
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days:
Baby is the size of a(n):
Upcoming Appointments:
How are you feeling?:
Rants/Raves:
Questions:
GTKY: Have you started a nursery yet? Tell us about it even if you haven’t!
People think we become mothers when we give birth but the truth is we become mothers the moment we start calling our babies to us in our thoughts, dreams and prayers. Some paths are short and some are so long that you can easily forget where you were headed.

How I feel all of the time.
My 7 Year Journey ***Tw in spoiler***
IVF
IVF #1 - September 2018; Follistim, Menopur, Cetrotide & Lupron/HCG combo trigger; PGS; ICSI
Back on Levothyroxine
FET #1 - October 2018; cancelled, all PGS aneuploid
FET #1 - November 30th, transferred anyway
Wondfo BFP 5dp5dt, CB Digi 6dpt,
1st Beta on 7dpt 93
2nd Beta on 10dpt 510!
TTC #1 since 2011. Tried for 5 years before we knew there was a one year rule.
Diag w/MS 2016; w/PCOS & IF 2017
New RE 2018; PCOS diagnosis taken away, IF due to ovary adhesions, but prev. RE insists PCOS IF
IUI
IUI #1 July 2017 w/100mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #2 October 2017 w/50mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
IUI #3 February 2018 w/5mg Femara+trigger; low P
BFP February; mc March; Subclinical hypothyroid started Levothyroxine
IUI #4 March 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Medicated cycle & TI April 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
Tried several cycles on our own; all BFN
Re: Group 3 Check-In (August 15th-23rd) w/o 1/27
Baby is the size of a(n): chocolate truffle
Upcoming Appointments: first appt with my OB on Wednesday
How are you feeling?: good. Still really no symptoms
Rants/Raves: I’m loving having the Doppler. I can easily see myself getting obsessed so I told myself I can only use it on days after I run and if I can’t find it in 5-10 mins then I stop and try again later.
Questions:
GTKY: Have you started a nursery yet? Tell us about it even if you haven’t! H and I haven’t really talked about it yet but I want elegant princess-y. We’re big Disney nuts so they’re are some castle/glass slipper/carriage artwork that I want.
Baby is the size of a(n): weighs as much as a quarter
Upcoming Appointments: Tuesday I ha e my nurse appt at the new office.
How are you feeling?: tired, nauseous, crampy, anxious, itchy (forgot about this odd pregnancy symptom, moody and I have a cold.
Rants/Raves: Short version: last night both kids oddly passed out before dinner time and DH decided we should let them sleep. Unfortunately he was not the one who has been up all night with them and will not be home all day with them thanks to another effing snow day.
Questions: nope.
GTKY: Have you started a nursery yet? Tell us about it even if you haven’t! Ha, no. I am still praying this one actually sticks and is still growing. We are moving DS to my office, my office to the living room and baby will go in the room DS currently has. Since we are team green and the walls are grey, we literally have no plans to touch it, aside from converting the toddler bed back to crib and putting in some clothes, until baby arrives. Honestly in our house the babies are barely in the nursery for several months.
*Also, I promise I am not always as cranky as these posts make me sound. DH has literally had 4 days off since Thanksgiving, modified bed rest is taking a toll on my mental health, our routine is all out of whack from Christmas break, teacher inservice days and snow days, and we have been dealing with bonus family drama due to holidays and new baby.*
1/12/13 DD was born
4/9/16 DS was born
9/17 CP
6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19
1/12/13 DD was born
4/9/16 DS was born
9/17 CP
6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19
Aug 19 , 11 weeks
Baby is the size of a(n):
Poker chip
Upcoming Appointments:
Dr Appointment next week
How are you feeling?:
Pretty good I have been so out of breath this pregnancy.
Rants/Raves:
Nope
Questions:
No
GTKY: Have you started a nursery yet? Tell us about it even if you haven’t!
No we are planning on buying a house so I can't start until we move. Depends on gender if it's a girl we will probably go simple with a floral design. For a boy I am thinking Canadian wildlife (deer, moose, bear, fox etc..)
