Est Due Date/ Weeks + Days: 9/15 - 19 weeks 1 day (So close to the 1/2 way point!)
FTM/STM/STM+: STM - DD is turning 3 end of June!
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Team Green till delivery!
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: Gameboy!
Upcoming Appointments: Anatomy scan a week from today on my bday!
How are you feeling?: I woke up yesterday morning at 19 weeks on the dot and it was like BAM PREGNANT. LoL I thought I'd been doing a decent job of being discreet but yesterday proved to me that I am in fact looking very pregnant. It was the first time I'd put a dress on in a few weeks - I guess its much easier to hide in pants and a flowy top!
Rants/Raves: Last night I could feel strong kicks, strong enough to feel on the outside for the first time. DH couldn't feel them but I definitely could.
Questions:
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! COCONUT! It reminds me of the beach, sunscreen, pina colodas, rum, etc. all fun things to me!
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: White onion
Upcoming Appointments: My anatomy scan is tomorrow with the MFM! I'm so excited (and a teeeny tiny bit nervous)
How are you feeling?: Great aside from back aches. They're actually my upper back, not lower back, which I think is kind of weird.
Rants/Raves: DH and I are trying to figure out how to re-situate our elliptical because it's currently in what will be the baby room. DH thinks its fine to leave it there (smack dab in the middle of his room). I... uhh... struggle with that? I'm the one who uses it, not him, and sure as heck am not going to risk waking up a sleeping baby to get my exercise in. I guess we'll have to do more negotiating.
RAVE - Heading to Santa Fe this week for our Babymoon! I have an 80 minute massage planned and nothing else. I'm SO excited to spend some QT with DH. Maybe a short hike? Maybe we'll take our "announcement" photos there, since we still haven't formally announced on social media.
Questions: Anyone else feel like their bladder might burst in the AM after you wake up? Also, is it normal to look 18 weeks pregnant when you wake up, but 6 months pregnant when you go to bed? What on Earth is happening? It can't possibly be all bloat, can it?
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! Ooooo I love the smell of orange groves / trees!
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: Is it bad that I have to look it up every time? A large onion. Not cute, good smelling or a good size gauge. LOL
Upcoming Appointments: Nothing until the 5/9 A/S
How are you feeling?: Really good!
Rants/Raves: Rant: I need to get my brain in check. I SWEAR I felt a lot of somewhat regular movement from weeks 13-15.5. Now I haven't felt anything in 2 weeks. My guess is that either I didn't actually feel baby before or I did but then things moved and thickened and now I can't feel him as well. I KNOW it's too early to feel regular fetal movement, but convincing my brain is another story. I've never had anxiety, but this is making me feel like I'm trending that way, just because my mind isn't reacting to logic the way it usually does. It doesn't help that my midwife had a super hard time finding baby with the Doppler last week and then says she heard him (but I didn't). Looking forward to feeling kicks and the A/S to see that everything is A-OK in there.
Questions: How did people handle the suspense in the '60s?! No ultrasounds, no high tech tests to make sure things are going well. Just, "Ok, you missed your period and are getting round - see you for delivery in 9 mos!"
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! Vanilla. (OMG if you put all my GTKY answers together I am pretty sure the conclusion would be that I am as vanilla as they come. Haha.)
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: A large banana
Upcoming Appointments: 5/14 or 5/16... I don't remember
How are you feeling?: Good but tired today
Rants/Raves: We revealed the gender to the family this weekend with blue candy-filled Easter eggs. I sent a picture and "We're having a boy!" to the family we didn't see in person. My 83-year old grandpa texted back "My messages don't seem to be going through but will try one more time as I want everyone to know how happy this makes me. Super- the best!" Aww.
Questions: No
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Definitely that salty, fresh smell of the beach
FTM/STM/STM+: FTM! Can't wait to meet the little one!
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Team Blue 💙
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: Large carrot and weighs as much as a can of soda. He also has eyebrows now!
Upcoming Appointments: May 15th for our 24w appointment.
How are you feeling?: The heartburn is a real struggle and have been getting a lot of food aversions. 😓
Rants/Raves: I wish someone could just put a feeding tube in me because everything makes me nauseous! Although I am raving about my little boy kicking more often now!
Questions: Has your partner been able to feel your little one kick yet? I can definitely feel my baby's kicks getting stronger, but my husband can't feel them yet.
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Marc Jacob's Daisy perfume ❤
@p912019 My DH has felt kicks twice now, though both times he could I was kind of slumped down on the couch with bad posture and baby was kicking unusually hard, maybe telling me to sit up properly.
@mamaber2204 vanilla is my favorite ice cream flavor, by a long way! I also love the smell of vanilla when baking.
Est Due Date/ Weeks + Days: 9/6, 20w3d
FTM/STM/STM+: STM, 20 month DS
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Pink!
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: banana (??)
Upcoming Appointments: tomorrow for the A/S - excited but nervous too.
How are you feeling?: OK! Gagging when brushing teeth, but haven't thrown up at all in well over a week now!!! Tired and get pretty achy, especially in the evenings (especially the pelvic floor area). Noticed some spider veins this weekend.
Rants/Raves: It's amazing to hit 20 weeks - hard to believe we're getting (roughly) halfway there! Really happy to feel movements more frequently now. Mentioned this above too, but DH has even felt baby move a couple times!
Questions: Not really
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Lilacs (not perfume ever,just the actual flowers), also love vanilla
@MsBeachNJ Yup, my belly just popped too. I walked into my Monday morning meeting this AM and announced to everyone "He has risen!" and pointed to my very obvious belly. Which now I realize could have been in poor taste but whatever, it seemed funny at the moment. So fun you get to have your AS on your bday!
@mamaber2204 Gosh! What a tricky little babe you've got! Hopefully you start feeling him soon and it can put your mind at rest.
@cammie0526 Aww what a sweet way to announce the gender
@ternsetc I'll be thinking of you tomorrow, FX everything is perfect!
@nomangos23 have so much fun on your trip!! I can't wait to hear about it!
@mamaber2204 I've been in the same boat with movement! I thought I felt quite a bit at around the same time and then nothing. I will feel something randomly, but I can't tell if it's kicks or anything yet. I think I might have an anterior placenta this time around. Perhaps you do as well?
@cammie0526 your grandpa sounds so sweet!! That is just adorable.
@p912019 MH hasn't been able to feel anything yet. I am barely feeling kicks this far along. With DS I think he was able to feel around 24 weeks.
Est Due Date/ Weeks + Days: 19+5
FTM/STM/STM+: STM (DS is almost 2.5)
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Pink!
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: A Mango or a Gameboy
Upcoming Appointments: Thursday for my AS. I am really excited to see her again, but can't help but feel really anxious! This feels like one of my last big hurdles until I can "relax" in this pregnancy. With all the low progesterone issues at the beginning, my OB said there were chances that something could still go wrong, but we are hopeful all will be well.
How are you feeling?: Overall I am feeling ok. Still sick frequently and the nausea comes and goes throughout the day. Sleeping pretty well though and feel like I have a tiny bit more energy.
Rants/Raves: Not much to rant/rave about today!
Questions: Nah
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! RAIN! I love the smell of rain so much. It makes my soul happy. A close second is the sweet smell in the air during the beginning of spring when everything starts to bloom.
*TW*
Me: 32 │ DH: 35 Married 8/16/13 BFP#1 DS 11/13/16 BFP# 2 MMC dx @ 13w 10/30/18 BFP# 3 Preemie DD born at 38w (IUGR) on 8/28/19 weighing 5.5lbs. Our little miracle
@zuuls_mom I do have an anterior placenta and did last time, too. One of my theories on feeling movement and now not feeling it is that the placenta rose up to exactly where the babe is moving and grooving. ? It is good to hear that you are having the same experience. Anyway, fx for both of us to get some anxiety relief at the A/S's! You're lucky that yours is so soon!!!
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: apparently today is the halfway point between 4 weeks and my due date? How’s the for some random bump trivia, lol.
Upcoming Appointments: Thursday, General OB appt.
How are you feeling?: good. I’ve been doing some cleaning today and I’m so out of breath!
