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Month/Cycle:
CD/DPO:
Timing:
Typical LP length:
Testing:
R/R:
CS/Q:
Re: TWW: Wednesday 1/2
CD: 52
Testing: trying weekly .... more like every 3 days
R/R: i keep getting really convincing evap lines and Im driving myself crazy. I think I need to take a break from the HPTs but I can't stop myself. I just want to pee on all the sticks.
Month/Cycle: 25/benched
CD/DPO: 15/2 I think
Timing:
Typical LP length: 13
Testing: not
R/R: Starting off the new year on a good note. Took the day to relax yesterday, but ready to get back into our routine. Started paleo about a week ago and already seeing good results. Hitting up Costco for acceptable foods at some point today.
CS/Q: I think this is an anno cycle. I don’t really know what’s up.
@kbrown2385 do you have any recommendations for paleo? That’s awesome you’re already seeing results!
Month/Cycle: 14/15
CD/DPO: 17/5
Timing: great
Typical LP length: 14
Testing: not till at least the 10th
R/R: feel like a big ball of poop after eating whatever I wanted for the last 3 or so weeks. I can’t wait to get back on the healthy diet and exercise train. Rave- sleeping in our own bed last night was so nice after not sleeping in the Airbnb! Still thinking of how nice our trip was and it was so cute seeing our dog living his best life 😂
CS/Q: 3 of my 5 post O temps have been the same. 2 were converted, but still weird haha.
CD/DPO: 21/7
Timing: A+
Typical LP length: 14ish (I can’t quit my ish!)
Testing: I’ll POAS when @b_1029 does. I want a pee party buddy!
R/R: DH is officially a mad man. He’s on this huge cleaning/purging kick and wants me to throw away/donate EVERYTHING. He’s crazy! I had to part ways with my Academic All American certificates (that I meant to have framed 11 years ago when I graduated college...). On the plus side, I think he’s really feeling optimistic about *this* being our cycle since he is mainly concerned with my craft/guest room combo. It’s where the nursery will go. Yay?
CS/Q: I have the cover line now! Wahoo!
@b_1029 I get annoyed when too many temps are the same in a row 🤣 like that’s not a pretty chart, come on, body!
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD/DPO: 22/9 or 8
Timing: good
Typical LP length: 12-13
Testing: Saturday at 12dpo, I think.
R/R: My dad is here visiting (and staying with us) all week, which is wonderful because we get along great, but also him and his wife just left for the morning to do some stuff on their own, so that’s a major rave, too, haha. I’m appreciating the quiet time right now to work and play online.
CS/Q: Not a question. But I had a huge temp dip today at what could either be 8 or 9 dpo depending on if you agree with FF or not. So if course I’m BSC googling 🤣 I want it to be tomorrow am so badly so I have an idea whether my luteal phase has just shortened for some reason or if it was one of those random dips that happen on both KU and non KU charts.
@kbrown2385 Major props to you for going paleo. Is YH on board? I made one paleo dish once and it turned out surprisingly well. Recipe link in spoiler...not sure if you need new recipies or not, but I thought I’d share!
https://www.wellplated.com/chicken-apple-sweet-potato-and-brussels-sprouts-skillet/print/
@b_1029 We pee together? Lol! I want to wait until AF is “supposed” to come, which would be the 9th/10th. I’m so glad you had the best little getaway ever! And lol @ your doggo living his best life. I was talking to my Hindu friend about his religion and I told him that I would like to come back as a house cat/dog in my next life. They are just living the dream, man!
@bluejeanbabi05 I will keep my FX that it’s the infamous implantation dip for you!!
*eta tag
CD/DPO: 25/6
Timing: IUI so hopefully perfecr
Typical LP length: 12 days
Testing: I go in to the clinic on the 10th
R/R: don't really want to be back at work but oh well... It was nice to not be in the office for 11 days! Rant - day 2 of progesterone suppositories and I'm already hating it. Goo everywhere
CS/Q: nah, no more temping for me right now
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
@inthewoods23 fix for you!
@b_1029 Glad that you had a nice trip! And that is odd about the temps..
@lillywonderland I totally need to do that too! I'm such a hoarder with things, I can't help it. That's crazy about YH's intuition about this cycle too, you never know...
@bluejeanbabi05 Sorry about the drop, I had a large one on 5DPO and that might have been a secondary estrogen surge. *Could* be implantation dip but not sure since everything I've read says it's a small dip. Keeping FX for you.
@inthewoods23 Wow, that does not sound pleasant. The things we do for TTC!!
