Upcoming Appointments: After Christmas, but I am hoping to get the results of my NIPT this week.
How are you feeling?: Symptoms slowing lessening but still around. Nauseous, tired, sore boobs, no appetite. Makes me feel so happy!!!!
Rants/Raves: 11 Weeks!!!!! I have not made it to 11 weeks in 10 years!!!!!!!!!!!
Questions: Meh
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? I have literally not even started. I have plans for my hubby and a couple more things for my boys, but I have nothing purchased yet. Waiting on ma money!
How are you feeling?: I started feeling nauseous again last night. Ugh. I am also feeling incredibly anxious for some reason. I tend to be an anxious person about things, and I think the NT U/S coming up and me announcing to the rest of my family is catching up with me. I just pray that everything is okay with baby.
Rants/Raves: I’ve been edgy lately, so I guess my hormones are shifting again or something because my nausea also came back. I’m also exhausted from taking unisom for like 3 weeks straight and being pregnant. Pregnancy acne is still in full force. A positive is that I did have 6 good days last week, which included eating Mexican food twice and Bojangles once 😂
Questions: Is anyone else all of a sudden feeling super anxious?
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? Almost! Hubby is taking care of the very last one.
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 7/5, 11 weeks 2 days!
Baby is the size of a(n): lime! Ketchup packet!
Upcoming Appointments: NT redo on Friday. Waiting for NIPT results.
How are you feeling?: Well, today? Better. This weekend was awful again.
Rants/Raves: Tomorrow is the last day I can order the Big Brother t-shirt and get it in time for the Christmas announcement. I don’t want to buy it until I know we will be announcing.... but I think I’ll need to just bite the bullet. Sigh.
Questions: If NIPT comes back normal, I don’t really need NT scan, right? Or like... if NT scan comes back with increased odds but NIPT is normal, I’m good, right?
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? Basically! Need some picture frames for my parents but that’s it!
@Happyin14 I was weary about buying pregnancy related gifts too. I waited until last week, and was still nervous. It’s how we’re telling the majority of our family.
I have my NT scan next week. I’m nervous for some reason! I was nervous first u/s too. I just want everything to be okay!
Upcoming Appointments: 12/26 for NT and then 1/4 for prenatal
How are you feeling?: more awake lately, thank goodness but still M/S in the morning with nausea but have been much better at keeping lunch and dinner down.
Rants/Raves: I think baby is a girl, we did the Sneakpeek test and it came back as a girl, I won't really be buying anything until confirmed on Ultrasound but it's kinda nice to start thinking of names
Questions: do you guys have any suggestions on how to prepare for the NT? I'm SO NERVOUS!
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? Christmas is easy for us, my family doesn't celebrate it. Hubby and I don't do gifts for each other and his side of the family we do Secret Santa and I got that gift already and already got my friends gifts
@rgn12@babyginjuly I had been feeling really anxious earlier on, and my mother just reminded me that worrying without a definitive issue to worry about is optional... What is going to happen will happen regardless of how much I worry, and if it turns out that I worried ton for nothing, then I could have spent that same time sending out positive vibes instead. Don't know if that will help you all, but it did help me relax. That, and I've been doing a 10 minute prenatal yoga routine... I find the regulated breathing extremely calming. Good luck!
Upcoming Appointments: None until +edit+ JANUARY (pregnancy brain had me write July)- had first ultrasound last Friday... My heart has been stolen already
How are you feeling?: Better! MS are lessening
Rants/Raves: My hubby is being very good to me, and I am so thankful
Questions: Just hoping everyone else here is doing OK!
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? Yes, but we did reign in our spending a bit, in consideration of the tiny human we are growing!
Upcoming Appointments: dec 27 just a belly check, Doppler HR etc lol
How are you feeling?: waiting for my appetite and nausea to improve. Heartburn, fatigue and mood swings are no joke. But I really cannot complain overall I’m feeling good and the unpleasant s/s are transient.
Rants/Raves: I seriously cannot believe it’s almost Christmas!
