Alright, everyone! Let's talk about your crib, mini crib, travel crib, pack 'n play, bassinet, Moses basket, co-sleeper, etc! Pros and cons? Loves and hates? Let's hear it!
TTC History
Me: 38 DH: 52
Started trying June 2018
BFP Jan 2019 DD born October 2019
TTC July 2021 BFP, ended in MMC August 2021
TTC October 2021
BFP January 2022
MMC March 2022
Beginning May 2022 under the supervision of an RE - Benched while undergoing testing
Re: Product Spotlight: Sleep Solutions
I plan on using the same type situation for this LO so DS can still have his own room without having his sibling wake him up at night.
TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
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BFP #2 5/4/14, EDD 1/15/15, DS1 1/19/15
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Neither of mine would sleep flat even though we tried the halo bassinet that we borrowed from a friend. So grateful we didn’t spend the money!
Both transitioned to the crib via Merlin Magic Sleep Suit by 4/5 months.
Our second didn’t start sleeping well until we let her sleep on her stomach. To this day, she’s an exclusive tummy sleeper - 2.5 years later.
Big fan of our travel crib. It folds into a backpack for easy travel and unzips so you can easily lay on the ground and nurse baby to sleep if necessary. It’s pricey but we got it as a shower gift. https://www.amazon.com/Lotus-Travel-Crib-Lightweight-Comfortable/dp/B00AKKDSNG/ref=mp_s_a_1_10_sspa?keywords=travel+crib&qid=1552702564&s=gateway&sr=8-10-spons&psc=1
for us like it is for other people. We ended up giving it to a friend to borrow.
MyBaby, SoundSpa Lullaby Sound Machine & Projector | Choose From 6 Soothing Sounds & Nursery Lullabies | Rotating Picture Projector & 3 Image Disks | Convenient Disk Storage & Auto-Off Timer https://www.amazon.com/dp/B008KG5R6I/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_95rJCb8ES2BS1
TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
At three months we moved DS to a floor bed in his own room. The floor bed was a crib-sized mattress placed on the floor without any crib. My friend is a Montessori teacher and she did this with her baby and I was intrigued by it so we decided to try it out. Pros: We were able to lie down next to him to read bedtime stories and comfort him back to sleep easily if he was having a hard night. No danger of him climbing out of a crib and hurting himself. And later, transitioning to a regular bed (he moved up to a full size bed at 2 yrs old) was really easy. Cons: The entire room has to be fully baby-proofed for when they become mobile. Baby can roll out of the bed, but really it doesn't even phase them and they learn where the edges are pretty quickly. Baby had some trouble sleeping in the pack n play (which we used for travel) as he didn't like having barriers up around him.
Overall we liked it and will do a floor bed again with #2. Only difference is that their bed will be in our room until baby is consistently sleeping through the night. Then we will move baby in to share a room with DS.
As far a sleep aids go, we really like (and still use) a white noise machine and a product called Tranquil Turtle, which projects ocean wave lights and plays soothing music (but turns off after 20 mins). We also use an air purifier which adds another layer of white noise. It is quite the trifecta of sounds.
Me 39 - DH 41
Married 8/26/07
TTGP #1 Jan '15 -
BFP 9/11/15 - DS born 5/31/16
TTGP #2 July '17 -
CP July '17
Blighted Ovum MC Dec '17
CP June '18
BFP 1/30/19 - EDD 10/13/19
Im hoping to have a Rock n play with this one and hopefully an easier crib transition
HX
DSD: 17
DS: 4(Nov'14)
MMC:8/17
MMC: 1/18
BFP: 2/7/19 EDD:10/16/19
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https://www.wsj.com/articles/infant-sleep-deaths-in-focus-in-fight-over-role-of-consumer-safety-agency-1542974400
I don’t subscribe so I didn’t read more than the intro. If you are able to copy/paste it I’d totally read. I think you have to weigh the risks and decide what you are comfortable with. So many of the deaths mentioned in articles like that involve some type of misuse.
In the throes of my post partum anxiety with my second baby, I spent countless hours in the middle of the night searching for stories of infant death via sleeping device. They are out there, but extremely rare, and almost every one I found had some other story to it.
Im not saying I don’t worry about it, but when you consider the amount of babies born in the US, 30 deaths since in almost 15 years is so, so minuscule. We all just need to the best we can given our unique situations.
ETA: I found it somewhere else and read it, and stand behind the above.
Is the rock n play (the one recently recalled for 30+ infant deaths) the same thing as a Fisher price bouncer? Or are they two different products?
For those of you who used some kind of arms reach cosleeper or other device in your bedroom, what did you do for MOTN diaper changes? My sister was telling me her kids slept in a pack n play in their room, and their pack n play had the diaper changing topper, which was perfect for MOTN diaper changes. So just curious what everyone else does if that wasn't an option.
Me 39 - DH 41
Married 8/26/07
TTGP #1 Jan '15 -
BFP 9/11/15 - DS born 5/31/16
TTGP #2 July '17 -
CP July '17
Blighted Ovum MC Dec '17
CP June '18
BFP 1/30/19 - EDD 10/13/19
@galentine after the first like 2 weeks, I only changed DD MOTN if she had pooped (this made MOTN so much better, because she would go back to sleep easier). But honestly, I just changed her on our bed lol.