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How far along are you?
Any symptoms?
Rant/Rave?
Next appointment?
Questions?
GTKY: Now that we're all moving towards the end of Tri 2, how are you feeling? Closer to normal? Are there things that you're already giving up (physically picking up other children, shoes with laces, eating anything that's on the food pyramid, etc?)? Or are there some habits you're trying to start to get ready for when the baby (giving dry shampoo another try, getting a housekeeper, teaching the dog how to vacuum, etc?) is here?
**History in Spoiler**
Me-35, DH-36 - TTC since 08/10
Me - anovulatory, non-Insulin PCOS, DH - low end of "normal" sperm count
IUI#1 - 02/15 - Cancelled due to scrubbed sperm count <1MM
IVF#1 - 08/15 - 13x5-day blastocysts (ranging from AA-BB, most are 5 or 6), not PGS, on ice
FET#1 - 10/15 - 1 emb - BFP (DD 07/16) (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#2 - 07/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#3 - 08/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#4 - 10/17 - 2 emb - BFN (changed to estrace + prometrium because of allergic reaction to PIO sesame oil)
ERA Testing - 12/17 - window moved (-1 day)
FET#5 - 03/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
Karyotype Testing - 04/18 - Negative (we're ok)
FET#6 - 06/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#7 - 10/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#8 - 11/18 - 2 emb - BFP; looks like one baby is going to make it, DD is due 8/16 (though likely to be 8/9)
Re: PAIF m/o April 2019
Any symptoms? Much better, just some discomfort if I sleep in the same position too long at night
Rant/Rave? Toddler looks like she's coming off her Toddlerexia strike.
Next appointment? Supposed to have an appt with MFM for A/S any day now, but they refuse to call me back (my office has sent over my chart and has called them 3 times)
Questions? Anyone got some lotto numbers they're willing to share? I am just *totally* over having to work at the moment and really need a solid 6-ish months off.
GTKY: Feeling *much* more normal now, which is great. Can't saying I'm 100% with energy, but mood, appetite, and sleeping abilities are normalizing. I'm trying to step back from picking up DD1 as much since she's 40 lbs of Toddlernado and still thinks mommy is a jungle gym. I have got to remember to mail off our pool membership deposit for the year; otherwise, I think DH and DD1 might die this summer, being cooped-up inside all day. I did go through the remaining household supplies (toiletries, revisit of laundry items, etc) to switch out for EWG-rated "clean" products so that we have a few months to decide if that's what we'd like to stick with; I had already done two waves and switch out our laundry detergent and some cleaning supplies, etc. It's just a lot to commit to at once.
Me - anovulatory, non-Insulin PCOS, DH - low end of "normal" sperm count
IUI#1 - 02/15 - Cancelled due to scrubbed sperm count <1MM
IVF#1 - 08/15 - 13x5-day blastocysts (ranging from AA-BB, most are 5 or 6), not PGS, on ice
FET#1 - 10/15 - 1 emb - BFP (DD 07/16) (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#2 - 07/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#3 - 08/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#4 - 10/17 - 2 emb - BFN (changed to estrace + prometrium because of allergic reaction to PIO sesame oil)
ERA Testing - 12/17 - window moved (-1 day)
FET#5 - 03/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
Karyotype Testing - 04/18 - Negative (we're ok)
FET#6 - 06/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#7 - 10/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#8 - 11/18 - 2 emb - BFP; looks like one baby is going to make it, DD is due 8/16 (though likely to be 8/9)
How far along are you? 19w3d
Any symptoms? I had what I think was acid reflux the other night. I woke up feeling like something was burning a hole in my throat. Then I remembered I drank orange juice before bed. Holy crap that hurt.
Rant/Rave? Rant: still with this sleeping issue. I HATE sleeping on my side. My shoulder now hurts and my bottom arm keeps falling asleep. I tried my Snoogle again but I just can’t get comfortable. Rave: I’m loving that I’m feeling her kick more!!
Next appointment? I have my MFM app on the 16th for my a/s followed immediately by my ob appt.
Questions?
GTKY: I’m still feeling pretty good. I’ve given up sleeping comfortably (not bitter at all here). Haven’t really changed any bad habits yet.
