Happy Monday! We'll be tackling lots of baby furniture and gear over the next few months, but one of the major focus points of the nursery is the CRIB! So let's start there!
Many people find themselves with a million different sleep surfaces, e.g.: a bedside bassinet for when they're itty bitty, a sturdy crib (which may or may not convert to a toddler bed down the road) for their nursery, travel cribs, a Pack and Play for other areas in the house, a portable sleep surface like dock a tot for putting baby in random spots, and we want to hear about them ALL! Do you like all the bells and whistles like a SNOO? Or perhaps just the minimalist dream of the Finnish Baby in A Cardboard Box tradition? Please share!
(And generally this is a lighthearted space to share cute baby products, but this is a good time and place to share
this page linked by the American Academy of Pediatrics on safe sleep habits for babies).
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Ours has solid ends (as opposed to bars all the way around) which I highly recommend. Fewer bars and openings for limbs to get stuck, pacifiers to fall through, etc.
It does convert to a toddler bed but we haven't done that conversion yet.
*Question* would you buy another convertible crib or just buy a bed for an almost-2-year-old sibling? Whatever is cheapest? I haven't decided what to do yet.
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For the first few months our kiddos slept in our room in which you will probably want some alternative sleep space from the crib. We used both a rock n play (splurge and get the self rocking option) and pack n play. Both worked well, each baby will respond to different sleeping arrangements differently. We also own a podster - probably my number 1 must have! It’s like a dock a tot but has been around longer and has a little more of an incline. Both of my kids loved it and slept amazingly in it. I buy it as a gift for my pregnant friends weather they register for it or not, they all end up using it and loving it. Great to haul around the house with you, can go on the floor, or even in the pack n play. WHen we traveled and they were still itty bitty we would just bring this along for them to sleep in. I seriously LOVE this thing and it’s way more affordable than the doc a tot.
For a crib we also did an ikea with a pretty basic mattress from Amazon, both my kids slept fine without breaking the bank or getting a mattress with different levels of firmness. It converts to a toddler bed which is what we currently use.
@BigBadWolf12 I absolutely would not buy another convertible crib. You can probably convert the bed in the next couple of months and I would think they will be ready for a regular bed by the time the baby comes or shortly after. I’m sure you could keep them in the convertible for a while after the baby but come 3 or so they are going to be ready for a big kid bed anyway so why make the extra investment for such a short use? My oldest went into a regular twin bed a few months before she was 3. DS turns 3 in April, he’s still in the convertible but we will get him a regular bed soon. You can always put rails if you are nervous about it.
https://www.deltachildren.com/products/tribeca-4-in-1-crib-whitegrey
I will say, I was at IKEA recently, and they had a ton of cute "low profile" cribs, so they might be more common than they were when I first bought mine in 2014.
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I used my DDs convertible crib but kind of wish we had just transitioned her sooner. She was 5 before we took the rails off of her twin, and I think it was a little later than most because we transitioned her so slowly. We are using the same crib for this baby though, which can technically be a twin too. I will still transition from crib to toddler bed, just a little sooner this time I think. We will see, all just depends on the LO.
When she outgrew the moses basket we weren't ready yet to transition her to her room and big crib, and we didn't have room for a full sized Pack n Play, so we got this great smaller Graco Travel Crib. When we finally moved her to her room and we didn't need it anymore, we used it as a travel crib and eventually left it at my FIL's for us to use there.
The crib in her nursery/bedroom is this huge sturdy thing that was a hand-me-down. It's some weird imported French brand and the mattress is a size between a regular crib size and a twin mattress, so it will work well to convert to a toddler bed (unless we get DD a big girl bed when this baby comes and have him/her take over that crib).
Downstairs in the living room we had this Graco Pack n Play with a bassinet and a changing table (I'm sure there are newer versions). She napped in that bassinet all day as a little baby, and we took the bassinet insert out when she outgrew it. We actually kept using the changing table portion until she was 18 months.
