After the first miscarriage we were encouraged to try again right away but the dr, the stats were in our favor and it's better not to dwell. 3 months later, we are in the midst of our second miscarriage and I'm struggling to process both the first and second.
We live in a very small rural town with limited medical help. Had to wait a week for an ultrasound to confirm and another 5 days to get a drs appointment.
When I see the dr what do you suggest asking for?
Re: Questions for dr after multiple mc
Now I have an appointment scheduled with a maternal fetal specialist where they're going to test for different issues. Ask your doctor if he thinks you should do that. You might have to go to the city to meet with one and I've been warned that many times they don't find the cause.
Good luck!
Things I was tested for included chromosomal/genetic abnormalities for both me and DH, vitamin deficiencies (D, B-12, folate, iron, etc), hormone imbalance, egg reserve, and about a thousand other things. I wouldn't got for a full round of fertility testing after only two losses, but if you want to, you can. If your rural, you may be able to start the process remotely by finding specialist who does telemedicine, and will order the labs for you locally.
I'm sorry for your losses and wish you the best of luck.
This time last year we were at a fertility specialist who diagnosed us as infertile due to amenorrhea and pcos(although I had no symptom except the post pill amenorrhea) He recommended the full fertility testing but as we were in the process of moving from the city to regional (ironically) we decided to put the testing on hold until early this year and go from there. When we were ready to get the testing done we found out we were naturally pregnant, cue miscarriage, cue second pregnancy nearly immediately after, cue miscarriage again.
I guess I've made up my mind now to get everything I can done here and take that to the fertility specialist in the city and go from there.
Thanks again for everyone's help, it's so tough but I'm glad to not feel alone.
I will have everyone's lost babes in my thoughts and I'm so sorry for all your losses.