One thing people love telling newly pregnant women: "Oh, congratulations! HA! You better ____ now because you'll never do it again!"
Fuck them. What's something people told you you'd never be able to do after having kids that you still enjoy doing in your spare time (because YES, spare time still exists, even if in smaller amounts, for parents) or do with your kids?
And this is something I just hate. Like you can't be a mom and still have other interests or hobbies. Guess what, everyone? I'm still Lindsay. I'll be Lindsay until the day I die regardless of what other roles I take on. I love being a mom and I'm proud of it but that's one facet of my identity, not my full identity.