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD/DPO: CD 26 / 9 DPO
Timing: FF says "high"
Typical LP length: 10-12 ish (can't give it up either @lillywonderland!!!)
Testing: Already broke down... too many BFNs
R/R: Hoping work goes by quick today. My temp rose today (which is good since I had two days of a slight drop) but I'm thinking it was because I held it so close to the underside of my tongue. I'm trying to be a SS over here but nothing seems to be coming my way!! So my feeling is that I'm out.
CS/Q: nope. just WFAF.
TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
@daisy0322 is it normal for you to get long cycles like that? Can you schedule a blood test?
@kbrown2385 it's too early to tell. Plus a lot of your temps are open circles. I would wait a few more days.
@b_1029 Glad you guys and your dog had a fantastic time! Your temps are where they are supposed to be so I wouldn't worry too much
@lillywonderland charts look good! I wish my H would purge like yours! He keeps the most ridiculous things like the box for a vacuum cleaner. That thing can't go back in its original box lol.
@bluejeanbabi05 this is an estrogen dip. I don't even know why they call it "implantation dip" because most of the time, it is just an estrogen surge.
@inthewoods23 I hope this IUI will be working for you! This sucks about the suppositories though. What a pain!
Month/Cycle: 9/9
CD/DPO: 20/ 2
Timing: Great for FF but it means nothing for our case
Typical LP length: 13-15
Testing: next week.
R/R: I am finally back to doing my workload only at work. Such a nice break after 4 weeks.
I can't wait for the cold to be done. The temperature was negative yesterday. I want warm weather!
CS/Q: I ovulated on 12/31 so I hope this means I ended 2018 on an excellent note.
10/2018: MFI (2 SA under 9 million/ml)
11/2018: HSG shows right Fallopian tube slightly damaged
1/2019: Husband diagnosed with grade 3 varicocele
4/05/2019: varicocele repair surgery
6/13/2019: BFP!!! EDD: 2/22/2020
7/18/2019: Total Motile Count at 3 months post surgery = 51 millions!! (number must be >20 millions to conceive naturally).
TTC #2
9/07/2021: BFP - CP: 9/10/2021
10/07/2021: BFP - CP: 10/23/2021
12/23/2021: BFP! EDD: 08/31/2022
@kbrown2385 I'd say take the next few days to watch what your temps do. That pre-o dip is unmistakable. Awesome that you're doing paleo! You're so much stronger than me. I tried a few years ago and lasted a day.
@b_1029 I think the temp consistency is a good thing! And I can totally relate to feeling like crap. I'm cutting sugar in Jan and OMG I have no idea how addicted I was! I'm literally having withdrawals! It's nuts!
@lillywonderland Your first time charting and it looks so good! I must say that's a perfect curve! Also, I have to side with your DH and agree that Jan is the time to THROW IT ALL AWAY! (To make room to buy new crap of course)
@bluejeanbabi05 I'm glad you're getting to spend some quality time with you dad. As for the dip... Are you temping vaginally? did anything odd or out of the normal happen yesterday?
@inthewoods23 Ugh, I'm back in the office today too. Obviously not working because, you know, the bump, but it was nice getting dressed for the first time in like 10 days!! haha and yes, I can't stttaannnnddd being on progesterone. I try to time it when I'm not going to be too active (sitting at a desk vs walking around) otherwise it just all slides right back out. Yuck, I know.
@stephanie123456 Sorry for the BFN, but here's to hoping it's just too dang early!
@rikiteacup I'm so glad your workload is back to normal again. I hope you made it through the holidays okay and got to enjoy some time off. I for sure think that O'ing on 12/31 is an excellent sign
Month/Cycle: 13
CD/DPO: 19/1
Timing: Pretty dang good
Typical LP length: 12
Testing: Probably tomorrow. Lol j/k
R/R: Who is going to be my pee partner?? Much like @rikiteacup, I feel like O'ing on Jan 1 is a sign... Hopefully it's a good sign and not a bad sign
I'm several hours into day 2 of quitting sugar and omg I want a cookie. I've even got a little headache. This is really ridiculous.
Also, this TWW I'm taking a much different approach than last tww. Last time I had pee sticks in the house and I think that was a BIG mistake b/c I started peeing on things 6 DPO. This time I don't think I'm even going to buy them till I'm 10 or 11 DPO. We'll see how that turns out. heh.
CS/Q: Does anyone else have a hard time getting sperm out of their husbands? I'm like dude. I do all of the work anyway. Just give it to me okay? I don't understand the problem.