Me - anovulatory, non-Insulin PCOS, DH - low end of "normal" sperm count
IUI#1 - 02/15 - Cancelled due to scrubbed sperm count <1MM
IVF#1 - 08/15 - 13x5-day blastocysts (ranging from AA-BB, most are 5 or 6), not PGS, on ice
FET#1 - 10/15 - 1 emb - BFP (DD 07/16) (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#2 - 07/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#3 - 08/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#4 - 10/17 - 2 emb - BFN (changed to estrace + prometrium because of allergic reaction to PIO sesame oil)
ERA Testing - 12/17 - window moved (-1 day)
FET#5 - 03/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
Karyotype Testing - 04/18 - Negative (we're ok)
FET#6 - 06/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#7 - 10/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#8 - 11/18 - 2 emb - BFP; looks like one baby is going to make it, DD is due 8/16 (though likely to be 8/9)
@purplg8r Hey, how'd the 5K go? Ugh the reflux and heartburn is insane. Do you take anything for it?
How far along are you? 20w2d
Any symptoms? My nose is stuffed up constantly, pretty sure there is a hemorrhoid, heartburn, reflux,
Rant/Rave? Been feeling baby move and kick since last week. It is really exciting!
Next appointment? 5/2
GTKY: I haven't felt normal since HS
My 7 Year Journey ***Tw in spoiler***
IVF #1 - September 2018; Follistim, Menopur, Cetrotide & Lupron/HCG combo trigger; PGS; ICSI
Back on Levothyroxine
FET #1 - October 2018; cancelled, all PGS aneuploid
FET #1 - November 30th, transferred anyway
Wondfo BFP 5dp5dt, CB Digi 6dpt,
1st Beta on 7dpt 93
2nd Beta on 10dpt 510!
TTC #1 since 2011. Tried for 5 years before we knew there was a one year rule.
Diag w/MS 2016; w/PCOS & IF 2017
New RE 2018; PCOS diagnosis taken away, IF due to ovary adhesions, but prev. RE insists PCOS IF
IUI
IUI #1 July 2017 w/100mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #2 October 2017 w/50mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #3 February 2018 w/5mg Femara+trigger; low P
BFP February; mc March; Subclinical hypothyroid started Levothyroxine
IUI #4 March 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Medicated cycle & TI April 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Tried several cycles on our own; all BFN
Me - anovulatory, non-Insulin PCOS, DH - low end of "normal" sperm count
IUI#1 - 02/15 - Cancelled due to scrubbed sperm count <1MM
IVF#1 - 08/15 - 13x5-day blastocysts (ranging from AA-BB, most are 5 or 6), not PGS, on ice
FET#1 - 10/15 - 1 emb - BFP (DD 07/16) (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#2 - 07/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#3 - 08/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#4 - 10/17 - 2 emb - BFN (changed to estrace + prometrium because of allergic reaction to PIO sesame oil)
ERA Testing - 12/17 - window moved (-1 day)
FET#5 - 03/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
Karyotype Testing - 04/18 - Negative (we're ok)
FET#6 - 06/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#7 - 10/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#8 - 11/18 - 2 emb - BFP; looks like one baby is going to make it, DD is due 8/16 (though likely to be 8/9)
Toiletries:
3-pack of SoapBox Shampoo (16 oz) - $19.10 on S&S (https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B076658FFF/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_KQkPCb150KJ2A)
3-pack of SoapBox Conditioner (16 oz) - $19.10 on S&S (https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B07663ZTPH/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_.0kPCbBXR4S61)
2-pack of Everyone Kids Soap (32 oz) - $21.24 on S&S, currently has $1.25 coupon (https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B0764L8XHW/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_81kPCb5ZE477M)
Sun Bum Revitalization 3-in-1 Leave-In Conditioner Spray (4 oz) - $12.55 on S&S, currently has 20% coupon (https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B00TUJW9L0/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_wtlPCb3PSNYP2)
Tea Tree Body Wash (16 oz) - $14.98, not on S&S but does have $1.00 coupon (https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B07GPHG3L7/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_J7kPCb8EPKN0D)
3-pk Humble Deodorants (2.5 oz) - $22.09 on S&S (https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B0711SYJFJ/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_oElPCbVP87H3M)
Note: The Kids Soap functions as bubbles, shampoo, and body wash, I use the Leave-In conditioner for DD1 because she's blonde (it has UVA/UVB protection) and her hair is straight and thin so can get wild and since we only wash her hair 2/3 times a week, a bottle lasts for 2-3 months. The body wash is great for cleaning skin (antibacterial/antifungal) with lots of sweat and grossness (hello pregnancy! also, DH uses it after workouts) while not stripping your skin's moisture. The deodorants are beyond amazing, I'm a heavy sweater/odor'r in this hot & humid environment and it really keeps me dry and fresh ALL. DAY. LONG. Be warned: they use Coconut oil and beeswax, so there can be that "white" residue, but I'm 1000% happier to work around that than being gross and smelly. They do have interesting fragrances, but are pretty light and mellow rather quickly (even for this pregnancy nose).
