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Month/Cycle:
CD:
WAYDTGKU:
R/R:
CS/Q:
Re: WTO Weekend 3/23-3/24
Month/Cycle: 21/20
CD: 11
WAYDTGKU: OPKs, temping, PNV, Vit D, HIO
R/R: today is definitely a day of laundry. I neglect it for long periods of time. I have a bunch of already clean clothes that just need to be folded and put away. Fun fun. I think DH and I might pull off a date night this weekend since we still have that 20% off coupon for Bonefish Grill that expires at the end of the month.
CS/Q: I forgot I should have woken myself up earlier for temping so I had to use the converter to convert my temp down. Tough getting back into the swing of it.
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
CD: 19
WAYDTGKU: preseed, opks, FF, temping, PNVs, Omega 3, coq10
R/R: Well I got peak on my opk today and of course DH is having performance anxiety issues....really not sure if we will be able to do it the next 3 days. Last night was a total fail.... I'm trying to be supportive but can't help but be super disappointed at the moment
CS/Q: nah
CD: 8
WAYDTGKU: IUI #2, Letrozole, PNV, etc.
R/R: This Letrozole is making me having spotting/cramps. I feel like I've been on my period for 8 days. Today is my last day on it and I say good riddance. Working today and then DH and I are taking a pottery class for a date night.
CS/Q: nada
@inthewoods23 good luck with all the laundry! I had to do the same this week and I’m pretty sure I cleaned every piece of our clothing. Hope you guys are able to get the date night in! Im hoping for one here as well!
Month/Cycle: 28/2 AL
CD: 4
WAYDTGKU: metformin, ww, low carb, ubiquinol, vit c, d, e, pnv, tempdrop, opk, progesterone
R/R: My current af is real different than the last few. Not as heavy, I think it’s going to be shorter too. I’m certainly not complaining but it’s super weird for me. Hopefully these are some positive changes due to my diet change. Also, I’ve been using only my tempdrop for temping this cycle and I’m already loving my chart. I’m not even the full 30 days in and it’s a huge change from what my previous charts looked like temping vaginally. It’s so much less stressful as well!
CS/Q:
@littleredm Love that date night idea! We usually just go out to dinner, but I think maybe we should switch it up and do something new. I hope you and YH have a great time tonight!
@Spartanrd4 Ugh, I'm sorry, that's so stressful for you both. Maybe it would help if you didn't tell him when you're having peak days? No real advice - I'm sure you've already thought of most things. Hugs.
@inthewoods23 Laundry day is the worst. I hate folding clothes. It's worse than unloading the dishwasher. I hope you have something fun planned for tomorrow.
Month/Cycle: 18/10ish
CD: 12
WAYDTGKU: All the things.
R/R: IUI today! I'm kind of struggling to trust that my RE knows what she's doing re: timing because I usually ovulate later in my cycle, but I also don't normally take Clomid, so... 🤷♀️ I'm trying just to go with it.
CS/Q: Nope
ETA: spelling
CD: 57
WAYDTGKU: HIO, pnv, vitamin D, B6, low carb, low sugar, exercise, metformin, provera, omega 3
R/R: I think this might be my last time using provera to induce a period because it makes me so sick the entire 5 days I’m on it. I’m not sure if the potential benefit outweighs the side effects. I’m supposed to get the blue dye test on the tubes and ovarian drilling done as soon as my period comes. But it’s a flawed system here where I have to call once the period starts and then the surgery is scheduled on the following Monday or Tuesday as long as theirs availability. What irks me is I’ve made it very well known that I hate provera and get when I get the period finally, each month they have been completely booked. I also woke up to find out that one of my exes is engaged and TW his fiancé is also pregnant. He told me he never wanted those things so it’s a bit of a slap in the face.* END TW. I could rant for hours but it’s not healthy lol. Hope everyone has a great weekend 😀
CS/Q: has anyone with PCOS tried anything other then provera to get a period ? I can’t take birth control pills because I have a blood clotting disorder.
@Spartanrd4 my bf deals with performance pressure as well. I find what works best for us atleast is if I let the ball (lol) to be in his court.
@littleredm I have always wanted to do a pottery class. Sounds like fun.
@littleredm Enjoy date night! Pottery is cool--MH went to school for ceramics.
@Spartanrd4 GL w/ the HIO!
@inthewoods23 MMmmm Bonefish Grill...
@kbrown2385 I have a super light AF on days 3-5 (like, sometimes nothing), so even tho it's not normal for you, it's not NOT normal? Perhaps due to diet changes!
Month/Cycle: 6/5/2AL
CD: 8
WAYDTGKU: PNV, BBT, FF, OPK, maca, ubiquinol, RLT, eventually HIO...
R/R: Soooo DH just started taking Zoloft a little bit ago & last night we were, um practicing for the 1 day it's worth DTD before I go on vacay during the rest of my FW + he couldn't finish + now I'm worried that the one chance we're gonna get this month it'll be the same prob. / I found this drink at the health foods store I really liked? It's called GT's Pur-erh Root tastes like root beer! And it has reishi mushroom in it, which I've had in a kombucha before and really liked a lot. And it sort of cheered me up yesterday, though I realized later it had 60 mg caffeine in it lol and was like ooooh okay.