Rants/Raves: I need to get better about drinking water at home. At work this weekend I fill my liter Camelbak 3 times. Today I realized I haven’t had any at all! And it’s almost 3pm! Not sure how to get myself to drink more at home.
My kiddo is on a tv detox and he is not happy about it. He’s been watching entirely too much. But at least he started to entertain himself about halfway though the morning.
Questions:
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! I wouldn’t say I really have a favorite scent. When MH and I started dating, I loved smelling him ❤️ This is so weird, but I use foam electrodes at work when I do Echocardiograms. I love the smell of opening a new bag of electrodes.
@nomangos23 my scan is tomorrow too and same
as you, excited but a little nervous. Enjoy your babymoon!
@mamabear2204 that’s how it was for me too!
Movements and then nothing, but feeling more consistent movements now. Just
give it some time.
@cammie0526 So exciting for your reveal. My
parents barely know how to text so the fact that your 83 y/o grandpa does is
very impressive.
@p912019 I can feel kicks but not externally
yet. Sorry for all the heartburn and nausea, hoping it let’s up asap!
@ternsetc Another scan tomorrow! I still gag occasionally
while brushing too but it is so much better.
Est Due Date/ Weeks + Days: 20 weeks!
FTM/STM/STM+: TTM
Team Green/Pink/Blue: 3rd time pink
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: As long as a piece of bacon
Upcoming Appointments: Tomorrow! A/S and then meeting with the Dr.
How are you feeling?: Fine, a little sore from some belly growing pains
but nothing bad.
Rants/Raves: Scared/excited/nervous for tomorrow but overall doing well.
Questions: I got nothing.
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random
smell!! I love the smell of sunshine. Does that make sense? Like how the
earth smells after the sun has been shining for an afternoon.
@MsBeachNJ Lol @ the overnight pregnant belly. Happy (one week early!) Birthday!! 🥳 Also, how close to the beach do you live? Is your nose perma-smelling the ocean?
@nomangos23 I MISSED YOU!! But I hope you have the bestest time ever in Santa Fe!!! Enjoy that pampering!!! Also, yes it’s bloat and food at the end of the day. I look the same - not gigantic in the am, but like a beached whale in the pm.
@mamaber2204 I remember the week, but not the fruit/veggie size comparison. Also, no clue about those women in the 60s (or earlier!!) It’s both good and bad we live in today - sometimes it causes us unnecessary worry, but we do have a lot of information at the tips of our fingertips.
@cammie0526 How cute of you to do that little Easter reveal!! And awwww @ your Grandpa!!!!
@ternsetc Yay for strong baby kicks!!! The best (and weirdest) feeling in the world!!
@zuuls_mom I have all the appropriate number of FX for a GREAT and BORING AS for you!!
@calliah Lol @ your kiddo going through TV detox. It’s rough, but hopefully he’ll get through it!!
@supermom34482Some of the bacon I buy is ridiculously long. Maybe they mean cooked bacon? Raw is super long!! Or maybe I’m just forgetting how big our babies really are!!
Est Due Date/ Weeks + Days: 9.18 / 18+5
FTM/STM/STM+: STM (DS is basically 2)
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Team Green until 5.8 (...maybe??)
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: legs and collarbones are the first bones to harden (and it’s happening rn!) Random and weird.
Upcoming Appointments: 5.8 for AS and 20w
How are you feeling?: Annoyingly, I’m still great! I can’t walk as fast as I used to which sucks a little.
Rants/Raves: DS had SO MUCH FUN “finding” the Easter eggs in our backyard. So much that even though he wanted to “find” more, he refused to give them up so we could hide them again. Toddler logic is ridiculous. Also, his poor cough is back (post nasal drip from his runny nose) so he (and I) slept like doody last night.
Questions: Nah, bro.
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! A few of my favs: Fresh cotton / freshly washed laundry Salty ocean air Freshly cut grass Petrichor (aka the smell of rain!!)
@MsBeachNJ MH is so ready to feel kicks. Every night he puts his hand on my stomach and talks to baby telling him to kick ❤️ I keep telling him he’s not strong enough yet! Soon hopefully. Thats exciting you could feel them
@nomangos23 My upper back hurts too, but I mainly attribute it to my job. Have you boobs gotten bigger? Could be that. I’d say that’s normal and probably mostly bloat. Intestines are full of gas at the end of the night. I can always feel my stomach when it full now, the top of my bump gets very hard. Everything is getting pushed around! And the elliptical... yeah, that’s annoying. There has to be somewhere else you guys can put it! Have fun on your babymoon!
@mamaber2204 yes, I was feeling small movements early second tri but then not much recently. It was a little concerning! But I know I have an anterior placenta and it has gotten bigger in the last few weeks so it’s annoyingly blocking movements. I felt quite a bit yesterday when I was sitting scanning patients (squishing him, lol). Regular movements are coming!
@cammie0526 yes, the beach smell is the best! I love when we come home from a cruise and everything smells like sand, beach and sunscreen. Washing the smell away makes me sad.
@p912019 the heartburn is the worst I’ve started avoiding things that cause it (mainly red sauce stuff for me) or taking a Zantac before eating, like this weekend when I had pizza with friends. Sorry you haven’t been feeling well.
@ternsetc I gag every time I brush too. It’s so annoying. One day I came super close to puking. Good luck at your A/S!
@lillywonderland I live less than a mile from the beach, so yes, permanent ocean breeze, its wonderful! Why are you maybe team green till 5.8 - are you going to find out or you're still on the fence??
@lillywonderland I'm right there with you on the fresh cut grass scent! This was probably his first year really enjoying the Easter egg hunt huh? I bet it was a blast watching him! lol @ "I can't walk as fast" *Insert eye roll* You're doing aaalllright if that's your only complaint
@zuuls_mom Keeping my fingers crossed for your AS on Thursday. Is it normal I'm having mine @ 18 weeks? It seems earlier than everyone else.. I also love the smell of rain!!
@calliah Yes to be big boobs club I guess I need to work on my daytime posture. I love the idea of TV detox! I'd like to think I will have strict parenting rules about TV/video games but I have NO idea how to approach something like that.
@supermom34482 Glad to hear everything is going A-OK!! Good luck tomorrow!
Hello everyone! I finally remembered to check in here on a Monday, I'm always remembering at the end of the week when this thread slows down :P
Est Due Date/ Weeks + Days: 20 weeks (for originally feeling like these weeks were going by so slowly, I do feel like they are speeding up very quickly!!)
FTM/STM/STM+: FTM
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Green!
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: a banana!
Upcoming Appointments: A/S on Wednesday, getting those pre ultrasound jitters as always!
How are you feeling?: Still feeling very well overall, though I have started getting pretty bad heartburn in the afternoon/evening, no matter what I eat! Also, I finally made the swap to side sleeping over the last two weeks and have reduced my overnight bathroom trips from like 4 to 2, so I'm counting that as a win.
Rants/Raves: We finally saw the majority of our families for the holidays and got to tell the last family members that didnt know. It's so nice to be able to talk about it without it being this big secret!
Questions: Nope
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! I really love mysterious musky smelling perfumes, though I never end up wearing any myself (DH has an odd sense of smell and is convinced all perfume smells like playdoh).
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@MsBeachNJ - I lol-ed at your BAM comment. I feel ya!
@nomangos23 - let us know how the trip goes! I've never been to NM but have always heard great things
@mamaber2204 - totally agree on your ladies in the 60's comment. so crazy what they just didnt know!
@p912019 - my mom wears Daisy and I just get such comfort anytime I get a whiff of it! Such a lovely smell
@ternsetc - thats so exciting that DH has felt kicks!! I can't wait for mine to experience what that's like.
@zuuls_mom - I hear you on the anxious for the a/s! Wishing you all the best
@calliah - Can you set an alarm/reminder in your phone that can remind you to drink water? I've trained myself to just keep carrying a cup with me to each room I'm in so that it's always in view to remind me to drink!
