May 2019 Moms

This Is Us

Who’s watching tonight? Grab the tissues, and let’s discuss and cry together. 

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Re: This Is Us

  • BEST SHOW EVER 💕
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  • Finally something I can contribute to! I'll be an hour behind though, so I have to stay off this thread until then so I don't spoil it for myself.
  • @megstevens92 It seems like most people aren’t watching yet, and I know some watch a day or two later. I’m on the east coast, so I’ll wait for everyone! 🙂
  • @megstevens92 It seems like most people aren’t watching yet, and I know some watch a day or two later. I’m on the east coast, so I’ll wait for everyone! 🙂
  • I have it dvr’d.  Love it!!
  • I watched it live! This may be an actual thing now since DH goes to bed early with his new work schedule...

    I cried 30 seconds in with the first high school Randall scene.
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  • @imrachellea I actually made it through without crying this episode. I was surprised bc that hardly ever happens!
  • Wooo! Joining the no crying team tonight my friends. Although there were a few close calls...
  • No crying her either. I felt so badly for Randall at the end, though.
  • We do Hulu, so I’ll be watching tomorrow. DH and I always watch This Is Us together and since he’s in Ohio for work, we have a date for tomorrow at 7:30 MST and 9:30 EST to watch together with speaker phones on. We discuss everything in a play-by-play 😂 I’ll get back on this tomorrow night and tell you if I was a gusher or not. Viking-born DH always, ALWAYS cries during the show. He’s never has a dry eye by the end, though he’d never admit it to friends.
  • @MaggieG183 Meanwhile my DH has no interest in watching with me 😕 He says it's too slow moving for him. But then one day last season he said "well maybe of is watched it from the beginning..." Dude. I offered! Also there's no way i could get him to catch up on Hulu, especially during football season (though it's always *some* sorry season).
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  • I won’t catch up until I’m back in the states but I’ll be here soon, sobbing with the rest of you 😭

  • I won’t catch up until I’m back in the states but I’ll be here soon, sobbing with the rest of you 😭

  • I am not going to get to watch it until tomorrow but I am so excited for this thread!
  • @hutterflutter1019 I felt bad for Randall too. He’s my favorite sibling for sure. I also feel bad for Kate with all that she has going on with IVF. 

    @MaggieG183 Thats so funny. My husband “watches” it with me, but he definitely scrolls though his phone more. Hence the reason I needed this thread to talk with y’all about it! 😂
  • I totally teared up at the beginning scene with Randall! And I felt so bad for him at the end. Next week's looks like it will be a serious tear jerker.
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    Me: 32 │ DH: 35 
    Married 8/16/13
    BFP#1 DS 11/13/16
    BFP# 2 MMC dx @ 13w 10/30/18
    BFP# 3 Preemie DD born at 38w (IUGR) on 8/28/19 weighing 5.5lbs. Our little miracle  <3


  • @zuuls_mom yes, it does! I can’t wait!
  • Randall is my favorite as well! I felt bad for him this episode. He always tries so hard! I teared up a little at the beginning.
    Ivy: July 2010  |  Stella: Dec 2012  |  BFP#3: MMC at 11Wk's, July 2017 | Wyatt: April 2019 | BFP#5: Twin Girls due Sept 2020

  • I’m going to have to go back and rewatch the beginning with Randall because I don’t remember anything making me teary.. I’m curious now. 🤔
  • Is anyone else terrified for Toby? I just caught up and episode 1 I was like NOOOO. Now he's feeling the effects and I'm just waiting for bad 😩 
  • @eatinwatermelonseeds I’m worried for him too. Why didn't he tell Kate about flushing his pills though?
  • @eatinwatermelonseeds yes, I am so nervous for him! He's always so happy and upbeat and I am not prepared to see him hurting and depressed! I wish he would have realized that going off his meds wasn't worth what it would do to him.
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    Me: 32 │ DH: 35 
    Married 8/16/13
    BFP#1 DS 11/13/16
    BFP# 2 MMC dx @ 13w 10/30/18
    BFP# 3 Preemie DD born at 38w (IUGR) on 8/28/19 weighing 5.5lbs. Our little miracle  <3


  • He's one of my favorite characters on the show and I just can't stand the thought of him being depressed. And WHAT THE F WAS THE END OF THAT EPISODE (1)?! I'm sorry, episode 2 wasn't as crazy so I have less to say 😂 but omg. 
  • But Toby just loves her SO much and he's so afraid of Kate having that surgery, he's putting himself at risk for her 😭😭😭
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  • I don't think I can handle this show this season 😭
  • So, I’m sure for me it was hormones, cause today everything has me weepy, but I could hear Hubs through the phone tonight clearing his throat and sniffing a bit (totally his M.O. when he’s tearing up) with Randall’s story at the end. He’s such a softy... He wouldn’t admit he was crying even with a crying selfie of me sent to him to get him to potentially fess up. 🙄 


