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TWW Weekend 12/1 - 12/2
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**This is a thread that welcomes all regardless of where they are at in their TTC journeys. Please be mindful of topics that are discussed that could be hurtful to those going through tough times. Mention of children or pregnancies of others should have a TW and be in a spoiler if possible, and only be mentioned if it is extremely pertinent to the conversation. Thanks for keeping this a safe place for us all to engage!**
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Re: TWW Weekend 12/1 - 12/2
CD/DPO: 26/8ish (I think 11DPO)
Timing: -3, -1 (with 8 DPO)
Typical LP length: 14ish
Testing: Tues/Wed
R/R: Rave- Yay for Saturday mornings! We have 2 Christmas parties this weekend. Tonights’ is my parents’, and DH and I are dressing up as Santa and Mrs. Claus. Rant- I’m still coughing up my left lung. If I’m still sick on Monday, I might go to to the doc... I feel like I keep almost fighting whatever this is off and it keeps coming back.
CS/Q: No questions! I was going to stop temping, but since my chart is so rocky (still dotted CH), I figured I should still temp.
CD/DPO: 18/3
Timing: -2, -4, -6
Typical LP length: 10-11
Testing: None
R/R: FF moved my O date again and now I feel hopeless about our timing. Well... at least I'll be able to drink on my trip home, right? Ugh. I was actually feeling good about this cycle and now once again I feel the crushing hand of defeat.
I have a busy day today so if I post and ghost, I'm sorry! I'll try to come back and check in tonight and tomorrow!
CS/Q: None
@cpiper39 enjoy those Christmas parties! I hope you can shake that cough, it sounds miserable.
@riff323 do you know why FF keeps moving your O date? That would drive me bonkers, too. I'm so sorry you are feeling defeated. 💚
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD/DPO: 22/6
Timing: -4, -2, O, +1, +2 (if FF is right on O day)
Typical LP length: 11-14 days
Testing: Maybe Wednesday or Thursday? I'm not sure if I want to test because I really don't know how I will handle a BFN with the holidays and all the family togetherness coming up.
R/R: We're going to DH's parents' for dinner tonight before they leave to visit SIL in another state for Christmas. If it doesn't rain, we might go to a local shrine to see the Christmas light displays.
CS/Q: Pretty sure my temp this morning means nothing since I was awake at 4:30 and restless. (I take my temp at 5:30). There was a coyote in the neighborhood and my dog was losing her damn mind. Plus the reading was exactly the same as yesterday's, even though I cleared the thermometer twice. Oh well.
@emeraldduchess I’m with you on not wanting a BFN for Christmas... have fun looking at lights if it clears up and at dinner!
@cpiper39 that sounds fun! I hope you feel better soon.
@riff323 im sorry about timing
Month/Cycle: 18/16
CD/DPO: 22/7 or 5
Timing: 0, +1 (or per Flo: -2, -1)
Typical LP length: 12
Testing: might bring my last HPT on my business trip next week
R/R: I feel exhausted today.. Probably TMI, but I've never owned a vibrator before and now that I have one I'm hoping the BDing becomes a bit more thrilling! Haha
CS/Q: nothing exciting new to report
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
CD/DPO: CD23 / 5-8 DPO (depending on the app)
Timing: HIO during FW
Typical LP length: last cycle was 8-9
Testing: mid next week
R/R: Tried to go Xmas tree shopping last night, but one place we didn't like the selection but the prices were good, then the other was the opposite. But DH pulled out our decorations while I was at a birthday celebration for my grandmother (she has Alzheimer's and lives in a memory care facility after my grandfather passed in March 2018). So I'm excited to get it all up.
CS/Q: Just riding along, waiting for something to happen. Chart in spoiler.
TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
CD/DPO: 20/7
Timing: -2
Testing: maybe dec 10
R/R:
Rave- Im startingbtge curly girl methidvto help reverse damage on my hair and I'm super excited about it!
Rant- I made the mistake of mentioning how I'm really hoping pregnant so I can tell my hubby in our new house to a friend. Well this friend claims to be psychic (I will give her she's right a lot) and she went on some long thing about how I'm not pregnant yet and energys aren't aligned blah blah blah.... even if I only take it with a grain of salt I found it irritating.
@stephanie123456 I'm sorry you didn't find a tree. Have fun decorating!
@inthewoods23 it would have been better if your new toy WAS the cause of your exhaustion!
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
@stephanie123456 I hope the birthday celebration for your grandmother was nice!
ETA: @inthewoods23 now all I can think about is the episode of "Sex and the City" with the adult toy called "the rabbit".
@inthewoods23 so far lve not found it too hard to stick to but the transition is getting to me... my hair is curling much better but it's patchy and flat still.
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD/DPO: 23/7
Timing: -4, -2, O, +1, +2 (if I can trust FF)
Typical LP length: 11-14 days
Testing: Wednesday or Thursday.
R/R: Dinner with DH's parents was nice. I am really very lucky to have the MIL that I do, she's an all around lovely lady.
We were planning on decorating the house today, but I think we will wait until next weekend when we are both finished with parent-teacher conferences and can REALLY relax and enjoy.
CS/Q: I wish I could trust FF but I have my doubts about my O date since my temps were so wonky pre-O and CD16 was earlier than anticipated. Oh, and the open circle is shaming me for sleeping through my alarm and temping 30 minutes later than normal.
Edit to add: I know I sound ridiculous/BSC and need to stop analyzing.
Anyway! I would be more apt to say you O'd on CD 18, personally. Don't worry about that open circle. Probably between 30-50% of my circles are open. I'm a terrible sleeper and wake up like every two hours so even setting an alarm wouldn't help. As long as you can see a shift, I don't think it's a big deal.
That's lousy about your MIL/SIL/FIL.
@daisy0322people who claim to be psychic are the worst. i can see how/why that would get under your skin! i'm so sorry this friend felt the need to express these apparent abilities on you in a moment of complete lack of understanding.