FFFC 11/9

mermaidca · November 2018

thatbaintforbetty · November 2018

FFFC: DH and i haven't had sex since this kid was conceived. If things keep going they way they are we probably won't have sex again for awhile. Like i make it to 40ish weeks and I will try anything to get labor going.

And it sucks but i'm just kinda at the whatever stage about it. We went like almost 2 years without sex, not by choice, but just due to circumstances a couple years ago. We survived that, we will survive this.

mermaidca · November 2018

I've been watching full on documentaries on my phone at work.

harveyisaboysname · November 2018

Yesterday I went home for a small snack which turned into two hotdogs. I would have absolutely eaten a third ( I even made 3) but DD insisted on having a predinner snack as well. I need to accept that I’m definitely going to gain over the recommended 15lbs this pregnancy. I’m ready to embrace the fact that I’m overweight and will likely stay that way. More cushion for the pushin anyway

kangstadt · November 2018

I ate cake for breakfast today. No shame.

batmama31 · November 2018

@thatbaintforbetty, same. almost. I think we've only had sex once or twice since getting my first positive. I would be chill about it like you, but my husband's love language is sex. it's not really an option for me.

mariposa_767s · November 2018

Related...i put my daughter in her crib when I'm open to getting some. When I'm not, she falls asleep in our bed.

harveyisaboysname · November 2018

Oh man. I need all the action when I’m pregnant. Unfortunately I never see DH anymore so I’ve been having my own fun

lilpotatomama · November 2018

I feel so much better knowing I’m not the only sexless one! Still nothing since conceiving baby, and I know exactly when we concieved too. I don’t think I have my own FFFC. I’ve behaved this week 😂

kyashley1227 · November 2018

I ate an entire bag of chips in one sitting yesterday...🤷🏻‍♀️ blaming it in the baby.

Also, we’re still in a pretty good grove with sex. It’s still happening most days. I’m not complaining!

MRDCle · November 2018

I'm involuntarily sexless. This pelvic rest is KILLING me.

But the sex talk has me doing my kegals - so thanks everyone.

happymoni21 · November 2018

Between the emergency surgery, chronic yeast infection and general pregnancy fatigue, yeah I think we have done it twice since we concieved. I have been trying to make more of an effort since I am not a physical affection person and Hubs is.

My FFFC is that I just registered for a daycare open house in December so that I could get a September 2020 spot

I always kind of judged those parents who went to crazy lengths to get their kid into certain schools and here I am.
My only defense is that is the cheapest Montessori daycare around.

The craziest part is I emailed and asked if I should come to the open house since it was targeting 2019 enrollment and was told "Absolutely, we actually have several couples on our wait list for September 2020 who are trying to concieve."

thatbaintforbetty · November 2018

@MRDCle I'm on pelvic rest too because of the bleeding episodes. But even aside from that, with all the soreness i have no interest in anything going near that area.

And also too exhausted. <Sleep over sex for sure right now.

mermaidca · November 2018

+1 for no action. We've done it once since conceiving and I can also tell you the exact date this babe was conceived. Poor H is not happy about it and constantly making comments but I am so exhausted and rarely feel good. What he doesn't realize is if I didn't have to be the only one cooking, cleaning and taking of care of the kids maybe I wouldn't be so tired and resentful. He's never made those connections though.

kangstadt · November 2018

First trimester I was definitely feeling too miserable to really get busy, but lately it's been more on par with our normal. Although I've also had the weird overly sensitive everything down there, so it's odd. Sex is still definitely enjoyable, but afterwards it sometimes feels like I've gotten a brush burn or something even with lube

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mesweettea · November 2018

Not having sex here either and not sure it’s a great situation. I’m not feeling it — couple we tried felt super gross and weird and I just wasn’t into it. But I know my husband’s sex drive probably hasn’t disappeared just because mine has. We should probably at least talk about it but I have been avoiding the conversation.

I’m not sure this quite belongs here, but it’s stuck in my head for the past few days so I’m sharing: I’m a itty bitty titty lady and I never wanted it any other way. Doesn’t sound like breast growth related to pregnancy is overall popular, but I hate it so much and I hate the thought that I might have to buy real bras. I have no idea how; I just buy tween training bras or the cheapest sports bras I can find. So far my boobs have grown such that they have a shadow now I would prefer for it to end there. I know this might be necessary for breastfeeding but uggghhh

batmama31 · November 2018

here's my fffc: I just blew up the women's restroom. I have a stomach virus! and another woman walked in while I was in there, and I heard her go, "ooh-" and I know what it was a reaction to. I ALMOST yelled, "I'M SORRY. I HAVE A STOMACH VIRUS. I AM COURTESY FLUSHING LIKE A M-F'ER. WHAT ELSE AM I SUPPOSED TO DO!"

but also- I have no shame in doing what my body tells me I gotta do in any environment. it's fucking biology! like, sorry/not sorry it's such an inconvenience to YOU. how do you think *I* feel!! you think I like spraying fire out my backside??!

professormama · November 2018

kangstadt said:

I ate cake for breakfast today. No shame.

@kangstadt “no shame” is right! Cake has carbohydrates (flour), protein (eggs), and fat (oil), it’s got everything you need in a breakfast

mermaidca · November 2018

My annoying coworker just asked if I was busy because she is "so swamped". It's 3pm on a Friday and I'm off in an hour. I told her I'm busy. She then stood up to look over the cubicle wall to see what I was doing. Excuse you. If I say I'm busy, then I'm busy. (Though my FFFC is that I'm not actually very busy at all today.)
Last time I offered help to her I was doing months old, tedious work that was obvious she just didn't want to do and was getting push back for not having done yet. Not to mention she rolled in almost 2 hours late this morning. She always talks about how bad she is for procrastinating and leaving everything until the end of the week. Sorry pal, you did this to yourself.

blueberrymomma · November 2018

kyashley1227 said:

I ate an entire bag of chips in one sitting yesterday...🤷🏻‍♀️ blaming it in the baby.

Also, we’re still in a pretty good grove with sex. It’s still happening most days. I’m not complaining!

Me too, it was SunChips and I felt so guilty afterwards lol

My FFFC is I pulled the pregnancy card to get out of going to the PTO meeting Thursday night. I was exhausted and every night this week I get cramping. But mostly I didn’t want to talk to DHs annoying cousin who is the PTO president and doesn’t know or do anything

tumblefluff · November 2018

@blueberrymomma I skipped out on PTO last month using the pregnancy card.

kangstadt · November 2018

No longer Friday, but I thought of one. I mostly agree that the idea of "push gifts," is silly, but then again, if I just pushed/delivered a baby out of my vagina/uterus, I should get something dammit! Even if (maybe especially if) it's some chocolate or something delicious. Doesn't have to be fancy, just some acknowledgement and appreciation, that's all

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