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Appointments and Updates 9/3

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Re: Appointments and Updates 9/3

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    @middleschoolmommy Yay for a still on the inside baby! I'm happy she is nice and happy in there. FX you get to keep her inside for a while!
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    @rosebud1230 good news Dr isn't worried on baby's size. You must be very relieved to of had BH confirmed by Dr as well!
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    Glad to hear so much good news in here. 
    I had an appt today, I saw a Nurse Practitioner who I hadn't seen before. I was in tears the whole time because of this polyhydramnios diagnosis and being so unsure of what that means for my baby, and being so uncertain about the advice to eat no carbs except veggies and beans and some dairy, even without a GD diagnosis. The baby's doing well, but the NP was pretty dismissive of my feelings, offering advice like "you should get some protein powder" and "you should just eat ground turkey with some cabbage." And when I asked why a report said a prognosis was discussed, when it wasn't in reality, she dismissed that like "oh that's something the doctor probably just usually puts in the note." And when I asked how this will be monitored, and she just said that I'd have an ultrasound in 6 weeks and should feel lucky because moms with normal pregnancies don't get that. She also said that measuring fundal height was how they monitored this ........ but then fundal height was perfect (32cm at 32 weeks, juuuust like every other time I've gone in for a check-up). WTF. And I lost 6 pounds in a week because I've been too anxious to eat, and can't find enough ways to get calories, and she just said that it's good that I'll be able to eat better for my whole life because of this. It's not like I'm binging on ice cream every day (or ever), lady. 
    I felt my feelings were minimized and the problem dismissed.
    I like my OB a lot, but some of the other folks at the practice are not great.
    Just wanted to vent.
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    @laasmith *hugs* I'm so sorry you had to deal with that at your appt and that the NP didn't help explain/reassure you. Some people are just awful caregivers :( dismissing a mother's feelings and concerns is NOT okay. Can you contact the clinic and request to never see that NP again?

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    @laasmith I am so sorry she wasn't more understanding and empathetic to your feelings and questions. I would be bothered by it as well.
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    @ginny_203 the tech at my last 3 hour gtt told me sleeping or passing out between the later draws was pretty common. Surprised there was so much concern but thankful for the results!

    @laasmith so sorry for your experiences with this group, are you going to look into other practices? Sounds like you are continually unhappy with them. I think a second opinion on the polyhydramnios is worth it since they can't seem to explain it to you appropriately.
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    @laasmith that is not ok. If you have questions concerns about a diagnosis or course of treatment your practitioner should talk them through thoroughly. I would absolutely follow up with other OBs at the practice about your concerns.


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    @hollyeva, @wannaflickone, @lurvleybunchococonuts @lifesabeach85 : thank you all. I won't be seeing that NP again, I get to choose who I schedule appts with (unless there's an emergency). I think it's a little late to be looking into other practices, since I'm 31+6 and a little higher risk because of chronic hypertension (which continues to be in the same range as usual, and not that bad, thankfully no pre-e symptoms) and now polyhydramnios (though mild), and what they're calling glucose intolerance (I failed the 1hour glucose, passed the GTT). I'd worry that no other practice would take me. Meanwhile, everything with baby girl looks normal/average. But I will be making this known-- it's a large medical center where we do all of our care, they send out customer service surveys after every appt (I used to work somewhere similar, and those surveys *matter* particularly for employee reviews). I also had a nightmare getting the GTT done, where the only tech on-duty didn't even know what the test was and told me to go home after the fasting draw, and when I explained it, he didn't even know what the drink was and offered to just take my blood once per hour for three hours. I have an appt with another OB in the practice in 4 weeks, and a different NP in 2 weeks. My OB hasn’t been available, so I haven’t heard her opinion (dx was made by the MFM specialist).  My husband agrees with y’all that a second opinion would be good— but I’d have to find the energy to find someone and the time to book the appt.

    @lurvleybunchococonuts hooray for Lulu!

    @ginny_203: I had to take the 3-hour, and while I was fine, they told me passing out was common. I'm so glad you passed!!

    @mockingjay1 Would love to see u/s pictures :smile:
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    @laasmith - I agree with speaking to someone in the practice about how the NP dismissed your concerns. I'm glad you won't have to see her again. The u/s pics are in the u/s thread at the top :)
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    Dx: PCOS
    DS1 born 11/2014
    DS2 born 11/2018
    3 previous losses
    Rainbow baby due 12/2021 - Team Green

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