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Month/Cycle:
CD:
WAYDTGKU:
R/R:
CS/Q:
Re: WTO Friday 4/19
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: letrozole + progesterone
R/R: WOOO it's the weekend (ish). Working from home, but heading to the RE soon to confirm if I O'd or not! I got another +OPK this morning, so hit or miss since it is the second day in a row, and I usually O on the second day. I hope I did... bc I'm not sure if MH has another one in him...
CS/Q: not today
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
CD: 7
WAYDTGKU:
-Keeping an eye on ovulation window, no contraception, sperm-friendly lubricant (Pre-Seed), staying healthy in general (working out, hiking, eating healthier), pre-natal vitamins, avoiding unnecessary chemicals/nasties in environment/food/pharms.
-In terms of eating healthier, I've been adding in lots of extra fruits, vegetables (particularly greens and cruciferous ones), hemp hearts, sesame seeds, cacao powder, and olive/avocado oils.
-I also have a very low caffeine intake (and I already don't drink alcohol or smoke).
-I started a TTC journal (handwritten), so that has been helping me cope with some of the stress!
R/R: I didn't get much sleep last night as I was worried about the heavy storms passing through. Luckily the storm front calmed down by the time it reached us. It is going to be a rainy, yucky day--but I'm glad that we didn't get any storm damage.
CS/Q: nupe
Dating Anniversary: 1999. Marriage Anniversary: 2001.
TTC #1 since 3/2019
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: PNV, BBT, OPKs, lots of BD, exercising and dieting, DH just picked up Pre-Seed
R/R: Yay, it's Friday! They allow us to work from home in the afternoon on Fridays, but usually all of the "creatives" (copywriters and designers) stay at the office. It makes for a nice and peaceful afternoon.
CS/Q: Nada
@flowntheloop glad the storms weren’t too bad for you! We are expected to get them today.
@chellisam enjoy your day at work today!
Month/Cycle: 29/3 AL
CD: 3
WAYDTGKU: metformin, pnv, ubiquinol, vit c,d,e, methylfolate, baby aspirin, ww, low carb, tempdrop, opk, clomid w/ monitoring, TI, progesterone
R/R: doing some last minute packing and then heading to NC for the weekend! Probably won’t be on a lot but I’ll be lurking as much as i can. Hope everyone whose going to be affected by the storms today stays safe!
CS/Q: nothing exciting going on
@chichiphin good luck at the RE!
@flowntheloop So glad to hear the storms passed through overnight without damage! Enjoy your quiet wet Friday.
@chellisam Enjoy your quiet afternoon & @kbrown2385 Have a great long weekend in NC!
Month/Cycle: 11/8/1 AL
CD: 10 I think. MH is getting excited for Fertile Week 😆
WAYDTGKU: Adding more by the day...
R/R: Got a great email back from the specialist doctors at Locus Medicus. Gonna update & share the info this afternoon when I have time.
CS/Q: Bo-ring
@chichiphin good luck at the RE today.
@flowntheloop glad you weren't hit too hard by the storms, but sorry for the lack of sleep and gloomy, rainy day.
@chellisam I love a quiet office day... enjoy!
@kbrown2385 safe travels!
Month/Cycle: 6/6
CD: 5
WAYDTGKU: pnv, opk, tracking bbt and cm
R/R: Off today! Unfortunately spending the day doing cleanup at DH's family's cabin which was seriously damaged by a falling tree over the winter. Then traveling to my parents' for the rest of the weekend, which should be nice.
CS/Q: I'll start temping tomorrow when af has fully left the building.
Month/Cycle: 10/1 AL
CD: 5
WAYDTGKU: So, MH and I talked yesterday and decided to take a more casual approach this cycle rather than jumping back up off the bench guns blazing. We'll see how that goes because I don't really do very well with casual, haha. Still doing PNV, FF, OPKs... just apparently less scheduled HIO, so not as much SMEP as I planned originally.
R/R: Nah, my R/R is covered above, pretty much. ONE WEEK TIL PUPPY!!!
CS/Q: Still pretty boring.
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
@flowntheloop Yay! So glad the storm turned out to be a dud!
@chellisam Enjoy the peace!
@kbrown2385 Have so much fun in NC!!!
@keikilove So glad yougot good news! Looking forward to hearing it!
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
@kbrown2385 Stay safe!
@keikilove Thanks! And yay for FW! I can't wait for mine! I don't tell my husband when mine is as I don't want to pressure him. He is the type that doesn't like being treated like "a piece of meat" LOL! However, it does seem there is something pheromonal going on because we almost always become a lot more active during that week anyway (even before we were TTC it was our pattern)!
@bluebirdbluebird Welcome! Don't be intimidated!
@shamrocandroll Yay for a puppy!
Dating Anniversary: 1999. Marriage Anniversary: 2001.
TTC #1 since 3/2019
@shamrocandroll Puppy!! How exciting! I will also be walking that line this cycle of trying to be “casual” with MH about HIO while of course still being totally on top of it all in my head (sigh).
@kbrown2385 safe travels!
@bluebirdbluebird welcome to WTO! Sorry to hear about the cottage though:( I totally understand about getting a late start to the posts. Sometimes I feel so behind that I’ll just read, respond where I can and try again the next day lol
@shamrocandroll good luck with keeping things low key like you want to:) it get sooo hard not to plan things out so I understand where you are coming from there! And yay puppy soon!!!!