Questions:
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? I have to do my big liquor store run bc alcohol makes great gifts lol. Other than that I need to get stocking stuffers.
Upcoming appointments: nothing until my ultrasound on dec 28th - I didn’t think I could wait until then to find out if baby was okay (terrified of mmc) so I bought a Doppler and that’s been a good stress relief until then!
How are you feeling? Pregnancy symptom wise I’m good, nausea has been mostly gone for a week or so, occasional heartburn and mild cramping plus some serious food aversions but overall not bad. I do have a terrible cold/developing sinus infection though which has made it a challenging few days.
Rants/raves: I’ll do one of each. Rant is my husband is working 70hr weeks from now until probably mid January which has been tough on our whole family. The paycheques will be nice but it’s been long days for everyone. Rave is that I got my Doppler and have been able to find babies heartbeat no problem every time I check so the relief of hearing a strong heartbeat whenever my anxiety gets bad has been amazing.
Questions: none
GTKY are you done Christmas/holiday shopping? Yes! Have been since the first week of December. Now wrapping is another story...
Upcoming Appointments: OB appointment on Wednesday and GP on the 27th. Hoping to get my NIPT results back before the end of the week. I really want to buy SO something to announce the sex so I'd like to have the weekend to be able to do that.
How are you feeling?: So so sick. I'm sure it's HG again. The vomiting is increasing and I can't keep anything down. It's only getting worse. But I'm loving it:) Also sore boobs. Emotionally I'm still feeling detached. I'm hoping once the NIPT results and sex come back I might start feeling more involved with baby.
Rants/Raves: I'm still here! This is a big deal for me. I'm not past my last loss milestone yet but I'm starting to feel hopeful.
Questions: For those who have their NIPT results back already, how long did it take?
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? All doe. We only buy gifts for DD so it makes shopping easy. We don't exchange gifts with anyone .
@Happyin14 The NIPT is a more accurate test than the NT so if that comes back good you don't really need the NT. The NT can check for congenital heart defects, which NIPT does not do, but here if you get the NIPT you don't get the NT.
@Panaceia my NIPT came back in 7 days, they had told me 7-10
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 11w2d
Baby is the size of a(n): lime
Upcoming Appointments: ultrasound Friday!!!
How are you feeling?: physically horrendous but my mood picked up because:
Rants/Raves: just got my NIPT back all low risk. And negative parvovirus (fifth disease) which we were concerned my flu like illness may have been. And I’m having another boy ❤️❤️❤️
Questions: nah
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? Almost which is unheard of for me, I’m such a procrastinator!
Upcoming Appointments: Some bloodwork this week, then another OB appointment in a few weeks
How are you feeling?: My hubs and I were at Disney World all weekend, and I felt pretty good the entire time, save for a little nausea each day around lunch. Crackers and Sprite helped that. Today, though, ugh, nausea city. Thankfully, we'd only planned to stay for a couple hours and that was all I could handle. The monorail ride (riding backwards) back to our car was the worst. But then I was fine on the car ride home. Whaa??
Rants/Raves: I'm so done with crowds and all the inconsiderate people in them. I expect them at Disney, and a holiday week no less, but sheesh were people out of control yesterday.
Questions: How do you get scheduled for an NT or NIPT?! I've been researching to understand what each looks at, and the nurse midwife I saw mentioned both + gave us a brochure, but that was about it. I'm 38 and my sister-in-law has some developmental disabilities, so I'm thinking we should have one/both of those done. Does insurance typically cover them? (I know, I probably need to call. Another rant: Grateful for insurance, but hate calling because they can never tell me if anything is covered.)
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? With my family and extended family, yes!! With hubs? No. Taking this Thursday off to shop for him.
@runner_doll my OB office said that if you’re under 35 they do NT first because insurance often won’t cover NIPT. They said they would if you’re over 35 though. They didn’t even tell me how much the NIPT would cost out of pocket, so I was kind of upset about that.
How are you feeling?: Nervous waiting game, exhausted from bed rest....
