I put it on to the flanges directly) Water bottle and snacks that inalkost never ate during pumping. Phone and charger. TV remote if you're gonna watch tv.
Bottles and other pump parts I just grabbed from the kitchen on my way to pump. After each pump session in put the parts in a ziplock bag in the fridge. I split milk into the ounces needed for each bottle and had a partially filled bottle to round out next time. At the end of each day I made the bottles for the next day and froze the extra in bags then washed everything.
This time I'm gonna do something similar for setting up the station. The only difference is last time it was on a TV dinner table and this time I'm gonna get a little cart with drawers that close to keep my other kids from playing with my stuff. At the end of the day for pumping, it's really only 15-20 minutes at a time so if you forget something non essential, you aren't gonna die. Nursing may differ but neither of my girls nursed.
Thank you, @sourlemon! Was the nipple cream on the flanges to help lubricate? That's a great idea to keep pump parts in the fridge so you don't have to wash them between every use. Also, newbie question, but are all flanges hard plastic? I would have thought something softer, like a silicone, would be better?
@oklahomak yeah it's for lubrication. Hard cold flanges sucking your boobs in over and over take toll without some lube and I figured if people use that directly on their nips and their baby sucks them, it's probably perfectly ok to use the way I did. Some people said coconut oil works and is safe, but I had a bunch of nipple cream so tried that and liked it.
I think the hardness of the flanges depends on the pump. My insurance covers ameda brand and it's hard plastic. I bought a single Avent one and the flange is hard but has an insert that is a softer silicone. I never pumped as much with that one but can't say it was just because the hardness of the flange. I think most brands are hard plastic though. Honestly, that isn't all that annoying. Builds good suction, glides well, easy to clean lol.
@jrm_14 I want this baby SO badly. I nagged DH nearly every day with "can we try for our second yet?" for like 3 months. Lol.
But DH and I both knew going in that I would hate every second of being pregnant. I hate everything about being pregnant except the part about a baby being made. The fact that I hate being pregnant does not mean I want this baby any less or that I am any less grateful to be pregnant. It just means I hate all the aches, pains, hormones, sensations, limitations, and CHANGES that come with being pregnant. For many people, being pregnant is a magical time with sunshine and rainbows. For others, it's not our cup of tea and that's okay. What matters is you love your baby, which I have no doubt that you do.
@Allycat11 a night of vomiting like that can definitely make your fasting numbers weird! Three reasons:
1) your body needs a constant supply of nourishment to keep your blood sugar more or less stable. If you fast for too long (or in your case, forcibly expel all your food and not get the chance to refuel!) you can have a glucose "bounceback" effect where your blood sugar shoots up out of nowhere. That's why with the GD diet you have to eat really frequently (3 meals, snacks between meals, and you can't skip the "bedtime snack") and even so a lot of people have the morning fasting number problem (it's called the dawn effect and I've read it's a problem for regular diabetics too). (Some women with GD have to get up in the middle of the night to get a snack to keep their numbers stable).
2) It sounds like your body was under a lot of stress with all the vomiting, and that brings up your glucose reading--I don't know why this is other than "GD is cruel and mean and wants to make you suffer." Mental stress and anxiety can bring your numbers up, and physical stress like being sick even with something unrelated like the flu. Most doctors will give you a pass on adhering to the strict numbers when you're dealing with illness.
3) And finally, your numbers are just weirdest in the morning out of a combination of fasting but also there's apparently a pregnancy hormone surge in the morning (which is why a lot of people are nauseated in the morning and the term "morning sickness" though here we all know that pregnancy nausea can really hit at anytime lol), which makes you extra sensitive to anything insulin-related. Idk if you've had the GD diet consultation yet, but the breakfast requirements and numbers are generally the most strict, because you're battling that hormone surge
I'm sorry for the night of throwing up, what a bummer on top of everything else! I hope that passes quickly and you can start getting your normal glucose readings!
@cato99 thank you so much! That is all very helpful information! I met the diabetes coordinator last Friday and see a nutritionist later this week. I am on day 4 of checking my numbers and have found that I am practically starving myself, especially between meals, because I am so nervous about spiking my blood sugar...which I know is not right either. The day that I ate the most I also had the best numbers so far. For the past week I have been researching like crazy but I can not wait to meet with a nutritionist to discuss exactly what my body needs. Also awesome that I already deal with anxiety and am under a ton of stress right now...clearly that is not helping.