Month/Cycle: 6
CD: 1
WAYDTGKU: PNV, FertiliTEA, OvuSense Temping, supplements and sperm friendly food for DH, less alcohol, Trying to loose some weight and exercise more, Maca.
R/R: For my mental sanity I’ve been listening to some awesome podcasts. One is BFN and the other is Infertile Mafia. They both have some seriously funny ladies and make me laugh when no one else can at tough situations.
CS/Q: natta yet.
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
@flowntheloop those nasty storms can be so hard to sleep through when all you're thinking is "please don't let any tree branches fall on the house". Glad it ended up not being much!
@kbrown2385 have fun in NC! Much needed after all these Peggy's!
@bluebirdbluebird every so often the dailies get a little lopsided haha! Sometimes it's best to post and then just lurk so you at least get to feel involved with everyone
@madcouplewithabox I need to hit up these podcasts!
Month/Cycle: 22/21
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: benched/BCP, PNV, Vitamin D, IVF process starts next month
R/R: I'm off while DH is not so I'm meeting him for lunch! Otherwise I will be cleaning up the house today and hopefully being really productive with that.
CS/Q: none
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
CD: 2
WAYDTGKU: Prenatals, BBT, OPK, Ubiquinol
R/R: H had his post-surgery appointment yesterday and the urologist was super impressed. He said it usually takes a few months before you can visually see the success of a varicocele repair but with my H it is already clearly visible. This also shows how bad his case was. He told H caffeine and alcohol in moderation was totally OK but to still wear loose boxers. Wearing tight boxers could alter the SA results.
CS/Q:
10/2018: MFI (2 SA under 9 million/ml)
11/2018: HSG shows right Fallopian tube slightly damaged
1/2019: Husband diagnosed with grade 3 varicocele
4/05/2019: varicocele repair surgery
6/13/2019: BFP!!! EDD: 2/22/2020
7/18/2019: Total Motile Count at 3 months post surgery = 51 millions!! (number must be >20 millions to conceive naturally).
TTC #2
9/07/2021: BFP - CP: 9/10/2021
10/07/2021: BFP - CP: 10/23/2021
12/23/2021: BFP! EDD: 08/31/2022
@chellisam enjoy the quiet day
@keikilove she's still lucy juicy! can't wait for a good keiki knowledge drop!
@shamrocandroll yay almost puppy time!!!
@bluebirdbluebird welcome!!
@inthewoods23 enjoy lunch with YH
@madcouplewithabox I've heard good things about fertility pod casts - may have to listen
@rikiteacup I'm so glad YH is healing so well! that's awesome!
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
CD: 5
WAYDTGKU: bbt, ff, pnv, green tea, coq10, healthy eats & living (I had one alcoholic beverage last night though--fail!) soon: opk, cm, hio, etc.
R/R: Urgh I haven't even opened that peggy's post but I'm already mad. / Had a good time out to dinner last night for a friend's bday, and today I'm off to the poetry festival for the weekend! DH is sad I'll be gone, but he'll be working all weekend & when I get back--my FW begins next week! woo!
CS/Q: It is not a very exciting chart.
@inthewoods23 Enjoy lunch!
@madcouplewithabox Sorry about CD1, but thanks for the head's (heads?) up on the podcasts! I need to start making a list of the ones recommended to me.
@kbrown2385 Have fun in NC! Sames re: might not post as much but will lurk, though who knows.
@shamrocandroll I understand wanting to be casual but at the same time not really being able to. Even if you don't temp, you still can have a good when you're fertile--sooo.
@bluebirdbluebird Sorry about the tree =/ but have fun with your parents!
@chellisamI am imagining your life like an updated Mad Men scene, lol, and you're all hanging out in Peggy's office, being the creatives. (Have you ever seen Mad Men?)
@flowntheloop Yeah, those nasty storms dumped themselves out a bit over where I am & petered out by the time they got to you. OR it was another system completely.
@chichiphin Have fun hio!
ETA: I kept hitting post before I am done! WTF, self. ::chugs green tea::
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
@flowntheloop yay for no tornado!
@chellisam everybody should go home today.
@kbrown2385 enjoy your weekend in NC.
@keikilove I really enjoyed your posts. I am looking forward to your next one.
@bluebirdbluebird enjoy your long weekend!
@shamrocandroll whatever works for you will be the solution.
@madcouplewithabox sorry about CD1. tThank you for the podcast suggestions.
@inthewoods23 enjoy your day off and your lunch date!
10/2018: MFI (2 SA under 9 million/ml)
11/2018: HSG shows right Fallopian tube slightly damaged
1/2019: Husband diagnosed with grade 3 varicocele
4/05/2019: varicocele repair surgery
6/13/2019: BFP!!! EDD: 2/22/2020
7/18/2019: Total Motile Count at 3 months post surgery = 51 millions!! (number must be >20 millions to conceive naturally).
TTC #2
9/07/2021: BFP - CP: 9/10/2021
10/07/2021: BFP - CP: 10/23/2021
12/23/2021: BFP! EDD: 08/31/2022
I posted the updates in TTCAL and the IF thread. Hope you find some helpful info!
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Dating Anniversary: 1999. Marriage Anniversary: 2001.
TTC #1 since 3/2019