Rants/Raves: subchorionic hematoma hasn’t had a significant change...which is considered both, I think.
Questions:
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? I am bummed that i had to do my Christmas shopping totally online due to bed rest, I just have the hubs and some stocking stuffers to go.
Upcoming Appointments: had my NT scan yesterday, so I’ll get my results back from my GP for that. Then I don’t have another appointment until about 18 weeks or so at the hospital. I am going to be a public patient (in Australia we have free health care) and I’m low risk, so I will mostly get seen by midwives (nurses), don’t think I ever see an OB!
How are you feeling?: feeling like I’m starting to get a little more energy... and feeling relieved after seeing a little bub on the ultrasound yesterday.
Rants/Raves: Rant - told my boss today and she was less than impressed. Her words were “I guess we will just deal with that”. Not great words for my first kid. Questions: anyone hiccuping a lot? Haha
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? Not doing any Xmas presents this year as we aren’t going home, which is actually awesome I hate shopping!!! 😅
@runner_doll Here (Canada) we get a referral from our doctor for NIPT and/or NT. The NIPT is covered here if you're 40 or older at any point during your pregnancy and since our health care is free NT is always covered.
NT scan needs to be done between 11 and 14 weeks (it's an ultrasound + blood test) but the NIPT (just a blood test) can be done anytime after 10 weeks until almost te end if your pregnancy. The NIPT is more accurate but people still pair that with the ultrasound portion of the NT as this can find congenital heart defects which the NIPT doesn't test for. Here if you do the NIPT you generally don't get the NT. I have heard people in the US say the NIPT is around 350$ if not covered by insurance. And if you don't get a referral I think you can just go to a testing facility and request it if you're paying OOP.
Thank you for the details on the NT and NIPT, @Panaceia and @rgn12! I'm 11+1 today, so will call my doctor's office to see if I can get one or both done soon.
Baby is the size of a(n): lime, Brussels sprout/macaron, yum!
Upcoming Appointments: not until January, but I had my NT yesterday
How are you feeling?: I’ll have a day where I feel semi-normal and can finally eat real food, and I think morning sickness is finally starting to go away, then the next day I’m back to feeling nauseated and averse to everything. Second trimester is almost here, though, so I’m hopeful. Also very moody.
Rants/Raves: My sister and her family are here for two weeks! I haven’t seen them in over a year because they live in Europe and I do not, so this is an extra-fun Christmas. I told my 5-y.o. niece that she’s going to be a big cousin; she, unfazed, replied that she is already a cousin. Lol.
Questions:
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? Just about!
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: July 2, 2018-12 weeks 1 day
Baby is the size of a(n): plum
Upcoming Appointments: Friday for OB, bloodwork and NT
How are you feeling?: Still struggling with sinus issues and occasional headaches. I started bleeding on Sunday evening, so that has put me on edge. I am that much more apprehensive for my Friday appointment. When I called the doctor, they said that if I was miscarrying, there isn't anything they could do, so now I am just stuck waiting.
Rants/Raves: I did have to tell my boss and the office staff I was expecting as I was out suddenly on Monday due to the bleeding and they were super supportive.
Questions: Nothing I can think of.
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? Not quite yet.
@xtinecatherine I'm so sorry you're having to deal with the stress of bleeding. I'm surprised they didn't take you right away. Could you go to emergency and see if they can give you an ultrasound?
Thanks so much everyone! They said that since it was only pink and brown, and not bright red, that I should wait until Friday. The nurse did say that if I had not had an earlier u/s they would have gotten me in that day. She also did stress how not not normal bleeding is, which did not make me feel any better. So right now I feel like I am in this sort of limbo not really knowing if things are viable or not, since it literally came out of the blue. I know I was pretty dehydrated the day it started. I had spent a good part of the day standing at my son’s wrestling tournament, but I am pretty active, so standing should not hurt. I have cut off working out until my u/s and I am trying to stop reading things. I know with me being 41, genetics are not on my side, and I worry about chromosomal abnormalities that can cause miscarriage. I really appreciate the support and will definitely update after my appointment.