@supermom34482 - Not sure if I can exactly picture the smell of sunshine, but as I look outside at the rain - I certainly wish I could go outside and try to experience the smell of the sun
@lillywonderland - also lol-ing at your toddler logic comment. I imagine there are some pretty hilarious conversations as they start to learn to reason haha. Same question as MSBeach - are you on the fence about finding out?
Third kid: Due 11/6 Second kid: Dec 2021 First kid: Sept 2019
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: foot is the size of a soda tab
Upcoming Appointments: Anatomy Scan tomorrow!!
How are you feeling?: not too bad lately
Rants/Raves: Love feeling the baby move so much more lately
Questions: ——
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! Hmm, I love my Calvin Klein Euphoria perfume, but my husband hates it 🤦🏼♀️
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Just found out today we are team pink!
Interesting Baby Fact Baby is as long as a popsicle
Upcoming Appointments: Had AS today! So cool to see all the parts of baby and hear she is looking great!
How are you feeling?: Good!
Rants/Raves: So we got together with DH's family yesterday and telling everyone we were finding out baby's sex today and my MIL questioned why we were finding out and thought that we shouldn't. Anyways she told us she doesn't want to know so not to tell her however I am not going to not tell everyone else just because she doesn't want to know. I think it will be impossible for her not to find out at some point especially if she plans on coming to the baby shower. I'd rather we get to share the news with her than waiting for someone to randomly slip up but... 🤷♀️
Questions: When does pregnancy brain typically kick in? I have been having a few random forgetful or mix up moments at work that aren't like me. I also noticed at 7pm Friday night that I had worn my sweater backwards the entire day and somehow didn't notice the tag high up on my chest 🤣
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! We had a gorgeous weekend here in WI and had our first grill out and bonfire and I love both those smells!
@MsBeachNJ, @bluepeach565 I’m okay with not knowing baby’s genitalia, but DH is totally against it and he’ll blab the second he finds out to me because there’s no way he can keep it a secret. Therefore, I’m secretly kinda sorta hoping that they won’t be able to get a clear crotch shot (it happened to my friend with her daughter two years ago!) But barring that, we’ll find out on 5/8!
@MsBeachNJ Is perma-beach smell as potent in the winter? I’m genuinely curious if the cold/snow suppresses it!!
@nomangos23 DS is a freakin’ hoot now!! He wants what he wants, and that is what he wants!! 😜 It’s getting to be so much fun to see him really experience everything! He got so excited “opening” his Easter basket (and spoiler alert - I’m that Mom, the one that gives him flash cards for a present 🤓). Have fun at the AS tomorrow!! FX for you for a super healthy baby boy in your ute!! 💙
@nda_roxybabe Thank goodness you finally gained some weight, lady!! 😜 I was going to come over there and force feed you some in-n-out. (lololololol - just kidding!! As long as your Dr is happy, that’s all you should care about!!) How sweet your toddler is being sweet! FX it stays for a long time!! Maybe you’re done with the terrible twos before they even begin!
@bluepeach565 Yay for finally telling all the family!! How exciting!!
@diner04 Your MIL sounds...interesting. She’s definitely gonna find out at your baby shower, especially since people can’t help but buy little baby girls a crapload of pink frilly everything!! Some people never experience “pregnancy brain” others can’t escape it from the second the (second) line turns pink! Just try and stay focused on one thing at a time and you’ll be okay. Maybe. 😆
@nomangos23@kraane TV is so hard. I use it as some me time because he generally leaves me alone. But I don’t like him watching so much. I guess I’ve been getting too much me time, ha. I just wish he was better at playing independently. I’m not great at the pretend play, so that’s hard for me. MH is using TV to do homework, which will probably get worse when he starts nursing school.
@bluepeach565 good luck at your anatomy scan! That’s a good idea for water. Alarm every hour, drink a glass. I might try that.
So excited for everyone feeling movement. And good luck to everyone getting their AS this week!
@nomangos23 Have a great time in NM. An 80 minute massage sounds heavenly. Also I feel you on the bladder bursting. When I press on my bladder it feels like it could burst. That's how I usually determine if I should get up to pee in the middle of the night.
Est Due Date/ Weeks + Days: 18+2
FTM/STM/STM+: FTM
Team Green/Pink/Blue: blue
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: croissant
Upcoming Appointments: not until 5/8 for AS and OB appt
How are you feeling?: Good. I think my belly popped last week. There's a definite firmness to the bump even first thing in the morning.
Rants/Raves: I was finally able to get outside in short sleeves for a run/walk. The comparing notes thread inspired me to pull the trigger and buy the crib, dresser with changing topper, rug, and a lion rocker for the nursery from Pottery Barn since they were having 25% off. Now my husband just needs to finish patching the walls so he can paint it.
Questions: None
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! Does bacon count?! I love fresh cut grass and laundry. I love running past houses and smelling their laundry. Also, real Christmas trees. The Thymes frasier fir candle is a great substitute for the real thing.
How are you feeling?:
Good. I was starting to feel silly about the spot on my boob cause it seems
like any time I talk about a symptom it starts to go away. It hadn’t been as
itchy and the bruising seemed to be getting lighter. I was thinking about
cancelling my ultrasound scheduled for Friday. But then this morning the spots
were a lot darker so I guess I’ll keep it.
Rants/Raves: We’re picking up our
camper this Friday!!! We’re going to test it out this weekend, camping at my
parents place. It’s supposed to be really cold and rainy but oh well. We have
to test out the heaters anyways lol.
I’m sitting here
drinking my first latte since December… I don’t know how I feel about it. I
thought it would taste better than it does, not that it taste bad. But it’s doctors
orders. She told me to start drinking caffeine to help with my headaches. She
said that if Tylenol stopped working she could give me a migraine medication
that’s safe during pregnancy. This medication had caffeine in it so might as
well start with caffeine first. I figured I’d try it today since yesterday at
work was brutal (although I was working on an SOP, which is a task I loath!).
Questions:
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random
smell!! First thing that
popped into my head was freshly cut grass. It’s a smell I associate with summer
and absolutely love it! My perfume of choice is dolce and gabbana light blue,
although I ran out of this years ago and have yet to buy another bottle. I
prefer to go fragrance free these days.
*TW* TTC history
Me:32 DH:31 Married: 8/2015
TTC #1: 4/2017 Testing: HSG, U/S, BW, and DH's SA all normal DX: Unexplained 8/2018: Clomid + TI = BFN 9/2018: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN 11/2018: Clomid + IUI + Progesterone = BFN 12/2018: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone \\ Cancelled due to cyst 1/2019: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD Sept 30th, 2019 10/7/2019: Healthy baby boy!
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: onion
Upcoming Appointments: 5/9 AS!!!!
How are you feeling?: So much better! Sometimes I even forget I’m pregnant even tho I have a huge bump.
Rants/Raves: Easter was so much fun this year. We hid eggs for the first time and DS loved it so much. He also helped me sprinkle flour down on the floor as a bunny trap which I made paw prints in after he went to bed. He thought it was the best thing ever. My SIL saw it on FB and said “you’re too pinteresty for my liking” 🙄 DH’s intellectually disabled aunt also told me “wow you’re getting huge” ... she gets a pass, but still savage.
Questions: Nah
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! I love the smell of Gain fabric softener and BBW Sweater Weather candles.
@sparkles5275 We are AS buddies!! 😆 Great job buying all the furniture! You are officially in the nesting phase now! You are right - 🎄 Christmas trees smell awesome!! I got those little sticks to hang in our faux tree this past year and I feel like it made a world of difference!!
@LJMoon6 I’ve been revising SOPs/authoring reports since January (and reviewing also) when they pulled me from the lab. I kinda love it and kinda hate it. I’m (not so) secretly proud of the SOP I just authored regarding a major software change for our critical analytical instruments. Not many changes were needed!! 😁
@duewithpu2 Awwwwww how cute about the bunny trap!! And that DS helped you make it! You are pinteresty!! I would take it as you want to create unique memories for your littles!! Pinterest has so many awesome ideas that are inexpensive and creative!
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: a pomegranate? And is currently growing eyelashes!
Upcoming Appointments: Waiting to hear from my MW who is scheduling my AS for sometime next week or the following.