Baby is the size of a(n): bigger than last week
Upcoming Appointments: all the appointments on friday (genetic counselor, US, MFM, MW
How are you feeling?: slowly getting better. the nausea and fatigue are still there but not as intense.
Rants/Raves: its going to be darn cold here this week and it is sooooo hard to get my steps in when its so cold outside
Questions: nope
GTKY: Have you started a nursery yet? Tell us about it even if you haven’t! meh nurseries are over-rated all our babies were in our room for at least 6 months. This kid will be with us for a while and then DD2 will get bumped from her room and go in with her older siblings. maybe just maybe the alphabet hand/foot print art work we started for DD2 will actully be finished and go up on the walls before this baby is born...
eta:
@Allycat11 its ok, bed rest when you have to chase kids and aren't getting any sleep is rough. I hope your appointment goes well this week
@purplg8r are the runs going better?
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
Baby is the size of a(n): Lime or a brussels sprout
Upcoming Appointments: Should get Counsyl / Myriad results today, 12 week appt next Monday
How are you feeling?: Like garbage. I finally pooped today so I hope I start to feel better. The vomiting is so up and down. I will have a good day and be like, okay I am coming out of this, and then the next day I don't leave the bathroom because the dry heaving is too much and nothing can help.
Rants/Raves: I am annoyed that Cousyl results are taking what feels so long. I just want to know if the baby is okay. It's stressing me out so much.
Questions: None
GTKY: Have you started a nursery yet? Tell us about it even if you haven’t! I haven't but I think I want to do a Harry Potter theme, but not cheesy, something very subtle. If this baby is a girl, that won't happen because the nursery is going to be my current office and it's painted this Malibu Barbie blue / teal color and my husband does not want to paint over it.
Baby is the size of a(n): "could fit on a tea candle" idk where they get some of these things...
Upcoming Appointments: 2/11 is NT and NIPT blood draw. Also waiting for MFM to contact me to schedule an appointment!
How are you feeling?: tired and nauseous on and off but it has been less intense. I've had some FUN mood swings though and then feel terrible after losing it.
Rants/Raves: I AM SO OVER WINTER. We got another 6 inches of snow today and DH said the snow blower broke this morning while he was doing the driveway. The forecasted high on Wednesday is -14 and we probably will be in school until July at this rate. At least they didn't cancel today!
Questions:
GTKY: Have you started a nursery yet? Tell us about it even if you haven’t! hahaha...no. I'm solidly in "no plans until we make it farther" mode. Not really sure where that endpoint is...we had DD in with us until 5 months and may do some room shuffling so the baby is closer (if this turns into an actual baby). It all seems so far off right now.
@Allycat11 FX for great appointments this week!!
@lilmamabebe3 FX for your results today--I'm anxiously awaiting an update! I also LOVE Harry Potter and would love to do a similar theme!
Baby is the size of a(n): Lego man
Upcoming Appointments: 2/7, will probably tell extended fam on 2/8 as long as everything goes well
How are you feeling?: Fat and hungry. I can't wait until I actually look pregnant, I hate my clothes right now.
Rants/Raves: I have been MIA for a bit, had DD's birthday on 1/19 with out of town guests, then I got a cold. Finally starting to feel more normal because I have been miserable.
GTKY: Have you started a nursery yet? Tell us about it even if you haven’t! Haven't started, will probably do that more in the spring, but thinking about light blue/mint color and woodland animal theme.
TTC #1 5/13 BFP #3 5/2/14 DD born 1/19/15
NTNP #2 8/17 BFP 12/13/18 ED 8/21/19
Baby is the size of a(n): lime
Upcoming Appointments: waiting for my NIPT results to be released this week, which in its way feels like an upcoming appointment! Then we have the NT ultrasound a week from Wednesday (2/6), and my next OB appt the Wednesday after that (2/13)
How are you feeling?: I feel like this is the first trimester that will never end. I'm still so sleepy! The nausea/queasiness/smell sensitivity isn't as constant as it was a couple of weeks ago, but comes in waves instead and kind of blindsides me whenever I feel like I'm finally feeling better!