So, the NIPT came back no result. Which I felt like I knew was gonna happen (I’m not a tiny person...). But I’m really bummed. We really didn’t want to tell our son until we had those results. But with Christmas coming up and plans to reveal to my family.... I don’t know what to do.
@Happyin14 Are you going to have it repeated? I didn't realize it could come back with no results. I hope you're able to get it redone and possibly have the results for New Years.
@Panaceia, I will redo it. I can go back nexts week. Because I don’t know my exact LMP (I wasn’t tracking for the first time in like 10 years...), my dates are a bit estimated. So looks like I tried all my tests a tad too early. I just need a higher % of DNA in my blood.
Re: Group 1(7/1-7/8) Check in Week of 12/17
Baby is the size of a(n): A lime!
Upcoming Appointments: After Christmas, but I am hoping to get the results of my NIPT this week.
How are you feeling?: Symptoms slowing lessening but still around. Nauseous, tired, sore boobs, no appetite. Makes me feel so happy!!!!
Rants/Raves: 11 Weeks!!!!! I have not made it to 11 weeks in 10 years!!!!!!!!!!!
Questions: Meh
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? I have literally not even started. I have plans for my hubby and a couple more things for my boys, but I have nothing purchased yet. Waiting on ma money!
July 8 / 11 weeks
Baby is the size of a(n):
Lime
Upcoming Appointments:
12/27 - NT U/S
How are you feeling?:
I started feeling nauseous again last night. Ugh. I am also feeling incredibly anxious for some reason. I tend to be an anxious person about things, and I think the NT U/S coming up and me announcing to the rest of my family is catching up with me. I just pray that everything is okay with baby.
Rants/Raves:
I’ve been edgy lately, so I guess my hormones are shifting again or something because my nausea also came back. I’m also exhausted from taking unisom for like 3 weeks straight and being pregnant. Pregnancy acne is still in full force. A positive is that I did have 6 good days last week, which included eating Mexican food twice and Bojangles once 😂
Questions:
Is anyone else all of a sudden feeling super anxious?
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping?
Almost! Hubby is taking care of the very last one.
Baby is the size of a(n): lime! Ketchup packet!
Upcoming Appointments: NT redo on Friday. Waiting for NIPT results.
How are you feeling?: Well, today? Better. This weekend was awful again.
Rants/Raves: Tomorrow is the last day I can order the Big Brother t-shirt and get it in time for the Christmas announcement. I don’t want to buy it until I know we will be announcing.... but I think I’ll need to just bite the bullet. Sigh.
Questions: If NIPT comes back normal, I don’t really need NT scan, right? Or like... if NT scan comes back with increased odds but NIPT is normal, I’m good, right?
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? Basically! Need some picture frames for my parents but that’s it!
I have my NT scan next week. I’m nervous for some reason! I was nervous first u/s too. I just want everything to be okay!
Baby is the size of a(n): Brussel sprout
Upcoming Appointments: 12/26 for NT and then 1/4 for prenatal
How are you feeling?: more awake lately, thank goodness but still M/S in the morning with nausea but have been much better at keeping lunch and dinner down.
Rants/Raves: I think baby is a girl, we did the Sneakpeek test and it came back as a girl, I won't really be buying anything until confirmed on Ultrasound but it's kinda nice to start thinking of names
Questions: do you guys have any suggestions on how to prepare for the NT? I'm SO NERVOUS!
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? Christmas is easy for us, my family doesn't celebrate it. Hubby and I don't do gifts for each other and his side of the family we do Secret Santa and I got that gift already and already got my friends gifts
Baby is the size of a(n): Lego person
Upcoming Appointments: None until +edit+ JANUARY (pregnancy brain had me write July)- had first ultrasound last Friday... My heart has been stolen already
How are you feeling?: Better! MS are lessening
Rants/Raves: My hubby is being very good to me, and I am so thankful
Questions: Just hoping everyone else here is doing OK!