How are you feeling?: Honestly, subpar. I've been hit with a nasty head cold which is making me slow and cranky and making the daily grind seem like I'm trying to climb mount everest. But my anxiety has been SKY HIGH, I can often feel my heart pounding, I'm terribly irritable, feel like I could cry all the time, don't sleep well, and am ready to snap. It's really starting to wear me (and my husband) down and becoming somewhat of a real problem.
Rants/Raves: See above. 22 or so more weeks of this is just not going to be feasible. Extra rant: I'm so ready to be able to feel baby move and still NOTHING! I thought being 4th pregnancy I'd feel this thing super early. I'll be interested to see if I have an anterior placenta when we do the AS. I also have had 2 small babies (5.5 and 5.13 - after my 8.8 first born) so that could be a contributing factor.
Questions:
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! Well, at the moment I can't smell a darn thing! I'm partial to new car smell as well as the smell the dryer makes when you walk past the vent outside. My favorite candle smell is Yankee Candle 'warm luxe cashmere'. It makes the house smell so homey.
@nomangos 23 I get the upper back pains too. Like tight between
the shoulders? It could be from carrying simple things, since your body is now
balancing weight differently. Even
grocery bags, etc. Tylenol seems to help
a hair. And YES to the bladder
issue. I will wake having to pee so
badly that it literally feels like if I don’t go in the next 30 seconds I’m
undoubtedly going to develop a UTI. Like
@ says, that’s how I weigh whether to get up in the night, too. Have we reached the point of burning
sensation? No? Staying put.
@mamaber2204 I felt movement at 12ish weeks as well, and
nothing since. My MW says that since the
placenta has since grown larger (and we don’t know in what location), that can
be totally normal.
@ternsetc I’ve been getting that achy/heavy pelvic floor
feeling too. Seems SO early for that!
@LJMoon6 don’t cancel your appt!! Nothing wrong with going
in for nothing – ever!! – and always capitalize on an opportunity to sneak a
peek at babe. I initially read your camper
comment as ‘computer’ and was wildly confused as to why you’d be testing your
computer in the woods, and why you cared about its heaters. I thought maybe you needed to make sure the wifi
signal would reach. LOL!
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: loved my daily fact that baby is as tall as a Starbucks Venti cup today
Upcoming Appointments:Anatomy scan this Thursday 4/25
How are you feeling?: Feeling great, second tri is being so good to me!!
Rants/Raves: Just had an amazing long weekend back home in FL. Really had the best time and coming back has been so tough. I wish I lived closer to my family, especially with kids, it makes it so hard to be away.
Questions: None right now
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! Love my perfume, J'Adore Dior. Also love the smell of Banana Boat Aloe After Sun Lotion, just reminds me of my summers in FL
@MsBeachNJ I guess you popped overnight! Are you going to tell work now? (wasn't it you who was still trying to keep it under wraps? forgive me if I'm wrong). @nomangos23 hiiii! I look much more pregnant by the time I go to bed than when I wake up. So weird! Santa Fe and an 80 minute massage sound like heaven . @mamaber2204 aw i'm sorry you're feeling anxious about movement. I've been seriously second guessing myself and over analyzing every little flutter and gurgle I feel. Can't wait until the a/s! We're having ours within a day of each other . @cammie0526 awww I love your grandpa's response! @p912019 I still don't know if I'm feeling anything (FTM here), so DH is definitely in the dark too haha. Sorry to hear that nausea is still happening for you. @ternsetc how did the a/s go? @zuuls_mom I'll be thinking about you on Thursday! Hope everything goes swimmingly . @calliah ooh, tv detox doesn't sound fun. I'm not looking forward to those tough parts of parenting! @supermom34482 I totally get the sunshine smell. There's something about warm, sunny air and the smell of hot grass and dirt. @lillywonderland I'm chuckling at your story about YS. Hope he feels better soon so you can both get some rest! Also, your love of freshly cut grass reminds me of Hermione (which is always a good thing!). @nda_roxybabe mmmmm I love Anthro's candles so much!!! @bluepeach565 hooray for only peeing 2x a night! I'm still waking up every 2 hours or so. What's your secret?! @mainemomma8316 hope your a/s goes well today! @diner04 that's awesome that your a/s was great! That's so funny that you wore your sweater backwards. I have such an issue about tags and things being high up on my neck that I would've been dying! @kraane boooo heartburn @sparkles5275 yay for all of the nursery furniture you bought! What color are you painting the room? @LJMoon6 can't wait to hear about all your adventures in your new camper! Hope you figure out whats going on with your boob (that sentence sounds so silly out of context). @duewithpu2 Your Easter egg hunt sounds like so much fun! I can't wait to do stuff like that with my LO. @kiddiesandkitties so sorry that you're feeling that way @UFJen oh wow, a venti cup is so tall!
Est Due Date/ Weeks + Days: 9/21 and 18+3
FTM/STM/STM+: FTM
Team Green/Pink/Blue: girl
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: a sugar glider!
Upcoming Appointments: a/s on May 8th
How are you feeling?: pretty good. Heartburn and other annoying symptoms are still dogging me, but I'm used to it at this point.
Rants/Raves: Rave-- I had the day off yesterday and used it to get a lot of things done. I packed away clothes that won't fit me, organized the closet, bought a bunch of stuff at the Container Store (they're doing 25% off closet must-haves), and finally bit the bullet and went to look at strollers. Rant-- I can't remember if I mentioned this, but my SIL claimed DH's grandmother's name for her future unborn daughter. Her husband (DH's brother) wasn't as close with her as DH was, and how can she claim a name when it's not even her family? She did it in a text conversation we had the day they found out we're expecting (this was a month ago). Anyway, MIL told us at Easter (SIL and DH's bro weren't there) that she's very upset about the whole thing and that SIL has no right to the name, especially since she's not pregnant and they won't be TTC for another year or so. DH and I had been thinking about using the name, but I backed off after SIL made the claim because I didn't know how else to respond. Long story short, DH is now positive he wants to use the name and has to confront them about it. So awkward.
Questions: I had one but promptly forgot it after typing and relieving that story!
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!!
I can never pick just one thing for these types of questions! Verbena, the smell of spring, sauteed garlic, red wine on someone's breath (super weird, I know, but I think it reminds me of when my parents would come home after a night out and come kiss me goodnight), fresh pine around Christmas, and new books (especially glossy textbooks).
**Edited to change "cribs" to "strollers." I already have a crib! Guess I can claim pregnancy brain on this one...
@themadcamel I get family name drama, but there is NOTHING wrong with multiple people honoring a family member by using their name. You might get it as a first name, and they can use it as a middle, or vice versa. Both of my uncles names are Steven (after their grandfather) and one goes by Stevie and one by Steve. It's not a big thing in the family at all! (Also, totally get the red wine on the breath smell. My parents too If/when we have a little girl we will use Isabelle (after my great grandmother who was the epitome of the matriarch of our family) as her middle name, and I don't give a flying flip who else uses it!
@diner04 The pregnancy brain can begin ANY time! Then it transforms into Mom brain. In my experience it got worse in the 3rd trimester. Just like stupid stuff like putting the milk in the cabinet and cereal in the fridge.
@themadcamel yeah, she has no right to claim a name for a hypothetical girl that they might have one day. I could understand if they were super close to her and mentioned it before you got pregnant, but to do it the day you announce? No. You snooze, you lose SIL!
*TW*
Me: 32 │ DH: 35 Married 8/16/13 BFP#1 DS 11/13/16 BFP# 2 MMC dx @ 13w 10/30/18 BFP# 3 Preemie DD born at 38w (IUGR) on 8/28/19 weighing 5.5lbs. Our little miracle
@themadcamel no way does she get to claim that name when she's not even pregnant!! And that's a wild way to claim it, in a text, as soon as they hear you're pregnant. That would make me want to use the name more! (edited because I forgot a word)
@themadcamel it was me that hasn't told work yet - it is so painfully obvious this week so I sent my boss another email requesting that she meet with me. She responded and said that she would give me a time later today or tomorrow that we could meet within the next 2 days... we shall see if that happens!! Also- how stressful about the name situation! That is so wrong of SIL... you cannot claim a name, what if she never has that sex child? What if they decide to or cannot have children? The rest of the family is banned from honoring a loved relative with that name? Thats crazy town. My sister had kids before me, and she used my grandmothers name as her first daughters middle name. I had always loved that name, so I didn't let it stop me from using it as my own daughters middle name as well. No one thinks its weird, its nice to honor family if you can/want to and when her time comes if she too wants to use the name then that is her decision.
