April 2019 Moms

Why is my child crying

I need a “why is my kid crying” thread so I know I’m not alone. Apparently DS has deemed EVERYTHING as meltdown worthy. Here’s why we’ve cried today so far:

-I won’t let him bite me

-I won’t let him smack the dog with a hammer

-I put him in his high chair

-I took him out of his high chair

-I wanted to change his diaper 

-I won’t let him eat his father’s collectibles

-I gave his toys funny voices while playing


He falls and smacks his head and we get 10 seconds of whimpering, but Mommy says “no” and we get 10 minutes of non-stop screaming. 

Re: Why is my child crying

  • This morning was the most upset I’ve ever seen DS. Like, gagging on spit, wracking sobs, almost hyperventilating. 

    The reason?

    My MIL threw away an empty yogurt tube with a ring tailed lemur on it and he loved the lemur so much. 
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  • Today was:
    - I left her with her father to take out the dirty diapers that were making me gag
    - We didn’t let her play in the toilet
    - Her father left her with me to go help FIL
  • His magnetic block-set only comes with 4 wheels instead of 5 wheels. 
  • @lyse01 we also had a can’t play in the toilet meltdown. I forgot about that one.
  • Oh but no meltdown from eating a chunk of deodorant (though I’m melting into anger at DH because I’m pretty sure it is his fault that the top of his deodorant broke off and was left on the floor of our bedroom). 
  • mdmommymegsmdmommymegs member
    edited August 2018
    Today my son cried because I told him he doesn't have a vagina - real life, people!
  • Because her doll won't sit down
  • -because I wouldn't let him climb the stairs
    -because he had a poopy diaper
    -because he was covered in dog hair and I was trying to get it off with the lint roller
    -because I put clothes on him

    This was before 10am.
    ME: 34 | DH: 36
    Married: 6/2016
    TTC:6/2016
    BFP: 11/22/2016 | EDD: 7/29/2017






  • Because the water was wet.
  • Because he wanted Daddy to get his shoe, not me.
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  • This was a much needed thread.  Makes me feel better hearing my child is not the only one. He doesn't cru so much as whines. Not sure which I'd prefer. 
  • @brandtroxel the other day I accidentally promised my son a trip to the bakery on Monday, when it’s closed. Later, retelling the story to his dad, he goes “I didn’t cry. I only whined a little bit”. Lol 
  • Because we weren’t at the park yet. 

    Because we were at the park. 

    Because she had to put on her safety gear to ride her bike. 

    Because she was riding her bike. 

    Because she she didn’t want to ride her bike. 

    Now she’s asleep. Thank heavens. 
    this is my backup acct.
    prevously helloblueeyes

    Me:32 DH:33 Married:04/2012 DD:07/2014 
     BFP 8/14/2018 #2 due 4/18/2019
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    Because I left the room.

    Because I did not leave the room but I left his immediate line of sight.

    Because I tried to answer work emails while he was sitting in my lap playing with his toys.

    Because nobody was looking at him.

    Because he woke up in his crib and not my arms or bed.

    Clearly we are in a needy phase.
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  • - Because I made her get dressed.

    - Because I gave her breakfast.
  • Because he asked for strawberries and I gave him strawberries
    Because he asked to put on his dino backpack and I put on his dino backpack
    Because I wasnt wearing a hat
    Because his humongous truck trailer wouldn't attach to his tiny tractor 
    Because I offered him cheese.
  • @chelseay416 well I mean, WHY weren't you wearing a hat?!

    Today it was because dad was going to drive him to grandma's house and not me. 
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  • So this evening DS had a complete meltdown because he had a small scratch on his belly that he couldn’t wipe off. He kept wanting me to get it off and after 30 min of crying his little heart out I was finally able to redirect him. I was almost in tears too trying to explain to a 2 year that I couldn’t wipe off an “owwie”.

    Then DD had a meltdown because grandma and papa were going back to their house. They will be back in two days, but apparently that’s not soon enough for her.
  • I almost forgot about all the mini meltdowns today:
    because it was time to get dressed
    Because the iPad died
    because I said no more Apple juice
    because daddy was putting him to bed and not mommy
    because I didn’t let him put the lid on his sippy cup
    becaue he ate all his food and there was none left
    because the dog sat too close to him
    because in sister was closer to mommy than him

    I mean he’s not always like this, today just wasn’t our day. Good thing we didn’t have to go out in public and risk a public meltdown
  • Because it was breakfast time
    because papa wasn’t feeding her fast enough
    because she didn’t want any more food
    because I was eating breakfast
    because she caught her hand in a cabinet (legit)
    because Grandma went to work
    because I took her up for a nap without papa
    because papa came but wasn’t carrying her
    because she didn’t want to nurse
    because she wanted to nurse but not nap
    because she was nursing with eyes closed but papa announced his intention to leave

    ...repeat for lunch, afternoon nap, dinner, and bedtime. 

    I ate cake for dinner.

  • Every morning when we take off his monkey pjs (the only pjs he will currently wear)


  • Because I was driving and couldn't reach the truck he dropped.

    Because I told him to read a book on the car ride home.

    Because we watched a movie he didn't like (that he decided at the end...).

    Because we told him it was bedtime and no, we weren't carrying him to the potty.

    Whew.  And I'm having a second one of these?  The mom guilt/doubt/stress is real tonight, folks.
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  • @kangstadt I have the same “I wanted another one?” thought all the time, but then they give you snuggles or you watch them learn something new and it’s like, “yeah, I definitely want more of this!”
  • @wearegroot, thanks for that.  It's been hard so far with my anxiety and since none of my family know yet, I've been around some negativity when they're complaining about their kids not getting along and it's getting me down.  I've gotta remind myself of the good times.
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