TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
| biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26

Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22

DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26

Re: WTO Friday 3/8
CD: 20
WAYDTGKU: Benched...OvuSense Temping, fertiliTEA, opks, PNV”, Maca, supplement for DH,
R/R: just waiting on O. Temp was higher this morning so I Think I’m just waiting on verification now. Rant: It’s my day off and I’ve woken up at freaking 5am. Boooo.
CS/Q: eh. Ugly chart
@madcouplewithabox I hope you can enjoy your day off despite waking up so early!
Month/Cycle:8/7 (second cycle AL)
CD: 14
WAYDTGKU: Prenatal vitamins, Fertility Friend, HIO, OPKs, attempted SMEP but failing at that (stupid colds), red raspberry leaf tea, cutting down on alcohol (but going to enjoy some wine tonight)
R/R: We did a cooking activity with my fifth graders yesterday. They decided to contour their faces with the flour. I was less than thrilled. In other news, DH wasn't feeling well enough to HIO last night, so we failed at SMEPin'.
CS/Q: I had a temp rise this morning but I REALLY hope it's because of my cold and not because of O. I will be pissed if it is.
I had a near-positive OPK yesterday, but I haven't had any fertile CM. I usually O between CD16 and CD20, so this would be super early for me and our timing would be less than ideal.
Edits: Spelling, add chart
@emeraldduchess lol I'm so happy you figured out gifs. This is the start of something beautiful. I hope you didn't O yet, and can HIO lots this weekend!
Month/cycle: 9/10
CD: 14
WAYDTGKU: PNV, B6, B complex, DHA, no caffeine or booze, SMEP, etc, lots of other things I'm probably forgetting.
R/R: I finally have a rave today: we had lovely sunshine yesterday and lots of snow melted. I hope there's more weather like that on the way! Also, I had three salads this week! Lots of raves today, hope that continues.
CS/Q: Temp is up this am which I think means O yesterday. I will hang out here today to see if CM & tomorrow's temp confirm my suspicion.
@emeraldduchess I love that gif lol. I feel you on the husband not feeling good about HIO. MH actually looked at me last night and was like “ok, I need a break”
@jennifer_louise glad you’re finally getting some sunshine! Come on, spring!
Month/Cycle: 2
CD: 22
WAYDTGKU: BBT, OPK, sex EOD, prenatal, supplements
R/R: I just read my teaching evaluation for my second observation... should have saved that I guess. Lol.
CS/Q: I’m fairly certain I will O today. Temp went up, peak OPK. we will see.
@jennifer_louise hooray for healthy eating AND snow melting! High five on your timing, too!
@emeraldduchess thanks, friend. It's not as awesome as our HIO champs (side eyes at @marebear15 and @begging4abump) but still admirable. I must have missed your comment about cooking with fifth graders yesterday - lol. I'm sure your daily R/R could be weird/crazy things that fifth graders do.
@emeraldduchess yessss, loving the GIFs lol. Laughing and cringing at your cooking/flour story. I feel like I'm going to be that super controlling OCD mom who won't let their kids "help" in the kitchen cuz I can't stand messes, haha. // Sorry your colds are getting in the way of your SMEPpin. If it makes you feel any better, we're failing too, and have no real excuse for it. I tell myself I'm going with the flow, but let's be honest, I have zero chill. I cried about it the other night lol.
@jennifer_louise Yay sunshine! Yay salad! ... well, yay for healthy choices, bleh salad
@ejoseph16 FX for O! Your timing is great, you've covered all your bases.
Month/Cycle: 15/12
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: PNVs, BBT/RHR, CM, Vit C & D, Vit B12, Omega 3s, CoQ10, Metformin, Ovasitol, PCOS/low carb diet, no caffeine, HIO, softcups, letrozole + TI
R/R: Rant: I think I might O super early this cycle. I'm used to CD20, but it's looking like CD11 or 12 now.
Rave: It's Friday! And it's sunny and supposed to go above the freezing mark this weekend. And MF has started maintenance on his diet so that means he gets to start re-introducing a little bit of fat back into his diet in the form of a tbsp of butter or oil, or 1/2 an avocado. We've been cooking with NO oil for the last 7 weeks and let me tell you, it's harder than it seems (and SO BORING). I never thought I'd be so happy to be able to make a salad dressing with a bit of oil, or to saute or roast something with the potential for it to actually maybe get a little crispy! Using water or chicken stock results in everything being kinda poached or boiled and BLEHHHH. He's doing soooo great though, he's down 35.5lbs in 7 weeks. I cannot friggin wait til this is over lol.
CS/Q: Got my slight rise and then subsequent drop, so O is imminent based on previous patterns.
TTC History:
Me: 36 MH: 39, TTC since Dec 2017