  • I wanted to punch Kate in her stupid face for her comment about "passing on" a part of Jack, like biology is the only part of someone that's worth passing on. A relative made a comment to DH IRL about wanting a boy to pass on his name...we have a son who was adopted, I almost lost it on her. If bio wouod ever make a comment like that to his/her brother, they would be set straight immediately.
  • @bashmama18 right? That was bill shit. Kate makes me mad a lot. I got kind of upset that Toby was very open about his feelings about IVF and she agreed and then didn't even consult him before saying yes to the doctor. Like wtf. 
  • Jack always did everything for his family and Randall embodied that after Jack died, as seen from the scene where he decides to withdraw from Howard so that he can help out at home and be there for his siblings and mom. We know that he carries that special trait from his father throughout his adulthood, where Randall remains a selfless, family man. I think I was as sad as he was when he found out that Kate thinks the only way to pass on a piece of their dad is for her to have a baby. 

    I'm on Team Kate a lot of the time, but she was very aggravating in this episode.  
    Me: 33 DH: 34
    Married: Oct 2015
    TTC #1: Sept 2016
    BFP: 10/19/16 ~ blighted ovum ~ D&C 11/23/16
    BFP: 3/24/17   <3  DD1 born 12/2/17
    TTC #2: July 2018
    BFP: 8/26/18 <3  DD2 born 5/16/19



  • Well said @peachy13 It broke my heart that she said that.
  • It pissed me off she said that too. Not to mention how hurt Randall was when Kevin told him about it, and then Kate’s just waving saying hey to him. I do like Kate, but she gets on my nerves with her self pity sometimes. I did almost tear up a little when Rebecca was explaining to Kate why she didn’t want her to do IVF, and it flashed back to them on the couch talking about her weight. Then, Rebecca still gave her the shot. 😔 
  • @msb615 I loved that scene! I don't know what I would have done in that situation about the eating. She tells her she gained 25 pounds, but then Rebecca just goes along with it. Gah. So hard.

    Anyone else not a fan of Kevin and Beth's cousin? Also, it was interesting to see Kevin's drinking issues starting when they were teenagers. 

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  • This was an interesting episode, for all the reasons mentioned already. I am irritated with Kate, and feel so bad for Toby. He makes me laugh every episode. This one was when the IVF drugs fell out of the pudding and he instantly goes, "I'm a heroin addict." Perfect recovery! 

  • Regarding the IVF, is anyone able to explain why it's so risky for Kate to do this? I know they said it's a high chance of failure, but is it dangerous to her health? 
    Me: 33 DH: 34
    Married: Oct 2015
    TTC #1: Sept 2016
    BFP: 10/19/16 ~ blighted ovum ~ D&C 11/23/16
    BFP: 3/24/17   <3  DD1 born 12/2/17
    TTC #2: July 2018
    BFP: 8/26/18 <3  DD2 born 5/16/19



  • @peachy13 it requires her to go under anesthesia for the egg retrieval, which is dangerous when you are that overweight. 
  • megsb615megsb615 member
    edited October 2018
    @secicc12 Ugh I know. I couldn’t imagine losing my husband and trying to still be a good mother to our 3 kids. I felt terrible for her when young Randall was fussing at her about Kate’s eating and Kevin’s drinking and she was like, I do the best I can just to get out of bed each morning and by the end of the day, I have nothing left. 😭 Also not a fan of Kevin and Beth’s cousin. I wish he would’ve not messed things up with his childhood sweetheart. I forget her name... 
  • There are a lot of reasons, mostly the anesthesia and high chance of failure, but even carrying a pregnancy at that weight is very high risk to her and baby. 
  • He's one of my favorite characters on the show and I just can't stand the thought of him being depressed. And WHAT THE F WAS THE END OF THAT EPISODE (1)?! I'm sorry, episode 2 wasn't as crazy so I have less to say 😂 but omg. 
    I was wondering the same thing at the end of episode 1. Who are Tess and Randall going to see? When they showed that scene last season a few times I kind of assumed they were going to see Deja who was in trouble, but now I have no clue because what would Toby have to do with that?

    Kate also drives me a little crazy with her self pity and whining, I can't believe that she said she was the only one that could pass on a piece of Jack. And this is not going to go well for Toby being off his meds. 

    I am also not a fan of Kevin and the cousin and also wish that he would have worked things out with his highschool sweetheart/ex-wife.


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    Married: 8/10/13
    BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
    BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
    BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
    BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21

  • @MelissaMay82 I seriously thought it was about Deja too, but then Deja softens in the present, and they show Toby. Are they going to see Kate's grave site? It's seriously what I thought of. But they're so good at tricking us I have no effing clue what to think. 
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