What
carriers have you used and liked, or hated, or been ambivalent about?
Why? Do you prefer wraps? Slings? Soft structured? Hard structured?
Different carriers for different tasks? Where do you go to get more
info? What materials are suitable for your environment, and what brands
use them? Do you have other relevant info I’m forgetting?
FTMs: when you look at baby carriers, what’s confusing? Ask away!
TTC History
Me: 38 DH: 52
Started trying June 2018
BFP Jan 2019 DD born October 2019
TTC July 2021 BFP, ended in MMC August 2021
TTC October 2021
BFP January 2022
MMC March 2022
Beginning May 2022 under the supervision of an RE - Benched while undergoing testing
Re: Product Spotlight: Babywearing
We had an Infantino Sash Mai Tai carrier after that, which was great (and cheap)! No complaints.
My favorite is our Lillebaby Complete All Seasons. We didn't get it until she was a little older, so didn't get a lot of use out of it. Looking forward to using it a lot more this time around! It's a little bigger than the other two, but very comfortable. We wanted one you could wear on front or back. And Etsy sells all kinds of strap and bib covers for them. I bought it used on our local swip swap FB for like $50 and it was practically brand new so if you can't afford a brand new carrier, getting gently used is a great option.
We never had a Tula, but they're absolutely adorable and most people rave about them, but they're considerably more expensive than other options.
ETA: We only used the wrap or carrier occassionally with DD1. Didn't feel the need unless one of us was taking her to the store by ourself or on vacation. With baby #2 I plan on using it A LOT more!! Going to need those hands free a lot more!
With DS2, I hated anything that wasn’t a structured carrier. Nothing else felt sturdy enough to wear a tiny baby and chase a toddler. I got a Tula free to grow for him that we still occasionally use
both DH and I had our own carriers/ he uses ergo, I use Tula. Not everyone will fit in one or the other properly
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BFP #2 5/4/14, EDD 1/15/15, DS1 1/19/15
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HX
DSD: 17
DS: 4(Nov'14)
MMC:8/17
MMC: 1/18
BFP: 2/7/19 EDD:10/16/19
Tickers
I did however get an Ergo on super-clearance and LOVED it (I didn't get the infant insert so I only started using it when he was big enough). I wore that thing everywhere and DS enjoyed being held and being able to see. Though I wish I could get the new 360 since my original does not face baby out while being wore on the parent's front side. I just can't justify spending more. I will be buying the infant insert this time around.
TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
I didn’t care for the K’tan as much as I hoped to. The window of use was small before baby was too big for it, and also he was too small for it at first so it was just kind of disappointing that we couldn’t use it as much as I’d wanted too. I’m thinking of trying a different cloth carrier this time around. So following for suggestions on that.
Me 39 - DH 41
Married 8/26/07
TTGP #1 Jan '15 -
BFP 9/11/15 - DS born 5/31/16
TTGP #2 July '17 -
CP July '17
Blighted Ovum MC Dec '17
CP June '18
BFP 1/30/19 - EDD 10/13/19
When DD1 turned 2 the ergo seemed to small for comfortable wearing (on the grownup's side - DD1 never complained) so I bought the toddler carrier from Tula. It's also great.
I don't plan on attempting a ring sling (again) with this one, but I gotta admit the idea of a soft/stetchy carrier to wear around the house does tempt me. I'm going to check our local babywearing library for options.
Later got an Ergo and that was great. We also upgraded to a toddler Tula when DS got bigger and he loved riding in his "Backpack".
I've already got a ring sling (practiced on DS when it was within weight limits) and I'm looking for an onbuhimo for DH since he's got a larger waist than I do (Tula is too small for DH).
I'll probably also buy another Tula when DD gets bigger.
BFP #1 10/2012
DS#1 born 6/2013
TTC#2 12/2013
BFP#2 2/2019
TWINS Baby Girl due October 20th, 2019.
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BFP #2 5/4/14, EDD 1/15/15, DS1 1/19/15
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once she got bigger, we switched to the Tula (and still occasionally use it now). I like the Tula. It always felt comfortable and secure.
Also, if anyone has any suggestions for the Product Spotlight Series, I can post a thread for topics we want covered. Or we could list them in Board Organization.
swings
strollers
cribs
toys/entertaining devices
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BFP #2 5/4/14, EDD 1/15/15, DS1 1/19/15
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BFP #2 5/4/14, EDD 1/15/15, DS1 1/19/15
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Feeding products
High chairs
Bathing/Hygiene products
Me 39 - DH 41
Married 8/26/07
TTGP #1 Jan '15 -
BFP 9/11/15 - DS born 5/31/16
TTGP #2 July '17 -
CP July '17
Blighted Ovum MC Dec '17
CP June '18
BFP 1/30/19 - EDD 10/13/19
I also love Tula and Happy Baby Carriers! HBC are compact and easily fit into your diaper bag. I find Tula more comfortable and prefer them for longer outings.
At 2.5 my favorite carrier is our Sakura Bloom Onbuhimo. It's a backpack style carrier with no waistband, so it takes some shoulder strength build up, but it's so compact and it's my son's favorite!
I'm fairly obsessed with babywearing and my stash is absolutely out of control 🙈🤣