Laundry:
3-pack Grab Green Natural Wet Dryer Sheets (64 loads) - $15.81 on S&S (https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B00KTI8T2Y/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_I9kPCbK1JP8EQ)
Biokleen Laundry Detergent (150 oz / 300 HE loads) - $22.94 on S&S (https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B00WE0BFQW/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_2dlPCbTFM5MZN)
2-pack Biokleen Oxygen Bleach Plus (32 oz / 32 HE loads) - $17.61, not on S&S (https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B00J5I7V3W/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_uglPCbRXYR52N)
Biokleen Bac-Out Stain & Odor remover (32 oz) - $12.91, not on S&S (https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B0009ET4XQ/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_CjlPCb9WTM1TD)
or the 64 oz. refill for $12.74 on S&S (https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B00581KLKU/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_7vlPCbVGC0JJ2)
Molly's Suds Wool Dryer Balls - $16.89, not on S&S (https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B0167KNN00/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_IxlPCbMWJ4HJC)
Note: Dryer sheets are apparently a product of the Devil, it took me a while to find one I liked and received a high ranking on EWG. Biokleen is a miracle, it has a great, light scent and works REALLY hard. The Bac-Out is heaven-sent. Works great for furniture and carpets (see: foster dog was a notorious carpet-pee'r, DD1 loves to spill her water or milk on the couch that is a suede-ish material) with removing stains AND actually getting it clean so there is no odor, has a very pleasant citrus (lime) scent that I really enjoy. The dryer balls just help things dry faster and really do cut down on drying time by 15-30 min per load, not a necessity, but really helpful if I want to try and dedicate a Saturday or Sunday to getting ALL the laundry done. Also, I really do like Molly's Suds laundry detergent powders, DH was intimidated by the fact that it only needed about 1 TBSP per load so refused to do laundry because he was afraid he'd "mess up" and not put enough in it ... hence the switch back to liquid detergent.
Cleaning:
2-pack Better Life Glass Cleaner (32 oz) - $9.33 on S&S (https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B0040MH12Y/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_eAlPCbEYR25Y6)
2-pack Better Life All-Purpose Cleaner (32 oz) - $11.88 on S&S (https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B0040MIBBY/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_vClPCbAPMM6D5)
Note: I'm slowly working my way through things and trying to balance clean ingredients with cleaning power. All-Purpose is great, but do not recommend for heavy-duty cleaning like bathrooms. I actually just hired a housecleaner so am not having to store too many products of my own.
Me - anovulatory, non-Insulin PCOS, DH - low end of "normal" sperm count
IUI#1 - 02/15 - Cancelled due to scrubbed sperm count <1MM
IVF#1 - 08/15 - 13x5-day blastocysts (ranging from AA-BB, most are 5 or 6), not PGS, on ice
FET#1 - 10/15 - 1 emb - BFP (DD 07/16) (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#2 - 07/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#3 - 08/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#4 - 10/17 - 2 emb - BFN (changed to estrace + prometrium because of allergic reaction to PIO sesame oil)
ERA Testing - 12/17 - window moved (-1 day)
FET#5 - 03/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
Karyotype Testing - 04/18 - Negative (we're ok)
FET#6 - 06/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#7 - 10/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#8 - 11/18 - 2 emb - BFP; looks like one baby is going to make it, DD is due 8/16 (though likely to be 8/9)
@MamaK225 which way are you facing? The open end or the long end?
@purplg8r You lucky duck! And I hope that's the only time you get it too.
Ladies, so my husband has nicknamed my pillow Willow the Pillow. This morning, he came back in to sleep for an extra hour before work (he gets up absurdly early) and caught himself enjoying the snuggle up to it.
My 7 Year Journey ***Tw in spoiler***
IVF #1 - September 2018; Follistim, Menopur, Cetrotide & Lupron/HCG combo trigger; PGS; ICSI
Back on Levothyroxine
FET #1 - October 2018; cancelled, all PGS aneuploid
FET #1 - November 30th, transferred anyway
Wondfo BFP 5dp5dt, CB Digi 6dpt,
1st Beta on 7dpt 93
2nd Beta on 10dpt 510!
TTC #1 since 2011. Tried for 5 years before we knew there was a one year rule.
Diag w/MS 2016; w/PCOS & IF 2017
New RE 2018; PCOS diagnosis taken away, IF due to ovary adhesions, but prev. RE insists PCOS IF
IUI
IUI #1 July 2017 w/100mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #2 October 2017 w/50mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #3 February 2018 w/5mg Femara+trigger; low P
BFP February; mc March; Subclinical hypothyroid started Levothyroxine
IUI #4 March 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Medicated cycle & TI April 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Tried several cycles on our own; all BFN
@suzycupcake - You're welcome. I try to do small things here and there so it doesn't seem so overwhelming ... or expensive.
Those are both awesome nicknames. Mine is just Snoogle, but maybe I should get to naming it. I mean, I always name my cars
Me - anovulatory, non-Insulin PCOS, DH - low end of "normal" sperm count
IUI#1 - 02/15 - Cancelled due to scrubbed sperm count <1MM
IVF#1 - 08/15 - 13x5-day blastocysts (ranging from AA-BB, most are 5 or 6), not PGS, on ice
FET#1 - 10/15 - 1 emb - BFP (DD 07/16) (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#2 - 07/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#3 - 08/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#4 - 10/17 - 2 emb - BFN (changed to estrace + prometrium because of allergic reaction to PIO sesame oil)
ERA Testing - 12/17 - window moved (-1 day)
FET#5 - 03/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
Karyotype Testing - 04/18 - Negative (we're ok)
FET#6 - 06/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#7 - 10/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#8 - 11/18 - 2 emb - BFP; looks like one baby is going to make it, DD is due 8/16 (though likely to be 8/9)
Me - anovulatory, non-Insulin PCOS, DH - low end of "normal" sperm count
IUI#1 - 02/15 - Cancelled due to scrubbed sperm count <1MM
IVF#1 - 08/15 - 13x5-day blastocysts (ranging from AA-BB, most are 5 or 6), not PGS, on ice
FET#1 - 10/15 - 1 emb - BFP (DD 07/16) (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#2 - 07/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#3 - 08/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#4 - 10/17 - 2 emb - BFN (changed to estrace + prometrium because of allergic reaction to PIO sesame oil)
ERA Testing - 12/17 - window moved (-1 day)
FET#5 - 03/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
Karyotype Testing - 04/18 - Negative (we're ok)
FET#6 - 06/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#7 - 10/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#8 - 11/18 - 2 emb - BFP; looks like one baby is going to make it, DD is due 8/16 (though likely to be 8/9)
TTC#1 10/2016
TTC/IF:included medicated cycles, IUIs and 2 rounds of IVF with 1 embryo each.
BFP finally in 12/2018
TTC#2 06/2021
planning FET
"Some days are diamonds, some days are rocks,
some doors are open, some roads are blocked"
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
How far along are you? A tad over halfway: 21w 5d
Any symptoms? It’s been such an inconsistent hodgepodge. I’ll randomly get a streak of headaches, or heartburn for like 2 days, or out of the blue I’ll wake up back in first trimester queasiness and smell sensitivity.
Rant/Rave? Finally starting to feel more movement with this anterior placenta and it’s so nice!
Next appointment? Not until 4/22
Questions?
GTKY: I’ve been following pregnancy behavior guidelines pretty rotely so the shift at this point is a psychological one. Because of the weird circumstances of this pregnancy I think it’s only now, when I’m super visibly pregnant and feel a lot of movement, that I’m even fully accepting that I’m actually pregnant. With DD it was after such focused fertility work, IUIs, IVF, and I was hyper aware of the pregnancy as pregnancy since the first second (though it had a surreality of its own). This was a mystery spontaneous pregnancy and after the better part of a decade it’s hard to turn infertility-brain off.