@themadcamel Agree with everyone else - especially since she “claimed” it on the day you announced. It might be a different story if it was her grandmother, they were superclose and she’s always dreamed about it but it doesn’t sound like that’s the case at all. Have YH take the lead on that conversation. Yay for organizing and cleaning!! Those two things are my jam, man!!
@sparkles5275 ooh, I like that color! It's neutral without being too boring. I have such fun plans for color/wallpaper in the nursery, but we'll be moving in a year so we just repainted it off-white.
@lillywonderland yeah, she never even met her-- their grandma passed away over 15 years ago.
@MsBeachNJ hope it goes well with your boss/you get to meet with her! DH wants to use the name as DD's first name, and I'd be totally fine with them using it as a first or middle name. It's not like we hang out all the time.
@ternsetc it was wild. She tried to bring it up all subtly too. She said congrats and asked how I was feeling then asked if we had any names picked. I said we had some in mind and she goes, "well we're going to name our daughter _____." Major eyeroll.
@zuuls_mom DH is saying that karma is going to come 'round and give them a boy lol.
@nomangos23 we have a friend whose whole family is made up of the same 3 boy names. Every boy is either named John, Charles, or William. They all have different nicknames though.
@themadcamel Have you looked into peel and stick removable wallpaper? We might do that on one of the walls. We're looking at something from https://www.chasingpaper.com/ All of the furniture we got is white (crib and dresser) or light gray (glider and ottoman) but we plan to add pops of color throughout with the decorations.
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: I never know, I have to look it up lol
Upcoming Appointments: should have my anatomy scan in a week or two, they haven’t called to schedule it yet. Other than that just my regular monthly appointment in two weeks
How are you feeling?: mostly okay. Sleep and comfort have been problematic. Feels too early to be feeling this tired and uncomfortable :-/. Abs/belly stretching and pressure on my bladder which again feels too early and different than the last two times. Not sure how to explain it’s different but just does. Or maybe I’m not remembering correctly. Can be either one.
Rants/Raves: took an early glucose screening last week because I had gestational diabetes in my last pregnancy. Can back normal!!!! Shocked the hell out of me. I was certain I was going to fail it. I’ve never passed a one hour glucose test even in my first pregnancy when I didn’t have gestational diabetes. Still will have to take the screening again at the regular time, around the beginning of the third trimester but still, big sigh of relief for now
Questions:
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! Too many to list! Right now I’m most looking forward to my lilacs in the front of the house, my absolute favorite flower mostly due to the scent.
@sparkles5275 I’ve been eyeing up some peel and stick wallpaper from Chasing Paper also, but I have no idea if the prices are outrageous or not? I’ve never wallpapered so I have no comprison.
@LilyASF42 wooo! So glad you’re in the clear with GD.
Re: Weekly Check In w/o 4.22
FTM/STM/STM+: STM - DD is turning 3 end of June!
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Team Green till delivery!
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: Gameboy!
Upcoming Appointments: Anatomy scan a week from today on my bday!
How are you feeling?: I woke up yesterday morning at 19 weeks on the dot and it was like BAM PREGNANT. LoL I thought I'd been doing a decent job of being discreet but yesterday proved to me that I am in fact looking very pregnant. It was the first time I'd put a dress on in a few weeks - I guess its much easier to hide in pants and a flowy top!
Rants/Raves: Last night I could feel strong kicks, strong enough to feel on the outside for the first time. DH couldn't feel them but I definitely could.
Questions:
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! COCONUT! It reminds me of the beach, sunscreen, pina colodas, rum, etc. all fun things to me!
FTM/STM/STM+: FTM!!
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Blue
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: White onion
Upcoming Appointments: My anatomy scan is tomorrow with the MFM! I'm so excited (and a teeeny tiny bit nervous)
How are you feeling?: Great aside from back aches. They're actually my upper back, not lower back, which I think is kind of weird.
Rants/Raves: DH and I are trying to figure out how to re-situate our elliptical because it's currently in what will be the baby room. DH thinks its fine to leave it there (smack dab in the middle of his room). I... uhh... struggle with that? I'm the one who uses it, not him, and sure as heck am not going to risk waking up a sleeping baby to get my exercise in. I guess we'll have to do more negotiating.
RAVE - Heading to Santa Fe this week for our Babymoon! I have an 80 minute massage planned and nothing else. I'm SO excited to spend some QT with DH. Maybe a short hike? Maybe we'll take our "announcement" photos there, since we still haven't formally announced on social media.
Questions: Anyone else feel like their bladder might burst in the AM after you wake up? Also, is it normal to look 18 weeks pregnant when you wake up, but 6 months pregnant when you go to bed? What on Earth is happening? It can't possibly be all bloat, can it?
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! Ooooo I love the smell of orange groves / trees!
FTM/STM/STM+: STM - DS is 19mos
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Blue #2!
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: Is it bad that I have to look it up every time? A large onion. Not cute, good smelling or a good size gauge. LOL
Upcoming Appointments: Nothing until the 5/9 A/S
How are you feeling?: Really good!
Rants/Raves: Rant: I need to get my brain in check. I SWEAR I felt a lot of somewhat regular movement from weeks 13-15.5. Now I haven't felt anything in 2 weeks. My guess is that either I didn't actually feel baby before or I did but then things moved and thickened and now I can't feel him as well. I KNOW it's too early to feel regular fetal movement, but convincing my brain is another story. I've never had anxiety, but this is making me feel like I'm trending that way, just because my mind isn't reacting to logic the way it usually does. It doesn't help that my midwife had a super hard time finding baby with the Doppler last week and then says she heard him (but I didn't). Looking forward to feeling kicks and the A/S to see that everything is A-OK in there.
Questions: How did people handle the suspense in the '60s?! No ultrasounds, no high tech tests to make sure things are going well. Just, "Ok, you missed your period and are getting round - see you for delivery in 9 mos!"
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! Vanilla. (OMG if you put all my GTKY answers together I am pretty sure the conclusion would be that I am as vanilla as they come. Haha.)
FTM/STM/STM+: FTM
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Blue!!
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: A large banana
Upcoming Appointments: 5/14 or 5/16... I don't remember
How are you feeling?: Good but tired today
Rants/Raves: We revealed the gender to the family this weekend with blue candy-filled Easter eggs. I sent a picture and "We're having a boy!" to the family we didn't see in person. My 83-year old grandpa texted back "My messages don't seem to be going through but will try one more time as I want everyone to know how happy this makes me. Super- the best!" Aww.
Questions: No
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Definitely that salty, fresh smell of the beach
FTM/STM/STM+: FTM! Can't wait to meet the little one!
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Team Blue 💙
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: Large carrot and weighs as much as a can of soda. He also has eyebrows now!
Upcoming Appointments: May 15th for our 24w appointment.
How are you feeling?: The heartburn is a real struggle and have been getting a lot of food aversions. 😓
Rants/Raves: I wish someone could just put a feeding tube in me because everything makes me nauseous! Although I am raving about my little boy kicking more often now!
Questions: Has your partner been able to feel your little one kick yet? I can definitely feel my baby's kicks getting stronger, but my husband can't feel them yet.
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Marc Jacob's Daisy perfume ❤
@mamaber2204 Gosh! What a tricky little babe you've got! Hopefully you start feeling him soon and it can put your mind at rest.
@cammie0526 Aww what a sweet way to announce the gender
@ternsetc I'll be thinking of you tomorrow, FX everything is perfect!
@nomangos23 have so much fun on your trip!! I can't wait to hear about it!
@mamaber2204 I've been in the same boat with movement! I thought I felt quite a bit at around the same time and then nothing. I will feel something randomly, but I can't tell if it's kicks or anything yet. I think I might have an anterior placenta this time around. Perhaps you do as well?