11/2010 Diagnosed with PCOS
10/31/11 M/C at 9 weeks 1/12/13 DD was born 4/9/16 DS was born 9/17 CP 6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19
@Allycat11, I have GD and have been tracking numbers for 2 weeks now. I’ve been under extra stress the past few days since I have exams this week and my numbers are definitely reflecting it - they’re higher than the majority of the 2 weeks. I think stress has a huge impact so perhaps something to note to the nutritionist as clearly just adjusting the diet won’t be enough.
@purplg8r we got what to expect from a peds doctor's office we toured (they gave one out to every potential parent who came for a tour.) And I found it helpful. I didn't read it cover to cover, but I liked to read the want to expect section and the timeline atn the beginning of every month. Also, they have a great I dex and I would look stuff up a lot in the beginning. I remember one day DH brought it to me with a bunch of those sticky bookmarks, and said read these sections. He had skimmed through and marked everywhere they talked about something I had been concerned about recently. 😂
@purplg8r I loved Emily Oster’s “Expecting Better” so MH and I are both reading her new book “Cribsheet.” I’m also reading the Mayo Clinic’s guide as I get to each stage, On Becoming Babywise, and I just started How to Not Hate Your Husband after Kids. Overkill? Most definitely. But I like to gather all the data I can.
@heml I'm reading the mayo clinic's pregnancy guide. I'll have to check out some of those other books.
@purplg8r thanks for asking this question. I did have a friend tell me that "Eat, Sleep, Poop" was really helpful, well her husband recommended it to my DH.
TTC#1 10/2016 TTC/IF:included medicated cycles, IUIs and 2 rounds of IVF with 1 embryo each. BFP finally in 12/2018
TTC#2 06/2021 planning FET
"Some days are diamonds, some days are rocks, some doors are open, some roads are blocked"
I have the Mayo Clinic guide to a baby's first year. I rarely used it. DD was on her own schedule. She was late to crawl, and currently is late with speech. The book just made me crazy because I always felt like DD was "behind" and it made me feel like a bad parent for not doing more. She runs around like any other 22 month old now. I'm sure the speech will come, though we are doing Early Intervention since it's free. But I had to step away from the book (and email newsletters from Ovia, etc.) for my own sanity.
I'm not discouraging anyone from using the books. I think there are still useful tips in them. I guess my point is, don't let them discourage you when the book says, "by now your child is probably pulling himself up and exploring" and your baby is laying there like a potato. Appreciate the potato before she runs around like a demon.
@purplg8r Wonder Weeks also has an app that I used last time and it was great. It highlights when they’re in regressions so it can help explain when they’re being especially difficult and make you not feel as insane.
Me 31 DH 34 TTC #1 5/13 BFP #3 5/2/14 DD born 1/19/15 NTNP #2 8/17 BFP 12/13/18 ED 8/21/19
@purplg8r I read a total of zero books before my first was born. And haven't read a single one since. They will tell you the super important things in the hospital or before (like safe sleep, purple crying and so on.) And everything else you can find on Google. As @EmilyA724 said the wonder weeks app is great.
@cato99 Thank you for the info on GD, particularly for the fasting glucose numbers. I've been struggling with that, even with medication, even though my post-meal numbers have all been in the normal range.
@purplg8r I am a fan of the Wonder Weeks app- never got the book. I also use What to Expect often, both the pregnancy and baby's first year editions. For light-hearted, fun reading, my sister got me a copy of The Sh!t No One Tells You, I thought it was hilarious.
@heml I want to listen to (audible is the best) how not to hate your husband after kids! I’ve heard it’s actually really good but I will seriously have to hide that I’m listening to it from my DH because I think it would really hurt his feelings!
@jmesue1030 I’m really liking it so far! I feel like it’s helping me recognize/be aware of how some of my controlling, Type A tendencies may kick into overdrive after LO is born. Basically, it’s super relatable.
I also used the Wonder Weeks app, and had What to Expect and the Mayo clinic baby books as references when I wanted to look something up (I didn't read them cover to cover). I found The Happiest Baby On the Block to be super useful, and then when we sleep-trained we used The SleepEasy Solution. Those last two we had on DVDs, not just the book, because sometimes you just want the easier format to come to you instead of actively reading!
@Allycat11 I have used the wonder weeks app with my son (16mo) since he was born and it’s been spot on!! It’s so helpful and I can’t recommend it enough!
@heml I feel like I should have read the how not to hate your husband book! I totally brushed people off when they told me it would happen, but it totally did (it passed though thankfully!)
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I am 99%sure I have food poisoning and was vomiting all night. This morning my fasting blood sugar was the exact same as it was after I ate dinner last night. I thought it would be signifcantly lower, any thoughts on this?