CS/Q: Def. would love to O on day 21, but the data is skewedddd. Go home, FF, you're drunk. (I know I can discount that cycle, but it finally thinks it knows how long my luteal phase is, so I'm just "dealing with it.")
@littleredm That sounds like such a fun date night, enjoy! @inthewoods23 Hope you all can get that date night in too!
@kbrown2385 Yay for less stress!
@ruby696 Everything is crossed over here for your IUI! Hope it all goes perfectly for you!
@kels0091 I’m sorry you’re feeling so sick on the meds and I REALLY hope you can get in for the needed tests this time. That has to be beyond frustrating. And I’m sorry about the news of your ex. Yeah, they’re an ex and we shouldn’t care, but stuff like that is so bothersome. Sorry.
@kagesstarshroom I totally read your post like “Oooooh, she found a drink that tastes like root beer AND it’s healthy?! Where can I get it?” And then your comment on the caffeine.
AFM:
Month/Cycle: 10/6/3 AL (I really am not quite sure how to calculate this!)
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: I finally copied & pasted this novel! BBT, CM, CP, PNV w/Folate, extra Iron, extra extra Vit D3, Fish Oil/DHA, Vitex, Maca, Ubiquinol, DHEA, Baby Aspirin, Lovenox, Exercise, will add natural progesterone cream back in at ovulation for good measure.
R/R: We have nice plans for today, the sun is SHINING after lots of cool rainy weather, and I’ve been getting 8 hours sleep all week! Feeling like a brand new penny
CS/Q: Not quite yet. Body appears to be gearing up earlier than normal, just like last month, but this time I’m ready!
@kagesstarshroom MF is on Zoloft and Wellbutrin, and he definitely struggles a lot with his libido and ability to finish. I can tell immediately when he skips doses. Partly because of his mood but mostly because I can feel when he’s firing on all cylinders
TTC History:
Me: 36 MH: 39, TTC since Dec 2017
Aug '18: PCOS dx
Nov '18: MH SA - 19mil
Dec '18-Mar '19: Letrozole + TI - all BFN
Apr '19: Letrozole + TI, - BFN. Repeat SA (27mil) & DNA fragmentation test (17%)
Aug '19: Letrozole + HCG trigger + IUI + prog supp - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Sep '19: 2nd IUI, same protocol - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Dec '19: IVF #1 w/ICSI, PGT. 5 retrieved, 4 fertilized, 3 blasts, 3 PGT-A normal.
Mar '20: FET #1, perfect 5AA blast transferred. BFN.
Sept '20: FET #2, 5BB tsf. 9/18/20 BFP!! EDD: 5/27/21. MMC 11w
Feb ‘21: FET #3, last 6BB blast transferred. BFP, EDD 11/2/21. MC 5w3d.
May '21: IVF #2 w/ICSI, PGT. 8R, 7M, 6F, 6 blasts - 3AB, 3AB, 3BB, 4BB, 5BB, 6BA. Fresh tsf 5/13/21 - BFN.
June '21: PGT-A results = 3 abnormal, 1 low level mosaic. Referred to new REI, had consult with 2nd RE in between.
Sept '21: RPL, immune testing normal
Oct '21: IVF #3 w/IMSI, PGT. 33R, 26M, 23F, 9 blasts (7 day 6, 2 day 7). PGT-A = 5 normal, 1 mosaic
Dec '21: Positive for endometritis, RX Flagyl & Keflex
Jan '22: FET #5 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol incl. PRP, intralipids, prednisone, medrol, nivestym, fragmin - CP
Feb '22: FET #6 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol w/higher doses of pred & fragmin - BFN
Mar '22: Mock cycle for ERA - cancelled, repeat endometrial biopsy instead. Still positive for endometritis. RX ciprofloxacin & amoxicillin.
Apr '22: IVF #4 w/IMSI, PGT. 28R, 23M, 16F, 11 blasts. PGT-A = 6 normal.
June '22: FET #7 - Microdose lupron downreg w/kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol - double embryo transfer. BFN.
July '22: FET #8 - Mini stim w/Puregon + trigger, kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol. BFN.
Sep '22: Taking a break
Dec '22: Attempted abdominal myomectomy, fibroid too close to cervix and major blood vessels. Wasn't removed.
Feb '23: FET #9 - Modified natural w/baby asp, HCG trigger, PIO, PRP, Medrol, HCG wash, embryo glue - BFP!! EDD 11/11/23
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
@Spartanrd4 So sorry 😐
@ruby696 FX for your IUI
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD: 9
BBT FF PNVs
R/R: Rant: this kitchen reno has DH and I fighting a lot, and it’s sucking up our weekend, so I’m ready for it to be over.
Rave: final night of pigging out before I’m back on the WW wagon. So we had five guys 😬
Married: 10.15.16
DS BD: 8.20.17
TTC #2 1.1.19
BFP #2 7.3.19
EDD #2 3.13.20