I'm just here to LOL at @nomangos23. Oh how I've missed you this last week. We've all popped in and out but it's not the same. // re: squeezing sperm out of our SOs... MF has some, *ahem*, performance issues so actually DTD isn't an issue but there are definitely times where I've asked if I can just wring him out like a sponge instead because there's no end in sight. If only it worked like that. Apparently yelling "just give it to me" in the middle of it also doesn't work?
TTC History:
Me: 36 MH: 39, TTC since Dec 2017
Aug '18: PCOS dx
Nov '18: MH SA - 19mil
Dec '18-Mar '19: Letrozole + TI - all BFN
Apr '19: Letrozole + TI, - BFN. Repeat SA (27mil) & DNA fragmentation test (17%)
Aug '19: Letrozole + HCG trigger + IUI + prog supp - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Sep '19: 2nd IUI, same protocol - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Dec '19: IVF #1 w/ICSI, PGT. 5 retrieved, 4 fertilized, 3 blasts, 3 PGT-A normal.
Mar '20: FET #1, perfect 5AA blast transferred. BFN.
Sept '20: FET #2, 5BB tsf. 9/18/20 BFP!! EDD: 5/27/21. MMC 11w
Feb ‘21: FET #3, last 6BB blast transferred. BFP, EDD 11/2/21. MC 5w3d.
May '21: IVF #2 w/ICSI, PGT. 8R, 7M, 6F, 6 blasts - 3AB, 3AB, 3BB, 4BB, 5BB, 6BA. Fresh tsf 5/13/21 - BFN.
June '21: PGT-A results = 3 abnormal, 1 low level mosaic. Referred to new REI, had consult with 2nd RE in between.
Sept '21: RPL, immune testing normal
Oct '21: IVF #3 w/IMSI, PGT. 33R, 26M, 23F, 9 blasts (7 day 6, 2 day 7). PGT-A = 5 normal, 1 mosaic
Dec '21: Positive for endometritis, RX Flagyl & Keflex
Jan '22: FET #5 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol incl. PRP, intralipids, prednisone, medrol, nivestym, fragmin - CP
Feb '22: FET #6 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol w/higher doses of pred & fragmin - BFN
Mar '22: Mock cycle for ERA - cancelled, repeat endometrial biopsy instead. Still positive for endometritis. RX ciprofloxacin & amoxicillin.
Apr '22: IVF #4 w/IMSI, PGT. 28R, 23M, 16F, 11 blasts. PGT-A = 6 normal.
June '22: FET #7 - Microdose lupron downreg w/kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol - double embryo transfer. BFN.
July '22: FET #8 - Mini stim w/Puregon + trigger, kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol. BFN.
Sep '22: Taking a break
Dec '22: Attempted abdominal myomectomy, fibroid too close to cervix and major blood vessels. Wasn't removed.
Feb '23: FET #9 - Modified natural w/baby asp, HCG trigger, PIO, PRP, Medrol, HCG wash, embryo glue - BFP!! EDD 11/11/23
@lillywonderland your first chart is so darn pretty. I'm jealous. Also, your SMEPping is like textbook perfect. FX FX!!
TTC History:
Me: 36 MH: 39, TTC since Dec 2017
Aug '18: PCOS dx
Nov '18: MH SA - 19mil
Dec '18-Mar '19: Letrozole + TI - all BFN
Apr '19: Letrozole + TI, - BFN. Repeat SA (27mil) & DNA fragmentation test (17%)
Aug '19: Letrozole + HCG trigger + IUI + prog supp - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Sep '19: 2nd IUI, same protocol - BFN (MH: 16mil)
Dec '19: IVF #1 w/ICSI, PGT. 5 retrieved, 4 fertilized, 3 blasts, 3 PGT-A normal.
Mar '20: FET #1, perfect 5AA blast transferred. BFN.
Sept '20: FET #2, 5BB tsf. 9/18/20 BFP!! EDD: 5/27/21. MMC 11w
Feb ‘21: FET #3, last 6BB blast transferred. BFP, EDD 11/2/21. MC 5w3d.
May '21: IVF #2 w/ICSI, PGT. 8R, 7M, 6F, 6 blasts - 3AB, 3AB, 3BB, 4BB, 5BB, 6BA. Fresh tsf 5/13/21 - BFN.
June '21: PGT-A results = 3 abnormal, 1 low level mosaic. Referred to new REI, had consult with 2nd RE in between.