Me - anovulatory, non-Insulin PCOS, DH - low end of "normal" sperm count
IUI#1 - 02/15 - Cancelled due to scrubbed sperm count <1MM
IVF#1 - 08/15 - 13x5-day blastocysts (ranging from AA-BB, most are 5 or 6), not PGS, on ice
FET#1 - 10/15 - 1 emb - BFP (DD 07/16) (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#2 - 07/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#3 - 08/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#4 - 10/17 - 2 emb - BFN (changed to estrace + prometrium because of allergic reaction to PIO sesame oil)
ERA Testing - 12/17 - window moved (-1 day)
FET#5 - 03/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
Karyotype Testing - 04/18 - Negative (we're ok)
FET#6 - 06/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#7 - 10/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#8 - 11/18 - 2 emb - BFP; looks like one baby is going to make it, DD is due 8/16 (though likely to be 8/9)
Me - anovulatory, non-Insulin PCOS, DH - low end of "normal" sperm count
IUI#1 - 02/15 - Cancelled due to scrubbed sperm count <1MM
IVF#1 - 08/15 - 13x5-day blastocysts (ranging from AA-BB, most are 5 or 6), not PGS, on ice
FET#1 - 10/15 - 1 emb - BFP (DD 07/16) (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#2 - 07/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#3 - 08/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#4 - 10/17 - 2 emb - BFN (changed to estrace + prometrium because of allergic reaction to PIO sesame oil)
ERA Testing - 12/17 - window moved (-1 day)
FET#5 - 03/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
Karyotype Testing - 04/18 - Negative (we're ok)
FET#6 - 06/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#7 - 10/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#8 - 11/18 - 2 emb - BFP; looks like one baby is going to make it, DD is due 8/16 (though likely to be 8/9)
Oooh and I've been really enjoying my Hypnobabies course. When can husbands feel movement and kicks? Mine is jealous that every time he tries, the baby stops
My 7 Year Journey ***Tw in spoiler***
IVF #1 - September 2018; Follistim, Menopur, Cetrotide & Lupron/HCG combo trigger; PGS; ICSI
Back on Levothyroxine
FET #1 - October 2018; cancelled, all PGS aneuploid
FET #1 - November 30th, transferred anyway
Wondfo BFP 5dp5dt, CB Digi 6dpt,
1st Beta on 7dpt 93
2nd Beta on 10dpt 510!
TTC #1 since 2011. Tried for 5 years before we knew there was a one year rule.
Diag w/MS 2016; w/PCOS & IF 2017
New RE 2018; PCOS diagnosis taken away, IF due to ovary adhesions, but prev. RE insists PCOS IF
IUI
IUI #1 July 2017 w/100mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #2 October 2017 w/50mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #3 February 2018 w/5mg Femara+trigger; low P
BFP February; mc March; Subclinical hypothyroid started Levothyroxine
IUI #4 March 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Medicated cycle & TI April 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Tried several cycles on our own; all BFN
My 7 Year Journey ***Tw in spoiler***
IVF #1 - September 2018; Follistim, Menopur, Cetrotide & Lupron/HCG combo trigger; PGS; ICSI
Back on Levothyroxine
FET #1 - October 2018; cancelled, all PGS aneuploid
FET #1 - November 30th, transferred anyway
Wondfo BFP 5dp5dt, CB Digi 6dpt,
1st Beta on 7dpt 93
2nd Beta on 10dpt 510!
TTC #1 since 2011. Tried for 5 years before we knew there was a one year rule.
Diag w/MS 2016; w/PCOS & IF 2017
New RE 2018; PCOS diagnosis taken away, IF due to ovary adhesions, but prev. RE insists PCOS IF
IUI
IUI #1 July 2017 w/100mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #2 October 2017 w/50mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #3 February 2018 w/5mg Femara+trigger; low P
BFP February; mc March; Subclinical hypothyroid started Levothyroxine
IUI #4 March 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Medicated cycle & TI April 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Tried several cycles on our own; all BFN
@suzycupcake - What is this Hypnobabies you speak of? Google is telling me that you are planning to do an unmedicated labor? A friend of mine (her son was born the day after my DD1) was able to do something similar and it still blows me away - you guys are rockstars!!
