October 2019 Moms

Weekly Randoms 3/18



First official day of spring is this week! Is anyone as excited as I am?!
«13456

Re: Weekly Randoms 3/18

  • Lol, jinx! I'll change mine :smiley:
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • Loading the player...
  • Oops, sorry, @steminist! Great minds think alike 😉
  • @nachellebeck13, you are October's twin mom, right?? How are things going?
  • @nachellebeck13, that's great! I'm glad to hear thinks are looking great for both babies!
  • @steminist Me too! I always want to know what's going on with everyone so I'm reading whenever someone posts.  :D
    TTC #1: September 2013, BFP 01/01/14, DS 09/14
    TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19



  • @stephanie123456, I'm all for executive decisions. If we don't like it, we can always switch back. That's the beauty of weekly check-ins, LOL. 

    Would you be willing to edit the first post to add a couple questions?
    FTM/STM/TTM+
    Team blue/pink/green
  • @galentine Done! Thanks for the reminder, my brain is not fully working on this Monday morning.
    TTC #1: September 2013, BFP 01/01/14, DS 09/14
    TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19



  • In news that will shock no one, I am feeling gross from breakfast. I think I'm going to try to sneaky purge in the teacher break room and get myself something nice and dairy-free for lunch. This whole new food restriction thing sucks, she complained, stating the obvious.
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • SchumeratorSchumerator member
    edited March 2019
    @steminist I can’t remember if you said you had dairy intolerance during pregnancy only, is that right? That would be such a bummer! I probably would have done the same thing and indulged anyways 😬 especially for a tasty breakfast casserole ...

    As for me, I woke up with a sore throat and headache and nausea, I’m assuming because we went so many places this weekend that had tons of people like the aquarium and the church nursery and so on. But I was playing with DS this morning and he looked like he was about to jump on me and I said “please be careful, mommy feels sick” and he just looks at me, then straddles my back and bounces up and down yelling “sick sick sick!” 🤦🏼‍♀️ This is two haha
  • @Schumerator yes, this a new development, and new for this pregnancy specifically! I hope it turns out to be a temporary symptom. I developed a carrot allergy with DS that lasted until both, though, so not super optimistic.

    My 2yo is a tummy jumper, too. If I manage to get him to successfully not bounce on me, I'll let you know!
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • @galentine I think the "belly" touching would have been a bit much for me..... I'm  actually quite surprised my MIL never got overly touchy considering she asked to be in the delivery room 😳
  • @galentine Oh boy, you have the patience of a saint if you stayed calm through all of that! The touching would have pushed me over the edge, I think.

    @prpl11butterfly My MIL asked to be in the delivery room too! I thought it was pretty forward of her... I told DH I have to think about it, I'm just not sure I'm comfortable with anyone but him and my mom in there. How did you respond to yours?
  • @jenferlee82 it was a hard no. And she was pissed. Both her boys were CS. I get wanting to experience it but your DIL is not the one to ask, that's what daughters are for and I'm sorry she didnt have one to ask. I guess for a while she was bitter because she thought my mom was in there but once she found out she wasn't, she chilled. My mom was at the hospital JIC I needed her but not in the room.
  • Okay both of those responses make me feel so much better! I thought I was being an asshole wanting to say no. This is her first grandchild and we are kind of old and struggled with IF, so she’s waited a while. Needless to say she is over the moon and I love my MIL too, she’s pretty great for the most part and we get along really well. But the idea just makes me uncomfortable! I’ll be more confident with my no after seeing I’m not alone. 😁
  • cmbt2cmbt2 member
    @galentine I think the "belly" touching would have been a bit much for me..... I'm  actually quite surprised my MIL never got overly touchy considering she asked to be in the delivery room 😳
    Mine was the same! wanted in the L&D room but never once touched my stomach. Whacko lady
    BFP #1 3/07, EDD 11/12/07, MMC 5/7/07
    ~~~  ~~~  ~~~
    BFP #2 5/4/14, EDD 1/15/15, DS1 1/19/15
    BFP #3 8/19/16, EDD 4/30/17, DS2 4/25/17
    BFP #4 12/22/18, EDD 9/6/19 - CP 12/29/18
    BFP #5 1/18/19, EDD 10/3/19, It’s a Girl!
    ~~~  ~~~  ~~~
    High Risk Dx (6/14):  Homozygous MTHFR C677T, protein C & S deficiencies
  • I second what @galentine said.

    My mom asked if she could be in the delivery room when DS was born. It was so hard to tell her no but I’m glad I did. This time I may have her there for more of the labor but for me it’s important for us to have those first moments as our little family
  • galentine said:
    @jenferlee82 FWIW, I don't think ANYONE has a right to expect to be in the delivery room  regardless of how close you are. You are having a baby, and it's totally ok for you to want that to be an experience between you and your H (or your mom or whoever). You get to decide and you should not feel any guilt over telling someone they cannot be in the delivery room. You lady bits, your call.
    You’re right! That’s actually what DH said. He said he would have no problem telling her no if that’s what I decide. 
  • @cmbt2 Yes!! Exactly! May need to hear the rest of that story in a future day. 
  • @galentine you are a better person than I, I don’t do being touched well at all. I would have flipped out. Luckily I don’t have that type MIL
    Me: 35 DH: 47

    HX
    DSS: 20
    DSD: 17
    DS: 4(Nov'14)
    MMC:8/17
    MMC: 1/18
    BFP: 2/7/19 EDD:10/16/19

    Tickers
    BabyGaga
    Babysizer Cravings Pregnancy Tracker


  • @jenferlee82 Totally agree about you are the decider/queen of the delivery room. It's a very vulnerable position to be in (in more ways than one). Your rules. Period. Do not let anyone makes you feel guilty about it either. 