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? Yes, but we did reign in our spending a bit, in consideration of the tiny human we are growing!
11-4
Baby is the size of a(n): Lime 🍋
Upcoming Appointments: Ultrasound on Thursday 😁
How are you feeling?: I just started Diclegis. One moment I’m good, next moment I’m feeding the toilet.
Rants/Raves: Got my NIPT results today, all negative. One baby BOY!
Questions: not yet, on cloud nine
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping?
no, and yes. I need to get my man something special. I’m running close to the deadline
baby is the size of a.. lime!
Upcoming appointments: nothing until my ultrasound on dec 28th - I didn’t think I could wait until then to find out if baby was okay (terrified of mmc) so I bought a Doppler and that’s been a good stress relief until then!
How are you feeling? Pregnancy symptom wise I’m good, nausea has been mostly gone for a week or so, occasional heartburn and mild cramping plus some serious food aversions but overall not bad. I do have a terrible cold/developing sinus infection though which has made it a challenging few days.
Rants/raves: I’ll do one of each. Rant is my husband is working 70hr weeks from now until probably mid January which has been tough on our whole family. The paycheques will be nice but it’s been long days for everyone. Rave is that I got my Doppler and have been able to find babies heartbeat no problem every time I check so the relief of hearing a strong heartbeat whenever my anxiety gets bad has been amazing.
Questions: none
GTKY are you done Christmas/holiday shopping? Yes! Have been since the first week of December. Now wrapping is another story...
Baby is the size of a(n): profiterole
Upcoming Appointments: OB appointment on Wednesday and GP on the 27th. Hoping to get my NIPT results back before the end of the week. I really want to buy SO something to announce the sex so I'd like to have the weekend to be able to do that.
How are you feeling?: So so sick. I'm sure it's HG again. The vomiting is increasing and I can't keep anything down. It's only getting worse. But I'm loving it:) Also sore boobs. Emotionally I'm still feeling detached. I'm hoping once the NIPT results and sex come back I might start feeling more involved with baby.
Rants/Raves: I'm still here! This is a big deal for me. I'm not past my last loss milestone yet but I'm starting to feel hopeful.
Questions: For those who have their NIPT results back already, how long did it take?
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? All doe. We only buy gifts for DD so it makes shopping easy. We don't exchange gifts with anyone .
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 11w2d
Baby is the size of a(n): lime
Upcoming Appointments: ultrasound Friday!!!
How are you feeling?: physically horrendous but my mood picked up because:
Rants/Raves: just got my NIPT back all low risk. And negative parvovirus (fifth disease) which we were concerned my flu like illness may have been. And I’m having another boy ❤️❤️❤️
Questions: nah
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? Almost which is unheard of for me, I’m such a procrastinator!
Baby is the size of a(n): Lime!
Upcoming Appointments: Some bloodwork this week, then another OB appointment in a few weeks
How are you feeling?: My hubs and I were at Disney World all weekend, and I felt pretty good the entire time, save for a little nausea each day around lunch. Crackers and Sprite helped that. Today, though, ugh, nausea city. Thankfully, we'd only planned to stay for a couple hours and that was all I could handle. The monorail ride (riding backwards) back to our car was the worst. But then I was fine on the car ride home. Whaa??
Rants/Raves: I'm so done with crowds and all the inconsiderate people in them. I expect them at Disney, and a holiday week no less, but sheesh were people out of control yesterday.
Questions: How do you get scheduled for an NT or NIPT?! I've been researching to understand what each looks at, and the nurse midwife I saw mentioned both + gave us a brochure, but that was about it. I'm 38 and my sister-in-law has some developmental disabilities, so I'm thinking we should have one/both of those done. Does insurance typically cover them? (I know, I probably need to call. Another rant: Grateful for insurance, but hate calling because they can never tell me if anything is covered.)
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? With my family and extended family, yes!! With hubs? No. Taking this Thursday off to shop for him.
Baby is the size of a(n): beer pong ball (ping pong ball)
Upcoming Appointments: Perinatologist Thursday AM, OB Thursday PM, ultrasound Thursday midday.