Rants/Raves: I haven't gained any weight yet this pregnancy but I'm really weird and lumpy looking! I can't decide whether to bring out actual maternity clothes yet (I have plenty of loose non-maternity clothing that works anyway)
Questions: none right now!
GTKY: Have you started a nursery yet? Tell us about it even if you haven’t! This baby won't get his or her own nursery. He/she will be in our room for a while (DD was with us 10 months but I will probably transition this one sooner) and then will move in with DD (our house has a weird layout and the other bedrooms are too far away to put little ones in until they're older). So the only major question is what to do with sleeping arrangements: will DD get a big-girl bed and new baby takes the crib, or will we convert the current crib to a toddler bed and get a new sleep set-up for baby?
DD's nursery/room has a woodland theme with birch trees and owls: the main color scheme is green, white, and brown (for the birch tree decals) and a few pink accents. So if this one's a boy I will also add light blue accents (like an additional throw pillow or blanket, and add blue-tinged leaves to the tree wall decals) but I won't do any major decor overhaul.
@mwmiller4 Wow, that is cold!
@cato99 Same. No weight gain but already transitioned to maternity pants at least for the sake of feeling comfortable at the end of the day.
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: EDD 8/16; 11w3d
Baby is the size of a(n): TB = Size of a lime and weighs as much as a packet of ketchup; Ovia = Brussels Sprout
Upcoming Appointments: NT scan on Friday (2/1)
How are you feeling?: Feeling pretty good actually. Got some R&R in this weekend which was nice.
Rants/Raves: I argued with DH about cleaning the cat litter box this morning. He is not as adamant about the cleaning schedule as I was and it's annoying me. DD started in her new class at daycare this morning and was a champ this morning being dropped off with her new teacher!
Questions: None at the moment.
GTKY: Have you started a nursery yet? Tell us about it even if you haven’t! We had a Winnie the Pooh nursery theme for DD and we still have everything so we're either going to use the same stuff or if I get inspired, I may get items for a different theme.
Started TTC in June 2014
Started seeing RE in June 2015
HSG in July 2015 = normal, started Clomid/Ovidrel/IUI cycle in August 2015
Cycle #3 in October afforded 1st month of mature follicles - underwent IUI
BFP on 10/27/15 - EDD 7/8/16
DD#1 born on 7/1/16
TTC #2 in September 2018
BFP on 12/2/18 - EDD 8/16/19
Team Green!
Baby is the size of a(n): Fig
Upcoming Appointments: Pap on thursday
How are you feeling?: Great! I'm just super tired all the time.
Rants/Raves: My sister asked me about throwing a baby shower. Honestly I don't want one but my husband does (LOL). My sister told me that people are going to want to touch my belly. I am NOT okay with that. I don't even like my husband touching my stomach. I certainly don't want everyone else touching it. Why are pregnant women petting zoos?
Questions: When will I not be so tired
GTKY: Have you started a nursery yet? Tell us about it even if you haven’t!
Not yet. Working on moving my dad out of our spare room, then I can deep clean and set something up. Likely a woodland animal theme.
@wabash15 I’m glad things are starting to get a little better for you. Hopefully it’s all up from here! The runs are going better. I pushed it just a little today since I’ve been able to hear here on the Doppler.
Baby is the size of a(n): Brussels sprout
Upcoming Appointments: Feb 8
How are you feeling?: Good. Still forever hungry and lots of food aversions so it makes eating all the time difficult.
Rants/Raves: THE COLD - who else is expecting extreme negative temps Wednesday? Ugh.
Questions: N/A
GTKY: Have you started a nursery yet? Tell us about it even if you haven’t!
No, this babe will get DD’s furniture and we will convert her to a toddler room in a few months. I plan on keeping it super simple though.
Baby is the size of a(n): lime
Upcoming Appointments: 2/27 is my next one, had a successful appointment yesterday
How are you feeling?: tired, nauseas in the evenings, but functional
Rants/Raves: ditto about the cold. I’m so over it.