@cammie0526 your grandpa sounds so sweet!! That is just adorable.
@p912019 MH hasn't been able to feel anything yet. I am barely feeling kicks this far along. With DS I think he was able to feel around 24 weeks.
FTM/STM/STM+: STM (DS is almost 2.5)
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Pink!
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: A Mango or a Gameboy
Upcoming Appointments: Thursday for my AS. I am really excited to see her again, but can't help but feel really anxious! This feels like one of my last big hurdles until I can "relax" in this pregnancy. With all the low progesterone issues at the beginning, my OB said there were chances that something could still go wrong, but we are hopeful all will be well.
How are you feeling?: Overall I am feeling ok. Still sick frequently and the nausea comes and goes throughout the day. Sleeping pretty well though and feel like I have a tiny bit more energy.
Rants/Raves: Not much to rant/rave about today!
Questions: Nah
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! RAIN! I love the smell of rain so much. It makes my soul happy. A close second is the sweet smell in the air during the beginning of spring when everything starts to bloom.
Married 8/16/13
BFP#1 DS 11/13/16
BFP# 2 MMC dx @ 13w 10/30/18
BFP# 3 Preemie DD born at 38w (IUGR) on 8/28/19 weighing 5.5lbs. Our little miracle
FTM/STM/STM+: STM, 5 yo DS
Team Green/Pink/Blue: blue!
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: apparently today is the halfway point between 4 weeks and my due date? How’s the for some random bump trivia, lol.
Upcoming Appointments: Thursday, General OB appt.
How are you feeling?: good. I’ve been doing some cleaning today and I’m so out of breath!
Rants/Raves: I need to get better about drinking water at home. At work this weekend I fill my liter Camelbak 3 times. Today I realized I haven’t had any at all! And it’s almost 3pm! Not sure how to get myself to drink more at home.
My kiddo is on a tv detox and he is not happy about it. He’s been watching entirely too much. But at least he started to entertain himself about halfway though the morning.
Questions:
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! I wouldn’t say I really have a favorite scent. When MH and I started dating, I loved smelling him ❤️
This is so weird, but I use foam electrodes at work when I do Echocardiograms. I love the smell of opening a new bag of electrodes.
@msbeachnj yay for baby kicks! It’s the best
@nomangos23 my scan is tomorrow too and same as you, excited but a little nervous. Enjoy your babymoon!
@mamabear2204 that’s how it was for me too! Movements and then nothing, but feeling more consistent movements now. Just give it some time.
@cammie0526 So exciting for your reveal. My parents barely know how to text so the fact that your 83 y/o grandpa does is very impressive.
@p912019 I can feel kicks but not externally yet. Sorry for all the heartburn and nausea, hoping it let’s up asap!
@ternsetc Another scan tomorrow! I still gag occasionally while brushing too but it is so much better.
Est Due Date/ Weeks + Days: 20 weeks!
FTM/STM/STM+: TTM
Team Green/Pink/Blue: 3rd time pink
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: As long as a piece of bacon
Upcoming Appointments: Tomorrow! A/S and then meeting with the Dr.
How are you feeling?: Fine, a little sore from some belly growing pains but nothing bad.
Rants/Raves: Scared/excited/nervous for tomorrow but overall doing well.
Questions: I got nothing.
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! I love the smell of sunshine. Does that make sense? Like how the earth smells after the sun has been shining for an afternoon.
@nomangos23 I MISSED YOU!! But I hope you have the bestest time ever in Santa Fe!!! Enjoy that pampering!!! Also, yes it’s bloat and food at the end of the day. I look the same - not gigantic in the am, but like a beached whale in the pm.
@mamaber2204 I remember the week, but not the fruit/veggie size comparison. Also, no clue about those women in the 60s (or earlier!!) It’s both good and bad we live in today - sometimes it causes us unnecessary worry, but we do have a lot of information at the tips of our fingertips.
@cammie0526 How cute of you to do that little Easter reveal!! And awwww @ your Grandpa!!!!
@p912019 Yay for feeling baby kicks!!
@ternsetc Yay for strong baby kicks!!! The best (and weirdest) feeling in the world!!
@zuuls_mom I have all the appropriate number of FX for a GREAT and BORING AS for you!!
@calliah Lol @ your kiddo going through TV detox. It’s rough, but hopefully he’ll get through it!!
@supermom34482Some of the bacon I buy is ridiculously long. Maybe they mean cooked bacon? Raw is super long!! Or maybe I’m just forgetting how big our babies really are!!
Est Due Date/ Weeks + Days: 9.18 / 18+5
FTM/STM/STM+: STM (DS is basically 2)
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Team Green until 5.8 (...maybe??)
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: legs and collarbones are the first bones to harden (and it’s happening rn!) Random and weird.
Upcoming Appointments: 5.8 for AS and 20w
How are you feeling?: Annoyingly, I’m still great! I can’t walk as fast as I used to which sucks a little.
Rants/Raves: DS had SO MUCH FUN “finding” the Easter eggs in our backyard. So much that even though he wanted to “find” more, he refused to give them up so we could hide them again. Toddler logic is ridiculous. Also, his poor cough is back (post nasal drip from his runny nose) so he (and I) slept like doody last night.
Questions: Nah, bro.
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!!
A few of my favs:
Fresh cotton / freshly washed laundry
Salty ocean air
Freshly cut grass
Petrichor (aka the smell of rain!!)
@nomangos23 My upper back hurts too, but I mainly attribute it to my job. Have you boobs gotten bigger? Could be that.
I’d say that’s normal and probably mostly bloat. Intestines are full of gas at the end of the night. I can always feel my stomach when it full now, the top of my bump gets very hard. Everything is getting pushed around! And the elliptical... yeah, that’s annoying. There has to be somewhere else you guys can put it! Have fun on your babymoon!
@mamaber2204 yes, I was feeling small movements early second tri but then not much recently. It was a little concerning! But I know I have an anterior placenta and it has gotten bigger in the last few weeks so it’s annoyingly blocking movements. I felt quite a bit yesterday when I was sitting scanning patients (squishing him, lol). Regular movements are coming!
@cammie0526 yes, the beach smell is the best! I love when we come home from a cruise and everything smells like sand, beach and sunscreen. Washing the smell away makes me sad.
@p912019 the heartburn is the worst
@ternsetc I gag every time I brush too. It’s so annoying. One day I came super close to puking. Good luck at your A/S!
@zuuls_mom Keeping my fingers crossed for your AS on Thursday. Is it normal I'm having mine @ 18 weeks? It seems earlier than everyone else.. I also love the smell of rain!!
@calliah Yes to be big boobs club
@supermom34482 Glad to hear everything is going A-OK!! Good luck tomorrow!
FTM/STM/STM+: 2nd timer
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Team green baby
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: Croissant
Upcoming Appointments: Today! I have at last gained weight, 3lbs. Baby's HB was 155
How are you feeling?: Good! sleeps been a little rough, but yea
Rants/Raves: My toddler has been much more his sweet, normal self lately and ahhh its so nice!
Questions: No
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! Anthropologie Blue Volcano red candle and Scentsy Spiced Grapefruit
1st Baby 5/12/17, Henry
FTM/STM/STM+: FTM
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Green!
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: a banana!
Upcoming Appointments: A/S on Wednesday, getting those pre ultrasound jitters as always!
How are you feeling?: Still feeling very well overall, though I have started getting pretty bad heartburn in the afternoon/evening, no matter what I eat! Also, I finally made the swap to side sleeping over the last two weeks and have reduced my overnight bathroom trips from like 4 to 2, so I'm counting that as a win.
Rants/Raves: We finally saw the majority of our families for the holidays and got to tell the last family members that didnt know. It's so nice to be able to talk about it without it being this big secret!
Questions: Nope
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! I really love mysterious musky smelling perfumes, though I never end up wearing any myself (DH has an odd sense of smell and is convinced all perfume smells like playdoh).
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@MsBeachNJ - I lol-ed at your BAM comment. I feel ya!