Sept '21: RPL, immune testing normal
Oct '21: IVF #3 w/IMSI, PGT. 33R, 26M, 23F, 9 blasts (7 day 6, 2 day 7). PGT-A = 5 normal, 1 mosaic
Dec '21: Positive for endometritis, RX Flagyl & Keflex
Jan '22: FET #5 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol incl. PRP, intralipids, prednisone, medrol, nivestym, fragmin - CP
Feb '22: FET #6 - Kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol w/higher doses of pred & fragmin - BFN
Mar '22: Mock cycle for ERA - cancelled, repeat endometrial biopsy instead. Still positive for endometritis. RX ciprofloxacin & amoxicillin.
Apr '22: IVF #4 w/IMSI, PGT. 28R, 23M, 16F, 11 blasts. PGT-A = 6 normal.
June '22: FET #7 - Microdose lupron downreg w/kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol - double embryo transfer. BFN.
July '22: FET #8 - Mini stim w/Puregon + trigger, kitchen sink immune/RIF protocol. BFN.
Sep '22: Taking a break
Dec '22: Attempted abdominal myomectomy, fibroid too close to cervix and major blood vessels. Wasn't removed.
Feb '23: FET #9 - Modified natural w/baby asp, HCG trigger, PIO, PRP, Medrol, HCG wash, embryo glue - BFP!! EDD 11/11/23
@bluejeanbabi05 I have randomly had those dips around 9dpo which I guess is another estrogen surge. FX it’s implantation!
@inthewoods23 ah man those suppositories sound rough. FX for you!
@stephanie123456 sorry for the BFN! I hope you get good news soon!
@rikiteacup like PP I think / hope Oing on New Year’s Eve is a great sign! What better way to ring in the new year?!
@nomangos23 I should join you in the cutting refined sugar deal. I ate sooooo much crap especially on vacation, and every time I got dessert I was like “well it’s my birthday so”....ummm my bday was one day, not 4 lol. Also, dying at yours & @kiki047 ‘s exchange 🤣
10/2018: MFI (2 SA under 9 million/ml)
11/2018: HSG shows right Fallopian tube slightly damaged
1/2019: Husband diagnosed with grade 3 varicocele
4/05/2019: varicocele repair surgery
6/13/2019: BFP!!! EDD: 2/22/2020
7/18/2019: Total Motile Count at 3 months post surgery = 51 millions!! (number must be >20 millions to conceive naturally).
TTC #2
9/07/2021: BFP - CP: 9/10/2021
10/07/2021: BFP - CP: 10/23/2021
12/23/2021: BFP! EDD: 08/31/2022
@kbrown2385 good luck with the healthy eating...I need to definitely do so as well.
@b_1029 yes I'm back to reality as well, time for me to go back to waking up to work out and break up with holiday cookies
@lillywonderland FX that this is your cycle. I hate that AF seriously doesn't have a set date/time each month to either show up or not. Smdh, such a rude house guest. Testing on dates she's "supposed" to arrive don't help because then you're left thinking, "hmm maybe I O'ed later this cycle".
@inthewoods23 best of luck with the IUI
@nomangos23 yes I think it's performance anxiety issues haha, so God forbid I tell him I'm in my fertile window because then it's like pulling teeth come BD time
bluejeanbabi05 can I join and be your pee buddy too?! I don't want to do it again for days because these BFNs drive me bonkers. Keep each other accountable?
Month/Cycle: 3/4
CD/DPO: 26 / ??
Timing: Not sure
Typical LP length: 13ish
Testing: Tested yesterday on the 1st and it was a blazing BFN. No sign of the unwelcomed guest that is AF though she is due today.
R/R: All rants! I'm so sad to be back at work like a normal human being! I miss my sweats and dogs already. Also, I just wish AF would show up so I can stop speculating about my O date being later. I'm SS like a maniac and have several theories based on my temp chart haha... I know I'm just being BSC.
CS/Q: I have no idea because my dog decided that my BBT thermometer was her latest toy and destroyed it a few days ago.
TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
@b_1029 Please yes! Join me in this misery! I'm assuming it gets better after the first few days? This is what motivated me https://pinchofyum.com/everything-you-need-to-know-about-sugar-free-january
@marbellie Girl yes, I feel like I need to grieve my time off and my EIGHT DAYS of sweatpants. It was glorious.
Month/Cycle: 1/1 since taking several months off. 2.5 years total.
CD/DPO: 23/9
Timing: good
Typical LP length: 11- 14 days
Testing: I started POAS-ing yesterday. Mad at myself for that. Doing lots of squinting and staring at tests, and then lecturing myself about that.
R/R:
CS/Q: