4days late and no period! true anxiety

Re: 4days late and no period! true anxiety

• kbrown2385 member

  March 2019

  mcsweens89 said:

  Hi there. I had a missed miscarriage in December and have been trying ever since. Each month my period comes early by 1 or 2 days indicated on the apps I use to track. However,  this month we used PreSeed lube and had sex every day during my ovulation window so my husband and I were hopeful! Now I am 4 days late (which I have NEVER ever been late since I got my period in high school) but I took a test 2days ago and today and they've both come up negative. I am so confused and anxious. I dont want to get my hopes up that the test is wrong, but can you get a false negative.. twice? Has anything similar happened to any of you? 

  QFP

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• kbrown2385 member

  March 2019

  
  

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• holly321 member

  March 2019

  I have had a lot of negative pregnancy tests.

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• ruby696 member

  March 2019

  Me right now.
  
  
  

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• mcsweens89 member

  March 2019

  and? they turn out to be right, truly negative not pregnant?

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• ruby696 member

  March 2019

  @mcsweens89 If you were four days late, the tests would be blazing positive. It would likely be blazing positive if you tested a couple days early. The tests are not wrong.

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• daffodil_shoe member

  March 2019

  Unless you were temping, you have no idea when you actually ovulated. Therefore you don’t know that you are “late.” You’re regular, until you’re not.

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• b_1029 member

  March 2019

  @mcsweens89 yep unfortunately all my negative tests have in fact been negative. 

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• inthewoods23 member

  March 2019

  Let me tell you about the time I had my first 39 day cycle after my usual 30-33 day cycles.....
  

  *TW* History

  TTC #1 since 7.2017
  Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
  
  IUI #1-3 | all BFN
  IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
  FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
  RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
  FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
  2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
  Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
  TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
  
  Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
  Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
  Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
  Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
  BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22  | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
  DS born 7.19.22 after induction
  
  
  TTC #2 begins 6.2023
  Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
  Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
  Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
  Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
  Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
  Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
  Repeat labs in 8 weeks
  Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
  TTC ended due to filing divorce
  
  **New relationship starting May 2024**
  
  Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
  

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• madcouplewithabox member

  March 2019 edited March 2019

  
  
  I’ve had a rough week and just can’t deal with these kinds of posts right now....... 
  
  OP... if you’re so concerned go to your OB and get a blood test. There are PLENTY of already posted stories on other boards touting almost your exact scenario VERBATIM. Google those. There are enough out there you don’t need to create your own little special one. 

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• mcsweens89 member

  March 2019

  madcouple: yea that sucks you've been having a rough week,  well me too! The purpose of these threads are for this exact reason.  You don't like post or dont have any advice,  don't read it then! Simply as that! We're not meant to be on here bashing each other and making other feel stupid and shitty. So keep your rude comments to yourself and check yourself!

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  March 2019

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