Me - anovulatory, non-Insulin PCOS, DH - low end of "normal" sperm count
IUI#1 - 02/15 - Cancelled due to scrubbed sperm count <1MM
IVF#1 - 08/15 - 13x5-day blastocysts (ranging from AA-BB, most are 5 or 6), not PGS, on ice
FET#1 - 10/15 - 1 emb - BFP (DD 07/16) (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#2 - 07/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#3 - 08/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#4 - 10/17 - 2 emb - BFN (changed to estrace + prometrium because of allergic reaction to PIO sesame oil)
ERA Testing - 12/17 - window moved (-1 day)
FET#5 - 03/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
Karyotype Testing - 04/18 - Negative (we're ok)
FET#6 - 06/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#7 - 10/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#8 - 11/18 - 2 emb - BFP; looks like one baby is going to make it, DD is due 8/16 (though likely to be 8/9)
@mamak225 the only reason 3 year olds survive are those cute moments... man the three-nager stage is rough but it is so much fun watching them learn and grow
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
I also agree with @wabash15 about placenta placement, @suzycupcake. I had anterior placenta with DD1 and I don't think he felt her until I was in week 30+ and even then it was very subtle. Even I could only feel it when she made full flips or exaggerated movements for a long, long time. DH felt DD2 move somewhere around 21w, when she started moving on a more predictable basis - so it'll be a whole new experience for him since this one will clearly be more perceptible before she arrives.
Me - anovulatory, non-Insulin PCOS, DH - low end of "normal" sperm count
IUI#1 - 02/15 - Cancelled due to scrubbed sperm count <1MM
IVF#1 - 08/15 - 13x5-day blastocysts (ranging from AA-BB, most are 5 or 6), not PGS, on ice
FET#1 - 10/15 - 1 emb - BFP (DD 07/16) (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#2 - 07/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#3 - 08/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#4 - 10/17 - 2 emb - BFN (changed to estrace + prometrium because of allergic reaction to PIO sesame oil)
ERA Testing - 12/17 - window moved (-1 day)
FET#5 - 03/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
Karyotype Testing - 04/18 - Negative (we're ok)
FET#6 - 06/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#7 - 10/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#8 - 11/18 - 2 emb - BFP; looks like one baby is going to make it, DD is due 8/16 (though likely to be 8/9)
@wabash15 They said I have an anterior placenta at his 20 week scan, not low lying. Not sure if it has moved since then. My Doctor says they are known to migrate. His movements and kicks have been felt by me a lot since a couple of weeks ago. A few days ago, the feeling of him rolling around and swishing has become strong. Yesterday, I could see my stomach moving as he kicked and it moved my hand. Last night, he kicked under my husband’s hand twice but he didn’t notice it. It’s hard to say if that’s because he cannot get still and patient enough or if maybe they were smaller kicks and it’s just that my being able to feel them so well on the inside means knowledge they happened. He felt one last week but in hindsight. Hopefully at some point, he will get one for a wonderful memory. I really want him to be able to experience that. There could be a pattern of kicks and movement between the hours of 4 and 5pm. Not sure yet but maybe he will have a better chance this weekend.
I really love what you said about getting something special between me and baby. That is kind of how it makes me feel. Lol my husband said last night when our son grows up, he is gonna walk away into another room really fast as soon as he sees him and then tell him why when he asks.
My 7 Year Journey ***Tw in spoiler***
IVF #1 - September 2018; Follistim, Menopur, Cetrotide & Lupron/HCG combo trigger; PGS; ICSI
Back on Levothyroxine
FET #1 - October 2018; cancelled, all PGS aneuploid
FET #1 - November 30th, transferred anyway
Wondfo BFP 5dp5dt, CB Digi 6dpt,
1st Beta on 7dpt 93
2nd Beta on 10dpt 510!
TTC #1 since 2011. Tried for 5 years before we knew there was a one year rule.
Diag w/MS 2016; w/PCOS & IF 2017
New RE 2018; PCOS diagnosis taken away, IF due to ovary adhesions, but prev. RE insists PCOS IF
IUI
IUI #1 July 2017 w/100mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #2 October 2017 w/50mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #3 February 2018 w/5mg Femara+trigger; low P
BFP February; mc March; Subclinical hypothyroid started Levothyroxine
IUI #4 March 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Medicated cycle & TI April 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Tried several cycles on our own; all BFN
@suzycupcake my DH hasn't felt anything yet either, last night he said he just plans to wait a few more weeks until he knows he is likely to feel something. It will come. Like @wabash15 said right now it is a special little thing between you and you BB.
@cato99 @MamaK225 FTM here, but really relating to the conversation about "feeling pregnant." It really took me a while to even say "I'm pregnant." For a while I said, "the transfer worked." There is a definite sense of relief now that I'm feeling movement more consistently.
@purplg8r how has the sleep been going? any of those pillows working for you? I haven't gotten one yet, but I'm considering getting a wedge type.