    @galentine Does your DH know his mom is... inappropriate at times? 

    My MIL is craycray (but I mostly totally love her, especially how wonderful she is with my kids) and my DH completely knows she is cuckoo. He actually puts her in her place sometimes on my behalf. She tried to sneak into my delivery room the first time and MY MOM HAD TO STOP HER. Awkward. This is why she wasn't called until after DS2 had already arrived the second time around.  
  • @junebabyh, oh yes, H is definitely aware how craycray his mom can be. Usually he gets more worked up over things than I do, and I just attempt to laugh them off. I figure, if we have to deal with her crazy anyway, we might as well try to find some humor in it!
  • I second what @galentine said.

    My mom asked if she could be in the delivery room when DS was born. It was so hard to tell her no but I’m glad I did. This time I may have her there for more of the labor but for me it’s important for us to have those first moments as our little family
    Yes! So weird. Like my mom was all "oh, we'll be at the hospital" when I told her the due date with DD1 and I shut that down right quick. Um, no? She was pretty put out about it but what would she have done there? SO was there and about a zillion medical people.

    Of course when DD2 started labor and I called my parents to come by (2 hours by car) they didn't answer the phone. Luckily DD2 was born on a weekday so we could drop DD1 off at DC...


    The original: Aug2013
    The remix: Feb2017
    The encore: coming Oct2019

     
  • Whoever recommended the "In death" book series on this board, THANK YOU. So much fun to read.
    The original: Aug2013
    The remix: Feb2017
    The encore: coming Oct2019

     
  • cmbt2cmbt2 member
    Whoever recommended the "In death" book series on this board, THANK YOU. So much fun to read.
    You’re welcome! Did you start at the beginning or pick up the more recent one?
    BFP #1 3/07, EDD 11/12/07, MMC 5/7/07
    ~~~  ~~~  ~~~
    BFP #2 5/4/14, EDD 1/15/15, DS1 1/19/15
    BFP #3 8/19/16, EDD 4/30/17, DS2 4/25/17
    BFP #4 12/22/18, EDD 9/6/19 - CP 12/29/18
    BFP #5 1/18/19, EDD 10/3/19, It’s a Girl!
    ~~~  ~~~  ~~~
    High Risk Dx (6/14):  Homozygous MTHFR C677T, protein C & S deficiencies
  • cmbt2cmbt2 member
    @junebabyh my MIL didn’t know either until she got a text saying DS2 was here 🤣 no one knew the second time around until then, and it was glorious to not have nagging messages for updates 
    BFP #1 3/07, EDD 11/12/07, MMC 5/7/07
    ~~~  ~~~  ~~~
    BFP #2 5/4/14, EDD 1/15/15, DS1 1/19/15
    BFP #3 8/19/16, EDD 4/30/17, DS2 4/25/17
    BFP #4 12/22/18, EDD 9/6/19 - CP 12/29/18
    BFP #5 1/18/19, EDD 10/3/19, It’s a Girl!
    ~~~  ~~~  ~~~
    High Risk Dx (6/14):  Homozygous MTHFR C677T, protein C & S deficiencies
  • cmbt2 said:
    Whoever recommended the "In death" book series on this board, THANK YOU. So much fun to read.
    You’re welcome! Did you start at the beginning or pick up the more recent one?
    amazon had the first five books as a special kindle sale, so I got those.
    The original: Aug2013
    The remix: Feb2017
    The encore: coming Oct2019

     
  • I think I'm the odd one. My mom was in the room for delivery and she stayed when I got my epidural, DH left the room for the epidural. Lol. She's a nurse too. And DH was terrified (still is this time!!). She was way more helpful than he was. Love him to death but the whole time I was pregnant he said he didn't even want to be in the room. I told him he didn't have a choice and he did great. Even cut the cord. But I want my mom to be there again this time.

    I'd never let MIL be there because I don't think it's appropriate for MIL to view the show of all my goods on display. Luckily, ILs live halfway across the world. I'm sorry for those of you that have crazy MILs, especially ones that live close. 
  • @KaitlinS11 I am so sorry for what you had to go through, I can't even imagine. I actually do want as many family members as want to be there, in the waiting room. I don't care if they come into the labor room even to keep us company if labor takes a while. But when it's time to push, I only want my husband and my mom in there. My MIL said she "can't wait to see her grandbaby born" and that's where I feel I have to draw a line - I'm not crazy about her seeing all my goods, etc. :)

    I totally agree with you about people being at the hospital for support, etc. and I'm so glad you had that during your experience!
  • This morning was a nightmare. I was sobbing while brushing my teeth because I was imagining hypothetical tragedies for no reason. Henry fought me for 35 minutes to get up and dressed. I was late to clock in, although on time for class. My lab materials were put away improperly by the teacher last year, and my micro-screwdrivers are all torn up so I can't replace batteries and fix things. I just need today to turn around ASAP.
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"