We also have this travel pod, but we haven't used it--my cousin used it with her 2-month-old when she came to visit me and gave it to me as a hand-me-down. Hotel travel tip: obviously you want to call ahead and confirm, but I have never stayed in a hotel that didn't have a crib or Pack n Play available if asked, both in the States and in Europe.
Also both kids slept nights in the rock n play or pack n play in our bedroom for 4 months, only napping in the crib. The self rocking rock n play is the best! We had a normal one from dd1 but bought the fancy one for dd2 (they weren't an option for dd1). I'm a horrible mom and both my kids had many naps in the swing. Desperation and all...
With DD I said I would NEVER cosleep, then I brought home my very needy baby who refused to sleep without a boob in her mouth for many many months. She slept right in our bed with us, while keeping an awareness of our pillows and blankets. With DS at first I planned to basically cosleep as needed. Thankfully he liked to nurse to sleep but would push off once he was out and could often be transitioned to a rock and play. That rock and play was a game changer for us. Both kids also napped in their baby swing/bouncer a bit at first.
In the nursery we had the same Graco convertible crib for both kids. We converted it to a toddler bed for each of them around 1.5-2years and then bought them a twin bed around age 3. DS will be 3 in April and we plan to transition him before baby gets here, we just have a ton of work to do before then.
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@BigBadWolf12 The floor beds seem to be gaining a lot of steam!
@EmilyA724 I hadn't ever seen one of those until the FB ads started blowing up my feed a few weeks ago, but they're so interesting! Let us know if you decide to go with that!
At first we put DS#1 in a regular twin we already owned, with a guard rail on one side, and the wall on the other. But he hated the guard rail and constantly asked us to take it off, so we went to IKEA and bought a basic bed, not on the floor, but a little lower, and just put him in that. The ironic thing in that in the 4 months or so since we took away the guard rail, he's fallen out of bed twice, and both times it's been on the wall side! He somehow wedges himself into the crack until the bed pushes away from the wall. But both times we went in calmed him down and he went right back to sleep.
What I do recommend if the nursery is not near where you will be hanging out is a bassinet/changing table combo. We got this one from Graco, and loved it. At first I resisted because I figured why spend money on something we would only use for a few months, but it was a lifesaver on more than one occasion. It is a little hard to switch between the bassinet and table at first, but once you get the trick it's pretty easy.
Last place to put baby recommendation is a swing, I know every baby is different, but both of ours loved the swing. Putting them in it was the most likely way I could get a nap. We got this one.
My toddler slept in his crib from the day he came home from the hospital and was fine. We also never had to deal with the transition from swing to still or incline to flat or whatever transitions everyone around us seemed to be struggling with. We plan to do the same with this baby.
(I realize some babies have reflux and medical reasons they can't sleep in a flat crib from day 1, but I think a lot of babies who could sleep in cribs don't for whatever reason and then have to adjust later when they outgrow whatever they were in to start)
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@BigBadWolf12 That is a very reasonable question, I feel silly for overthinking it. DD did have some reflux issues and needed to sleep in a vibrating chair for the first 2 months of her life, so I just have it in my head that cribs seem too big for newborns.
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My DS slept in either a rock n play, swing, on one of us, or in our bed the first 11 months of his life solid. So, I'd like to work on a crib transition sooner if possible but if not, ehh. It'll be fine!
So we will be probably doing some sort of sidecar situation for our room, as we definitely plan to cosleep again. I am open to suggestion to good sidecar options or bassinets that function as a side car!
We tried both the halo bassinest and arm's reach cosleeper with DS & sold both as he wouldn't sleep in them at all. The arm's reach was better but not the same height as my mattress so really didn't give the sidecar benefits.
This is what the lady at BBB recommended. It’s $350. No idea if it’s worth that or if there’s other great options out there
https://www.buybuybaby.com/store/product/colgate-monarch-ii-deluxe-ultra-high-quality-2-stage-crib-and-toddler-bed-mattress/1046745552
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I would think about how long you plan to use it. Will the baby sleep in the crib right away or will you use a bassinet for a while? Do you plan to use the same mattress on a toddler bed eventually? Will you use it for additional children?
I am leaning towards this one.
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