Questions:
GTKY: Have you started a nursery yet? Tell us about it even if you haven’t! Haven’t started. Been thinking more about the room we are moving DS (almost 3) into, he is obsessed with African animals so I think I’m going to put this wallpaper on one wall behind his bed. His furniture will be black and white and there will be plenty of color from all his toys, books, etc. for the nursery, if it’s a girl I want to do an accent wall with big flower wallpaper and a white crib. My rocker is mint green/blueish. If it’s another boy I’ll probably keep the room mostly the same. It has a navy blue wall with grey herringbone stripes.
@Allycat11 hope things get back to normal for you soon.
@lilmamabebe3 you may have said elsewhere, but have you gotten your results yet? I know it was creating a lot of anxiety for you. I hope it has come back all clear and you're feeling better.
@cato99 I'm clearly no expert, but it sounds like the maternity clothing it much more comfortable. So I say if you like the clothes go for it!
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 8/22 10+5
Baby is the size of a(n): the one that made me laugh the most was donut hole
Upcoming Appointments: first OB appt tomorrow
How are you feeling?: can't complain, nausea at night and lack of desire to eat dinner.
Rants/Raves:
Questions: This may be better in the ask a STM thread, but I've been looking at day care/child care centers. I've asked about ratio, what is included in price, wait list, and scheduled tours. Any thing big that I'm missing that I should be asking? I'm planning to tour 2 places later this week.
GTKY: Have you started a nursery yet? Tell us about it even if you haven’t! Nope, we briefly discussed how we plan to arrange furniture, but other than that no real talks about theme or anything. I was thinking maybe a travel/adventure theme (we can use/frame old maps and guide books from our vacations together), storybook characters (we have a few prints I'm considering framing) or "wonderful world." (we already have something hanging in what will be the nursery with some of the lyrics on it.) They would all be gender neutral and wouldn't require us to buy a lot of things.
TTC#1 10/2016
TTC/IF:included medicated cycles, IUIs and 2 rounds of IVF with 1 embryo each.
BFP finally in 12/2018
TTC#2 06/2021
planning FET
"Some days are diamonds, some days are rocks,
some doors are open, some roads are blocked"
TTC #1 5/13 BFP #3 5/2/14 DD born 1/19/15
NTNP #2 8/17 BFP 12/13/18 ED 8/21/19
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
Baby is the size of a : Lime on here, Brussel Sprout on Ovia
Upcoming Appts: none any time soon
How are you feeling?: I saw the baby moving for the first time ever today, so I'm kind of awe struck, and excited.
Rants/Raves: My BD wasn't originally supposed to be able to make it to today's appointment, so I am so happy that he did because we got really good images of the baby which I am sure he was so happy to see.
Questions: None.
GTKY: Have you started a nursery yet? Tell us about it even if you haven't! We haven't, however the room the baby will be in is a beautiful shade of yellow so I'm not sure we will change it too much.
TTC#1 10/2016
TTC/IF:included medicated cycles, IUIs and 2 rounds of IVF with 1 embryo each.
BFP finally in 12/2018
TTC#2 06/2021
planning FET
"Some days are diamonds, some days are rocks,
some doors are open, some roads are blocked"
Baby is the size of a(n): bee hummingbird
Upcoming Appointments: Monday I have a regireg OB 1 week appointment and Thursday I have the appointment with the MFM doctor.
How are you feeling?: tired, still nauseous.
Rants/Raves: I'm getting real tired of this nausea.
Questions: nope.
GTKY: Have you started a nursery yet? Tell us about it even if you haven’t! - I haven't baby will be in our room for the first bit and we haven't done anything to our room..
Baby is the size of a: lime!
Upcoming appointments: we just had our first ultrasound last week, so nothing until a check up prenatal on 2/15.
How are you feeling?: Always exhausted, just started getting queasy and I’m not loving it.
Rants/Raves: I cant fit into my normal jeans anymore without having to use a rubber band for the button, so I guess that means MORE EXCUSES TO WEAR STRETCHY PANTS!!
Questions: nothing
GTKY: no nursery yet, my SO and I live in a pretty small apartment still, so hopefully moving out within the next few months before baby just to have a little more space (and lose the roommate!!), but when the time comes, I’d LOVE to do a Dr. Seuss kind of theme... that’s all I really have for now though. Maybe more ideas will come when we find the sex out in a few weeks!
-Kaileysuex