How far along are you? 22 w
Any symptoms? nothing too bad had some heartburn that really felt more like nausea, but someone told he "hey it could be heartburn" so I took some prilosec and that helped. I think some of the nausea feeling was in my head and it was cured by sparkling water...IDK why, but it worked. I think I just needed some bubbles.
Rant/Rave? MFM discharged me so now it is just f/u with the regular OB "unless something else happens," so hoping that I don't need to return to them.
Next appointment? I go back to my OB in 2 weeks. DH hasn't made it to a regular OB appt yet and yesterday asked what they were like. when I told him there were no u/s he was like, well maybe I'll wait a bit longer to come. lol.
Questions?
GTKY: I wish i could teach the dog to vacuum, it is her hair that makes the need to vacuum a daily thing. we did upgrade to a roomba and it really makes a difference! I switched a lot of my products during the TTC time, I would say the main thing I'm focused on now is ensuring, or trying hard to get more protein. I don't eat red meat at all and don't eat much other meat in general, so I'm trying to be more aware of other forms of protein, while also not adding too much sugar, but I've had a sweet tooth lately and that is just not me.
TTC#1 10/2016
TTC/IF:included medicated cycles, IUIs and 2 rounds of IVF with 1 embryo each.
BFP finally in 12/2018
TTC#2 06/2021
planning FET
"Some days are diamonds, some days are rocks,
some doors are open, some roads are blocked"
Me - anovulatory, non-Insulin PCOS, DH - low end of "normal" sperm count
IUI#1 - 02/15 - Cancelled due to scrubbed sperm count <1MM
IVF#1 - 08/15 - 13x5-day blastocysts (ranging from AA-BB, most are 5 or 6), not PGS, on ice
FET#1 - 10/15 - 1 emb - BFP (DD 07/16) (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#2 - 07/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#3 - 08/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#4 - 10/17 - 2 emb - BFN (changed to estrace + prometrium because of allergic reaction to PIO sesame oil)
ERA Testing - 12/17 - window moved (-1 day)
FET#5 - 03/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
Karyotype Testing - 04/18 - Negative (we're ok)
FET#6 - 06/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#7 - 10/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#8 - 11/18 - 2 emb - BFP; looks like one baby is going to make it, DD is due 8/16 (though likely to be 8/9)
Me - anovulatory, non-Insulin PCOS, DH - low end of "normal" sperm count
IUI#1 - 02/15 - Cancelled due to scrubbed sperm count <1MM
IVF#1 - 08/15 - 13x5-day blastocysts (ranging from AA-BB, most are 5 or 6), not PGS, on ice
FET#1 - 10/15 - 1 emb - BFP (DD 07/16) (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#2 - 07/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#3 - 08/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#4 - 10/17 - 2 emb - BFN (changed to estrace + prometrium because of allergic reaction to PIO sesame oil)
ERA Testing - 12/17 - window moved (-1 day)
FET#5 - 03/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
Karyotype Testing - 04/18 - Negative (we're ok)
FET#6 - 06/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#7 - 10/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#8 - 11/18 - 2 emb - BFP; looks like one baby is going to make it, DD is due 8/16 (though likely to be 8/9)
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
Me - anovulatory, non-Insulin PCOS, DH - low end of "normal" sperm count
IUI#1 - 02/15 - Cancelled due to scrubbed sperm count <1MM
IVF#1 - 08/15 - 13x5-day blastocysts (ranging from AA-BB, most are 5 or 6), not PGS, on ice
FET#1 - 10/15 - 1 emb - BFP (DD 07/16) (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#2 - 07/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#3 - 08/17 - 1 emb - BFN (estrace + PIO sesame oil + prometrium)
FET#4 - 10/17 - 2 emb - BFN (changed to estrace + prometrium because of allergic reaction to PIO sesame oil)
ERA Testing - 12/17 - window moved (-1 day)
FET#5 - 03/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
Karyotype Testing - 04/18 - Negative (we're ok)
FET#6 - 06/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#7 - 10/18 - 2 emb - BFN (estrace + prometrium, ERA-timing used)
FET#8 - 11/18 - 2 emb - BFP; looks like one baby is going to make it, DD is due 8/16 (though likely to be 8/9)
TTC#1 10/2016
TTC/IF:included medicated cycles, IUIs and 2 rounds of IVF with 1 embryo each.
BFP finally in 12/2018
TTC#2 06/2021
planning FET
"Some days are diamonds, some days are rocks,
some doors are open, some roads are blocked"