1/12/13 DD was born
4/9/16 DS was born
9/17 CP
6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19
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The ironic thing is that at my Friday OB appointment, I commented that while I was still feeling movement it seemed like he was taking longer in between movements. I'm eating my words now!
@Lotus_2008 I'm nearly 30 weeks and I have been feeling more in the last 2-3 days. spinning too, not just kicks
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
eta: You're definitely not an a*hole for not liking someone kicking your insides.
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
1/12/13 DD was born
4/9/16 DS was born
9/17 CP
6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19
Pump and tubes
Burp rags (in case of spills)
Blanket (I was always cold when pumping)
Nipple cream (I put it on to the flanges directly)
Water bottle and snacks that inalkost never ate during pumping.
Phone and charger.
TV remote if you're gonna watch tv.
Bottles and other pump parts I just grabbed from the kitchen on my way to pump. After each pump session in put the parts in a ziplock bag in the fridge. I split milk into the ounces needed for each bottle and had a partially filled bottle to round out next time. At the end of each day I made the bottles for the next day and froze the extra in bags then washed everything.
This time I'm gonna do something similar for setting up the station. The only difference is last time it was on a TV dinner table and this time I'm gonna get a little cart with drawers that close to keep my other kids from playing with my stuff. At the end of the day for pumping, it's really only 15-20 minutes at a time so if you forget something non essential, you aren't gonna die. Nursing may differ but neither of my girls nursed.
Also, newbie question, but are all flanges hard plastic? I would have thought something softer, like a silicone, would be better?
I think the hardness of the flanges depends on the pump. My insurance covers ameda brand and it's hard plastic. I bought a single Avent one and the flange is hard but has an insert that is a softer silicone. I never pumped as much with that one but can't say it was just because the hardness of the flange. I think most brands are hard plastic though. Honestly, that isn't all that annoying. Builds good suction, glides well, easy to clean lol.
*Live, Love, Laugh, Learn*
1) your body needs a constant supply of nourishment to keep your blood sugar more or less stable. If you fast for too long (or in your case, forcibly expel all your food and not get the chance to refuel!) you can have a glucose "bounceback" effect where your blood sugar shoots up out of nowhere. That's why with the GD diet you have to eat really frequently (3 meals, snacks between meals, and you can't skip the "bedtime snack") and even so a lot of people have the morning fasting number problem (it's called the dawn effect and I've read it's a problem for regular diabetics too). (Some women with GD have to get up in the middle of the night to get a snack to keep their numbers stable).
2) It sounds like your body was under a lot of stress with all the vomiting, and that brings up your glucose reading--I don't know why this is other than "GD is cruel and mean and wants to make you suffer." Mental stress and anxiety can bring your numbers up, and physical stress like being sick even with something unrelated like the flu. Most doctors will give you a pass on adhering to the strict numbers when you're dealing with illness.
3) And finally, your numbers are just weirdest in the morning out of a combination of fasting but also there's apparently a pregnancy hormone surge in the morning (which is why a lot of people are nauseated in the morning and the term "morning sickness" though here we all know that pregnancy nausea can really hit at anytime lol), which makes you extra sensitive to anything insulin-related. Idk if you've had the GD diet consultation yet, but the breakfast requirements and numbers are generally the most strict, because you're battling that hormone surge
I'm sorry for the night of throwing up, what a bummer on top of everything else! I hope that passes quickly and you can start getting your normal glucose readings!
1/12/13 DD was born
4/9/16 DS was born
9/17 CP
6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19
*Live, Love, Laugh, Learn*
1/12/13 DD was born
4/9/16 DS was born
9/17 CP
6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19
I remember one day DH brought it to me with a bunch of those sticky bookmarks, and said read these sections. He had skimmed through and marked everywhere they talked about something I had been concerned about recently. 😂
@purplg8r thanks for asking this question. I did have a friend tell me that "Eat, Sleep, Poop" was really helpful, well her husband recommended it to my DH.
TTC#1 10/2016
TTC/IF:included medicated cycles, IUIs and 2 rounds of IVF with 1 embryo each.
BFP finally in 12/2018
TTC#2 06/2021
planning FET
"Some days are diamonds, some days are rocks,
some doors are open, some roads are blocked"
1/12/13 DD was born
4/9/16 DS was born
9/17 CP
6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19
TTC #1 5/13 BFP #3 5/2/14 DD born 1/19/15
NTNP #2 8/17 BFP 12/13/18 ED 8/21/19
@purplg8r I am a fan of the Wonder Weeks app- never got the book. I also use What to Expect often, both the pregnancy and baby's first year editions. For light-hearted, fun reading, my sister got me a copy of The Sh!t No One Tells You, I thought it was hilarious.