@nomangos23 - let us know how the trip goes! I've never been to NM but have always heard great things
@mamaber2204 - totally agree on your ladies in the 60's comment. so crazy what they just didnt know!
@cammie0526 - thats super adorable!
@p912019 - my mom wears Daisy and I just get such comfort anytime I get a whiff of it! Such a lovely smell
@ternsetc - thats so exciting that DH has felt kicks!! I can't wait for mine to experience what that's like.
@zuuls_mom - I hear you on the anxious for the a/s! Wishing you all the best
@calliah - Can you set an alarm/reminder in your phone that can remind you to drink water? I've trained myself to just keep carrying a cup with me to each room I'm in so that it's always in view to remind me to drink!
@supermom34482 - Not sure if I can exactly picture the smell of sunshine, but as I look outside at the rain - I certainly wish I could go outside and try to experience the smell of the sun
@lillywonderland - also lol-ing at your toddler logic comment. I imagine there are some pretty hilarious conversations as they start to learn to reason haha. Same question as MSBeach - are you on the fence about finding out?
Second kid: Dec 2021
First kid: Sept 2019
FTM/STM/STM+: STM
Team Green/Pink/Blue: 🤞🏼 For 👧🏼
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: foot is the size of a soda tab
Upcoming Appointments: Anatomy Scan tomorrow!!
How are you feeling?: not too bad lately
Rants/Raves: Love feeling the baby move so much more lately
Questions: ——
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! Hmm, I love my Calvin Klein Euphoria perfume, but my husband hates it 🤦🏼♀️
FTM/STM/STM+: FTM
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Just found out today we are team pink!
Interesting Baby Fact
Baby is as long as a popsicle
Upcoming Appointments: Had AS today! So cool to see all the parts of baby and hear she is looking great!
How are you feeling?: Good!
Rants/Raves: So we got together with DH's family yesterday and telling everyone we were finding out baby's sex today and my MIL questioned why we were finding out and thought that we shouldn't. Anyways she told us she doesn't want to know so not to tell her however I am not going to not tell everyone else just because she doesn't want to know. I think it will be impossible for her not to find out at some point especially if she plans on coming to the baby shower. I'd rather we get to share the news with her than waiting for someone to randomly slip up but... 🤷♀️
Questions: When does pregnancy brain typically kick in? I have been having a few random forgetful or mix up moments at work that aren't like me. I also noticed at 7pm Friday night that I had worn my sweater backwards the entire day and somehow didn't notice the tag high up on my chest 🤣
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!!
We had a gorgeous weekend here in WI and had our first grill out and bonfire and I love both those smells!
@MsBeachNJ Is perma-beach smell as potent in the winter? I’m genuinely curious if the cold/snow suppresses it!!
@nomangos23 DS is a freakin’ hoot now!! He wants what he wants, and that is what he wants!! 😜 It’s getting to be so much fun to see him really experience everything! He got so excited “opening” his Easter basket (and spoiler alert - I’m that Mom, the one that gives him flash cards for a present 🤓). Have fun at the AS tomorrow!! FX for you for a super healthy baby boy in your ute!! 💙
@nda_roxybabe Thank goodness you finally gained some weight, lady!! 😜 I was going to come over there and force feed you some in-n-out. (lololololol - just kidding!! As long as your Dr is happy, that’s all you should care about!!) How sweet your toddler is being sweet! FX it stays for a long time!! Maybe you’re done with the terrible twos before they even begin!
@bluepeach565 Yay for finally telling all the family!! How exciting!!
@mainemomma8316 Good luck at your AS tomorrow!!!
@diner04 Your MIL sounds...interesting. She’s definitely gonna find out at your baby shower, especially since people can’t help but buy little baby girls a crapload of pink frilly everything!! Some people never experience “pregnancy brain” others can’t escape it from the second the (second) line turns pink! Just try and stay focused on one thing at a time and you’ll be okay. Maybe. 😆
@calliah that tv detox sounds like a good idea here too. I’m sure we probably watch too much.
FTM/STM/STM+: STM DD is 3
Team Green/Pink/Blue: green if I can make it
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: mango, bones are hardening
Upcoming Appointments: Thursday for anatomy scan!
How are you feeling?: Tired but mostly good. Heartburn has increased in the evening as well.
Rants/Raves: I think I’m starting to feel some flutters, looking forward to them getting stronger.
Questions:
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! Fresh laundry. Although vanilla is a close second!
@bluepeach565 good luck at your anatomy scan!
That’s a good idea for water. Alarm every hour, drink a glass. I might try that.
@mainemomma8316 good luck at your anatomy scan!
@nomangos23 Have a great time in NM. An 80 minute massage sounds heavenly. Also I feel you on the bladder bursting. When I press on my bladder it feels like it could burst. That's how I usually determine if I should get up to pee in the middle of the night.
Est Due Date/ Weeks + Days: 18+2
FTM/STM/STM+: FTM
Team Green/Pink/Blue: blue
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: croissant
Upcoming Appointments: not until 5/8 for AS and OB appt
How are you feeling?: Good. I think my belly popped last week. There's a definite firmness to the bump even first thing in the morning.
Rants/Raves: I was finally able to get outside in short sleeves for a run/walk. The comparing notes thread inspired me to pull the trigger and buy the crib, dresser with changing topper, rug, and a lion rocker for the nursery from Pottery Barn since they were having 25% off. Now my husband just needs to finish patching the walls so he can paint it.
Questions: None
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! Does bacon count?! I love fresh cut grass and laundry. I love running past houses and smelling their laundry. Also, real Christmas trees. The Thymes frasier fir candle is a great substitute for the real thing.
Est Due Date/ Weeks + Days: 17w1d
FTM/STM/STM+: FTM
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Blue
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...:
Upcoming Appointments: May 10th for AS
How are you feeling?: Good. I was starting to feel silly about the spot on my boob cause it seems like any time I talk about a symptom it starts to go away. It hadn’t been as itchy and the bruising seemed to be getting lighter. I was thinking about cancelling my ultrasound scheduled for Friday. But then this morning the spots were a lot darker so I guess I’ll keep it.
Rants/Raves: We’re picking up our camper this Friday!!! We’re going to test it out this weekend, camping at my parents place. It’s supposed to be really cold and rainy but oh well. We have to test out the heaters anyways lol.
I’m sitting here drinking my first latte since December… I don’t know how I feel about it. I thought it would taste better than it does, not that it taste bad. But it’s doctors orders. She told me to start drinking caffeine to help with my headaches. She said that if Tylenol stopped working she could give me a migraine medication that’s safe during pregnancy. This medication had caffeine in it so might as well start with caffeine first. I figured I’d try it today since yesterday at work was brutal (although I was working on an SOP, which is a task I loath!).
Questions:
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! First thing that popped into my head was freshly cut grass. It’s a smell I associate with summer and absolutely love it! My perfume of choice is dolce and gabbana light blue, although I ran out of this years ago and have yet to buy another bottle. I prefer to go fragrance free these days.
Married: 8/2015
TTC #1: 4/2017
Testing: HSG, U/S, BW, and DH's SA all normal
DX: Unexplained
8/2018: Clomid + TI = BFN
9/2018: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
11/2018: Clomid + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
12/2018: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone \\ Cancelled due to cyst
1/2019: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD Sept 30th, 2019
10/7/2019: Healthy baby boy!
TTC #2: 12/2020
2/2021: Letrozole + TI = BFN
3/2021: Letrozole + TI = BFN
4/2021: Surprise! Natural BFP! \\ EDD Jan 6th, 2022 \\ Chemical, betas not rising
8/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
9/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
10/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
11/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD July 29th, 2022
FTM/STM/STM+: STM DS just turned 3
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Green for 16 more days!
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: onion
Upcoming Appointments: 5/9 AS!!!!
How are you feeling?: So much better! Sometimes I even forget I’m pregnant even tho I have a huge bump.
Rants/Raves: Easter was so much fun this year. We hid eggs for the first time and DS loved it so much. He also helped me sprinkle flour down on the floor as a bunny trap which I made paw prints in after he went to bed. He thought it was the best thing ever. My SIL saw it on FB and said “you’re too pinteresty for my liking” 🙄 DH’s intellectually disabled aunt also told me “wow you’re getting huge” ... she gets a pass, but still savage.