Aug '18: PCOS dx
Nov '18: MH SA - 19mil
Dec '18-Mar '19: Letrozole + TI - all BFN
Apr '19: Letrozole + TI, - BFN. Repeat SA (27mil) & DNA fragmentation test (17%)
Aug '19: Letrozole + HCG trigger + IUI + prog supp - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Sep '19: 2nd IUI, same protocol - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Dec '19: IVF #1 w/ICSI, PGT. 5 retrieved, 4 fertilized, 3 blasts, 3 PGT-A normal.
Mar '20: FET #1, perfect 5AA blast transferred. BFN.
Sept '20: FET #2, 5BB tsf. 9/18/20 BFP!! EDD: 5/27/21. MMC 11w
Feb ‘21: FET #3, last 6BB blast transferred. BFP, EDD 11/2/21. MC 5w3d.
May '21: IVF #2 w/ICSI, PGT. 8R, 7M, 6F, 6 blasts - 3AB, 3AB, 3BB, 4BB, 5BB, 6BA. Fresh tsf 5/13/21 - BFN.
June '21: PGT-A results = 3 abnormal, 1 low level mosaic. Referred to new REI, had consult with 2nd RE in between.
Sept '21: RPL, immune testing normal
Oct '21: IVF #3 w/IMSI, PGT. 33R, 26M, 23F, 9 blasts (7 day 6, 2 day 7). PGT-A = 5 normal, 1 mosaic
Dec '21: Positive for endometritis, RX Flagyl & Keflex
Jan '22: FET #5 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol incl. PRP, intralipids, prednisone, medrol, nivestym, fragmin - CP
Feb '22: FET #6 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol w/higher doses of pred & fragmin - BFN
Mar '22: Mock cycle for ERA - cancelled, repeat endometrial biopsy instead. Still positive for endometritis. RX ciprofloxacin & amoxicillin.
Apr '22: IVF #4 w/IMSI, PGT. 28R, 23M, 16F, 11 blasts. PGT-A = 6 normal.
June '22: FET #7 - Microdose lupron downreg w/kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol - double embryo transfer. BFN.
July '22: FET #8 - Mini stim w/Puregon + trigger, kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol. BFN.
Sep '22: Taking a break
Dec '22: Attempted abdominal myomectomy, fibroid too close to cervix and major blood vessels. Wasn't removed.
Feb '23: FET #9 - Modified natural w/baby asp, HCG trigger, PIO, PRP, Medrol, HCG wash, embryo glue - BFP!! EDD 11/11/23
@emeraldduchess you must have so much patience with your job. And just, why? 5th graders are so weird.
@jennifer_louise I want sunshine! But instead we are getting another winter storm
@ejoseph16 was it a good evaluation or one you'd rather not read at all?
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD: 17
WAYDTGKU: just the basics - pnv, opk, sex
R/R: It's my day off! And after initially getting up at 6:30, I went back to bed around 8. It's now 9:30 and I'm still in bed. We also actually have plans tonight which rarely happens! Now if only the impending snow storm could turn to a heat wave, it might be the perfect weekend.
CS/Q: nothing to see. Still waiting for my peak, but I've had fertile CM.
TTC December 2016
BFP 2/28/17 // CP 3/1/17
MFI Diagnosis: Aug 2017
BFP 11/1/17 // DS born 6/18
TTC January 2019
BFP 3/21/19 // D&C (MMC) 5/8/19
@emeraldduchess FX O holds off a few more days so you two can back to SMEPpin’.
@jennifer_louise Oh wonderful sunshine! Can’t wait to have nicer weather. And yay for healthy eating.
@ejoseph Usually temp rise happens after O. If your temp stays up for the next few days, it’s likely you O’d (on CD 21). I’d keep HIO just in case it hasn’t happened yet though!
@kiki047 Huge congrats to YH! That’s amazing progress! Nice that he can start re-introducing some foods now.
Month/Cycle: 7/7
CD: 7
WAYDTGKU: Ava, FF, CM, OPK, SMEPish, RLT, Fertility yoga
R/R: Got some video game-related things yesterday for DH’s birthday. So now I’ll just pick up some clothes and I’ll be set. Also rave: I’ve been keeping up with my yoga and have also started meditating 5-10 minutes a day. I’m feeling a lot more calm so far this cycle, so I hope I still feel this way once the TWW hits.
CS/Q: nothing yet
TTC since 9/2018
10/19- First RE visit
2/20- DH had surgery for bilateral varicoceles
7/20- IUI with 5 mg letrozole- BFN
9/20- IVF. 9 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized with ICSI, 7 blasts, 4 PGT-A normal
11/20- Mock transfer/ERA
12/20- FET #1- transferred one 4AB- BFN
3/21- FET #2- transferred one 3AB- BFP! Due Dec 2021
12/21- Baby girl born!
CD: 22 (Explained below)
WAYDTGKU: Raspberry tea, spearmint tea, PCOS diet, exercise, temping
R/R: I realized on Tuesday, when my temp shot up, that my period last week was not indeed my period, but breakthrough bleeding from removing my IUD. I current have no idea if I've ovulated, or if I did and will be strtings my period any time soon. So I'm just going to make myself cozy until things even out. I've heard spearmint tea is also another possible aide in regulating cycles, so I might enjoy both until things get figured out.
CS/Q: Nada
@misshelen86 I wasn’t sure how that worked! Thanks! Our timing has been pretty awesome this cycle, so I’m hopeful!
@jennifer_louise can’t wait! Hooray for the TWW!