How are you feeling?: Nervous waiting game, exhausted from bed rest....
Rants/Raves: subchorionic hematoma hasn’t had a significant change...which is considered both, I think.
Questions: GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping?
I am bummed that i had to do my Christmas shopping totally online due to bed rest, I just have the hubs and some stocking stuffers to go.
Baby is the size of a(n): lime
Upcoming Appointments: not until January
How are you feeling?: I’m alright
Rants/Raves: hubs and I decided on a girl name tonight
Questions: none this week
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? All I have left is stocking stuffers.
Baby is the size of a(n): Apricot!
Upcoming Appointments: had my NT scan yesterday, so I’ll get my results back from my GP for that. Then I don’t have another appointment until about 18 weeks or so at the hospital. I am going to be a public patient (in Australia we have free health care) and I’m low risk, so I will mostly get seen by midwives (nurses), don’t think I ever see an OB!
How are you feeling?: feeling like I’m starting to get a little more energy... and feeling relieved after seeing a little bub on the ultrasound yesterday.
Rants/Raves: Rant - told my boss today and she was less than impressed. Her words were “I guess we will just deal with that”. Not great words for my first kid.
Questions: anyone hiccuping a lot? Haha
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? Not doing any Xmas presents this year as we aren’t going home, which is actually awesome I hate shopping!!! 😅
NT scan needs to be done between 11 and 14 weeks (it's an ultrasound + blood test) but the NIPT (just a blood test) can be done anytime after 10 weeks until almost te end if your pregnancy. The NIPT is more accurate but people still pair that with the ultrasound portion of the NT as this can find congenital heart defects which the NIPT doesn't test for. Here if you do the NIPT you generally don't get the NT. I have heard people in the US say the NIPT is around 350$ if not covered by insurance. And if you don't get a referral I think you can just go to a testing facility and request it if you're paying OOP.
Baby is the size of a(n): lime, Brussels sprout/macaron, yum!
Upcoming Appointments: not until January, but I had my NT yesterday
How are you feeling?: I’ll have a day where I feel semi-normal and can finally eat real food, and I think morning sickness is finally starting to go away, then the next day I’m back to feeling nauseated and averse to everything. Second trimester is almost here, though, so I’m hopeful. Also very moody.
Rants/Raves: My sister and her family are here for two weeks! I haven’t seen them in over a year because they live in Europe and I do not, so this is an extra-fun Christmas. I told my 5-y.o. niece that she’s going to be a big cousin; she, unfazed, replied that she is already a cousin. Lol.
Questions:
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? Just about!
Baby is the size of a(n): lime
Upcoming Appointments: day after christmas and day after new years
How are you feeling?: Starting to feel better but still exhausted all the time. Can't wait for Christmas break.
Rants/Raves: Nothing right now. Just excited for the holidays and nervous to start telling people with our Christmas cards.
Questions:
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? I still have a few gift cards to pick up but that's pretty much it.
Baby is the size of a(n): plum
Upcoming Appointments: Friday for OB, bloodwork and NT
How are you feeling?: Still struggling with sinus issues and occasional headaches. I started bleeding on Sunday evening, so that has put me on edge. I am that much more apprehensive for my Friday appointment. When I called the doctor, they said that if I was miscarrying, there isn't anything they could do, so now I am just stuck waiting.
Rants/Raves: I did have to tell my boss and the office staff I was expecting as I was out suddenly on Monday due to the bleeding and they were super supportive.
Questions: Nothing I can think of.
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? Not quite yet.
Baby is the size of a(n): Lime
Upcoming Appointments: NIPT draw tomorrow; Regular OB next week
How are you feeling?: Slowly feeling less nauseous and less exhausted all the time.
Rants/Raves: I'm just so eager to know that everything is "okay" genetically so I can feel comfortable announcing.
Questions: When are you all planning on publicly announcing?
GTKY: Are you done Christmas or Holiday Shopping? Done with shopping, haven't even started wrapping!