Questions: Nah
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!!
I love the smell of Gain fabric softener and BBW Sweater Weather candles.
@sparkles5275 We are AS buddies!! 😆 Great job buying all the furniture! You are officially in the nesting phase now! You are right - 🎄 Christmas trees smell awesome!! I got those little sticks to hang in our faux tree this past year and I feel like it made a world of difference!!
@LJMoon6 I’ve been revising SOPs/authoring reports since January (and reviewing also) when they pulled me from the lab. I kinda love it and kinda hate it. I’m (not so) secretly proud of the SOP I just authored regarding a major software change for our critical analytical instruments. Not many changes were needed!! 😁
@duewithpu2 Awwwwww how cute about the bunny trap!! And that DS helped you make it! You are pinteresty!! I would take it as you want to create unique memories for your littles!! Pinterest has so many awesome ideas that are inexpensive and creative!
FTM/STM/STM+: STM+
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Pink, always!
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: a pomegranate? And is currently growing eyelashes!
Upcoming Appointments: Waiting to hear from my MW who is scheduling my AS for sometime next week or the following.
How are you feeling?: Honestly, subpar. I've been hit with a nasty head cold which is making me slow and cranky and making the daily grind seem like I'm trying to climb mount everest. But my anxiety has been SKY HIGH, I can often feel my heart pounding, I'm terribly irritable, feel like I could cry all the time, don't sleep well, and am ready to snap. It's really starting to wear me (and my husband) down and becoming somewhat of a real problem.
Rants/Raves: See above. 22 or so more weeks of this is just not going to be feasible. Extra rant: I'm so ready to be able to feel baby move and still NOTHING! I thought being 4th pregnancy I'd feel this thing super early. I'll be interested to see if I have an anterior placenta when we do the AS. I also have had 2 small babies (5.5 and 5.13 - after my 8.8 first born) so that could be a contributing factor.
Questions:
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! Well, at the moment I can't smell a darn thing! I'm partial to new car smell as well as the smell the dryer makes when you walk past the vent outside. My favorite candle smell is Yankee Candle 'warm luxe cashmere'. It makes the house smell so homey.
@nomangos 23 I get the upper back pains too. Like tight between the shoulders? It could be from carrying simple things, since your body is now balancing weight differently. Even grocery bags, etc. Tylenol seems to help a hair. And YES to the bladder issue. I will wake having to pee so badly that it literally feels like if I don’t go in the next 30 seconds I’m undoubtedly going to develop a UTI. Like @ says, that’s how I weigh whether to get up in the night, too. Have we reached the point of burning sensation? No? Staying put.
@mamaber2204 I felt movement at 12ish weeks as well, and nothing since. My MW says that since the placenta has since grown larger (and we don’t know in what location), that can be totally normal.
@ternsetc I’ve been getting that achy/heavy pelvic floor feeling too. Seems SO early for that!
@supermom34482 and @nomangos23 GL at AS today! Prayers for perfect healthy little wigglers.
@LJMoon6 don’t cancel your appt!! Nothing wrong with going in for nothing – ever!! – and always capitalize on an opportunity to sneak a peek at babe. I initially read your camper comment as ‘computer’ and was wildly confused as to why you’d be testing your computer in the woods, and why you cared about its heaters. I thought maybe you needed to make sure the wifi signal would reach. LOL!
@nomangos23 hiiii! I look much more pregnant by the time I go to bed than when I wake up. So weird! Santa Fe and an 80 minute massage sound like heaven
@mamaber2204 aw i'm sorry you're feeling anxious about movement. I've been seriously second guessing myself and over analyzing every little flutter and gurgle I feel. Can't wait until the a/s! We're having ours within a day of each other
@cammie0526 awww I love your grandpa's response!
@p912019 I still don't know if I'm feeling anything (FTM here), so DH is definitely in the dark too haha. Sorry to hear that nausea is still happening for you.
@ternsetc how did the a/s go?
@zuuls_mom I'll be thinking about you on Thursday! Hope everything goes swimmingly
@calliah ooh, tv detox doesn't sound fun. I'm not looking forward to those tough parts of parenting!
@supermom34482 I totally get the sunshine smell. There's something about warm, sunny air and the smell of hot grass and dirt.
@lillywonderland I'm chuckling at your story about YS. Hope he feels better soon so you can both get some rest! Also, your love of freshly cut grass reminds me of Hermione (which is always a good thing!).
@nda_roxybabe mmmmm I love Anthro's candles so much!!!
@bluepeach565 hooray for only peeing 2x a night! I'm still waking up every 2 hours or so. What's your secret?!
@mainemomma8316 hope your a/s goes well today!
@diner04 that's awesome that your a/s was great! That's so funny that you wore your sweater backwards. I have such an issue about tags and things being high up on my neck that I would've been dying!
@kraane boooo heartburn
@sparkles5275 yay for all of the nursery furniture you bought! What color are you painting the room?
@LJMoon6 can't wait to hear about all your adventures in your new camper! Hope you figure out whats going on with your boob (that sentence sounds so silly out of context).
@duewithpu2 Your Easter egg hunt sounds like so much fun! I can't wait to do stuff like that with my LO.
@kiddiesandkitties so sorry that you're feeling that way
@UFJen oh wow, a venti cup is so tall!
FTM/STM/STM+: FTM
Team Green/Pink/Blue: girl
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: a sugar glider!
Upcoming Appointments: a/s on May 8th
How are you feeling?: pretty good. Heartburn and other annoying symptoms are still dogging me, but I'm used to it at this point.
Rants/Raves: Rave-- I had the day off yesterday and used it to get a lot of things done. I packed away clothes that won't fit me, organized the closet, bought a bunch of stuff at the Container Store (they're doing 25% off closet must-haves), and finally bit the bullet and went to look at strollers. Rant-- I can't remember if I mentioned this, but my SIL claimed DH's grandmother's name for her future unborn daughter. Her husband (DH's brother) wasn't as close with her as DH was, and how can she claim a name when it's not even her family? She did it in a text conversation we had the day they found out we're expecting (this was a month ago). Anyway, MIL told us at Easter (SIL and DH's bro weren't there) that she's very upset about the whole thing and that SIL has no right to the name, especially since she's not pregnant and they won't be TTC for another year or so. DH and I had been thinking about using the name, but I backed off after SIL made the claim because I didn't know how else to respond. Long story short, DH is now positive he wants to use the name and has to confront them about it. So awkward.
Questions: I had one but promptly forgot it after typing and relieving that story!
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!!
1st Baby 5/12/17, Henry
Married 8/16/13
BFP#1 DS 11/13/16
BFP# 2 MMC dx @ 13w 10/30/18
BFP# 3 Preemie DD born at 38w (IUGR) on 8/28/19 weighing 5.5lbs. Our little miracle
FTM/STM/STM+: STM+
Team Green/Pink/Blue: Blue
Interesting Baby Fact / Baby is size of ...: I never know, I have to look it up lol
Upcoming Appointments: should have my anatomy scan in a week or two, they haven’t called to schedule it yet. Other than that just my regular monthly appointment in two weeks
How are you feeling?: mostly okay. Sleep and comfort have been problematic. Feels too early to be feeling this tired and uncomfortable :-/. Abs/belly stretching and pressure on my bladder which again feels too early and different than the last two times. Not sure how to explain it’s different but just does. Or maybe I’m not remembering correctly. Can be either one.
Rants/Raves: took an early glucose screening last week because I had gestational diabetes in my last pregnancy. Can back normal!!!! Shocked the hell out of me. I was certain I was going to fail it. I’ve never passed a one hour glucose test even in my first pregnancy when I didn’t have gestational diabetes. Still will have to take the screening again at the regular time, around the beginning of the third trimester but still, big sigh of relief for now
Questions:
GTKY: What is your favorite scent? Can be a perfume or just a random smell!! Too many to list! Right now I’m most looking forward to my lilacs in the front of the house, my absolute favorite flower mostly due to the scent.
@LilyASF42 wooo! So glad you’re in the clear with GD.